hey guys its chase with CS Joseph dot life doing another video on 16 personalities as part of the series tonight's video is the infj the most requested video I've ever received so far got a lot of people on Twitter asking me as well as discord on this one so you know what it's probably gonna be a longer video than the ones we've done I know the INTJ one was pretty long but there's a lot to cover the infj because of how complicated they are so I love how complicated they are they were actually probably one
of my most favorite types I love all the n J's and J's are my favorite personally so but anyway yeah so trusty white board tada and the infj introverted intuitive feeling judging also known as the sage see it through type direct responding movement they move quick sometimes I wish they'd just slow down not gonna happen though they're also are they also idealists that's right the idealist the idealist who is all about perfectionism yeh infj perfectionism I gotta be perfect and you know and gosh I hate our nfj perfectionism I just kind of want to slap
them sometimes over that because then they come off as like someone who's super arrogant and prideful at the same time which is not their intention but that's how they're coming off right because the TI child has to be right and because Effie parent automatically believes that they are like the ultimate socialista who can navigate any social situation and they know people and it's like you try to teach type to an infj no I don't need that already know people in fact I know people better than I know you and it's like yeah if that was
the case you wouldn't be alienating all of your friends and complaining that you were alone all the time yeah anyway so the infj for parts of the mind ego infj subconscious estp unconscious or shadowy NFP and the super-ego is the ISTJ so I hear Oh it's all about choosing the best the best path forward INFJs are extremely wanti they're all about what they want never like try to tell the infj what they should do only what they want to do always ask them what they want always give them the choice to make a decision on
what they want if you take away that choice will get very rayji very quickly because of SE inferior every parent is that thing that makes them super like social justice oriented kind of like the is F J but not as justice focus they're just more focused on fairness and they expect fairness and they really expect other people that moral behavior I don't know how many INFJs have been like getting in my face and you know i'm an entp with fi trickster rights like i dont have morality but then the infj is judging me because you
know I don't have morality or whatever while simultaneously claiming that they know people okay yeah if the if an infj doesn't know type they don't know people and if they're just judging you for being soulless or more or less or not having feelings that's because they don't understand you even though they claim they understand everyone like hypocrites they need to like stop please stop doing that and learn to understand people instead please it's better that way the INFJs purpose in life for those infj is watching your purpose in life is to make people better your
number one export is to is to improve others that's it improve other people that is how useful you are and that's funny because INFJs desperately want to be the most useful tool in the tool shed why well if i critic INF jays literally walk around believing that they're bad people that they're worthless every single day and they're constantly trying to overcompensate with sese inferior and Fe parent to try to prove that they are you know useful and the overcompensate and at times because they're overcompensating because of that performance anxiety they have of se inferior the
fourth function why well because the fourth function is where their fear exists and they're afraid of giving people a bad experience and afraid of coming off poorly or sounding bad or looking bad and they spend lots of time in the mirror gosh don't be so insecure about it INF jays are amazing i love how they dress i love like the sense the the the clothing how they do their hair they're absolutely fantastic they they have no reason to be insecure about how they look or how they sound they'll even go so far as to like
lower their voice and start whispering and it's good the infj whisperer i honest a wisp wispy and it's like you know they're talking to you and they're like to get their voice very slow and it seems so meek and it's so fake at the same time it's like come on just be real with me stop being so insecure because if they're real about their voice and they have like a real voice instead of this little infj whisper crap they get over their insecurity they sound like a very commanding estp alpha type person which is who
the infj wants to be anyway and have their own little Wolf Pack that are super loyal to them they just get over their insecurities they'd probably get that Wolf Pack very easily and no I am NOT talking about furry ism or other kin like don't even go there with me that's not what I'm talking about I'm talking about a close group of friends where they completely regard the infj in a big way regard respect appreciate give them recognition because Effie parent craves recognition it wants it it's not like credit like how INTJs do it but
it's recognition of like you know appreciation saying thank you please thank you you know they and they expect everyone else to have those manners to be able to say thank you right thank you for helping me because they could do that the problem is every parent can get so it can enforce that so much because they're like well I am so responsible with being social and how other people feel that you know you need to be responsible about it too so they start forcing people to have manners right even though INFJs do not often keep
up with their own manner but they start forcing everyone else to behave mannerly and behave morally and whatnot and they have this insanely high moral standard for themselves with their fi credit that that just causes others to be alienated not everybody can handle that like an FPS can handle that which is fine and some you know even even and NPS in general can handle that because they're introverted sensing can put up with that type of punishment from that se inferior but only you know fi parent or fi hero can actually stand the punishment given by
Effie parent in a long time so it's in the long run so it's like okay well what do I do right you know like how do you even navigate that well you gotta call them out you cut it it's like okay so if you're expecting me to be like so moral in this social situation then why is it last week that you were you were you were swearing at this one person or whatever and you were really raging you look like a fool and whatnot just bring up the past talk about all the times they've
had no little failures and remind them that they're not the best person that they imagine themselves to be or or the or the most social person a person that they imagine themselves to be or the most perfect person that they imagine themselves to be you know and quite frankly they really don't again they walk around feeling worthless all the time it's just a facade it's a facade that they put up a facade of pride that they put up because of their se inferior se inferior is so insecure of giving someone else a bad experience it's
performance anxiety they are so insecure performing badly and then people not valuing them anymore because they just want other people to value them and they they but the problem is is that they alienate those people that super high moral standard that they hold from themselves and then they expect others with every parent to follow that high moral standard that they have for themselves and it's impossible to even do they and infj can't even keep up with their own high moral standard right they're hypocrites in that way so what do you even do it just alienates
people in the infj like whiners well why am I even alone come on get over yourself stop holding people to this impossibly high standard stop holding yourself to this impossibly high standard oh wait you can't so what you have to recognize is the truth use your TI child you're in thinking child the truth is some people just can't uphold that super high moral standard and you know what ti child fe parent be okay with it understand that people are not like you seriously understand that you know I know if J is there also mirrors they're
the mirror behavior if you put an infj in a group of bad people they will become bad they will pick up all the habits because that se inferior because that insecurity will just start absorbing all those habits will start absorbing everything that group does they'll start behaving the same way saying the same things interesting the same things I mean it's very easy to create an infj Satanist just leave them around Satan worshippers and then you have an infj Satanist or a cult in it or a cultist just instantly you know or insert any religion or
spirituality there because the infj just doesn't really care because the infj just wants to latch on to somebody else or or a very close-knit group of people and and they want to create this this this family like you know blood oath like environment where everyone is just super super like almost to the point of being in love with each other but diehard about each other die or oil each other willing to take bullets for themselves you know willing take bullets for their peers in this group and it's because the iron Fe a walks around thinking
that they will definitely take a bullet for any of their friends hell I even know INFJs that will rob stores for their friends if their friend can't afford something they'll literally go shoplift and give their friend that thing and it's like are you kidding me you know I actually picked up an infj from jail one time because of that that was awkward and after that day I never had anything to do with her again thank God but that was a pretty rough that was a rough day I don't recommend that so yeah I enough J's
just understand like you have to understand that the truth use your TI child what's true or false because it's true that not everyone can uphold your super high moral standard right so then if that's the true then stop forcing other people to behave the same way you behave it's not fair it's not right and it alienates people stop alienating them please and if you stop alienating people if people stop feeling like you know more holier than thou or or they or they stop feeling like they have to meet your moral standard you know to make
you happy etc you know then they're not gonna feel like they don't want to be around you anymore I mean it I'm sorry but literally every single infj I know every one suffers from this problem and the only ones that have been able to cope with this issue are the ones that create these these little circles these little wolf packs or of people that just follow them around you know it's kind of like Jesus and the twelve disciples basically you know Jesus was an infj huh so like it it makes a lot more sense because
of that you know and and fine you know you can be that fi critic you know I had this super high moral standard with my it with my really close bros you know but everyone else on the outside please have a different attitude and be more understanding please INF J's I need you to be more understanding you know if you're supposed to be the avatar that is the the point of the spear the tip of the pyramid the capstone that really is what divides the world and brings about some new social change a new social
order that is that tears down the system and then rebuilds a complete new one for the betterment of mankind as we know it what business do you have alienated other people with your super stupidly high moral standard that you yourself can't even all oh it doesn't even make sense stop doing it please it's it's abusive it's emotionally abusive don't do it like seriously don't do it anyway think I've beat that horse a bit much another thing with every parent you got to watch out INFJs can be like guilty like 82nd they they go like you
know zero to guilt instantly and they are so easily guilted if you're in a relationship with an infj don't guilt them seriously don't don't guilt them it's not fair like seriously it's not fair they could be easily taken advantage when it comes to guilt to the point where they're actually doing behaviors as a result of making decisions and doing actions as a result of said guilt that they would have never have normally been okay with doing but they're doing it because they love you so much and because you're guilting them they're being manipulated and doing
that you know they could be easily manipulated with guilt and don't do it like seriously don't guilt them it's one other biggest it's one of their biggest weaknesses is guilt now sometimes though when you do guilt them and they know that they they know you're being insincere about it and they know that they're being unfairly guilted they will get rayji and violent with their estp subconscious that estp will come out and will that TI child to come out and they will start criticizing you holding you responsible for like every little thing that you've ever done
or never potentially done like they like INF days are aware of opportunity cost like social opportunity cost it's like you had this opportunity to do this nice thing for me but you never did it you know and then all of a sudden they're in your face questioning your loyalty to them why well because se inferior needs loyalty INFJs need loyalty more than everything why else do you think an infj like jesus said you know if you're ashamed of me that I'm ashamed of you that's the entire point it's SE inferior s the inferior is about
you need to be loyal to me why because if I go out of my way to care for you you know and and and and tell you how I think about things criticize you to improve you because T eyeshadow is all about criticizing everybody but it's always from the point of trying to improve others I'm going to criticize you until you're on blue in the face until you feel like a horrible human being but because you broke it down now I could build you back up again yeah you know that's T I child di child
it's not that they're intentionally trying to hurt you you have to look at di child like this ti child is Hellfire and it exists Hellfire exists to burn the lies away okay that's how it works so TI child is just telling you the truth to burn the lies away and then because you know the truth then you won't have that problem anymore right it's it's it's all from the point of view of trying to solve euro problems that's what infj is like doing they try to solve problems and solve your problems so that you don't
have to feel bad anymore because they're like well if you didn't purchase that car you wouldn't be having a bad experience right now if you had a listen to what I said you know the problem is is it's like a child and sometimes their thinking is not always 100% correct so if they really need to be around somebody who's rational because rationale is something that will help guide them in their thinking and give them additional reference points so that they can constantly check that their logic is actually accurate now because it's ti child very innocent
and they they end up taking things so literally that while they while they being literalists and that can be annoying it does help them actually stay accurate which is great because of how literal they are enfjs are also extremely literal in that same way but infj is taken even further with TI child and TI child can be absolutely brilliant every infj i know for the most part is brilliant in some way shape or form like they like they can and a lot of people think it's social brilliance like neuronal I know some INFJs who understand
psychology in ways that I've never been I was actually mentored in this science depth psychology by an infj and you know he he's got a super close group of friends and and you know he he focuses on them and their well-being and and holds them to his super high moral standard and whatnot and I hadn't had the opportunity to become a member of his close group of friends but life didn't work out in that way but the point is is that they go out of their way for people they go to their own detriment they
can be walking doormats why wall fi critic you know they feel worthless they don't feel like they deserve good things in life that's why high NF J's don't really buy themselves things that often unless it's for like a purpose of helping somebody else or or or for them to get a job so they can help their family because they need income for some reason you know but I mean fi critic it goes even worse sometimes some iana fj's don't even take care of themselves like for example I I spent a lot of time mentoring INF
J's cuz i'm an entp ENT piece of the pedagogue relationship with infj so we actually teach INF js a lot and INFJs teach ian tepees a lot and which is great it's a great relationship to have but you know I've noticed a lot of the INF days that I've actually mentored over the years they they don't know how to drive it's it's so weird it's just a common thing they just don't know how to drive because they have no ethical reason for them to drive they're not going to learn how to drive unless they're driving
for the sake of someone else that's a problem with INF Jays they don't really take care of themselves unless it's for the sake of another human being their problem is is that especially male INFJs they don't realize that if they don't esteem themselves that they're literally going to wake up at thirty or forty years old and they are the most worthless human beings on the planet and then they call me and ask me for advice that's like super common don't be that infj don't be that loser don't be worthless seriously don't be worthless spend time
now in your youth to make yourself better and don't have phil syndrome did you guys know that of all the types the infj has the highest chance of all the types that failure to launch syndrome so like actually not leave the home when they come of age when they grow up do you guys realize that they they stagnate they statement why will I don't deserve to be good or where I things didn't work out for me they're like they're walking excuses boxes they they make all these excuses about well I never got a degree so
no one's ever going to believe me that I'm smart it's like what are you talking about INFJs are amazing they're there they're amazing at sales for example while they have an ENFP unconscious of course they're amazing its sales they'll dominate at sales come on guys wake up that's how it works you know there they can be amazing at construction I had an infj friend that I had when I was growing up he was one of the best painters I've ever seen as a professional painter and you guys think that painting seems really easy there's not
a lot to it there's a lot to it you kind of have to be brilliant to do painting properly let's be honest it's hard and it's hard work and there se inferior he has that that access to the estp subconscious you know and so when it comes to mechanical things they can develop a mechanical genius and a mechanical mastery if they apply themselves the problem is good luck trying to get nine that J to apply themselves good luck I don't deserve to apply myself no one's gonna feel like that they that they like what I
do and I feel worthless and useless all the time you know I want to be the most useful person in the tool shed it's like guys stop being a walking contradiction and realize you're already brilliant and you already have the skills within just develop them have faith will annoy faith because I have SOI demon you know I need to have other people to see other people have faith in me and you know what guys I do have faith in you I do if you can't you can't walk around anymore saying that no one believes in
you I believe in INF days I take them very seriously you know the only reason why people think that you're worthless is because you think you're worthless stop doing it seriously stop so I see inferior and security afraid of me other people that experience now any nemesis we talked about any nemesis yesterday with INTJs they are very paranoid just like INTJs to the point where the infj will often accuse their lover of cheating on them all the time and it's especially as a result it's very common for INFJs to tell their partner that they are
and accuse them of cheating just because that partner is not spending as much time with them as they used to the inferior needs loyalty diehard loyalty diehard consistency they have to have consistency and if all of a sudden you as their lover is out of pattern there any nemesis instantly jumps to the conclusion that you're cheating on them I have a friend actually very close friend of mine he's married to an infj and every now and then his brother needs help you know or family member but it's usually his brother and he goes and he
hangs out with his brother and and or spends the afternoon with him he hasn't seen in a while you know his brother travels the country on a regular basis so he's not often you know around and he goes and hangs out his brother and sometimes it's not planned and because it's not planned he comes home to his infj wife accusing him of banging his own brother like that is super disrespectful and she's only doing that because she's spiteful you know spiteful with that fi critic you know oh you're not holding up to you're not being
consistent enough for me and you're not following my super high moral standard right now so because of that you're obviously cheating on me you know you're obviously sleeping with your brother right now like that is super disrespectful like I'll be honest I ended a very very close relationship with an infj because because of that because of that disrespect where it she disrespected me so badly in that way like four times and after four times I'm just like I myself worse my sense of self-respect kicked in and it's like yeah I know I can't do this
anymore we're done and literally walked away from her never push away a loyal person to the point where they no longer give a damn the problem is INF Jays with their with their Fe parent they they push people away do they do these loyalty checks or maybe talking about the estp in the estp video they're all about reality checks they're all about loyalty checks right well when they get insecure this estp side gets insecure instead of being aspirational like it should be and they push people away and they do this loyalty check here let me
push you over a cliff to see if you'll still like me afterwards let's see if you really are loyal to me you know oh hey I'm gonna go sleep with this person in a data center you know when you're not looking just to see if you'll still be willing to be in a relationship with me like that's how crazy those loyalty checks can get I mean you'd think that the the estp loyalty checks are hard or you would accuse them of being abusive wait until you see the oil tea checks for an infj they can
be way over the top it's like are you kidding me and why are they over the top and I hear oh and I hear oh could just go way too far with it absolutely way too far because they can't gauge the level of experience you're going to deliver when you're shoving that much ñi through an SE outlet it just starts coming out like a giant bit you know and then you're like whoa what the hell was that you know what I mean you get whiplash right and because their movement they're not control EST PS are
very control based but because an infj ego is movement it just comes out you way too quick and it's like whoa I just got whiplash of this loyalty check I'm not sure I want to be in this relationship anymore and then they accused you of being inconsistent and disloyal it's like but you pushed me this far who's right yeah that that would that would be me that that's right not not the infj sorry so remember I enough Jays had this loyalty check problem it's a serious issue they have this paranoia problem it's another serious issue
they need loyalty and quite frankly only a few types are actually capable of giving them that loyalty and that's si child types which intps and infps and si inferior types and teepees and enfps they really need that hardcore loyalty and I'll write and I'll even admit that yes I have si interior and I am hardcore loyal when it comes to my relationships I take them very seriously I am NOT here to waste her time and I am like like for example if I'm gonna share my body with somebody that means I'm willing to take a
bullet for her that like I refuse to have any sexual contact of any kind until I've resolved in my mind no greater love than when a man gives up his life or his beloved which means I'd be willing to take a bullet for her right so because I have that si inferior point of view I can be in a relationship with an infj but who else can actually go that far who can maintain that consistency but even though that's solely that that's really high loyalty and high consistency that's still at times not good enough for
the infj especially if they're insecure if the infj is insecure those loyalty checks can go even too far to push me over the brink and it's like are you kidding me you know what I mean it's ridiculous they need to stop doing this and I really hope they do so we talked a lot about fi critic already about how they walk around being you know feeling worthless feeling like a bad person all the time to really solve the FI credit problem you have to go out of your way to make them feel loved make them
feel valued by saying thank you for everything you do for me you have to give them recognition you have to give them kudos they live on kudos they need kudos from you to make them feel better also by the way an amazing gift to give an infj infj just really get off on shinies like if you go to like a trade show and you see someone selling knickknacks and they have like this like a fear of copper that ways that's like as big as a fist buy that for your infj they'll think it's the greatest
thing ever as weird as it sounds they love jewelry they love bling bring on the bling bring on the jewelry you'll make your infj the happiest person in the world why because as the inferior take way they're in security and they get to look good in front of other people yay yes so get them jewelry get the mating that makes them look good get them clothing you know all anything that makes I'm look good a super amazing awesome car like an Audi you know anything like that they crave that like if you're an F ite
user you're obviously all about having status so you got status that I initiate craves to get that status for me because I have that ENFP unconscious and it just has to have that status that you have because the infj wants to be regarded the eye and after he wants to be valued as the most useful human being on the planet and you know what if' jays are my fj's can literally be the most useful person on the planet but they can also be like the most worthless person on the planet and that goes a lot
into their virtue and vice you know their their virtues integrity their their vice is corruption another way of looking at it is being super super mega useful or being super super mega worthless you have infj men at 30 to 40 years old and they have done nothing with their life and they're still living with their parents because they're making excuses about how you know they were never good enough they never got a chance they never they never had a chance so you know and it's like you never had a chance because you never allowed yourself
to have a chance that's not my fault that's on you you know and they're like oh yeah you're right then they actually buck up and make it happen but good thing about ifj they can grow rap and fast so if you are a 30 years old and an infj and you've wasted your life within two years you could make up all that lost time like very easily if you know all the steps so if you get educated if you if you look at what other people have done in the past and you start thinking to
yourself okay what's the true path about it and then you plot yourself a course with the anti-hero the one true path the most efficient and effective path forward because expert intuition is looking at all of the paths available introverted intuitions about looking for that one ideal path and then following that one path to the goal it's all about being goal-oriented in that way and INFJs can bounce back faster than anyone else even with their health si teaming actually makes a NJ's unhealthy like INFJs we'll start working and do things INTJs as well and they don't
even realize that they've cut themselves right and believe it or not aside demons end up having the rarest diseases but because they have antihero it can get through the rarest of diseases I how many times have you heard an infj I had you know I had this insanely huge blood clot and I was dying on the table what I survived you know they have these crazy survival stories every inj does especially INFJs they had these crazy survival stories just ask them you know and they'll tell you how much was a survivor there even my past
infj girlfriend was had survived some insane things from her family and thrown things that are not even connected her family was like wow you know on top of having a horrible debilitating disease and she's still made it through anyway because that antihero is literally able to will through life you know that's it's astounding what INF days are actually able to to go through and accomplish just look at all the INF days in history and what they've been able accomplished look at Gandhi for example you know literally a revolution against the British and he didn't even
fire a single shot and he earned himself the title of Mahatma like come on guys that's how powerful INFJs can be they can literally make people better they can really inspire social change they can be and are an inspiration they just have to realize that they're not as worthless as the voices in their heads tell them they are and they need to stop listening the voice in their heads and just stop making excuses and get off their asses and actually do something useful for once engage with people talk to people make people feel better improve
them tell people the truth that's what they have to do is tell the people the truth the truth divides the soul it helps people grow it burns the lies away and they're able to wake up and improve themselves why because when you burn down the forest new life grows that's what the introverted thinking child is all about and they're doing it innocently they're innocently telling you what they think you're not trying to really harm you or hurt you they're not trying to make you feel like an idiot they're not trying to like sound prideful you
know they come off prideful well I think this and I don't care what you think why well teehee trickster T trickster is not aware of what other people think INFJs are only aware of what they think themselves they're not aware of what other people think they're not aware of processes never let 9 FJ do finances that's like a bad idea unless of course they understand mint.com and it can handle their finances that way but they always need help don't let them do that and you know especially with financial decisions yeah be really careful with that
because 9 actually is liable to give away all of your money instead of actually spending it on making proper financial decisions at least a lot of the immature ones mature ones who have done that in their immaturity days when they were immature and did give away all their money then realized that that was a bad idea later when they matured please encourage them in that area of maturity if you know what I mean they really need to help in the financial area the rationale is just not their thing they don't do data they don't do
spreadsheets they don't do you know they why they try to calculate everything in their head like an infj in school like let's be honest you know they're literally that person I'm getting in trouble for not showing their work on their tools because I trying to do everything in their head with their TI child yell and then all the sudden we're giving them zeros you know they have the correct answer we're giving them zeros on their assignments in school because they're not showing the work well they can't do it because they yell at the FT trickster
I'm sorry show me an infj physicist that's showing their work all the time you can't like stop stop holding people these stupid standards not everybody is a te user public school system like seriously and you're making it really bad for INF J's and ice fj's because they both at-te trickster maybe our society should wake up about that oh well you know not like that's gonna happen well I guess maybe an is F J I should stop making excuses and actually reform things for once that'd be nice but instead they're making excu is sitting at home
right now feeling worthless great that's useful so si demon as we talked about they're all about you know it hurts their body they don't even understand they contracted diseases but and I heroes how they get out of it of course but here's the problem with Si demon it can become the ISTJ super-ego the ISTJ super-ego is dangerous because they can get super paranoid with there any nemesis and the lighting is like horrible right now see if I can actually there we go keep it a little bit closer to the camera now so there si demon
will sell you downriver basically there any nemesis can get so paranoid that they'll immediately assume they will assume you've betrayed them and they're SNA inferior we'll just start enraging over the betrayal I have contributed all this things to you because INF J's are all about contributing other people and improving other people I have been a doormat for you I have sacrificed so much of my life for you I have given you everything how dare you betray me and I go si demon mode become the at the is TJ super-ego and they will immediately sell you
downriver they elect themselves similar to the INTJ is FJ demon elect themselves judge jury and executioner they look at all the evidence that they have in their head not looking at in your evidence not even giving you into the defense and they will literally cut your head off they literally throw you into the pit of lions they don't care they don't care they've already made up their decision in their mind even though it's not true and they're assuming and they jump to a conclusion be careful how you avoid si demon you always reinforce your loyalty
you always demonstrate your loyalty to the infj you always tell them how much you appreciate them and their contributions to you you always tell them what the plan is my NF J's can't plan to save their lives because te trickster yet there are J type so they have to have a plan so how do they deal with that they ask you to come up with the plan and then because that plan is the standard with which they can work in its boundaries with which they work in just like you have to tell them how you
feel if you don't tell them how you feel they don't know with which boundaries to work in they don't understand the rules cuz they're looking for you to hit give them the rules because of their J type they need the rules and boundaries with which to work in if you don't give that to them they're gonna freak out and they're and then they're gonna feel like that they're not being useful anymore and then all of a sudden they start feeling worthless they don't think they're contributing to you even though they are but because you're not
telling them how you feel about them because you're not telling them giving them recognition that they need you gotta meet their needs any type it is in a relationship with another one you have to meet their needs so identify their needs they need you to appreciate them and recognize them public praise as well not just personal praise you got to do it in front of other people so they feel valued by everyone it helps beat back the worthlessness feeling that they have inside them every single day and that will never go away hard as they
try it will never go away the only way they can compensate with that is like being super useful and super contributory to others and hoping hoping to God Almighty that those people will appreciate them for once I appreciate you INF J's I think you're fantastic seriously wake up and realise just how amazing you are every type is amazing but INF J's to me personally I love them they're fantastic they can go super far and they can really change the world if they apply them my firstborn son is an infj I take it very seriously and
I am proud he's an infj and I would go out of my way for ever and ever so long as I draw breath to make sure that he always knows I appreciate him so he doesn't feel so worthless every day always ask an infj what they think they're innocent with what they think and they're because of the innocence because it's a child it's accurate it's actually accurate now if what they're telling you is inaccurate it's because they don't have all the information so give them all the information and have them rethink it again and guess
what it'll come out accurate again however an infj that spends time actually using their sa inferior and getting over their insecurity they start researching and that makes their TI child even more capable which makes them more accurate which makes them brilliant seriously encourage their se inferior let them know how amazing they are in bed I'm sorry like having bedroom relations with an infj is fantastic for SI inferiors I know I am one and I've done that and it's also fantastic for si child give them kudos on that tone how great of a job they do
and if they're doing poorly tell them that they are so they can improve it and then after improving them give them recognition and thanks for that for that crafting that amazing experience you are just a canvas with which they want to paint upon because that's what expert sensing inferior is all about always be consistent for se inferior always be loyal for se inferior so that they always know as a result of your consistency and if you start going out of pattern recognize you're going out of pattern and tell them why so there so there any
nemesis won't get paranoid and assume that you're about to betray them all these things can be avoided with just communicating with them you just need to communicate with them and communicate with them in the ways that they need you to communicate with them it's very easy to do tell them how you feel you know give them recognition and the credit in that way or the recognition and appreciation always ask them what they think help them be honest with them tell them how great they look or how they sound or how they smell or how they
are in bed congratulate them on them give them things that they can consume like here's some information about what you were telling that you were thinking the other day you might like it and they learn about it and they become even smarter and more strong it's amazing and again communicate with them so that they're not worried that you have that you might betray them or that you have hostile intent toward them because they assume everyone has hostile intent why well they know what they want but that causes them not to trust what other people want
and remember Fi critic they need you they need you to make sure that they are not worthless so if you need help always state help and give them the opportunity to help give them the opportunity to contribute if you take an infj is opportunities to help you like if you refuse to let them do the dishes for example when they offer to do the dishes you've just made them feel like the most worthless human being in the world don't do that to them like seriously don't do that recognize they have weakness with te trickster they're
just not aware of what other people think and that's and they start talking and sharing their thoughts with people and those people are already like yeah I already know that why are you telling me but they don't know that those other people know that so step in in those situations when you know that these people already know that yeah hold on they already know that because X Y & Z and then the infj is not at risk of alienating those people they're just trying to be useful and tell the truth that's how they use their
usefulness to help deal with that fight critic they overcompensate with TI child to try to be useful right well because they have T trickster it actually can alienate people because those people already know that and it's as if the IFJ is talking down to them you know and then they end up feeling like the IFJ is like being holier-than-thou and that's not actually their original intention don't do that and obviously si demon as long as you're consistent in taking care of the se inferior you'll never have to worry about si demon other than that the
ISI demon hurts their bodies but if you take care of your body and you're in a relationship with an infj because you're likely an SI user and you have self-discipline and you're committed to health and eating organic non-gmo food and going to the gym and washing your macronutrients and your micronutrients following a proper gym routine at least three to four times a week forever for the rest of your life the infj will do it too because their mirrors and they will mirror you and then their si demon won't creep up and destroy their health because
si demon means they have no self-discipline they don't even have a proper regular sleeping pattern but you as an SI user knowing with what you're comfortable with they will mirror that because they want they are committed with their SI inferior they are afraid of making you uncomfortable and they always want you to be comfortable and you having a sleeping pattern means that's what's comfortable to you then they will follow your sleeping pattern and because of that they'll be protected from their si demon so really long video right it's a lot of data to cover with
INF chaise because they're probably the most misunderstood of all the types I often think that the intp is really misunderstood nope it's actually the infj blue tonight well obviously one out of every 200 people on this planet is 9 FJ 0.5% of the population of the planet duh you know what I mean anyway towards the first out video I was kind of really harsh and critical of INF J's but at the end it's kind of like yeah well they're actually amazing and here's why you know what I mean so understand I'm trying to do these
videos from like a point of like not being biased but I also have to be completely real in my criticisms of this type especially with how important the infj is the infj like I said is the apex or the tip of the spear that really drives change for people because the infj out of everyone is willing to lay their life on the line for the sake of their fellow man every single one of them and the rest of us should learn from that and respect them and appreciate them for that I know I do so
anyway if you found this video helpful or educational or enlightening please leave a like and a subscribe to the channel to support channel I'd really appreciate that also if you know any infj is out there please share this video with them I'd really appreciate it they just don't understand themselves or why they do it it really hurts them and it can cause a lot of social problems when what we need them is to be leading leading us and leading in the front instead of trying to have so much conflict you know what I mean so
share this video with them it'll help open their eyes to the reality of who they are just as much as like any of my other videos obviously so share those two please and then you know as a result we'll start being able to see some positive change it's especially helpful if you can do it to the younger people because the more INFJs we can prevent from having failure to launch syndrome the better obviously so cool I'm gonna be starting a new nurture series on the four pillars of self-intimacy and I'm going to be doing the
is FJ a personality video next so great I'll see you tomorrow have a good night
