I really believe that the modern man is going to have to adopt just a more Fearless attitude and a more Fearless approach to life okay in all ways shapes and forms people admire men who are bold and people admire confident men who do what they truly want to do regardless of it's scaring them or intimidating them them or if they feel as if they're not successful enough or competent enough to accomplish it they're not scared of failure and this is the problem that I'm seeing with most men is most men are just not leaders and
I'm talking about leaders in their own life okay I'm not talking about leading others right you got to be able to lead yourself far before you can lead others but let me give you an example men today are very susceptible to being led by someone's personality that they see on the internet so if I tell you hey approaching a woman is uh too much validation never do it wait for choosing signals majority of men are going to go okay yep yep yep got you thanks Casey and then let's say a month later they watch a
different influencer and that influencer goes man you know what it's all about the vibe it's all about the aura it's all about the communication you cold approach whoever you want you show that you're fearless and now that man's emotional state is Led astray once again and he goes oh yeah okay yep yep got you yeah I agree I agree completely okay now that guy watches Another influencer 6 weeks later and that guy goes listen gentlemen in today's day and age of 2024 the only thing that matters is looks and you have to become a Chad
because women have an influx of options they have so many options that you will never be able to compete the only thing that matters is how jacked you are and if you look handsome because all women are optimizing for in their hypergamy is who is the biggest baddest strongest dude that they can obtain and the guy once again goes okay yep he looks in the mirror goes I I'll never measure up so this is what We've ran into men who have no culture men who have no principle men who have no standard men who have
no boundaries and men who have became Yes Men now what does that tell you about the internal confidence and security of the average man it tells you that he's not sure of himself and he's looking to a different masculine role model or archetype to take orders from in what he should do in his own dating life or his his life as a whole with what he should do maybe career-wise financially whatever he's looking for somebody else to tell him what to do now here's how I look at life if God is the creator okay meaning
he creates well what is the word like creativity the word is creation right he's the Creator which means he's using creativity if God made Man In His Image it is your duty to create well what does that mean it means it's your duty to create your own path and Lead yourself I cannot [ __ ] save you you understand this right I can try my best to help you in your dating life and we're doing it every day we've brought over 1100 guys together inside of headman Nation I'm watching these guys you know have so
many successes every single week but you have to understand this when I give them a process and I give them a template to follow to help them learn understand and master the language of women guess what happens they are still responsible for their own individual success and you as a man are going to be in control of your own individual success now here's what I can tell you what a lot of success comes down to in life is if you can generate belief an absolute certainty in whatever it is that you do so what you
focus on in life is what you get if you tell yourself you have to wait for choosing signals in order to approach your brain and your mind will be so good at scanning that room and you will start to look for choosing signals and then what you'll start to do is you will even start to convince yourself that you saw a choosing signal even if it wasn't and then that choosing signal is going to give you the feeling of certainty that it's okay now for you to approach you have to understand how deep this goes
what you focus on in life is what you get if you tell yourself cold approaching makes you a [ __ ] stud it makes you Unstoppable it gives you an Unstoppable Aura and what it does is it tells yourself that you have enough confidence and belief to approach anybody because that's what you feel is most powerful in your own life to obtain confidence by all means do it if you tell yourself that that gives away too much attention and that gives too much validation away so you shouldn't do it and you need to wait until
you have the perfect opportunity then do it let's look at another situation if you tell yourself hey if you're out at a bar you're out at a club you want to wait until you notice that women are more so in your vicinity before you strike up a conversation sure as a man who has skill or when you become a man with skill you could make all three of those situations work because this is what you have to understand the best basketball player in the world could get no sleep and be coming off a hangover and
still Crush you on the basketball court because of raw talent meanwhile you have to do all these things and you tell yourself you have to have a perfect circumstance and a perfect situation a man with skill can make any situation the perfect situation because they're good at it so this is the funniest thing guys believe all this [ __ ] oh this influencer has a morning routine this influencer wakes up at 5:00 a.m. this influencer wakes up at 3:00 a.m. okay and these are all the habits and routine success secrets to make millions of dollars
let's say for example okay well that has nothing to do with the skill of the individual a dude with true business skill could wake up every day at noon and probably only work for two to three hours a day but because he has skill and can work on the high leverage strategic tasks will crush you in business and probably make millions of dollars a year through Raw Talent so what you really need to focus on is you need to say how do I acquire the skills as a man so I am multi-dimensional at my opportunities
that I can create because when you can create a multiple streams of opportunities it's like you have the skill to handle any situation it's like you can do a cold approach but you also can do online dating but your physique is also good so your pictures look good so you have success online dating okay it's like everything works together how you do one thing is how you do everything but here's what I can tell you your confidence in your mind and in your brain will gravitate towards what your beliefs are and what you focus on
okay so depending on what you believe to be true about the world is going to manifest and show up in your speech this is going to manifest and show up in your delivery this is going to manifest in show up in your vocal tone everything you become in life what you focus on so why do I feel like men need to adopt a more Fearless approach to life because you can't be scared anymore you can't be scared to step out of your comfort zone you can't be scared to do the things that scare you and
you cannot be scared of success because this is the thing that you have to understand to get success anywhere to get success in your dating life to get success in your relationships to get success financially it's going to take risk it's going to take rejection and it's going to take failure to figure out what not to do now what does this require this requires an active masculine mindset an active masculine approach not sitting there passively how do you actually obtain masculine energy by getting active I'm going to say that again how do you actually obtain
masculine energy you do this by getting active by doing by performing regardless of how you feel you do what's required the belief in yourself and the confidence will manifest at whatever point you can argue to convince yourself watch this if I can convince myself with enough certainty and with enough belief watch this if I tell myself hey a direct approach is the way hi Excuse Me Miss you're gorgeous I'd love to exchange numbers so that way we could go out on a date okay that's a direct approach if you can convince yourself that's the way
that's going to manifest in your vocal tonality and that's going to manifest in your confidence well now let's look at the other point now let's say you prefer a more indirect approach right there's a beautiful woman working out next to you at the gym you say oh leg day huh leg day huh uh for me legs is a 4day pain 4 day ache that's what I go through 4 days what about you hey you always lift legs this late oh no way what do you do oh when did you move here oh yeah I've been
seeing you around you can be confident in either situation what you focus on is what you believe in what you believe in is what you manifest into reality there's a higher level Paradigm to this than regimented Frameworks the problem that men don't have the biggest problem right now in the world is purposeless men with no belief in themselves with no confidence and there is no logical framework there is no step-by-step proc process that can give you that internal juice that internal Aura it's not going to happen so men need to adopt a more Fearless approach
how do you live this way you tell yourself that you're protected because God protects you you tell yourself that you're protected because God is looking out for you you tell yourself hey I don't even have to rely on the strength of myself I don't even have to rely on Willpower I can just put my strength into God and know that he has me taken care of now this is true regardless if you are 5'5 or you are 7'5 you have to carry yourself like God has given you the will and the internal fortitude and the
internal strength to become the masculine that you know you need to become what does this require this requires a Fearless approach to life men need to adopt a more Fearless approach to life nothing bad will happen to you if you actually chase your dreams and your goals but it comes from you being the active person in your life who's leading yourself and that needs to come from within you understand this right I'm going to let you in on a little secret here's what you have to really internalize and this is the one thing that if
I have your permission I would like to lead you on women do not see men purely through the physical through the lens of the physical how you look it plays a role but the words coming out of your mouth that next 10 seconds matter a hell of a lot more okay guys you have to understand this one thing the same woman who claims she wants a guy who is 7 feet tall and making 20 million bucks a year that exact same woman okay that exact woman who claims she wants those things has the ability or
has a very high likelihood of falling in love with a man who does not fit that criteria at all and if you ask a woman what she wants on paper and she writes down word for word all of the things that she claims she wants and then you say hey can you show me a picture of your last three boyfriends that you've had or that you've been romantic with you will be amazed that they look absolutely nothing like what they claimed they wanted on paper I am going to try my best every single day to
install these beliefs in you to believe in yourself for once to believe in yourself that success actually is possible okay to believe in yourself that you can win to believe in yourself that no matter what you will be okay but this takes you wanting to have that mindset this takes you wanting to step outside of your comfort zone and this takes you wanting to do more in life than just sit at home and then go to the grocery store and then go to the gym and then watch some videos and repeat the same cycle every
single day for the rest of your life it's going to take you growing a little bit and it's going to take some perseverance but whatever you tell yourself to be true about the world is what becomes true so what is the takeaways from this video the takeaways is this lead yourself that's number one lead yourself number two the second takeaway that I'm trying to point you in the right direction would be this what you focus on in life is what you get okay if you're focusing on all the negative negative will continue to manifest if
you focus on all the positive positive will continue to manifest and number three it is okay to take a Fearless approach to life we have far too many men that are passive wanting to be led by somebody else wanting me to make the framework for you this is how I did it all I can do is share with you my beliefs all I can do is share with you what worked for me me but you're a unique individual you're going to have to find your way you're going to have to find your path you're going
to have to find your skill set you know I think a great way to look at this is MMA mixed martial arts here's a great analogy look at the wide array of Fighters who do MMA you have this style and that style right and this guy does Muay Thai and this guy does Brazilian jiu-jitsu and this guy is better at kickboxing and this guy is a better Grappler and here's the funniest thing about this let's say you have a guy who's a Grappler well just because like for example they could be in the same team
with the same coaches doing drills with the same techniques and still have a completely different style and look and the way that they move you will never be me and I will never be you you have to accept that so what does that mean it means you're going to have to lead yourself you're going to have to find your own path what I can tell you is a man who understands these masculinity principles pursues success in life levels up his own masculine Aura takes care of his Fitness his finances understands the dedication habits and skill
sets to get ahead in theory okay I can't talk for sure because everybody's a little different with how they move but in theory that's going to give yourself the best chances of success because regardless of how the dynamic is Social Circle cold approach online dating you have a wide array of skills that you can deploy at any time because you've became attractive you've became your own unique masculine archetype now you're not going to be everybody's cup of tea but you will be able to really have a wide array of examples where you can start to
win okay what you focus on in life is what you get so start to become if you can do this oftentimes the women who come into your life see value in you in a lot of different ways and it's going to be also with what she's looking for so keep that in mind you won't be everybody's type but also they won't be everybody's type either so keep that in mind men need to adopt a more Fearless approach to life and I completely believe this to my core
