there's no question that guys have it tough when it comes to understanding women many books articles and websites are devoted to the topic but what about sigma males they're the guys who seem to have it all together sigma males are the guys who don't play by the rules they are eccentric intelligent mysterious and always know what to say and how to make a woman blush these guys are always different and their actions are never predictable they're the type of man who knows exactly who he is and what he wants out of life rather than being swayed by fads or peer pressure they base their actions and decisions on personal principles and values in other words there are very few things that convince a sigma male to act against his will women are naturally attracted to this type of man because they are rare different challenging and always seem to be in control what's their secret 1. they never chase women as any man knows the chase is an essential part of the game women want to be pursued and men want the satisfaction of knowing they've won the prize but what if you're tired of playing the game sigma males know that chasing women is a fruitless endeavor they would rather let the woman come to them this doesn't mean that they are shy or uninterested they just understand the games that women play and refuse to participate this often confuses women because they are used to being pursued but the sigma man's attitude turns their expectations upside down this is the moment when many women start to fall for the sigma male while it may seem like he doesn't care the reality is that he just doesn't play games they understand woman's psychology better than anyone and use it to their advantage chasing women is a waste of time and energy for a sigma this strategy is usually used by men who are low on the totem pole and are trying to prove something to themselves or others sigma men don't need to chase women to feel better about themselves instead of chasing women they focus on their own goals and ambitions this is another thing that sparks a woman's interest this doesn't mean that sigmas don't date or have girlfriends they just aren't looking for validation from women they would rather be alone than waste their time on things for immature men two they'd never put women on a pedestal one of the biggest mistakes men make is putting women on a pedestal especially if you just met her this is often done in an attempt to impress or attract them but all it really does is putting you in a submissive position it makes you look like you're the one chasing after her doing everything you can to win her approval many men do this thinking they are chivalrous or gentlemen while there is nothing wrong with being courteous and polite don't do it to the point where you're trying too hard to please her women will always try to test you they are hardwired that way if you give in she owns you a sigma man doesn't put women on a pedestal he knows they are equal but different he treats women with respect but does not let them control them a sigma is the perfect balance of these two things he is strong enough to stand up to a woman and not be controlled by her but he is also considerate and respectful this makes sigma men an incredible challenge for any woman 3. they never seek approval or validation from women in the animal kingdom when a male lion takes over a pride he doesn't need to constantly seek the approval of the females in his new group he doesn't have to prove himself worthy he is already considered the king of the jungle and while human males are not lions we still operate under many of the same primal instincts unlike the other two types of males alpha and beta sigma males never seek approval or validation from women to feel like men they are confident and secure in their masculinity regardless of what any woman thinks sigmas never let anyone else define their self-worth they are entirely self-reliant and confident in their own skin this makes them very intriguing to women who are instinctively drawn to men with strong personalities seeking approval or validation is just a form of neediness and it's something that women can smell from a mile away sigma males don't need anyone else to validate their worth this doesn't mean that they are rude or aloof they just have a strong sense of self-confidence that comes from knowing who they are and what they want four they never use cheesy pickup lines not only are they corny but they also usually don't work anyways save them for the movies or better yet just don't use them at all instead of using cheesy pickup lines sigmas focus on being themselves and building genuine connections with the women they meet the best way to attract a woman is by being authentic and genuine not by using some rehearsed line they read in a book women can see right through these lines and they would rather just be honest from the start this doesn't mean that you have to tell her everything about yourself but you should avoid using any lines that aren't truly reflective of who you are sigma males let their unique personality shine through making them more attractive to women than any pickup line could ever be cheesy pickup lines are like a cheap suit they might make you look good at first glance but upon further inspection it's clear that they're just a facade 5.
they never play the victim card playing the victim card is just a ploy to get attention and sympathy from women it's something that beta males do to get ahead in the dating game but it doesn't work with women who are attracted to sigmas a sigma is never the victim when it comes to women he doesn't need sympathy because whatever happens to him he always finds a way to bounce back he is always in control of his own destiny and takes responsibility for his own actions he never blames others for his failures or shortcomings this is because playing the victim card will only make him look weak to women instead he focuses on what he can do to improve himself and become the best man he can be this doesn't mean that the sigma male is perfect far from it but he is always striving to be better and knows that taking responsibility for his own life is the best way to achieve this women are naturally drawn to his strength and confidence and he never has to play the victim card to get what he wants from them sigma males are the true lone wolves operating outside of the pac mentality that dominates conventional society they are strong and independent unafraid to chart their own course in life in a world full of beta males who slavishly follow the rules and play the victim card sigma men stand out like a beacon of strength and self-reliance six they never use violence to solve their problems violence is never the answer especially when it comes to women this is something that all sigma males know and abide by they are the strong silent type of men who solve their problems with their brains instead of their brawn while other men might try to impress women with their physical strength sigma men when a woman over by using their intelligence and wit they are experts at using their words to persuade and influence others they know how to get what they want without resorting to violence their ability to read people and understand their motivations makes them very effective communicators this is one of the many things women find so attractive about sigma males they are able to get what they want without resorting to brute force sigmas know how to push all the right buttons to get what they want without ever having to resort to violence the key is to never lose control always stay calm and collected no matter the situation this is the sigma male secret weapon it might sound easy but it's actually quite difficult to do most men let their emotions get the best of them and that's when things start to get out of hand seven they never say yes to everything being a yes man with women is a surefire way to end up in the friend zone women don't want a man who agrees with everything they say it's like talking to a wall they want a confident man to stand up for himself and express his own opinions a sigma male knows how to do this without being disrespectful or pushy he knows when to push back and when to let things go saying no doesn't mean that you are disagreeable or difficult to get along with while it's important to be flexible it's also important to know when to stand your ground a sigma man is a strong and independent thinker not a mindless follower he knows how to think for himself and make his own decisions this is another quality that women find very attractive in men saying yes to everything not only makes you boring and uninteresting but it also makes you look weak and indecisive sure there will be times when it's necessary to go along with what she wants but a sigma knows how to pick his battles he knows how to balance being accommodating with being assertive this is a charming quality in a man and it's something that women are instinctively drawn to eight they don't try too hard trying too hard is one of the most unattractive things a man can do it comes across as neediness and desperation two things that are sure to send any woman running in the opposite direction sigma males always play it cool they never try too hard or come on too strong they are happy with taking things slow and easy this isn't to say that they are afraid of commitment they just know there is no need to rush things trying too hard is always a major turn off so relax and take things easy if she likes you she'll definitely let you know you don't need to force anything just let things happen naturally and see where they go analyze the situation and make your move when the time is right sigma men are silent observers who take in all the information before making their next move whether in business or with a woman they love to play the long game their reflective nature allows them to see things that other people miss this will give you a major advantage in any situation 9. they don't try to fix them if you try to fix a woman she will only see you as controlling and manipulative no one wants a partner who is always trying to tell them what to do or how to live their life like any human being women are perfectly capable of fixing their own problems they don't need a man to do it for them in fact they often see this as a form of control the best way to help a woman is to simply be there for her sigma males offer their support and understanding without trying to take over or control the situation women need support and advice but they also need their independence sigmas will never get in someone else's life to fix what's broken that's not their style they would much rather help people find their own solutions this is why other people find them so inspiring 10.
