Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to my latest video on how to get back with your ex… if you’re hoping to get a second chance with someone you broke up with, this video is for you. I of course am Brad Browning, author of the best-selling Ex Factor program, and in this video I’ll be sharing one of the most effective psychological techniques you can use to win back your ex. Now, this tip is based on something I’m sure you’ve heard about before: reverse psychology.
Reverse psychology is extremely helpful if you want to reverse your breakup… in fact, it’s actually pretty much essential. Before I explain why and how to use it to win back your ex, let’s quickly define “reverse psychology”. .
. basically, in a nutshell, it means convincing someone to do something by telling them not to do it. So, one example would be to say something like, “there’s no way you can clean the whole house in an hour.
” I’m telling you not to attempt to finish cleaning the house in an hour, which is probably going to make you try harder to do so just to prove me wrong. Parents love to use reverse psychology with their kids. .
Remember hearing stuff like, “fine, don’t do your chores, you probably didn’t need your allowance this week anyway,” or “You know, it’s probably better if you don’t clean your room, that girl you’re having over later should probably see how messy you are. ” Those types of things work well with children, and they’re pretty common in everyday life even among adults. But it’s the subtler forms of reverse psychology that will help you win your ex back… in fact, the biggest way to use this tactic is to make your ex believe you’re feeling the exact opposite of what you actually are.
For example, if your ex were to think you had absolutely zero interest in getting back together, don’t you think that would make him or her wonder why? In some cases, that thought can be really scary for your ex, because they might be planning on using you as a ‘backup plan’ they can fall back on if they don’t like being single or don’t find someone new. When your ex sees that you’re not going to accept that or hears that you’re moving on, it will often make him or her reach out to you and try to re-establish a connection….
Which, of course, is your true goal. So, that’s one really basic example of reverse psychology that you’ll want to put into practice right now. To put a slightly different spin on things, you can use the same idea to make your ex think that you’re quickly moving on to bigger and better things since the breakup.
If he or she were to text you and ask to hang out ‘just as friends’ on the weekend, you could say, “No, sorry, I’ve got plans with my friend Jamie this weekend”. . .
that’s, in a way, reverse psychology. Your ex is going to want to hang out with you even more knowing that he or she can’t or that you don’t want to. Some people would call this type of stuff “mind games”.
. . and technically I guess it is, because you’re using reverse psychology tactics to ‘trick’ your ex into thinking something or doing something you want them to do.
But it’s not malicious, at least not in my opinion, and it’s the only really truly effective way to win back your ex in most cases. You can’t ever tell your ex you want them back, that makes matters worse… you have to change their mind and make getting back together their idea, which is the end goal of these reverse psychology tactics. I’m sure you’ve heard the saying, “you always want what they can’t have”.
. . that pretty much sums up the way you can use reverse psychology to win back your ex.
You give the impression you’re too busy with your exciting life to care about your ex… you make it seem like you’re indifferent about the idea of meeting up with your ex… you show your ex that you’re a hot commodity, not a desperate loser. Now, I don’t suggest you should be lying about that stuff… you should be actually doing those things while you try to win back your ex -- going on dates, keeping busy, making positive changes to your life -- but, at the end of the day, it’s all essentially reverse psychology. And it works like magic when you do it properly… I’ve seen thousands of clients use these tactics to completely change their ex’s mind about the breakup and crawl back begging for another chance.
So, the verdict is in: reverse psychology definitely does work as a way to win back your ex. Let me know your take on reverse psychology in the comments below the video. .
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