you will need to let everyone and everything go at some point everything ends you don't make it out of life alive you don't make it out of life with all the things that you have accumulated in life you have to leave it all behind at some point and throughout life most people are going to come and go right this is a a pretty hard thing to swallow but this is the reality that we live in most people who enter your life will leave in fact everyone who enters your life is going to leave right most
people will not be around for the majority of your life and you're actually going to just have to learn to be okay with that you actually need to develop the skill of letting go of allowing life to bring you together with people and then allowing it to part ways of allowing life to bring things to you and then allowing it to take it from you energy is meant to flow it's not meant to just come to you and come to you and come to you and come to you and come to you and you just
take and take and take and take you have to give it back you have to release it it's not meant to just get stagnant so the clinging and holding on actually creates a lot of unnecessary suffering when the flow of life is kind of naturally you know making you part ways with a situation a person right there's grief that arises there's pain right it's not you know it's hard of course but you have to you have to let go you have to trust nature trust the flow of Life trust your sort of path in life
as well that if what's happening is very fundamentally out of alignment with you you have to trust it to leave and trust that that's the best thing for the other party the situation whatever it is this is the best possible outcome right because what else are you going to do cling and hold out of an unconscious fear right everything comes and goes life is impermanent this is one of the Buddhist teachings people will come and go States come and go thoughts come and go realities in constant flux and flow oh my God I'm going to
put that line on my mixtape that was a hell of a rhyme right and sometimes things just you know people grow apart things just don't work sometimes people just have different values goals motivations beliefs Etc people can just begin to have a motivation to go in a different direction people can grow apart life pulls people apart and in this we have to trust life what other option is there what else is there to ground yourself in other than the chaotic and unstable and everchanging flow of life that's all that exists there's no real security within
form there's no real security within having more of what you want endlessly you will have to let it go so we need to trust nature you need to trust your Life Path you need to trust your principles and your core values you need to trust your inner wisdom and truth and you need to trust your intuition and you actually have to have the courage to let go of things when it's the time and some of the stuff I'm saying in this video is not super logical it's intuitive it's emotional it's feeling based right sometimes things
don't work and you can instinctually detect that like a relationship isn't working right maybe your goals and your values are changing and you want to grow in this direction and then the other person doesn't really value that and you know they're happy where they are right and you can sense there's a disconnect happening and right sometimes you just have to let go and I'm not saying just like abandon your partner of course you can like talk about it but when things are very fundamentally not working based off of your values based off of the flow
of life based off of your goals what you really want off of your authentic path when things are just truthfully not working you kind of just have to let them go and allow it to to die out right and really examine your fear of Letting Go examine why you want to cling on to things so much right what part of you is finding this false sense of security within a person within money within a particular experience of any kind right so we have to have the courage to actually let go when things are not working
in fundamental ways we have to have the courage to surrender our ego and Trust in the flow of life trust in the intelligence of Nature and this is brutal stuff right like this is like some scary stuff right I'm not telling you to make a you know rash decision or or anything like that right it's just that throughout your life you probably have a lot of experiences of you being close to people and then you drift away you maybe value I don't know creativity but they don't really value that and you know you maybe were
together based on some mutual interests and values and you know you aligned for whatever reasons and then you know you just parted ways and this has happened over and over and over again in your life with the majority of people who have entered your life and at one point that person who you're really afraid of Letting Go letting go of you will have to let them go you will die they will die die this is life that's why I'm telling you to trust in the flow of life to ground yourself in your own true nature
to ground yourself in your own inner wisdom more than another person more than an a particular experience because there's no security in a particular person or a particular experience it's fleeting it comes and goes ground yourself in your own Consciousness ground yourself in your own being and of course you can interact with a particular person or have a particular experience it's just that the motivations for doing that aren't coming from Fear they're coming from spontaneity from authenticity from presence from Love from the flow of life right and when it comes to letting go of people
right don't use any of these ideas as like a status or power game of like that person doesn't care whatever like you know like I like just watch your mind very subtly try and potentially get power or status in a situation just kind of let let that one go right kind of just learn to love People based on where they're at as corny as that might sound right it it's not about like you know making yourself to be this like big ass person and you're so great and like I'm letting them go and they're not
worthy of me like dude let it go man right don't let your mind turn this into a little power a power struggle or because you want status in the situation it's more so just allowing life to do what it does allow life to pull you apart from the people that you have to be pulled apart from allow it to align you to the people who you have to be aligned with and this is what's always going on people are coming everything is always coming and going from your life your thoughts are changing your feelings are
changing your environment nothing actually stays the same right everything is in constant flux and flow vibration the birds chirp and they stop chirping in fact they're not chirping too much right now quite a little bit not not as much as they usually do though I think not there's still chirping quite a bit okay but you get the point is that grounding yourself in impermanent phenomena is a losing game grounding yourself in the everchanging flow of life is how you find actual lasting security and it's not the security that you're used to I bet right this
requires courageous um just just a very courageous mind this requires a desire for truth a desire to actually Just Surrender yourself to life to let go of your your ego that's it for this video I'm offering onetoone coaching you can book a free call link is in the pin comment you can apply for a free call really link is in the pinned comment take it easy
