[Music] in this video I'm going to share with you the number one attraction hack I know it is not being tall goodlooking Rich well-dressed and it is certainly not complimenting women so what is the number one thing you need to do to attract beautiful women well in order to understand this question I'm going to ask you this in every romantic comedy you've ever seen or every Romance movie you've ever seen what did they have in common well I will guarantee you that either the main characters hated each other at the start or at the very
least they had conflict they had tension there was some suspense over whether they were going to like each other whether they were going to get together in the end and that is the secret the secret is she needs to not know if she can have you so that's the secret but what is the hack how do you actually make that happen especially when you walked up to her you approached her you started the interaction with her in some way how do you make it so you approached but she still doesn't know she can have you
well the secret is breaking Rapport okay see there are three types of communication you can have you can be seeking Rapport neutral Rapport or breaking Rapport breaking Rapport is when you either actively don't care or at least it seems like you could care less whether that person likes you and why does this work there are a number of reasons number one high value people break Rapport put yourself in the stereotypical scenario of high school and you have the nerdy kid with no friends and you have the popular football player popular cheerleader the nerdy kid with
no friends really really wants to be accepted and so he's extra nice to people he's walking on eggshells he's hoping not to be beat up the person who knows they're popular is willing to tell you to off is willing to tell you they're busy willing to tell you they have better things to do willing to tell you they are cooler than you and so because they are cool they act in this way well it works in Reverse as well when you act in this way with a stranger they assume you must be cool because only
cool people act in this way secondly breaking Rapport gets you on her radar attractive women high value people in general are used to people wanting things from them they're used to people kissing their ass they're used to people being nice to them they are not used used to being given they are not used to being given a hard time they are not used to people being dismissive of them so guess what when you do it it catches their attention and the first thing you need in order to attract someone is their attention you cannot convey
your personality until you have been noticed so breaking Rapport makes it go he said what you get her attention now you have room to maneuver and finally breaking Rapport creates tension it creates that exact same thing in the romantic comedy of are they going to get together does he like me my first impression growing up of what romance is or what falling in love is came from cartoons cuz I was a kid and it's the young woman sitting with the flower going he loves me he loves me not he loves me he loves me not
she's wondering she's agonizing over whether her Crush actually cares about her that's what you want to create does he love me does he not love me does he even like me do I have a chance with this man and when you break Rapport you let her know that maybe she can't have you so here's the whole story of breaking Rapport because at first you're going to break Rapport eventually you do have to get together eventually you are going to kiss her eventually you are going to be nice to her eventually you are going to have
sex with her so how do you break Rapport make her not know if she can have you and then eventually even as you're showing affection keep her not knowing if she can have you well here's the secret there are three phases first phase I don't like you or I don't like you yet second phase you're starting to win me over third phase I like you but as you meet the girl you're going to go go through those phases and guess what this again mirrors that romantic comedy movie at first we don't like each other oh
all right you did some things that W me over now I guess you're a human being now I guess you're okay all right now I guess you're not totally evil you're not the devil okay you know what I think I kind of like you but there's still this tension it might not happen there's still reservation and even as you show a lot of affection for the girl because you broken Rapport because she's been chasing because she's been trying for your validation she's showing affection to you too and the secret is this in the long run
if she shows 8 out of 10 affection you can show seven out of 10 affection for her you're allowed to show a lot of affection as long as you're the one who's chasing less okay so that is the secret be willing to break Rapport be willing to give her a hard time be willing to push her away it will get on a radar it'll create this tension from there you can gradually let her win you over but you want to be won over slower than her oh sorry one last thing I forgot to mention when
you are pushing the girl away you are flipping the dynamic in the interaction of who is the buyer and who is the seller who needs something from the other person and typically if you're selling yourself you are the lower value person typically if you're selling yourself you're investing so if you can set it up so the girl is selling herself to you IE trying to get back the Rapport you've taken away by breaking it then you are in a much better position so that's the technique it's extremely effective but I'm going to give you one
final warning you are breaking Rapport you don't want to entirely burn the boats and take down the bridge so there's no coming back you want to break report enough to get noticed enough to create tension but not enough to sever all potential ties so you want to stop short of being insulting your breaking Rapport should usually be with a smirk or a smile on your face it should usually be at least teasing in nature and do not insult people do not tease on things that they cannot change don't insult a girl on the way her
nose looks her religion things like that that she cannot change cuz remember you are going to eventually let her win you over don't break Rapport so badly that it would be impossible to ever be one over later this is essentially the difference between flirting and insulting and obviously that's a critical part of verbal game so that's the technique it's very shorten to the point there's a lot more on the rest of my channel how to elaborate ways to do this ways to tease ways to break Rapport how to give it back how to qualify that's
all there but I wanted to keep this video short and to the point this is the cheat code go use it
