hey there just a heads up this story is a bit longer but trust me it's totally worth sticking around for I usually don't ask this early but if you could like the video and subscribe it would mean a lot we're so close to hitting 1,000 subscribers and your support can really help get my content out there thanks I should have seen it coming life was too perfect especially at that moment it was a Friday night on a beautiful summer day my Corona was icy cold as it slid down my throat the Cubs were beating up
on the Cardinals on the big screen 7 to2 in the fifth inning my trusty German Shepherd rice was lying to the side of my lazy boy curled up and mostly sleeping only waking and opening his eyes a bit when I would let out a whoop of Celebration over the success the Cubs were having with the exception of the TV and my occasional shouts of Joy the house was quiet my wife of 21 years Tracy was over at a neighbor's house and my 18-year-old son and 17-year-old daughter were both spending the night over at friends houses
it was just the dog and me the Cubbies and a case of Corona in the fridge oh yeah and limes I didn't often bother with the limes but I picked up a couple earlier in the day when I found out I would be alone for the evening treating myself well I heard the front screen door open and close and assumed it was my wife coming in from visiting with her longtime friend Lisa I heard her moving in the front of the house but I didn't hear her call out and greeting like she usually would have
done I thought that a little odd but just then Cubs manager David Ross took out his starting pitcher in the fourth inning with the Cubs having a big lead causing me to explode in anger and once again waking the the dog it had to be at least 5 minutes before Tracy finally made her way to the family room she looked reflective nervous maybe she didn't come over to my chair and lean in for a kiss as usual but instead sat down on the edge of the sofa to the left of my chair I watched her
with one eye while I kept track of the game with the other can we talk for a minute Bob she asked in a voice I was barely able to hear above the television by now she had my complete attention of course Blondie I answered I noticed she had a light Sheen of sweat on her brow and seemed to be breathing erratically I wondered if someone we knew was sick or had died can you shut the TV Bob she asked as she clenched and unclenched her fists shutting the TV in the middle of a Cub game
she knew what she was asking this had to be something big death not illness I got a bad feeling in the pit of my stomach I grabbed the remote and shut off the noise box what's up baby you don't look so good did somebody die or something God no nobody died she answered quickly it's just that this is very important to me and I need to make sure you are completely listening to me I nodded without saying anything I had a traffic jam of bad thoughts running through my brain we sat staring at each other
for at least a half minute her eyes showed fear and something else maybe anger you know I love you completely and I would never cheat on you never go behind your back with another man right this was not exactly the question I expected suddenly the dinner I ate earlier in the evening and the two beers I had during the game felt like they wanted to make a reappearance right right there on the family room floor I nodded again mutely I'm 45 years old Bob I've only slept with one man beside you in my entire life
she started I'm still a good-look woman my friends even say I'm a hot mil I want to sleep with another man just once so I can feel the thrill of a new man a different man one more time before you and I grow old together what the absolute [ __ ] I sat stock still for I don't know how long it sounded like a speeding train was passing right by my ears absolutely no I yelled in response as I jumped out of my chair not happening while I'm drawing breath she watched me with wide eyes
as I paced back and forth this had to be a bad dream I must have fallen asleep in my chair and been in the midst of a nightmare it has nothing to do with you and me Bob this is all about me my needs as a woman above and beyond you and our family she said her voice seeming to get stronger and more assured as she spoke I think I've been a pretty good wife and mother for all these years I've always put the Family First this one time I need to do something for me
I need to do this to feel like a sexy woman in control of her life you don't feel like a sexy woman with me I asked realizing I sounded like a whiny loser I tell you I love you all the time I think I show you that you are a sexy woman all the time I still lust after you and I'm pretty sure I'm not too subtle about that you do and I love that but this is about something different my ego still needs to be validated by men other than you Bob it's nice to
be noticed by other men it's wonderful to think that another man would want me in that way doesn't it make you feel good when you see a woman looking at you or flirting with you I'm no different than anybody else I like to be looked at and lusted after and after all this time I want know more than that I would like the experience of going out on a date whined and dined as it were then taken and lusted after by a different man for just one night not love just lust one night then I
would come home to you and be yours be a plain wife and mother for the rest of my life you're anything but a plain wife and mother to me Blondie I rejoined you're my everything I can't let you go to another man I won't let you go to another man you keep telling me you love me why don't you show me how much you love me by giving this to me I know it's a big ask and it would be the ultimate gift to me for you to let me have it she stated no it
would be the ultimate stupidity for me to let you have that if you really loved me you wouldn't have even asked I replied have I not been a pretty good husband to you and a good father to our k kids should that not entitle me to a free pass as well but you had so many more women than I had men before we married I'm just trying to even the score a bit she said actually we never discussed numbers before we were married all we really discussed was how we both believed in Fidelity after marriage
and for your information I've only slept with four women in my life including you not exactly a big list I said oh I always thought you had so much more experience than me she said you know so much more than me I read a lot on the subject I want to please you as much as possible I replied so it's still a hard no for you then she asked not only a hard no but I'll be seeing an attorney first thing Monday morning to start on a divorce I said as shock registered on her face
but she stammered I realize how hard this must have been for you to ask for the pass so that tells me that you're really serious about this which tells me that you're not going to let this go easily that means that you will eventually go behind my back to get it done I don't trust you not to anymore unless you've already done it and this was just a smoke screen to get permission after the fact no I swear to you that I haven't slept with anybody so far I said I wouldn't cheat on you and
I meant that she whined but you would figure that now that I know you want to that doing it now wouldn't be cheating I said looking directly at her her inability to hold my gaze told me everything I needed to know you would break up our family even though I haven't done anything yet she asked in a asasp if you finally got up the nerve to ask you've been planning this for a long time and that tells me you've already got a Target picked out he's probably been in on the planning of this as well
lunches dinners you've already cheated on me at least emotionally by the way who is he I asked I didn't have anyone in particular picked out she said staring at a spot on the wall over my shoulder the silence lasted for about 15 seconds as I drilled a hole in her with my eyes she turned bright red when and she looked at me and realized I was staring at her disbelief all over my face you don't need to know Bob she said quietly you're right I don't need to know but I want to know the name
of the man who is breaking up what I thought was a great marriage you can tell me or I can call every one of your close friends as well as your boss and all of your co-workers and ask them I said her mouth dropped open in shock you wouldn't she started to say wouldn't I what have I got to lose my life is in the gutter my marriage is gone what's a little embarrassment to me what about my embarrassment she shrilled I Shrugged and did my best to hide my smile name I asked harshly Dan
Wilson she said quietly please Bob don't hurt him I guarantee nothing I replied I grabbed the remote and turned the game back on she harped sniffled back some tears got off the sofa and went upstairs to our bedroom my eyes watched the rest of the Cubs game but nothing registered in my brain I couldn't even tell you what came on the screen after the game but I know I sat in front of the TV for at least 2 more hours while I think I did a pretty good job of hiding most of my feelings from
my wife in reality I was devastated I had absolutely no clue my wife was planning on sleeping with another man in retrospect I suppose I should have seen signs of her dissatisfaction with me or her life or whatever in the last 3 months tricy had become somewhat distant with not only me but also our children in fact my daughter Sherry was the first to notice asking me if Tracy and I had had an argument of some sort intimacy between us had also fallen off I had noticed intimacy two or three times a week had fallen
off to once every other week and not because I wasn't trying I wondered if she wasn't going through some early changes then there were the phone calls being taken out of the room something that had almost never happened until recently in addition to the almost constant late evening texting when I inquired about that she claimed it was Lisa who was having problems with her husband Jerry that was more than interesting because Jerry and Lisa lived Just Three Doors Down from us and I had no clue they were having any problems I spent the remainder of
the weekend thinking hard about my options I told Tracy that I was going to file for divorce quickly as possible but first I had to examine every aspect of my marriage and my family I certainly could understand how another man could lust after my Tracy she was beautiful when I met her when we were both 21 and at 45 she was only 10 sounds heavier despite having two children I always wondered how I wound up with Tracy she was clearly above my pay grade it's not like I'm a troll or anything being decent looking 5'
11 in 175 lb but guys who look like me don't often wind up with the prom queen which she was just 3 years before as a high school senior we were both in the same astronomy class at Purdue University in our Junior years I was taking it just for fun while Tracy needed the course to fulfill her science requirement I'm kind of a geek that way and Tracy figured out pretty quickly that I would happily help her pass the class science not being her forte it was getting toward the end of the first semester and
we were in my dorm room studying when Tracy leaned into me and kissed me hard on the lips I kissed her back just as hard godamn for most of the semester I thought you were gay Tracy said to me when we broke the kiss no matter what outfit I wore you never seemed interested I was interested girl but I wouldn't have guessed it was reciprocal I was just trying my hardest not to drool in front of you I said we were exclusive right off the bat I wasn't very experienced sexually but I guess she was
even less so because she never complained and seemed quite pleased with everything I tried in bed courtesy of my voracious reading on the subject while every other guy my age was watching porn I was reading about the acts everyone was watching it came in handy right from the start with tricy the second time we had intimacy I made her pass out by touching her at first I was concerned never having made any of my three previous Partners lose Consciousness but I figured she was okay since she was still breathing when she opened her eyes to
minutes later all she could Mumble was I love you Bob we married 2 years after graduating our son came along 3 years later followed by our daughter we lived a pretty good life financially as I was an IT guy and she was a banker when she returned to the workforce when our youngest went to school our son was now getting ready to attend Ohio State as a freshman in a couple of months and our our daughter was going to be a high school senior in two short years we were going to be empty nesters we
had been discussing plans for our future including travel for the last several months I had loved this woman for almost 23 years on the one hand throwing that away for her asking for permission to cheat seemed overly harsh but on the other hand I had already noted that her getting to the point of asking to cheat was a major problem I wasn't born yesterday I knew if she was that desperate to ask to be allowed to cheat she would be desperate enough to go behind my back especially since she already told me about it and
didn't look at it as cheating even though I did of course there was also the matter of her and Dan Wilson already having an emotional affair and planning this night of physical cheating together could I ever forgive that I called a divorce attorney first thing Monday morning and had an appointment for that Thursday afternoon meanwhile on the home front Tracy tried her best to persuade me not to file for divorce we didn't do anything Bob we won't do anything Tracy cried because you don't want a divorce or because you know it's wrong I asked she
wouldn't look at me or answer you still are hoping I'll change my mind and let you aren't you that got me a hopeful look which sadly sealed both of our Fates I had Tracy served one week after I met with my attorney we lived in a no fault state and made similar money so the finances were easy the kids were almost out of the house so accommodations would be sorted as we went with the non-custodial parent responsible for child support for one year we would sell the house and split the proceeds boom done deal 21
years over not quite so fast Tracy got a pretty sharp attorney who convinced the judge to order four counseling sessions more if she felt it was necessary the counselor a mid-30s woman had the same opinion that my kids and Tracy had since my wife didn't actually commit adultery why did I feel divorce was my only recourse I told the counselor the same thing I told TR and my kids that I considered her request to have intimacy outside of our marriage to be tantamount to breaking our vows because of that I no longer trusted her as
a marriage partner I might still love her to some extent but I couldn't stay married to a woman I couldn't trust but I will never try something like that again Bob I don't need anybody but you she pleaded over and over again for most of the two sessions you're never going to change your mind are you Mr rasmason I can see it in your eyes the counselor said toward the end of the second session I'm going to end this farce and tell the judge to let the divorce proceed unhindered my personal opinion doesn't count but
I'm still going to give it to you I think you're making a Monumental mistake here your wife hasn't cheated on you at least physically so it seems like you would welcome marriage counseling to keep your long-term marriage your wife seems willing to make whatever concessions you want to keep your marriage and your family I know I grimaced and sighed I loved Tracy to death I didn't make this decision by flipping a coin there's the difference between the way you and I look at things Dr Baker you called it a concession I don't think her promising
to be faithful is a concession I think it's called keeping the wedding vows she made to me 21 years ago and that she had schemed with another man to break I explained my in-laws practically went apoplectic when Tracy told them about the divorce my mother-in-law called me the next day and shrieked invectives for a good 15 minutes taking just one breath in that whole diet tribe she started to scream right after I said hello my father-in-law who was always the more rational one took the phone from her while she was still screaming she didn't even
cheat on you and you're divorcing her after 21 years are you [ __ ] nuts Bob he yelled I gave him my version of the events that transpired and I could hear him making small strangling noises as I went along every now and then he would quietly utter really and then I would continue on at the end of the conversation he seemed much smaller in spirit he finally said I'm sorry Bob and quiet hung up I moved into a nearby two-bedroom apartment the next week my daughter had decided to stay with my wife in the
house for the next year until she went to college but I figured the second room would come in handy if either kid wanted to stay over for a bit they both were upset with me even though they seemed to understand why I was divorcing their mother I had a friendly phone conversation with my neighbor Jerry a few days after I moved into my own place I informed him that his wife Lisa had a hand in my wife's plans with Dan Wilson and that Tracy claimed he and Lisa were having marital problems I told him I
didn't think he was involved in the breakup of my marriage but his wife was somehow involved and considering how close she and Tracy were was Lisa also lining up a young stud for intimacy oh [ __ ] Jerry rasped over the line so you're telling me I might have a problem too does your attorney give out group rates the social media phenomenon has both an upside and a downside for me an upside was getting all sorts of information about one damn Wilson without even needing to hire a private investigator saved me a boatload of money
Wilson was a coworker of leases and had transferred to the local office from Cleveland about 6 months before my marriage imploded he had a very pretty fiance who was still seeking a position in our city so he was driving home almost every weekend to see her apparently he was trying to set up something with my wife for when he was in the city so he would have a warm welcoming woman in both places I wondered if Tracy even knew about the kids fiance water under the bridge now except for the phone call I placed to
Wilson's fiance I heard soon afterward from some sources that Dan's wedding was called off and his fiance said he was welcome to have his old lady fulltime did I mention that his fiance was the daughter of a very rich man two weeks before the divorce was Final was my 22nd anniversary with triy I had to admit I hurt inside for what I had lost but the longer I sat in front of my Swanson TV dinner the more I knew in my head I was doing the right thing for me I would have spent the rest
of my life looking for clues that she was cheating on me if I stayed married I knew with every fiber of my being that sooner or later she would find a way to cheat on me she hated to lose at anything and would see not getting her way as a loss that would need to be rectified I sipped a shot of a single malt and was in bed by 10: p.m. happy anniversary to me my phone rang about 1:00 a.m. and I noticed it was my soon to be ex-wife I thought about letting it go
to voicemail but since I was already awake I answered the call she w failed clearly in the throws of passion I had heard the sounds often enough to know she wasn't acting there was more unintelligible squealing before Tracy exhorted her partner presumably Wilson to push harder I should have ended the call immediately but I was frozen in place I listened in for another 2 minutes long enough to hear Tracy's Paramore growl out his own release I then hung up before they started cing to each other post intimacy wishing I was on a landline so she
could hear me slam the phone down if I had even the slightest doubt that I was doing the right thing that sealed Our Fate on the advice of my attorney I had made it a habit to record all conversations with my wife as I sat there with my blood pressure about to ring the bell I hit the number for my in-laws and when my father-in-law acknowledged his presence I hit playback on my phone recorder app I let the whole 3 minutes play for him then ended the call I was pretty sure there would be no
repeats of that little one-act play in the future unlike my wife I didn't Avail myself of the charms of of others until the divorce became official and even then I didn't take a woman to bed for more than a year I'll admit that I struggled in my social life it had been 24 years since I last dated and since I never planned to date again I hadn't been keeping up on the dating scene that proved to be a disastrous strategy because the dating World certainly passed me by like a freight train on speed I knew
some of my reluctance to date was in my head I was afraid of being blindsided again I loved Tracy and I never saw what happened coming my way not even a hint the one thing that was easy to see that had changed since I last dated was the attitude of the women when I was dating it was all one sided the man picked out the target the man asked said Target for a date if said Target said yes the man chose the activity and paid for everything nowadays women seem to be the hunters almost half
the time or at least have thoughts on how the date should go sometimes they even paid for things there were times I felt like a dinosaur trying to chase a cheetah the day dating scene showed me that Tracy's sudden selfishness was not unicorn Behavior along with feeling more empowered today's dating women are definitely more self-centered many of them wanted theirs even at the exclusion of their Partners if it was good for them then it would be good for them and their significant others been there done that all fairly recently I'm not going to complain about
the physical aspects of intimacy with a 20 something woman okay the first few times the women about killed me I was pretty sure I pulled a [ __ ] muscle once I got used to the physicality however the enjoyment level was off the charts I'm not saying Tracy wasn't good in bed but at 45 she didn't have the energy and flexibility of a 20-some of course I didn't have the regenerative abilities of a 20-year-old man but my tongue and finger abilities helped me it had been a rough week and after finishing a meeting with a
new client on the far side of the city I stopped in at the bar of an upscale hotel or restaurant still wearing my suit I sat down on a tall stool at the bar and ordered a shot of Glenn morangie single malt it was about 7: when I walked in and about an hour later a group of women from a bachelorette party took up Residence at a group of tables marked reserved there must have been about 15 of them and they were all being pretty rockus I decided to hang around a bit and watch the
fun so I ordered a meal to be served at the bar the bride to be of course was the star of the show and I noticed that she was a pretty girl of about 25 with waistlength light brown hair and big brown eyes I'll admit that I'm a long hair freak so I was kind of taken by her and focused on her for several minutes before I started paying attention to the others at the party it was then that I spotted her she was about 40 I guessed and by her age I figured she was
The Chaperone for the evening the older mother hen brought along to watch out for the innocent and not so innocent younger chicks the first thing I noticed was that she seemed to be a little fidgety in her mid thigh length black skirt which seemed to be riding up a little higher on her legs as she sat in her chair s several times in the first few minutes she tried unsuccessfully to pull the skirt down I smiled to myself she did have nice legs she also seemed to have a sizable chest not quite hidden under the
tight lavender silk blouse she was wearing the blouse was kind of a v-neck with the opening coming down to the middle of her large breasts and showing that her Alabaster skin wasn't often exposed to the sun when she wasn't worried about the length of her skirt she was gazing down at her breasts I'm guessing to make sure that not too much creamy skin was showing her whole outfit was probably a little young for her comfort and I guessed that it was put together for her by one of the younger women in the group I gave
some mental kudos to whoever picked it out and persuaded her to wear it the women definitely seemed to be enjoying themselves laughing drinking and eating and when a three piece combo started to play several women got up and started to dance with each other the women dancing together seemed to embolden the other men in the bar who started to approach the women on the floor and those at the table except for their chaperon I waited about 10 minutes and when no one made a move for the chaperon I decided the coast was clear and made
my way over to her she had dark brown shoulder length hair and bright green eyes reminding me of Jacqueline Bisset in her Heyday just as important she wasn't wearing a wedding ring she blushed a gorgeous shade of pink when I asked her to dance she hesitated at first but then said yes and several of the younger women seated nearby gave her a ration of grief as she got up pulled her skirt down and took my hand the first two two dances were fast and I had to give my ex-wife a silent thank you for insisting
I learn how to dance the next dance was a slow one and I was a little surprised when she melted her Lush body into mine her hair smelled of white shoulders and I grinned to myself because that perfume is not exactly popular with younger women we actually talked a little bit as we glided about the dance floor I found out her name was Kathleen Frank she was an aunt of the bride and the group chaperon she thanked me for the dances and started to leave the floor after to the slow dance but I held on
to her hand and invited her to join me at the bar she started to protest that she needed to watch her girls but I pointed out to her that she could see them just fine from my spot at the bar we watched the younger women and talked I found out she was actually 48 years old and was divorced after being married for 15 years she told me her husband a man of means had traded her in for a trophy wife who was 27 to his 48 when he married her 3 years ago she also told
me that her outfit was chosen for her by her niece the bride and that she felt it was a little too young for her as she normally dressed more conservatively I apped that her outfit seemed perfect for her and I completely sucked up when I told her I absolutely loved her sexy heels I had learned years ago that women really seem to like having their shoes complimented you don't think I look out of place dressed like this she asked innocently not in the least pardon me for saying so but you look good enough to eat
if I liked the pink blush before I loved the dark red blush she now exhibited we talked for about 15 minutes she noted that I didn't wear a wedding ring and wanted to know that story she expressed surprise when I said that my ex-wife had never actually cheated on me physically I'm really old-fashioned I explained she cheated on me emotionally and had plans to do it physically I couldn't trust her anymore you don't tell someone you love them but want to have intimacy with someone else I get that she answered everybody has to have a
line in the sand she went back to the bridal party table a few minutes later but was more than receptive when I again asked her to dance about 30 minutes later this time when we finished she took my hand and led me back to the table with the other women which now also had several other men the evening was a success from my standpoint even with the younger women being a little on the Rowdy side I was greatly surprised when Kathy invited me to be her plus one at the wedding in 2 weeks I was
going to go by myself but I know I'd have a better time with you I know we've just met but you've already met many of the girls who are going to be there too besides you'd be doing me a great favor because I wouldn't be there alone looking really pathetic I definitely wouldn't want you to look pathetic I would be more than pleased to accompany you to the wedding I said tell me what color you are wearing and I'll pick the suit I have that best goes along with that she leaned into me and gave
me a quick peck on the lips I smiled brightly while Cathy blushed again I could get used to that I sat with Kathy when we weren't dancing during one of those times we were at the table I kept my eyes on the bachelorette party girls some of whom were obviously going overboard with their alcohol consumption I'm the father of a teenage girl so it wasn't out of character for me to be in dad mode with the young women around when I saw a young man take one of the girls' hands and start to lead her
toward the restrooms I excused myself from the table and quickly and quietly made my way to them getting to them just before the guy was about to push the girl inside the men's room the youngster looked at me with disdain obviously not being intimidated by an older guy in a shirt and tie I'll admit at 5' 11 in 175 lb I'll never scare anybody on site but I'd like to think I'm still in good physical condition and I had been in my fair share of scrapes as a kid sometimes you have to be willing to
take some abuse to do the right thing which in this case meant protecting some young girl from being this kid's Abus toy I would hope somebody would step in and protect my little girl if the situation called for it let go of my arm and get away from me old man he growled at me she's old enough to play if she wants I let go of his arm but used my other hand to Palm his head and slam it hard into the wall to the side of the door I shoved him hard enough to break
the drywall bloody his face and stun him he suddenly didn't seem quite so cocky anymore and let go of the girl he also didn't seem to want any more of this disagreement the club had gotten quiet as people picked up on what had just gone down just as I started to guide Alicia back to the bachelorette party Cathy and the rest of the group came up to us grabbed the woman and led her back to the table I was left standing face to face with the restaurant manager and another employee I thought I was in
trouble until the manager stuck out his hand and thanked me for helping the young woman the police have been called this Utes is going to jail they'll probably want your information and your side of the story but I don't think you have anything to worry about by the way your drinks for the rest of the night are on the house thank you again he said wow that was some crazy [ __ ] said w the bride to be when I got back to the table thank you for paying attention to more than just aunt Cathy
how did you see that Cathy asked me I'm supposed to be the chaperon and I didn't have a clue what was going on I feel pretty bad about that not your fault it's easy to lose track of 14 girls in a bar if you're not a professional security person or a dad dads at least most of us have what I call Dad Vision I talked and kibitzed with the women at the table until they decided to leave and go somewhere else for the remainder of their evening I gave Cathy a soft kiss on the lips
as we said good night feeling pretty good about myself and having her digits in my phone get a room one of the girls said to rockus laughter from the group I licked my lips softly and tasted Cathy's lipstick as I watched the women leave the restaurant I took my drink back to the spot at the bar I had earlier occupied that seemed to work out pretty good for you the bartender chuckled as I sat back down who knew I laughingly replied a bachelorette party give me one for the road so I can celebrate my good
fortune before I go my new best friend Shawn the bartender earned himself a double saw buck as a tip for the night Cathy's dress for the wedding was light blue so I wore my dark blue pinstripe suit which I consider to be my own the room suit I thought we made a handsome couple as did several of her relatives at the wedding several people came up to me at the wedding and thanked me for looking out for Alicia apparently the bride had spent the previous two weeks telling everybody who would listen that I was some
kind of a hero heroic and handsome what a great combination said Cathy's sister Donna Fulham the mother of the bride as she glided up to us to introduce herself to me before the wedding thank you for helping the girls a couple of weeks ago and for making my sister look like she has gotten better taste in men I also met Cathy's 24-year-old daughter Marissa and her fiance Ben well at least one of my parents doesn't troll for dates at an elementary school Marissa said upon meeting me dad's absolutely going to hate you if you stick
around long enough to get introduced to him by the time the reception was over I knew Cathy and I would go the distance I introduced her to my kids a month later my son took to her quickly my daughter was a bit standoffish she was still somewhat pissed at me for divorcing her mother even though mom didn't even cheat on you my son got it though he had a serious girlfriend and we had a full discussion on Fidelity and what it meant to each of us one night my wife Kathy and I retired several years
ago we celebrated our 25th anniversary with an Alaskan cruise with the help of a daily Calis and Astroglide we make love every morning before we shower and get on with our lives at our age it's more about connecting than it is about intimacy all three of our children are married and doing well we have a total of six grandchildren I've only talked to my ex-wife maybe a couple dozen times since our divorce counting our kids weddings and Christmas holidays she's been married and divorced a second time my kids tell she blames me for her life
being what it is I never actually cheated on him she still tells them some people just don't get it and that's the end of today's story if you enjoyed it please give this video a thumbs up and drop a comment below your support helps the algorithm push my content further if you're new to the channel don't forget to hit that subscribe button it really helps me keep creating more stories for you thanks for watching and I'll see you in the next one