I Caught My Fiancée Cheating The Night Before Our Wedding. Now She Is Begging For Forgiveness.

I caught my fiance cheating the night before our wedding now she is begging for forgiveness hello I'm Rick 27 male my ex-girlfriend Maya 25 female and I were so much in love or should I say I was so much in love with her and I never believe she would break my trust and cheat on me like she did when May and I first met she was freshly out of college and I was already working with a fast growing tech company for me it was love at first sight and there was something about her that I

could not place my fingers on I met her at my friend sister's birthday party Maya and my friend's sister were College friends she must have noticed I was checking her out at the party because she kept looking in my direction after a lot of internal struggle I approached her I wasn't as chubby then I just had a noticeable weight which runs in my family and I had been that way since childhood in the past many girls had turned me down laughed in my face because I tried hitting on them and I wasn't expecting anything different

with Maya she was gorgeous and I expected her to either snub me or pretend like I didn't exist but she was different she spoke to me politely and we talked for the rest of the night and had such a great time it was my first time feeling that good and confident in a long time and because we clicked so well we exchanged contacts and I gave her a call as soon as I got home from there we started seeing each other often going on lunch dates and our friendship grew As Time passed I found Maya

to be different from other girls of her age she was kind witty and intelligent I figured that out from the first night we talked I was wasn't just attracted to Maya because of her beauty What attracted me most to Maya was her intelligence and sense of humor not so many girls had given me the opportunity to go on multiple dates with them but Maya was generous enough to give me a shot I was always attracted to intelligent people I didn't like being around people with no life goals Vision or future plans and Maya was all

of it she was just out of college actively Scavenging the job openings rushing for the marathon of interviews and whatnot I Lov to see how serious she was about her career I never had a real relationship apart from one in high school not because I couldn't keep one but because the girls wanted something more than a nerdy boy's love which I didn't have so meeting and dating a girl like Maya felt like a win for me it was months since she had graduated and she had no luck in the job hunting game she had left

the college dorm and moved in with her friend but it was becoming difficult for her to survive her parents were not well off to support her post-graduation they had made it clear to her that she needed to care for herself after graduation the friend with whom Maya lived was very clumsy and would often have a boyfriend at the house since it was a one-bedroom flat it became difficult for Maya to live in that house may said living at a friend's place was taking its toll on her mental health so I asked her to take a

break for a while and move in with me although I was just starting my career in Tech the pay was good I earned enough to care for both of us without her contribution we lived in a spacious one-bedroom apartment and I single-handedly took care of rent paid the bills and took care of groceries I never complained because I loved her and didn't see a big deal in spending some extra bucks on her blind love Yeah throughout our relationship everything went on smoothly and we barely had any major fights Maya managed the house did the dishes

and laundry went grocery shopping and took care of my bed needs she wasn't so great in bed and I enjoyed every bit of the moment with her before Maya and I started dating she told me about her ex-boyfriend in college and how he maltreated her I assured her I was a gentleman and I kept my promise in the past I had never had issues controlling my anger and never laid my hands on anybody or a woman so she was safe with me believe it or not I had never cheated in the past and I didn't

plan on cheating on her also my work was 60% remote and 40% on site so I shuffled between our house and the office and this allowed us to spend enough time together to show how transparent I was with her I even came up with the rules of telling each other wherever we went who we were with and what we were doing whenever we were out I did this to show her I meant serious business with her and that I had nothing to hide as our relationship progressed we introduced each other to our parents and in

no time we knew all of each other's friends mainly those close to us I didn't have a best friend but Maya had one her name was Andrea and she used to hang out with Maya all the time she also visited the house regularly and we were almost like family Andrea and Maya were roommates back in college unlike Maya Andrea worked as a retail store manager at a popular store in our city and lived with her two sisters who were also working women as for Andrea Maya was able to crack the job for the same Supermarket

but mayia declined the offer because she wanted a corporate job I guess she became very comfortable with me providing for her although I didn't say this to her Andrea would often tease her and call her spoiled Maya claimed she had worked hard juggling many part-time jobs as a teenager and while in college so she deserved to be relaxed and cared for on my end I was happy to give her that break I didn't have any issu with taking care of Maya in fact I was glad I could provide and take care of my woman one

evening while we were at a fancy restaurant to celebrate my promotion Maya suddenly asked what do you say if we get married um I stuttered I was taken a back for a moment but it didn't totally come as a surprise I had been thinking of settling down with her but I still had a lot of things under consideration so I told her we would get married when the time was right and she smiled to be honest I wanted Maya to start her career before we took our relationship to the next level I always wanted to

get married and have a family after Maya came into my life I've always imagined my life with her I had even bought the ring to propose to her but was waiting for her to get her career straight but somehow she found the ring in my closet and before she could make any assumptions I had to make an early proposal the first time Maya broke the news to her best friend Andrea she looked more shocked than happy not the kind of shock that her best friend was getting married but the shock that her best friend was

getting married to me I expected more excitement from her especially since she would be Maya's maid of honor but the excitement did not come her response was are you being serious Andrea then tossed her purse on the floor and held Maya's ring then she looked up at me and forced a smile trust me I had been around them for a very long time and I could tell when her smile was forced and when it was genuine although I didn't mention it to Maya I thought Andrea was not happy for her friend in the past I

noticed Andrea was always awfully nice to me once while we three were hanging out in apartment Maya went inside the kitchen to prepare some quick snacks Andrea hinted to me that Maya was not who I thought she was I understood what she meant but I played dumb I asked her what she meant Andrea said that I would figure it out eventually she was drunk besides she did not pass a direct message and I could not conclude based on that in no time we started planning our wedding Maya wanted a big fat wedding the kind where

she could invite all her friends family and Frenemies but that was not what I wanted first it was significantly about my budget since she would not be contributing a penny to it secondly I believed there was life after the wedding I loved kids and I wanted us to have a child almost immediately and that meant we'd need to rent a bigger apartment and take care of other things although Maya had all the reasons to own a big wedding I still kicked against it she mentioned something about having the perfect expensive wedding but we both knew

it was impossible surprisingly May got a job a couple of months before our wedding I told her I could not afford to buy the brand of wedding gowns she needed and pay for her bridesmaid's dresses so she figured it was better to get a job and handle most of her bills instead of bugging me her wise decision impressed me and I HED she would keep up with her career after we married also I expected she would contribute to our wedding plans with her new job in the picture but she didn't everything she earned was channeled

to her gown shoes accessories and everything her bridesmaids needed so I ended up paying for the wedding venue pool cakes and almost everything on my own two weeks before our wedding I noticed that Andrea began to text me more and more she texted me in the morning to ask if I slept well and she texted me if she went shopping with Andrea in fact it was a long list of reasons to text me but whenever we met or she came to our house to help Maya with something she would remain calm so Maya would not

suspect anything was off between us at one point I had to tell Andrea to stop calling and texting me because it was getting out of hand I was afraid that I might jeopardize my relationship with Maya I was too afraid to mention it to Maya because I didn't want to ruin her friendship or wedding preparation I knew how much she loved and trusted Andrea and deep down I believed Andrea was trying to seduce me or get me to change my mind about marrying her best friend on the night of Maya's bachelorette party I understood why

I was in the club section of the hotel where we were all lodging the day before our wedding I was drinking with some of my friends when Andrea called me and said there was something she wanted to show me at first I didn't want to go because I believ she wanted to seduce me one last time but when she mentioned my and a familiar name I took one of my friends and went upstairs I got to the hotel room they were using for the small party I saw Andrea outside the door waiting for me she

told me something I could not believe and when I opened the door my heart nearly fell into my stomach before I opened the door I heard soft moans from their room and my chest constricted as I touched the door's handle to my greatest shock I saw Maya on top of another man whom I suspected was the male stripper they hired to entertain them the moment she saw me she jumped off him and struggled to cover herself with the sheets almost instantly I recognized him as Andrea had told me he was her College ex-boyfriend and I

didn't even know when I started crying it was too much to handle and I walked out on them without saying a word my friend who had escorted me upstairs was also mortified he tried to talk to me or maybe calm me down but I Shrugged him off and walked out as I walked down the corridor I heard Maya yelling at Andrea why would you do this to me my life was going perfectly but you ruined it Andrea yelled back I told you he deserved better Rick has been nothing but good to you I told you

to break up with that loser boyfriend of yours and be with Rick but you wanted to eat your cake and have it I didn't bother to look back I could not believe Maya had been playing me the whole time it was too painful to accept and I wished I could handle the hurt I felt but I couldn't Andrea even tried to follow me but I slammed the door in her face I drank until I could not differentiate between a shadow and an actual person the following morning I woke up to a ton of missed calls

from Maya and some other people when I left the room Maya was already wearing her wedding gown she looked so miserable the moment she saw me she ran to me and asked why I wasn't dressed for our wedding hearing that made me so Furious out of anger I pushed her away and announced I was calling off our wedding everyone was shocked and they kept asking why I changed my mind even my parents were shocked to see me in that state because no one expected this to come after all the money I had spent on the

preparations but I was too heartbroken to speak I stared at Maya with blood boiling down my spine I went back into my room and locked myself in from inside the room I could hear my parents and some of our friends asking Maya about the reason behind my decision but she didn't respond she just pretended to faint and a couple of people caught her before her body touched the floor after cleaning up from the previous night I left the hotel room with a few belongings I had taken there I switched off my phone after I dropped

an apology message on my friend's WhatsApp group chat and switched off my phone please don't blame me I don't know how else to react it's been a week since then and I still don't know how to come to terms with the fact that I was being played wow literally the day before the wedding I'm sorry op what an absolute blow to Your Ego in your bank account it's weird how Andrea knew and didn't want to say anything before all this even happened why wouldn't she tell you maybe she wanted you to come to your own

conclusions because she secretly wanted you for herself maybe if she had told you you wouldn't have believed her and maybe that would have tainted how you looked and felt about Andrea update one hi everyone thank you for your com comments it means so much to me some of you commented on my original post about why I didn't do a background check with my friend's sister before dating Maya the thing was I was stupid I did not feel the need to do it aggressively however I remember subtly asking my friend's sister about Maya during the initial

dating phase she responded that they both were in different departments and Maya was her friend's friend after college they were not in touch so it didn't help much speaking of Maya I met her yesterday and she was so mad at me for standing her up at our wedding it's kind of funny right she ignored what she did and made me the villain in the story she told her parents I canel the wedding because I had drunk too much the previous night and I wasn't in my right senses I think she is mistaking my quietness for

foolishness I didn't want anything to do with her anymore and I didn't understand why she thought we both could be a thing again to make this worse she admitted that she was still having an affair with her ex-boyfriend when we were dating which broke me more she did it because I was always working and didn't give her the kind of attention she needed right now I am so confused I never neglected Maya or turned down any of her needs she was also why I always work so hard I could take care of our bills and

still care for her even as I type this the thought of her sleeping with her boyfriend behind my back still hurts me and right now she's asking us to fix another wedding date because she cannot bear the embarrassment to think that she only apologized once about how she had hurt me shows that she never loved or valued me as much as I loved her her it was more of a one-person thing and I told her I cannot marry her I just cannot meanwhile I kicked her out of my house and changed my locks after I

met with Maya yesterday I also met Andrea to thank her for helping me dodge a bullet it was through Andrea that I knew Maya had been getting money from me to take care of her boyfriend and anytime she asked for a ridiculous amount to buy something she gave it to him also I never mentioned that Maya went to the gym every evening while we lived together she was just obsessed with being fit and I didn't think something was wrong with that well I just found out that she was meeting with her College boyfriend every day

and most of the time she said she was with Andrea but she wasn't she only asked Andrea to cover up for her and the reason Andrea was so shocked when mayia showed her the engagement ring was because a couple of days earlier she told Andrea she wanted to settle down with her College boyfriend because she was deeply in love with him now I understand why Andrea wouldn't stop texting and calling she was looking for a way to tell me what was happening but I didn't give her the opportunity sometimes I feel I deserve this because

I was so stupid that I got trapped so easily I've made up my mind and there won't be another wedding I will be meeting her again in 2 days to trash her belongings I will make another update soon what a delusional fool to think that you'd show up at the altar after discovering her on top of another man of course she made you out to be the villain because she can't stand to look like the villain herself it would be absolutely embarrassing for her if people discovered she was cheating on you this entire time but

still shame on Andrea for letting it get that far update 2 hello everyone sorry for the delay in updating I met Maya again the second time 3 weeks ago and something unexpected happened meanwhile when I told her we would never be together again let alone get married she looked me in the eye and said do you think calling off our wedding will help you find a better woman no woman in her right mind would want to be with an overweight man like you you should consider yourself lucky to marry a woman like me in my

entire life I had never been insulted like that and it hurts so much that it came from someone I once loved or someone who claimed she loved me at that point I knew the kind of person she was although it's hard to admit I realized she had been using me the whole time I know I'm overweight but I didn't want a marriage where my wife felt like she was doing me a favor I knew how these kinds of marriages always turn out to be we didn't talk much that day because she threw my engagement ring

at me and walked out in anger I blocked her on all our mutual social media platforms and even her number but before I blocked her parents from calling me I visited them and told them how much of a liar their daughter was and they were so disappointed when they found out the truth about a week later after Maya walked out on me at the cafe a strange number began to call me repeatedly when I picked it up I immediately recognized Maya's voice she sounded different calmer and more respectful without beating around the bush she asked

if we could meet because she had something important to tell me but I insisted she say it over the phone before she said it she started apologizing she asked me to forgive and forget everything that happened between us in the past so we could start on a fresh slate guess what Maya said she wanted to tell me she was pregnant and I found that really odd without waiting for me to say another word she added I'm pregnant with your baby Rick and I burst into a loud laugh I told her it wasn't April Fool's yet

and she was already pulling pranks then I ended the call like I expected she didn't stop calling so I was forced to block the number two it turned out that her boyfriend had abandoned her after he knew she could no longer take care of him him when she broke the news of the pregnancy to him it didn't work so she thought she could pull a fast one on me since then she's been trying to call me with strange numbers and I kept rejecting them just two days ago she showed up at my house Uninvited Andrea

was there with me when she saw Andrea she attacked her with her filthy words calling Andrea the one who destroyed her best friend's life she even accused me and Andrea of having an affair and cheating on her I had to call the police on her and yesterday I filed a restraining order against her I Can Only Imagine miserable her life would be without a job and someone to help her raise the baby as for Andrea and me there's nothing between us and I don't think we'll ever be a thing she shows up sometimes to check

on me right now I just want to have my life fixed and hopefully this broken heart of mine will heal one day while I still cannot forgive her for what she did to me I guess she got what she deserved I'm still trying to heal and move on any advice would be highly appreciated thanks I'm sorry she said all those things to you Opie she she just wanted to insult you to make herself feel better she knows she's an ugly person for doing what she did to you for so long and honestly in her mind

she probably thought you were going to continue with the marriage because she figured you were a weak person she could walk all over jokes on her you actually have a backbone what do you make of this would you have wanted Andrea to tell you how can allp move on from this share your thoughts in the comments below thank you for joining us today like And subscribe and hit that notification Bell so you don't miss out on our next video we'd hate for you to miss our new content see you next time