More craziest sh* I ever learned about women

so what I'm going to share with you in this video are 10 of the craziest things about social dynamics and women and general and female nature and attraction that have the potential to completely and utterly flip your entire world upside down and change everything that you think you know about women so that said let's get right into it starting with number one looks matter more than you think now often times you'll hear people say that it's what's on the inside that counts but the truth is what most guys don't realize is that first impressions when

it comes to women are everything okay women are naturally drawn to men who look healthy strong and confident and the reason why is cuz it's hardwired in human psychology this doesn't mean that you have to be you know a bodybuilder or a supermodel but how you present yourself or your first impression in terms of your Fitness your grooming and your overall style and the way that you carry yourself it speaks louder than pretty much anything else in terms of you know catching the attention of women and the reason why is because as humans we make

snap judgments in seconds and women are even more particular about this than men in other words women will judge you within seconds and they will try to form almost a complete picture of what type of man you are and whether or not you have confidence and whether or not you are worth pursuing within just seconds of looking at you and so if you don't look like you've got your life together if you look like a man who is low value if you look like a man who is not part of the 10% of men who

get 90% of women then most women will not even give you enough chance or enough time to stick around long enough to find out if you really are that type of man okay so improve how you look and you'll instantly notice that people will treat you differently okay first impressions matter looks matter a lot more than you think they're not the end all Beall but they do matter a lot more than you think now next up is number two and I said conf idence beats kindness every single time okay now this is one of the

most difficult one ones for men to understand and the reason why is because if you look at the typical game quote unquote game that most guys use to try to attract women they all try to approach it from the nice guy angle they try to approach it you know from the angle of let me just be really really kind to this girl and then that is what's going to make her attracted to me that's what's going to ultimately get her into bed and this is just not true at all okay women are attracted more to

men who know what they want and go for it they're attracted to men who have confidence okay it's really that simple it's about being comfortable in your own skin and not needing approval from anyone confidence for women a man who has confidence signals strength and security these are the two things that women want and so it's really that simple okay if you look at most men their total game plan is to try to be kind to women it's to try try to you know basically give them as much kindness as they possibly can and then

they hope that in the end if they're friendly enough they're kind enough the woman will eventually give them what they want and that's not actually how the game works at all okay so confidence will beat kindness every single time and it could even be confidence in the sense that like you're more like a villain where you know you're more of kind of like almost borderline rude it it's better than being kind every single time okay women are attracted to confidence they're not attracted to kindness kindness as a mating strategy in other words men who try

to use kindness to attract women you know by buying them gifts or you know being kind you know being super agreeable giving them all their time all their attention that strategy almost never works okay and even if it does work it'll typically only work on you know the lowest value women who you know are way below you in terms of your league okay so next up is number three and number three is one of the hardest ones that I ever had to come to terms with and number three is that women have options while men

have to build theirs okay women have options men have to build theirs what this means is that a woman can basically walk outside into the world and instantly have more options for both attention and relationships than most men could ever dream of while men on the other hand we have to earn our value through success Fitness confidence competence social skills status and pretty much 50 other things that women look for in a man and this might sound harsh but it's true okay life is not fair in all the ways that we think that it is

men have to work on improving themselves because nothing is handed to them okay what this essentially means is that women are born with options women are born with value inherent fundamental value because of how much value we put on their beauty whereas men have to build theirs okay men have to build their value and so if you just like most guys who sit back and wait nothing will ever happen for you okay the world and life in general and women specifically they reward effort not excuses okay if you are constantly building your value if you're

constantly building up yourself to the point where you have many options you will have many more options women will reward this okay so women have options naturally men have to build Builders okay so you have to build yourself up in order to build up your options now next up is number four and number four is honestly brutal okay so you really want to pay attention to this one so number four is that hypergamy is very very real and so what this is is basically a concept that states that women naturally look for partners who are

equal to or better than them in status in come in overall success and while most guys would see this as something that is very shallow what it actually is is biology okay women SE seek stability and protection whether they realize it or not so they're always looking for the best possible man that they can get and so if you ever get to a point where a woman thinks that you are not the best possible man that she can get or secure she will look for a different one okay so if you're not constantly improving you

risk women losing interest in you you risk women breaking up with you and all the other things that can happen because of that and what you have to understand is that despite what all the Disney movies said despite what Society has raised you to believe it is simply not enough to just be a good guy okay you have to grow and aim higher in Life or you will find yourself like 90% of men out there who are invisible to pretty much every woman that they actually want to attract okay so hypergamy is real women are

always looking you know for the best man they can get and so if you are not the best man that a woman can get she will be looking to upgrade and to replace you that's just an unfortunate reality of female nature and how women operate now next up is number five and number five this one is probably one of the most interesting and most powerful things that I've ever learned when it comes to women social dynamics attraction and it's said your time and your attention are basically your greatest weapons that you have as a man

and so what this means is that if you look at 90% of men out there who are basically worthless in the eyes of women the men who are ignored by women who are invisible to women on a daily basis the thing that these men all have in common is that they often give their time and energy away too freely thinking that their time and their energy by basically dring a woman in these things will win them affection that it will make women attracted to them that it will make women want them but the truth is

that people always value what is scarce it's human nature to Value what is scarce what is in demand what is low in Supply and so if you are always available to women if you always give them your time and your attention it looks like you have nothing better to do looks like you have nothing going on okay so once you start treating your time and your attention like it's gold when you start focusing on your goals first and women second when others start to see that you have purpose and Direction and that you have put

great value on your time and attention and you become very selective with where you place your time and attention women will become so much more attracted to you than you could possibly imagine okay so as a man your time and your attention are your greatest weapons so you have to wield these accordingly you have to wield them as if they are okay and you have to put enormous value on them and make sure you're not wasting these things on stuff that doesn't matter most importantly you're not wasting them on women okay or giving women too

much of these things at any point in time now next up is number six and this is another interesting one and it's people especially women the thing that they only really respect in the end is strength okay weakness when it comes to your value as a man whether it's mental or physical when never get you far in this world people may feel sorry for you if you show weakness but they will never respect you okay respect always comes from strength discipline and the ability to handle challenges so if you're the type of guy who lets

people walk all over you then guess what they will whereas if you stand your ground people will take you seriously okay people only respect strength when it comes to women pretty much every single time it is always the weak men who get overlooked and is always the strongest men who get chosen okay never forget that weak men get overlooked strong men get chosen now next up is number seven and number seven is pretty fascinating and number seven is that Society lies to men about relationships okay never forget that from pretty much a young age men

are often told things like just be yourself and Love Will Find you just be yourself and you will be able to find a woman women will be attracted to you it's kind of like that if you build it they will come uh mindset and if you've been around women for any length of time you know this simply doesn't work okay that's just not how things work if you don't improve yourself if you don't work hard if you don't learn how attraction works if you don't learn how the game works then you'll always be stuck okay

movies and media constantly sell the idea to men that things like Grand romantic gestures will win people over that these things will win women over you know leaving a a trail of rose pedals into the bedroom you know on Valentine's Day with some elaborate you know card and stuff like that none of that stuff really works okay Society lies to men about relationships the reality is that people are drawn to people who are already winning in life women are drawn to men who are already winning in life okay so you have to be someone who

others want to be around you don't you can't be somebody who's begging for attention all the time okay real relationships are built on value not fantasy and so what this means is that you can't just be yourself and find love okay it doesn't work like that most men if they were to just be themselves they would go their entire lives probably never having a girlfriend and it's simply because of the way that females think it's the way that females operate okay women want men who have great value and so if you don't have value you

know and you're just being yourself then you'll never be able to get women it's that simple now next up is number eight and number eight is that jealousy and loyalty aren't the same thing for women so this is one of the coolest things that I came to understand it's that men and women are wired differently when it comes to relationships okay and so they fear different things when it comes to relationships and so when you understand the difference between these things when you understand how to use jealousy in your favor when you can make a

woman jealous around other women that is one of the most powerful things that you can do okay and so the weirdest thing about it is that if you have a situation for example where a man cheats a woman actually in most cases the the girlfriend that he has will find him more attractive whereas when a woman cheats the man will find her far less attractive okay so it's kind of this weird thing where women actually want a man who has the ability to cheat but who chooses not to okay so next up is number nine

and number nine is that not everybody will like you not all women will be attracted to you and that's a good thing okay one of the biggest mistakes that probably 90% of men out there make is simply trying to be liked by everyone because when you try to be liked by everyone it makes you extremely weak okay whereas if you stand for something some people will naturally disagree or dislike you and that's perfectly fine in fact it's necessary okay if you look at the guys who do the best with women if you look at the

guys who get women effortlessly the thing they all have in common is that they have a very strong personality and the reason why they have a very strong personality is because they understand the idea that not everybody will like you and so they're able to lean into this their personality they're able to lean into this strong personality knowing that it's going going to make a lot of people uncomfortable it's going to make a lot of people not like them but at the same time the effect that it will have on women is ABS absolutely astronomical

okay women are attracted to men who have strong personalities and if you understand that not everyone will like you and you carry yourself in a way to where you just don't care that will make women attracted to you in ways that you couldn't possibly imagine now next up is number 10 and this one is pretty straightforward and it's also very powerful and it said Comfort is the enemy of growth okay Modern Life the modern world that we live in especially through the use of you know things that you shouldn't be watching on your computer and

pretty much everywhere that you look like on pretty much every app if you look on Tik Tok if you look on YouTube if you look anywhere that you look especially where there's algorithms men are being weakened more and more every single day they're being brainwashed to try to live a life of pure Comfort okay whether it's through lust and all sorts of other things fast food andless entertainment distractions Modern Life makes it very easy for us men to get comfortable to remain comfortable and to never chase Excellence but what you have to understand is that

when it comes to women and attraction Comfort is pretty much the enemy of Attraction okay if you are a man who is too comfortable if you're not pushing yourself and you're not constantly p putting yourself in uncomfortable situations that make you grow things like waking up early you know talking to strangers putting yourself in new social situations working out when you don't feel like it taking risks monetarily you know chasing money uh failing sometimes if you're not putting yourself in these uncomfortable situations then it's pretty safe to say that you'll probably never get an attractive

girl it's really that simple okay CU all of the most attractive women out there they they understand that they have beuty beuty and that that beauty is valuable to men and so it can be traded for something and so if you're always chasing Comfort if you're always stuck in a comfortable life you'll never be able to acquire the skills the resources and the personality growth that you need to truly offer something of value to women in exchange for their beauty so you'll never ever really get women okay so never get too comfortable in a relationship

never get too comfortable in your life with whether you're single or not never ever get too comfortable okay always be improving yourself and with that said I hope you guys enjoyed this one and until next time thanks for watching