WHY WOMEN actually want you to NOT talk to them so they stay attracted to you (relationship facts)

all right so in today's video why women actually want you to not talk to them I'm going to be giving you step-by-step proof step-by-step examples pretty much stepbystep real life things you can apply that way you can attract whoever you want way quicker than anybody else now on top of that I'm even going to do something else I'm going to show you why she will never tell you this it's very important to realize that she will never tell you this because this is a true test of your own competency now we just crossed over 1,600

50 guys inside of our community I'm helping them learn understand and master the language of women so after today's video is over be sure to join us inside of that but let's dive in so why women actually want you to not talk to them you might hear that and go oh that's crazy how is she going to know if I'm flirting with her or not and if I want to take her out on a date or not okay that's the point that I'm trying to make you exposing this stuff is exactly why she doesn't want

you so guys who focus on things like chemistry or Riz okay or social skills they fit fa to realize a few things they fail to realize that even if you win over her emotions short term even if you and her sleep together even if she claims your Charming these guys fail to realize this okay they fail to realize that all of this has diminishing returns to the end of the relationship or to the end of the interactions here's what I mean by that the more you talk to a woman the less she likes you and

grows bored of your personality so some of you you hear that and instantly you try to find a workaround so your workaround is always well maybe I need better social skills maybe I need to be more Charming maybe I need better Riz maybe I need to be a better conversationalist so that way I can hold her attention and this is exactly why you keep failing you cannot work around female nature when that's just how she is okay so this is what I mean the more you talk to a woman the less she likes you and

grows bored of your personality even if you're famous oh yeah even if you're a pro athlete we've seen this before and even if you're good in bed because women's emotions tend to gravitate to the man who is not Desiring them and I'm sure they almost wish it wasn't like this but sadly this is how it is so instead of wishing the world was different you my friend need to get better at laying your cards properly so as the novelty wears off she loses emotional investment you cannot out game female nature I'm going to say that

one more time you cannot out game female nature so let's move on to this side of the marker board women respect you more when you don't talk to them or desire to get to know them I'm going to say that one more time women respect you more when you don't talk to them or desire to get to know them so there was a friend of mine okay this is what he said he's about 25 years old and he came up to me and he was like yeah it was so wild you know I was with

these four women last night and you know we were all just talking at this party and I heard one of them say to the other she goes yeah I don't know why I'm always so much more attracted to the men who are not trying to talk to me or give me more attention this is what he said this is what he said this is what you're going to hear this is what you're going to realize this is what you're going to experience okay the problem with a lot of men is they try they actually try

to attract her they try to get to know her they try to take her out on a date they try to form some kind of companionship or some kind of relationship but what you have to remember is the way things operate today she does not need you okay she doesn't need you she doesn't need you for anything she has her own life with her own job and her own passions and she's fine so because of that you have to focus on attracting her instead of trying to obtain the date and I'm going to show you

what I mean here in just a little bit problem with a lot of men is they try when in reality all forms of effort implies that there is a deficit of some kind of perceived lack I'm going to say that again all forms of effort implies that there is a deficit of some kind of perceived lack so the reason why the guy is putting an effort is because he feels as if he has to well then in her mind she goes well why does he feel like he has to try and then she ends up

being with the guy or sleeping with the guy who doesn't try at all because he appears to be higher value than you now this goes so deep okay by you even saying hello in the first place you give a bit of validation by even saying hello by even acknowledging her right there and saying hi you are giving some kind of validation so women feel more desire or women tend to desire the men who don't talk to them women will tend to desire the men who do not talk to them far more than the men who

talk to them okay this is what you have to remember it's impossible to get rejected or to take a decrease in social status if you never overtly attempt to win her over so when do you take a decrease in Social Status when do you get rejected when do her and her friends automatically not like you it's when you have overtly attempted to win her over and get her to like you that's when the women don't like you okay I'm trying to get you to rethink some beliefs I'm trying to get you to rethink how you

see things play out in your dating life and you better believe that I'm trying to get you to believe that you need to join us inside of my community so you can learn understand and master the language of women because that Community is growing every week and I'm here to tell you this there's a reason for that okay now let's go to the next piece why she'll never tell you any of this why is she not going to tell you this that she doesn't like the men who try to to talk to her why is

she not going to tell you well obviously she doesn't want to expose the truth obviously she doesn't want to let you know that obviously she wants to maintain some of that leverage and obviously she wants to be able to disqualify the men that she automatically wouldn't want okay here's why she'll never tell you this she wants the men who do not understand how dating Dynamic works or what some would call you know how the game is being operated right you got to get good at playing the game okay she wants the men who don't understand

the game okay back and forth how this is going to play out she wants the men who don't understand the game to present their interest forward so she has reason to disqualify him as he has proven that he is not pre-selected okay so right here this game that's being played it's always a game of who is showing the least amount of Interest so let's just read this one more time she wants The Men Who do not understand the game of dating dynamics of how things operate between you and her because some guys don't get this

and when you don't get it what it shows is you don't have a lot of dating experience well that obviously makes you not pre-selected so obviously she wants to be able to disqualify those guys right away as fast as she can so that's why she's not going to give you any inside information she wants the men who do not understand how the dating Dynamic Works to present their interest forward to her so she has reason to disqualify him as he has proven that he is not pre-selected so if she told guys this or if women

would tell guys this automatically men would start to know things that women didn't want you to know in the first place so she wants all the men who act incorrectly to present themselves forward okay all the men who act incorrectly meaning they show overt interest and they're really trying to obtain that date and work and put in a lot of effort she wants those guys okay to show their interest she wants those guys to present their interest forward now notice this notice this word act she wants all the men who act incorrectly it's about how

you act if you're bad at acting you better get better at being a better actor that's what I'm going to say so yes women care about how you act so this is why guys call it game because in a game you have to lay your cards properly okay in a game okay you need to put on the ACT what is the act the ACT is carrying yourself like a man the right way most men don't know how to do this because you've been told your whole life all the wrong beliefs that leave you stuck in

your dating life continuously thinking that you're unattractive continuously believing that she has all the leverage over you in the relationship continuously believing that for some reason um you're not going to have a lot of options or you know the fact that you probably keep telling yourself that you have all these insecurities when you probably don't and there's no difference between you and the other dude because you're a person too they want you stuck in that cycle okay so notice act like an actor you have to act properly well some of you say well I don't

want to do that I want to be honest and true to myself and who I am oh congratulations if that's the wrong act then you're not going to do very well in your dating life you might be great in your personal life but you're not going to do very well in your dating life I'm going to tell you one thing the guys that I see in life who have success in a lot of different areas they know how to act in different circumstances the guys who don't have a lot of success in life tend to

act the same in every circumstance and then they tell themselves well this is just who I am people can either accept me or not yeah okay maybe maybe a little bit maybe that might work for you in certain circumstances but if you're trying to get a job you better act the right way to get that job if you're trying to get a date it would be beneficial to you if you act properly to get that date okay so women don't want you to be genuine women don't want you to be yourself women don't even care

if you're honest no no no women only care that you're acting correctly and by you acting correctly you maintain her interest and her attraction that is what women care about they want you to act the right way well for some of you you say well that's not a congruent personality for me that's not if I act that way Casey that's not me being congruent with myself that's not me being honest with myself well okay I guess you can keep telling yourself those beliefs here's the thing if you're not open to any change you're never going

to actually make success in a different area that you haven't had before you're going to have to adapt I have to adapt every single day that I'm working every single day that I do everything I'm constantly adapting constantly growing well you're going to have to adapt and grow to get new successes in areas in life you didn't have them okay keep that in mind so what you want to do is you want to attract you do not want to overtly try attract you do not want to overtly try guys who overtly try and then they

keep telling themselves that they need better social skills when in reality they're fine like your social skills are fine you've been able to order food and go to to the doctor and you know go to your job meeting and all this your whole life and you've been able to communicate just fine you're fine okay you don't need better social skills you need to understand how to act better so that way women are attracted to you okay you want to attract you do not want to overtly try you have to master the ability to Captivate literally

so much attention Okay as a man that she reveals her High interest to you you need to make yourself nice and big and shiny where she goes wow there must be some some value over here there's something different over here I need to check out what's going on over here I'm going to show you how to do this in just a little bit and I'm going to even give you some real life circumstances so in 2025 and beyond my theory is this you're going to notice that women are really only going to be going after

the pre-selected men okay because they have their own lives and they don't need you so always give the illusion the attitude and the demeanor that you already have a girlfriend if you give the attitude the illusion and the demeanor that you already have a girlfriend that you're loyal to you will notice that you stay one to two steps removed and you will only engage in surface level conversation and she's going to notice that you probably refuse to show overt interest and since you appear like you're not trying to take this a step further she now

desires to get to know you more because now you appear as if you already have options okay so here's what you're going to find women love your nonchalant attitude that signals that you don't care so a lot of guys they tell themselves what do I have to do do I have to be super confident do I have to try to talk really fast do I have to try to hold her attention do I have to try to uh be this type of guy or be that type of guy and there's a lot of confusion and

guys don't know guys don't know so I'm going to tell you right here what women actually respond to best they respond best to that energy that says I don't care you can take it or leave it nonchalant attitude like I have a nice bed and I got food in the fridge already so I don't really need to talk to anyone because I'm good that's what women respond to so there's guys they tell themselves well if I just talked a little bit more and got out of my comfort zone if I just was a little bit

more assertive when I said hello like instead of saying hello I said hello oh yeah then she would have really liked me the things that men convince themselves of in order to try to convince themselves why they should have more options or why these deficits in their life are occurring is so backwards and the reason why it's backwards and why you'll never figure it out unless you understand these principles is because her emotions are opposite to your logic okay so women actually love the attitude that is nonchalant that signals that you don't care because that's

how a true king would carry himself because he already has what he needs so when you want to talk about a man status that's what it looks like okay and that's why a lot of times guys who do this can make less money than you and be shorter than you and still win over the woman that you have a crush on okay so I'm going to let you in on another secret I believe that women actually hate that they love it I think that they hate that they love this nonchalant I don't care attitude because

logically what makes sense on paper is they would tell themselves I want a guy to care about me and do all these things but then they're sitting there empty-handed in the relationship wondering well why don't I have any attraction to this guy anymore and they're struggling trying to figure it out too okay keep that in mind she's always comparing you also to the fantasy of the other men that she could potentially have on social media or the other men who are you know already attracting a lot of women which means it's even more important that

you carry yourself with this kind of attitude because here's the thing you want to always give the illusion that you're pre-selected and that you probably already have a girlfriend so what do you do for some of you saying well okay Casey like this makes sense but I have zero options I don't have any options already and I'm not even talking to anyone right now so what do I do like if I'm not talking to anyone what do I do to actually have options if you're telling me why women actually want you to not talk to

them if you're sitting there reading this title going well how's this going to work let me explain you're focused on the wrong things you're focused on communicating with them and talking to them instead of positioning yourself in certain areas that help you generate attraction by being in a position of status in that environment and I have multiple examples in my own dating life how this played out you need to put yourself in arenas where you can basically dominate socially by being a big fish in a small pond okay you want to be a big fish

in a small pond so you have a social presence and you can really Captivate that room and you appear as if you're that guy so I'm going to show you a couple different ways throughout the years okay how I actually did this myself okay we're going to go through a couple different circumstances and then I'm going to show you how this unfolded okay so ways that I've done this personally with myself so always remember that women only see what's in front of them so the man in her vicinity can be the pre-selected guy in that

environment okay that means if you let's say you take a a swimsuit model okay or you take a um you know one of the most beautiful Magazine models in the world she's a beautiful woman here's what you have to remember when I say women only see what's in front of them here's what you have to remember even if she's a swimsuit model and let's say she's used to professional athletes and she's used to dating famous musicians and all this stuff right if that same woman decided to go to let's say a small town in a

random state that she's never been to and there's a small town there okay and let's say she's at a random local bar and let's say there's only 50 people in that bar total there is still a high probability that there is one to two men in there who have done something socially in this small Arena okay where they can potentially generate okay attraction with her even though this is the type of guy that she's used to she's in a new environment this is why I'm telling you you need to focus on putting yourself in an

environment where you can have a social presence of being a big fish in a small pond so that way you can win some dates and that way you can attract them so let me give you an example the very first thing I ever did when I started something online it was about 2017 and I had this brand and it was uh my Fitness business so what I used to do was I was a fit coach okay and I had this one specific program in my town or in my city okay and I don't I didn't

come from a very big town okay so this was about 2017 and I made some workout programs and some of them were specifically designed for women and that's what I would do is I was a fitness trainer and then they grew in popularity a lot because I was attracting a lot of uh clients through all my testimonials and the stuff that I did okay so I had these fitness programs in 2017 and then all of the women or not all but you know like a lot right A lot of these women started signing up for

these programs in my hometown when they would see the other women's before and after transformation testimonials of their fitness journey okay so naturally here's what happened instantly I had a bunch of attractive women all of a sudden following me okay and a lot of them were all eager for dates now doing this this is how I actually got my second girlfriend and not only that there was numerous women along the way that I met okay naturally and a lot of these women wanted to actually see me okay because the position that I built in this

spot was I was this dude okay who was Fitness coaching women and a lot of women were responding very well to it and all of them really liked it and then the rest of them just followed this is a way I did this accidentally this accidentally positioned me in a position of status in that environment and then it's like well once I got a girlfriend well there was other women who almost appeared as if they were waiting for her and I to break up so that way they had an opportunity with me so notice pre-selection

was also generated I didn't even try to do this I was like 20 21 years old that's it I didn't even know what I was doing at the time but what I did and what I built there was enough value there where women were like okay what is going on here okay and naturally that's how that unfolded let me give you another example what I would do a lot of times because it was almost like when I was younger I almost kind of just knew this stuff automatically by default I don't know what it was

about me but like I I almost just knew this stuff I knew that if you talked a lot and you revealed your interest you're going to probably mess up or something like that I'll even give you a couple a couple different examples here um so what I did when I was younger okay around the same time here is I was constantly a lot of times I would throw like House Parties okay so here's what would happen um when I was younger I'd throw these House Parties okay and here's what would actually happen I could literally

sit there okay or like at one point there was like an upstairs loft or balcony I could sit there and say nothing and do nothing and a lot of times women would just come up and say is this your party and they would want to start a conversation because I've created the environment I put myself in a position of status they would naturally assume that there's value here because they're going to go look at all these people all these people people are here well what's so great about you why did all these people want to

come this is actually how I met my first girlfriend so the first girlfriend that I ever had she came to one of my house parties with a different guy she came to one of my house parties with a different guy and me and that dude were talking for an extended period of time I was probably talking to him for like 45 minutes to an hour and I didn't even know that she was into me and then naturally okay the next house party that I was at she just came came up to me and she said

that she wanted to go home with me that is literally how that happened she chose me the women do the choosing instead of trying to communicate so much interest of thinking you can do the next thing and say the next thing to get to where you want to be you have to focus on positioning yourself in a position of status okay so here's the funniest thing about this by attracting those girlfriends other women almost knew what league that I was in and then they would look at her and be like oh well she's attractive I

should probably talk to him too and one by one it's like I grew the attraction through that environment and you can copy paste this into any guy's life or any kind of Lifestyle you just have to actually get creative you have to think outside the box what you want to do is you want to actually think about this from a standpoint of like Identity or Community okay identity and community so let's say it was a thousand years ago before cars and airplanes and whatever people couldn't just travel people didn't have cell phones so we weren't

all connected so women were used to being with the guys in their community and instantly each guy in the community would have an identity oh that's the farmer uh that's the guy who leads you know this part that's the guy who helps with hunting that's the guy who helps with farming that's the guy who makes shoes Okay this guy is the leader of you know woodworking for chairs and tables whatever I'm making stuff up off the top of my head but that's what women were used to seeing they were used to seeing a guy with

an identity in a community and he had social status for having that identity this was the same for me when I was a fitness coach and I was attracting women without even knowing it all because I had women's specific fitness programs and women naturally liked it I had the identity of being the fitness coach in town who coached women in their fitness journey and then naturally I attracted women it's really weird how this happens when I was the house party guy it was like oh there's this guy in town throwing House Parties I should probably

get to know him it's identity the identity of the man reflects through the community and that's why you need to focus on putting yourself in arenas where you can win socially by being a big fish in a small pond now I'm going to say this one last thing obviously you can see I take these topics really seriously and obviously I'm probably putting out more value than almost anybody if you think that I go deep in these topics you should see how deep I go when you see my actual process inside the language of women I've

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