Hey Friends, you have seen Ranbir Kapoor’s movie Yeh Jawaani Hai Deewani. Deepika Padukone’s character in it, scholar Naina, likes Ranbir Kapoor a lot. She secretly likes him, loves him and dreams of getting into a relationship with him.
Put the movie aside, you must have seen in real life too that there are many such scholar type girls who are sophisticated and simple. Sometimes they like fun-loving, mischievous type of boys. Why back bencher?
They are exactly like Naina’s type of girls, right? She is one of the 18 types of girls who are called novice. Robert Greene tells in his book The Art of Seduction that there are 18 types of victims.
Victim means any girl, boy or any person whom you want to seduce or even better. With whom you have to make a strong connection. Any person whom you want to influence, make them agree to your point.
Robert Greene calls them victims. Robert Greene says that seduction between two people is like a puzzle game where you are one piece and the other is another piece. Unless these two pieces match perfectly, they will not meet each other.
Seduction will not happen until some gaps are filled. Influence and connection will not be formed. And to complete this puzzle game, you will have to understand whether the other person is a piece or not.
Which of the 18 types is he? Which psychological need does the other person have, which if you learn to fulfill like in this video, then there will be a sure connection. Now this is a simple thing.
People are not able to understand that there is a problem with this. You must have seen many people who are good, decent. But still they are never able to get into a relationship with the girl they like.
On the other hand, you must have also seen such boys who are not smart at all. They are not very rich. Meaning there is nothing strong in them.
Those people are very attractive girls. Why do you enter into a relationship because those people knowingly or unknowingly become the missing puzzle who is fulfilling the needs of that girl or boy. Those who do not understand this thing knowingly or unknowingly, their relationships are usually bad.
In fact many people even remain forever alone. Now the things that I am going to tell you today are very powerful, I would request you not to misuse these things and use this thing responsibly. To make a meaningful relationship, not to do something bad to someone.
Today I will tell you about those 18 types of people from the book The Art of Seduction and I have a request for you people to make things interesting. What should you do? Whichever person you want to be in a relationship with or want to impress or influence, I want you to start imagining them and when I tell you the types of people one by one, then fit them in it and see which type of person they are and you can do it well.
So obviously after explaining each type, I will tell you how you can identify that type. How you can seduce that type of person. Ok, it will be a little long video but trust me in this video, if you watch it once properly with full focus, then this video will help you a lot in making good social relationships throughout your life.
It can help a lot in influencing people, whether it is for business or for normal personal life. So watch the video till the end and subscribe to Seeken channel to keep learning such things. You will keep getting amazing knowledge of books here.
Now let’s start with type one which is called the crushed star. You should have seen Shahrukh’s movie ‘Kabhi Alvida Na Kehna’. Now the Shahrukh Khan in it is a football champion.
He is a very good athlete. Just after some time he has a car accident. The person who was a big star at one time is now confined to bed.
He is unable to walk. Now just think what will happen if a person who is a great athlete is unable to walk? He will become negative and the same thing happens with Shahrukh.
He becomes an irritable, angry person and people call him a crush star. You must have seen this many times in your friends or relatives. Such a person who was like a star at one time, whom people used to give a lot of importance to, liked a lot.
But then due to some reason, his earlier status has reduced. Now people are not giving him that much importance. People are giving him the attention he was used to earlier.
Now these types of people learn many times while living their lives that they will not get the attention they deserve. Somewhere deep inside they still need attention and they are called crush stars. How to identify them, it is very easy to find them.
These are those people, if you give them even a little limelight in a party, they become very happy. Praise them a little. They then start talking about themselves, start praising themselves and sometimes even after drinking alcohol they cannot keep quiet.
They keep on praising themselves. Now how to seduce such people. If your victim is this type of person then seducing them is very simple.
You just have to make them the center of attraction. Make them feel like they are the life of the party and the rest are boring people. They are the most interesting people.
Ask them their story. Give them a chance to speak about themselves and once they get into the flow, they will not hide. And if you do this, they will go crazy after you because you have made them feel the thing that they were craving for a long time.
If you are a dandy type of person. That means a person who likes to hear a lot of praises, then please avoid such people, this will create competition between both of you, the outcome of which can be very ugly. Now coming to the second novice, about whom I had talked in the beginning that how the bookworm Naina gets attracted to Ranbir Kapoor who is a vagabond.
If you like such type of people then it is quite easy to identify them. These are usually very shy people. They are a little awkward type.
Those who do not live life so openly. They live a subdued life but they are very curious. They like to read books.
They like to search about different things on the internet. The whole world thinks that these people are very quiet people, but in reality they are not quiet. People just remain quiet and at the right time they open up a lot.
Many times there is a devil hidden inside them which just takes time to come out. And guess what, what do these vagabond type of boys do? They help them in doing this very thing.
They help in bringing out the devil inside them. Because of this, people are also attracted to them. Now if you want to seduce such a person then you just have to start exploring them.
You have to help them in opening up. For that you can give them new experiences. Maybe you can go to such a place where people do not judge them.
Here you have to make them feel that you are very experienced. But having experience does not mean that you are very strict and rude. You should also be childish and funny, so that they will feel safe and they will start opening up.
The next type is The Lonely Leaders. You must have seen many powerful people. CEOs, YouTubers, IAS officers, ministers, all these people are not different from others.
But sometimes people treat them very differently from others. Which these people like, but to a certain extent they also do not like. If you are interested in such type of people, then remember these things to identify them.
Usually when people come to meet them, they come for some work or the other, they come to ask for something or the other and because of this there is always a kind of doubt in them. One gets angry from inside, they all want to come to them because of the power of their status. That is why they feel lonely at times and communicate this thing many times.
Now if you want to seduce such a person, then try as much as possible to treat them like a normal person. Instead of such people, you should always keep praising them. Especially false praises, they face a lot of problems and they do not like it at all, so do not try to make them feel superior with your false praise or without any reason.
Try to talk to them as if they are their equal. You should be carefree and blunt with such people. When you show such different behavior in front of them, they will find it very unique and exciting.
Yes, such type of people are usually the hardest to seduce because usually they have very little time. They do not have energy either. These are busy type of people.
Plus these people are very clever and smart too. So the more genuine you are in seducing them, the better it will be. Next comes the idol worshippers.
You must have seen that there are many people who blindly follow many people, whether they are crazy about a political leader, crazy about a political party, crazy about a superstar or crazy about a cricketer. Usually these people are crazy about someone or the other. There are worshipper type people who become fans of many religious people and such people are also ready to fight.
This type is called idol worshippers. Now how to identify them, it is quite easy to identify them. If you see, they have a very strong opinion about one thing and the most interesting thing is that whenever you start saying anything opposite to it to them, they get offended very quickly.
They will get angry. It is possible that these people may even start fighting with you, so how to seduce such people. Now such types of people usually happen.
Many times they themselves have an emptiness void inside them which they try to feel through someone else. That is why they are always looking for an ideal single whom they can follow blindly. In another word, if you can worship them, then the best way to seduce them is to be like that person whom they worship.
Then slowly you can make them realize that the person whom they worship is not that great in reality and he is also a human being. When you slowly start making them realize that the person they were so crazy about is also not that perfect. Then somewhere or the other, they will directly consider you as a perfect person.
Their entire focus will shift from them to you and once they slowly start worshipping you, your work is done. Just one thing should be kept in mind that those who worship idols are also very thinking people, so keep them physically active as much as possible, like taking them for trekking, boating, something physical should keep happening with them otherwise they can start thinking and things can go wrong. Because the thing is that people don’t like emptiness and you have to try to ensure that you don’t create emptiness in them because of your presence.
The next type after the 18th type is the pampered royal. You must have had a friend in your childhood or you must have known someone who was probably from a rich family. All his wishes were fulfilled.
All the toys and games that you dream of were in that person’s house. These people always used to go out somewhere or the other. Basically, a pampered child is like this.
Such type of people are often like this but then what usually happens with such a person in life. After some time, he comes to the real world and in the real world, these people don’t get as much pampering as their parents do. Like me too, if they go to hostel, go to college, start living alone, then a feeling of emptiness starts coming inside them.
They will feel pampered and such type of people are called pampered royal. Now to identify them, you have to understand that these people get bored and restless very quickly. They always need someone to entertain them.
These are spine type children. They are the ones whose parents always kept entertaining them. They don’t like boredom and monotonous life at all by giving them something or the other, feeding them something or the other, making them play some games.
That is why such people keep changing jobs after jobs, changing relationships after relationships or keep moving from one place to another. One doesn’t like to stay put. If you have such double victims in front of you, then it is your responsibility to keep them entertained a little.
I also have to bring new gifts for them, make them do new things, surprise them. In the beginning, things can be a little hectic for you. The good thing is that you don’t have to do it for the whole life.
For some time, if you make them feel like a parental figure, you will make them feel safe. While giving you pleasure, after some time they will start liking you a lot. They will start depending on you.
Just like their parents were and you will be replaced. These people who are targets are very loyal, so you can also come into a relationship with such people. If I have the next type of dis-pointed dreams.
You must know someone who watches a lot of sci-fi movies. Those who read fiction novels. Always try to live in an imaginary scenario.
Only girls who are used to the fantasy of drugs like acid come into the magical world, who are sometimes looking for Romeo Juliet type of relationships. If you look a little psychologically in some extra ordinary life in your life, then you will come to know that these types of people are used. Villains used to read a lot of books since childhood.
They used to live alone. They used to watch a lot of people in movies too. Because of this, the same world of books and fairytales has been created in their minds.
A fantasy world because normal life is much more difficult, boring and irritating than the life in books and pictures. That is why people always feel a little bit bishop minded. They are not so happy.
That is also a normal life. People become very upset after marriage. Because they do not like boredom.
If you talk to such people in a little depth, then many times they will openly tell you that the relationship you are in or the place you are in is not satisfying. They are feeling very bored. Now how to seduce them.
Well Robert Greene says that seduction is enough to seduce them. Whether you have to show your life as interesting or not is another matter. It is important to show that there is a lot of thrill in your life.
You are a romantic type of person, if you give two or three examples, it is enough because after this people will start imagining themselves because imagining is not much fun in these. This type of victim has a lot of suppressed desires. They have a passion for their life, all of which can then be released on you.
After which people will start loving you like crazy. You can also have a long term relationship with these people. Just remember one thing, you have to pay money for this.
If possible, you should remain a very special person and keep your life a little thrilling. The Con Fair You must have seen some people who are very much workaholics. After one work, they keep working on another work, third work, fourth work and work after work.
They always keep achieving some new target. This is the thing that gives them fun and thrill. They have a lot of energy which is sometimes difficult for them to control and they are always focusing on winning all the time.
Some goal, some game or some person, how to identify them. It can be a little tricky to define them because they will look very shy from outside. They are not to be judged from outside, but they are to be judged by their actions.
If sometimes you see them doing some work or playing some game, sudden balls of energy come out from inside them. They become very competitive. If you go to play a game, then more energy will come.
They did not have it earlier, still they show a lot of energy while working. Out of energy is visible in a used look. Normal will come back to normal after some time.
Sydney. You will see a lot of energy inside. If you want to seduce such a person, then you have to remember one thing that you should not be easy for them.
If you go in front of them as an easy person and they will think that you really love you. You are very good or very nice. Three, these people will find you very easy and these people do not like easy things, so you will have to become difficult for them.
You will have to spend some time with them. You will have to show such a rating that it is impossible for them to get you. Due to any reasons, this thing can drive them crazy.
Just like they spend all their energy in achieving any goal, similarly these people will spend all their energy in coming after you. You can also play with them in hot and cold. Hot and cold means sometimes you talk to them in a very interesting way.
But sometimes you are becoming cold to them all the time. You are ignoring them like the author gives the example of Napoleon and Josephine. Napoleon.
Who was he? Whereas Josephine used such a hot cold method to attract them that they got attracted. Next, there are many people on the other side who are very sad.
They are very unhappy in their life. They are depressed. Everyone can see this thing and the magazine does not care much.
But there is a person who has a lot of problem with that thing. He does not want that person to be depressed. In fact, he tries his best to help that person to come out of depression and problem and live a happy life.
Will says acid aggro, he has a lot of effect on those people who do not mingle with others, who have sadness and problems in their life. Rescue words should always be used for such types of people. Remove their smartness.
End their depression. By doing this, they get a sense of importance and superiority. They feel a power control.
How to identify a kilo of acid? These are the people of acid who are very athletic. If you are happy, they will become happy very soon.
If you become the side of shadow people, because they are very empty, they do not like that someone else is depressed because they have probably seen depression themselves or they have been in trouble themselves, so they do not want the other person to feel the same feeling. Easily such people are good listeners and always encourage others to talk. Usually such people are more in serious relationships who are side depressed.
How to seduce such a depression? It is easy to seduce them. If you are a girl, you just have to show this.
There are many problems in your life and many times every boy wants that he can end the problems. Girls want that sometimes if you are a boy then you have to show that the world has been very harsh for you and you are not able to deal with it. The female who recovers will happily tell you about this thing.
Then she will start protecting you. She will feel proud of how she is handling a boy. So to attract such people you have to show that how your life is a little sad and you need someone to get out of that swamp and that person will be your victim.
Next time is the drama queen. You must have seen it in many movies in fact in front of you many times. Some people call eunuch girls drama queen.
Tragedy queens are some injury type people who do not like any normal thing. They get bored of things very quickly. They like pain, the descendant of consciousness.
Whenever things are going bad then they feel that you are fine. That is why there is always some sadness, pain and anger in things related to tears. This is the only thing that keeps them happy directly or indirectly.
I have to identify them now but I have to identify them very easily. Those users who are such type of people who always say that people are so bad, all are cheaters, no one is good. They will do such a show.
The whole world is very bad and they are the ones who have got all the pain of the whole world. Whereas maybe it won’t happen. How can you seduce such people?
You can make a big mistake to seduce acidic people which you should not do. Many times when people talk to acidic people about changing their mindset, they say that you should not think like this. The world is not so bad and you do not have any problem with it.
Whenever you start saying such things, they will get turned off. They will immediately start running away from you. Whereas you should handle them in the opposite way.
They like a little rough treatment mentally. If they want a little drama, then quantity. You can put them in some dramatic situation.
And you will have to do this thing again and again. That is why we suggest that you should think a lot before getting into a long term relationship with such people. For now, decide and if you want further things of this book, further things mean not in this book.
The author has told the Twenty Four Step Method. Only one part of seducing someone is left. If you also want a summary about it, then definitely tell us by commenting.
That’s all for now, see you next week.
