let me tell you a little secret women are experts at dropping hints when they want a guy to make a move the only problem is though that most men are too distracted or too afraid to pick up on those hints let's cut through the noise today I'm not here to talk about the obvious signs like batting eyelashes giggling at every word you say nah we're going to go deeper than that I'm about to share the not so obvious signs that she's waiting for you to step up and trust me if you miss these well some
of the guy won't so let's get into it Jessica OS here welcome back to the channel I appreciate you for coming back time and time again and if you're new here look through my catalog you won't be disappointed sign number one she mentions past relationships but keeps it vague so women rarely bring up their past relationships without a reason especially when they're interested in you if she casually drops a comment about an ex or past dating experi but doesn't dive too deeply into the details she's not just making small talk she's actually sending you a
signal think about it if she really saw you as just a friend or someone who she wasn't romantically interested in she'll most likely share every little detail about her exes the fights they had why they broke up Etc why well basically because she'll see you as her sounding board and not a potential partner but if she's vague saying things like yeah my last relationship just didn't work out and then quick stearing the conversation back to the present that's a clue here's why this matters and why you should pay attention number one she's signaling that she's
single so pay attention Okay two she's setting the stage for you to step in by keeping it brief she's showing you that she's over her ex and ready for something new three she wants you to stand out when she mentions an ex but skips the Nitty Gritty details she's giving you an unspoken challenge she's saying show me how you're different women don't just want someone who is better than their ex they want someone who makes them forget their ex altogether if she's opening this door it's your chance to show you're the guy so don't miss
it sign two she's more interested in what you're not saying now this one is sneaky but highly revealing when a woman is interested in you and wants you to make a move she'll often fixate on the things that you don't say rather than just the things you openly share why because women are naturally inquisitive especially when they're attracted to someone they want to know what's going on beneath the surface and what you're leaving out and why so here's what to look out for and why it matters number one she asks followup questions and these questions
catch you off guard so if she's digging into details you didn't initially offer it's a sign that she's paying close attention to you two she notices when you hold back I mean have you ever stopped mid-sentence or left out a part of a story only for her to call you out on it women who are interested are highly attuned to your tone and Body Language if she picks up on a hesitation or notices you're glossing over something she'll say it she'll say something like you mentioned someone called you last night but you never said who
now this isn't random curiosity it's a sign that she's trying to get closer to you emotionally and understand you better three she's probing about your dating life now without being obvious if she's curious about who you're spending your time with but doesn't want to seem too forward she'll ask in roundabout ways like you must have so many girl is messaging you with how Charming you are now these seemingly casual questions are her way of finding out if you're single or emotionally available so take a hint sign number three she creates little moments of tension when
a woman wants you to make a move she often orchestrates small but significant moments of tension intense eye contact a lingering pae in a conversation or a touch that feels deliberate these are calculated moves designed to break the ordinary rhythm of interaction and draw your attention to her it's her way of silently saying here's your chance take it let me tell you what that feels like number one there could be a lingering eye contact that feels electric if she holds your gaze longer than usual especially during a moment of silence She's Not Just zoning out
she's creating a moment two she lingers in your personal space women have a keen sense of personal boundary so when she intentionally stays closer than necessary it's not an accident my guy three she pauses in the middle of a sentence sometimes she'll stop talking mids sentence or let her moment of silence hang in the air this isn't because she's lost her train of thought it's an intentional move to create anticipation four she finds excuses to touch you but lightly now if she's initiating physical contact even in small subtle ways she's testing the waters for example
during a laugh she might Place her hand on your arm or nudge you playfully I mean these touches may seem Innocent but they're very very deliberate take it from me five she creates situations that feel almost romantic women often create atmospheres that encourage intimacy when they want you to make a move for instance you might suggest grabbing drinks at a quiet spot where it's easier to talk and connect these settings are her way of saying I'm giving you the perfect opportunity now it's up to you sign number four she complains about other men to you
when a woman is in to you but wants you to make the first move she might start complaining about other men in her life look at first glance it might seem like she's just venting or treating you like a confidant but there's usually a deeper motive by sharing her frustration she's indirectly telling you to important things she's still looking for the right man and she's hoping that you can step up and show her how you're different here's how this sign works and why it's a green light for you to make a move number one she's
testing to see how you respond listen when she starts sharing her disappointment about other men be it an ex a bad date a guy she's texting who's letting her down she's gauging your reaction cuz she wants to feel you out and see if you would do same two she's letting you know that she's still available when she talks about other men negatively she's not just aing her grievances for aing sake guys she's signaling that these guys aren't Measuring Up in doing so she's also revealing that she's not locked into anything serious with them three she's
highlight in the qualities she values when she complains about other men pay attention to the specific things she's frustrated about their clues about what she values in a partner for example if she says something like well he doesn't even ask about my day she values attentiveness so pay attention four she's hoping you'll make your intentions known sometimes these complaints are a way of nudging you to take action if she's talking about how other guys are falling short she might be silently hoping that you will step up right and prove that you're different sign number five
she drops hints about the future when a woman wants you to make a move she often plants subtle seeds about spending more time together in the future and these hints may seem casual or off-handed but trust me they're deliberate attempts to see if you're on the same page about taking things further it's her way of inviting you into her world without outright saying Hey I want you to be part of my life women who are interested in you will often float ideas about future activities hope Hing that you'll take the bait and solidify these things
right for example she might say look there's this new Rooftop Bar downtown I think you love it comments like these aren't just Idol chatter they're invitations so see it as such you know she'll talk about things she wants to share with you when a woman sees potential with you she'll naturally start talking about experiences or interests that she wants you to be a part of for instance she could say something like I make a mean fried rice you'll have to let me cook that for you sometime these are more than just casual statements their invitations
to get closer and share more personal and intimate moments she brings up someday scenarios you know women will sometimes use hypothetical or future scenarios as a way to see how you respond to the idea of being part of her life for example she'll say if you ever throw a big party I'm totally coming I'm good at decorating now these comments are subtle but they're her way of planting the idea of a shared future she's testing whether you're open to imagining experiences with her down the line the key to responding to these future Focus hints is
confidence sure that you're attentive you're interested and excited about spending time with her and especially if you are by leaning into these opportunities and making solid plans you're signaling that you see the potential for something more and you're ready to make it happen sign number six she dresses up but says it's no big deal now one of the most subtle yet telling signs that a woman wants you to make an extra move is when she puts an extra effort into her appearance you know but of course down plays it like it's no big deal women
rarely dress to impress just because if she's looking her best and doing so consistently especially when it's just the two of you she's likely trying to capture your attention this is her way of signaling her interest while leaving room for you to take the lead here's a deep dive into what this looks like number one she looks amazing in casual situations pay attention to how she presents herself during low-key Hangouts in everyday encounters for example maybe you've planned like I don't know coffee date and she shows up in some Chic outfit with her makeup done
her hair styled even though it's just a casual Meetup right she could have totally been there in jeans and a t-shirt two she downplays her effort when you notice if you do compliment her appearance she might brush it off with something like oh it's an old thing I just threw it on this downplaying is strategic she wants it to seem effortless while still catching your eye three she wears something that highlights her best features right does she suddenly wear outfits that accentuate her figure or highlight features that she knows are attractive for example maybe she's
wearing this really fitted dress that flatters her curves these aren't accidents she's sending you a physical sign of her interest hoping that you'll pick up on her intention four she matches the energy of the environment but goes one step further if you're heading to a casual spot like a park or a friend's barbecue she'll dress appropriately for the occasion but add a little extra flare for example instead of simple jeans and a t-shirt she'll wear a flattering blouse or accessories with jewelry that draws attention sign seven she's curious about your dating life when a woman
is interested in you but wants you to make the first move one of the clearest signs is her curiosity about your dating life I mean she'll subtly or sometimes not so subtly ask questions to gauge your relationship status your preferences and even how you feel about her now this is her way of assessing whether she has a chance with you without actually putting her self out there completely and women do it a lot just to give you a hint this is how this curiosity shows up number one she'll ask if you're seeing anyone she's showing
interest in your relationship status because obviously she wants to know if it's safe to make her feelings more apparent if you're single it's her green light to keep investing time and energy in getting closer to you two she playfully assumes that you're a ladyes man now sometimes instead of directly asking about your dating life she'll joke about how many women must be interested in you you know she'll say something like oh I bet you have girls sliding into your DMs all the time by making these comments she's indirectly fishing for reassurance that you're not too
distracted by other women three she'll ask about your type if she's curious about who you're attracted to she's really asking do I fit what you're looking for she's trying to understand if she matches the kind of person that you're drawn to and she might even tailor her behavior slightly to fit what you're looking for look guys women aren't aren't going to write it on a billboard that they want you to make the first move but these signs they're her way of screaming it without words so be bold be confident take your shot shoot it because
if you don't some other guy will and you'll be left out in the cold now of course Jessica OS is not going to let that happen because you have me I'll catch you in the next video cheers
