the next time you find yourself hesitating and feeling stuck and not doing what you want to do regarding women remember what I'm about to tell you now and it will help you right so do you remember the first time you jumped into the deep end at a swimming pool do you remember how that felt so if that happened for you when you're at school for example you may have noticed that some of the kids were able to jump into the deep end of the pool and they weren't scared they just jumped in whereas other kids
were hesitating and then they jumped in and then there were other kids who are really scared and people started to tease them saying haha you know you're scared and so forth and then eventually the kid jumped in and realized ah it's not so bad after all and he starts smiling and enjoying it he thinks oh cool I'm going to do it again so he gets up and then jumps in again and he's having a great time right the same thing applies with women whenever you find yourself hesitating to do something whether that be to go
over and talk to a woman that you find attractive or if you're in a relationship to initiate some physical affection with your woman or when you're having sex with a woman to do a particular move or to move her a particular way or to thrust in a particular way or to do something in the bedroom with her just remember Jump In The Deep End right remember the feeling that you had when you jumped into the deep end for the first time it was fun and the same thing happens when a guy first overcomes his fear
of going over and talking to women that he finds attractive it seems very scary there are all these things that could happen right she could get angry she could reject him people people might see that he's trying to talk to a woman and they might become concerned and people might point at him people might say something he might end up feeling humiliated but then he walks over and talks to a woman and she's friendly and he's having a conversation with her and he may not get a result the first time of course but he walks
away going what the that was fun it wasn't as scary as I thought I want to do it again and it's the same with jumping in the deep end of the pool it can seem scary at first but then when you do it it's like oh this is cool I've unlocked something new now that I can do in this life that I was scared of I'm not scared anymore I can do that and the same thing applies on a first dat for example a guy will sometimes go on first dates with women and he'll do
his best to try to come across in the right way and make her feel attracted but at the end of the day when they stand up and they are walking off together he hesitates to put his arm around her or to playfully put his arm around her or to bring her room for a hug or to initiate a kiss when there seems to be a moment where he could do that he just hesitates and the woman then starts to feel like oh well maybe he lacks confidence or maybe there isn't enough of a spark between
him and her maybe they're just going to be better off his friends and she then says goodbye she walks off and he's standing there thinking damn it why didn't I just initiate a hug why didn't I just kiss her essentially he was too scared to jump in the deep end but what he will find is that if he actually did that and he starts kissing the woman it's fun all the fun stuff happens when you're not scared to jump in the deep end and just do it and the same thing applies when you're having sex
with a woman when you can just be more confident in the way that you're doing things and do what you want to do initially you can feel a bit scarier like oh what would she think if I turned her this way or what would she think if I started thrusting that way or what would she think so on but then you do it and the woman responds well and you're enjoying it and you've unlocked that part of yourself now where you're no longer afraid that's how it's going to be for the rest of your life
with women you're either going to be a man who isn't afraid to just jump in the deep end and enjoy it right just go for it or you're going to be a man who hesitates and is just standing on the edge of the pool like oh well but what if um what if I can't swim what if it's just a bit too deep what if I you know jump in and then I you know smash my feet on the ground or something or what if this happens and what if that happens and so forth or
you're a guy who just stays way back away from the pool like that that's just too scary right I'll just uh you know play video games or I'll focus on my career I'll just keep going to the gym all the time and maybe one day if I build up enough muscle women will start approaching me or maybe one day if if I just become really successful in life women will come over to me they'll make everything easy for me they'll just throw themselves at me and I won't have to do anything yet that's just not
the way that it works out right at the end of the day you still have to face up to interactions with women you can't avoid it you're going to be in front of a woman and she's going to be right there looking at you assessing your reactions to her are you panicking are you afraid are you insecure or are you confident are you willing to just jump in the deep end in the conversation with her jump in the deep end and make a move jump in the deep end and make something happen and by the
way if you are a guy who struggles with confidence around women I recommend that you watch the lesson on confidence at Master attraction it includes a technique that I've never taught before anywhere else and it instantly makes you feel more confident around women that you find attractive and then from there every day for the rest of your life you become increasingly confident around women as a result of this mindset it just gets better and better you get a significant in boost in confidence and then it gets better and better every day from then on one
final point that I want to give you to help you is that hesitation when it comes to women just results in you missing out on opportunities that are right there in front of you you're interacting with a woman who seems interested but you hesitate you are standing next to a woman who seems like she would be open to a conversation but you hesitate it's right there in front of you you have the opportunity you're so close to getting what you want but then there's that hesitation it just doesn't help you right you've got to be
able to just go for it and what's really cool about how a woman's attraction to a man works is that women are naturally wired to reward men who are brave enough to take a chance to shoot their shot to give it a try women are attracted to men who aren't just confident in themselves but they're willing to step up and take a chance they're willing to step up and do something to step forward and go for it
