seven critical traits of a truly high value woman in other words she's a keeper if she's got these qualities now you don't want to become the emotionally defeated fow known for unconvincingly saying happy wife happy life all too often that good-hearted fella is fiving to himself meanwhile dying inside and longing to escape he took a gamble on a woman who didn't have these essential traits and he's paying the price maybe you even know this guy well this is a video men need and women can learn from if new to my channel I help men decode
modern women so you can find attract and keep your keeper or simply have better relationships with women my videos are for you if you're ready to take control of your love life welcome to just the tip in the Grand Casino of love where the rewards are high but the stakes are even higher men know that finding a high value woman is like hitting the jackpot however gentlemen not all that Glitters Is Gold without the essential traits that set high value women apart you might find yourself playing the slots with nothing to show for it but
a bruised ego and a broken heart well guess what jents women also value these traits in men win-win keep in mind we all have moments when we're over tired underfed fed up or simply not at our best give her and yourself some Grace aside from having compatible beliefs values and goals here are the seven critical traits of a high value woman one emot stability and maturity a Cornerstone of lasting relationships she's the calm in your storm gracefully navigating relationship challenges and life's ups and downs examples one after a stressful day at work she talks about
her frustrations calmly asking for Comfort or perspective rather than spiraling into a rant or taking her anger out on you she might say I'm pretty sure my computer conspired against me today I would really be forever grateful if you could take a look at it two when plans fall through she adapts Without Anger or blame suggesting Alternatives with a positive attitude I know crazy she might say well so the universe vetoed our plans I vote for PJ party and take out yes or yes three during a typical disagreement instead of escalating or trying to win
the argument she lets it go she might say oh my gosh are we really arguing about how to load the dishwasher again oh can't we just skip to makeup sex are you in this is a lot to ask nowadays I know how's your score on emotional stability and maturity comment this next trait of a high value woman is commonly lacking in today's society yet is the path to personal empowerment self-respect and self-esteem number two personal accountability she takes responsibility for her actions learning from her missteps and striving for self-improvement I know what you're thinking unicorns
are are not real Anna I know they are difficult to find true but I also actually know women who display this trait admittedly not as overtly as we'd all like to see but still they exist example she forgets an important date but instead of making excuses or gaslighting you she apologizes sincerely but bonus point if she proposes a way to make up for it she might say my brains calendar app needs an update I'm really sorry two after minor misunderstanding she reflects on her part in the confusion and initiates a sincere conversation to clarify and
improve future communication she might say okay you're right I jump to conclusions faster than a fat kid on a smarty can we hit the reset button bonus point for political incorrectness in my book you can decide on that okay three recognizing a habit that annoys you she makes a conscious effort to adjust her behavior without being asked crazy she might say so my singing in the shower when you're sleeping isn't a chart topper full of permission to flush the toilet if it happens again all right now how did you score on this one personal accountability
let me know number three loyalty and commitment the gold standard of relationship currencies her dedication is unwavering not just sexually making her a true teammate through thick and thin examples one when facing opportunities to flirt with others she remains faithful demonstrating her commitment to your relationship she might even say even George Clooney couldn't sway me you've set the bar way too high bonus point if she combines this with a kiss or a butt grab okay number two she defends you in your absence ensuring others respect you even when you're not around to hear it how
can you recognize this trait if she defends you when you're not there well she may defend others who are not present she might say trash talk my man and prepare for a battle of wits unarmed as you are number three during tough times instead of running away she doubles down on supporting the relationship showing she's in it for the long haul she might say we're stickier than superglue you're not getting rid of me that easy now how did you do on this one comment number four kindness and compassion so underrated she embodies the saying treat
others like you want to be treated examples one she notices you're having a bad day and surprises You by making your favorite meal or getting your favorite take out she might say deploying comfort food if this doesn't fix it I've got a special dessert for you wink wink nudge nudge all right two you're at a coffee shop and the barista's name tag says Shelly in training your lady love notices Shell's nervousness and provides a kind remark maybe she says we've all had our first day at work at some point I'm not in a rush hint
notice how she treats servers and people of lesser social or economic status three when you're not feeling well she takes the time to care for you making sure you're comfortable and have everything you need she might say Doctor Who you've got nurse Ashley guaranteed to be 50% more effective with cuddles and some other stuff when you feel better okay so the next tra is kind of sneaky because couples often don't realize how important it is until they're completely invested in the relationship can you guess what it is five intellectual compatibility Sparks Fly not only from
sexual attraction chemistry and connection but from engaging discussions and ideally some shared Curiosities intellectual compatibility isn't about IQ there are many forms of intelligence like math language music interpersonal kinesthetic and others however if one of you can't Converse about things Beyond The Superficial like the weather or what you ate for lunch and the other prefers complex discussions about science or physics or other areas of intelligence that you're not interested in well you might not align examples one during a long drive you engage in a stimulating debate about a podcast you both watched disagreeing while actually
respecting each other's viewpoints crazy she might say if we keep this up we'll need a referee or maybe just another coffee or this might be one we'll just have to agree to disagree on agree number two she introduces you to a new hobby that challenges you both mentally she might say ready to suck at something new together it will be our bonding disaster three maybe neither of you enjoy solving complex puzzles or brain games or being challenged intellectually maybe she'll say something like our brain power combined could power a small battery I'm actually okay with
that don't feel bad if if you're not interested in intellectual Pursuits if that's not what you are or who you are or who you want to be the right woman will love the real you question what are you a smarty pants at huh Now's the Time to brag a little in the comments okay so the next trait is where a lot of people get tripped up by their triggers six respect it's the foundation upon which all other traits stand she values you your individuality your space and your dreams respect ensures the inevitable conflicts of all
relationships are handled effectively and lovingly examples she actively listens when you speak sets aside distractions and gives you her full attention valuing your words that might sound like I'm all ears unless you start talking math then I'm all confusion two recognizing your need for personal space she supports your hobbies and friendships outside the relationship how mature she might say go have fun with the boys I'll be binging my secret shame reality TV shows three she consults you on decisions that affect both of you acknowledging the importance of your opinions and feelings she might say how
about you choose the restaurant and I will max out my daily word allotment on rout my only request is let's go somewhere new deal okay so how do you score on the trait of respecting others be honest okay seven appreciation she recognizes and values your contributions and qualities big and small and expresses that appreciation examples one she thanks you for the everyday things recognizing your efforts to contribute to the relationship she might say something like you know for someone who didn't come with instructions you're pretty amazing at this boyfriend Thing Two on your anniversary she
writes a note highlighting all the ways you positively impacted her life over the past year she might say you're my favorite way to turn and waste the hours in an off-hand way eaaa three she celebrates your personal achievements showing genuine pride in your successes she might say I always knew you could do it just remember if you get too famous I have embarrassing photos of you your turn how did you score on expressing appreciation to her or to others all right so since you stuck with me this far I'll give you a bonus trait that
makes life so much better just before I do that if you found value in this video which I'm sure you have please like it share and subscribe and if you want to give me a just the tip you can give me a super thanks by clicking the super thanks button and thank you okay bonus sense of humor the ability to laugh at ourselves and together is a Lifeline she might not be a jokester but if she laughs at your jokes that adds real joy and lightness when challenges show up example one she sends you funny
memes that perfectly capture inside jokes between the two of you you might say something like if laughter burn calories we'd both be invisible by now in a tense situation she cracks a cheesy joke that lightens the mood and puts things in perspective might be something like this is as awkward as a giraffe in a phone booth should we do a do over three you both create playful silly Traditions that keep your relationship fine and lighthearted you might say let's start a new tradition nudie Tuesdays ah too much okay fine taco Tuesdays if there are any
ladies watching note how a light heart and sense of humor can turn even the most frustrating or mundane moments into memories you'll both cherish bonus point if you can turn the ordinary into an inuendo just for him well fellas how do you do on this one how's your sense of haha prove it by sharing a silly joke in the comments try to keep it clean ladies and gents these traits are a royal flush for a Rel relationship where both of you feel valued understood supported and setting you up for a love that's not only longlasting
but deeply satisfying who doesn't want that when it comes to love if you want to win against the host find a lady who ticks these boxes and inspires you to bring your best self to the table as well ladies can up their mate value even more by developing the traits described in my video on the 25 signs that she's not just a catch she's a championship keeper gentlemen you'll want to take notes on that one it's not about happy wife happy life it's about happy spouse Happy House even if you're not married both Partners need
to contribute to the other's happiness team mate it's really not that complicated Simply Be Kind set your ego aside and be kind thanks for being here sending you so much love and inspiration that's my inspiration going out to you I've had coffee today lots of love God bless
