if you really want to change your life you have to let yourself gr you have to let go of the identity that's not truly yours you have to let go of these people from the past these situations from the past because it's no longer important your true identity what you really need who you really are is going to come from you embracing chaos from you allowing change to happen because through change our true identity is shown you know have we been taught certain things about um certain ways of life or about certain people about certain
music or whatever it is and then when you actually experience it for yourself you're like well this this is not what I was taught they they told me this was evil or they told me this was bad but I like it right because you you're attaining your own experiences so you are shaping your own reality by getting your own experiences and at first it's uncomfortable things are uncomfortable it's just like a snake a snake grows into a skin and it gets really comfortable and then as it grows it has to shed this skin it has
to rub against these things for us it's like rubbing against these experiences and going through certain things that help us break the mold of our old self but if you never take that that journey to do those things then you're going to have that old skin laying around you and it's going to itch it's going to be irritating and it's going to be uncomfortable and you you just have to allow things to happen water teaches us a lot Bruce Lee said it best you know you put water into a cup it becomes a cup you
put it into a teapot it becomes a teapot water is still water whether it come from the ocean whether it come from the sky it doesn't matter water doesn't forget that it's water water does not forget the lessons that it's been taught but it changes based on its environment you are a product of your environment but the thing is you can change your environment and your environment starts here it starts with your mind your your growth and your destruction starts with your thoughts because what you think essentially comes essentially becomes what you do and what
you do will shape your reality so the programs you've been taught as a child as a young adult whatever it is you have to abandon those things that don't resonate with who you want to be if you want to be the best version of yourself you have to understand that for one that is a thought you will never become the best version of yourself but as long as you strive for that every day you will be better than your old self every day it's merely a it's like a dream you know it's it's a a
vision you have to keep chasing that and while you're chasing that you're going to be setting a standard for yourself every day if you strive to be the best version of yourself every day and you're better than your old self every day then you're setting a standard that is getting higher every day every day every day and you have to keep progressing and you have to keep moving but that is only possible if you allow things to change if you hold on to the same things you're going to keep going into that revolving door that
just you know never stops you know how you you go through these things and it feels like you always end up in the same place or in the same situation but a different time where that could be relationships that could be just life in general I'm at a crossovers right now in my life where so many things are changing so fast but those emotions in that last part of my old self is trying to cling on to me so it's bringing up things that hurt me in the past it's bringing up you know little little
habits and things I'm getting certain triggers it's trying to pull me back into that Loop and it's just a test because when you when you moving past these things and you're on this journey to become the best version of yourself and to become successful and whatever that is you're going to get these tests and these tests are just they're just test they're just trying to see if you are worthy of taking on this this new road this new journey in life this new level and you have to be ready for those things you have to
understand where they're coming from it's just you wan to be comfortable this this month was probably my I'm not going to say worst month but i' I've had better months you know mentally uh financially whatever the case may be I made some purchases this month I bought a a new car this month um I left my 9 to5 this month so all these things that are coming up they are you know outside of my comfort zone I'm taking on new risk but no risk no reward but as I'm taking on these new risk R now
I'm battling with these past traumas and I'm battling with these ideas and these emotions and all these things that make me uncomfortable which will be very it would be very easy right now for me to lay down and just quit but I refuse because I know right on the other side of this little period of time there's something much more beautiful and I've already had a glimpse of it so I I I can't allow myself to go back because I I I don't want to miss out on the experiences I've been on that side where
you get a taste of freedom and then you allow all that time and all that idle idle time and energy to be taken over by emotions and just the past in general you're being afraid of change and you're not allowing things to happen for you when if you just sit there and accept the things that have happened and you stay in the present moment and you continue to move forward and you focus on what's important everything gets better but somehow it's just so so easy to be stuck on nothing we have a great habit at
it because it's just so comfortable but you got to go outside of your comfort zone you got to step outside of the norm if you really want to grow in your life you have to set your own programs you have to set your own systems and you have to stay consistent to those systems because if you don't nothing is ever going to change no matter how talented they are no matter what opportunities you get no matter how well life is treating you if you don't do anything and if you don't stay consistent nothing is GNA
happen and that's just the way life is but it's all about moving forward and it's all about building that proper mind to take on these challenges a lot of the times when we on these journe we um we get addicted to certain things like most people quit because they are too focused on the end result or they're too focused on the beginning you you know how you start to go to the gym or you start to do something good for yourself and that first day of doing it it just feels so good and then after
a few days that little high wear is off and you got some people they like oh man I want to be rich and famous and I want to be this and I want to be that and they just thinking about the end goal so when things start to get hard in the beginning and they just quit because their minds are elsewhere but once you realize that there's a beginning and end of every day every day is a new opportunity every day is an opportunity for change every day is the beginning of a new Journey every
day is the end of a New Journey the things that you want you have to become there that's how you manifest those things everything that you are seeing right now I have already manifested it I already had it like I said you have everything you want in life life is just late but the only way to get those things is to dish out the old identity that you were prescribed that is not you you were taught to be who you are but that's not who you are you have to find who you are that's why
life is about experiences that's why they tell you try more things try new foods you know we a lot of our a lot of the things that we like are not because we truly like there used to be music that I listen to because I listen to Just because of people did that were clothes that I like because other people did there was things that I did because other people did and then when I started to experience things from my for myself my taste in music my taste in colors my taste in art just my
taste in everything was much more Broad and it was much more true to me because it was for me I dished out that old identity I allowed myself to change and yes these changes are uncomfortable but that is the only way to move forward you got to keep and you got to just keep moving you got to you got to let go you just have to move forward and you just have to stay present in the moment you can't get caught up on the past and you can't get caught up on things that have not
happened and make sure during this journey that you never settle for anything below what you want you have your goals you have your standards and nothing in your life is going to be below that if you say that no one's going to disrespect you make sure that everybody body that dis disrespect you is is notified don't disrespect me I won't tolerate that I don't appreciate the way you're talking to me if you don't want to work for somebody for the rest of your life set a deadline and make the deal by the time I'm 30
I don't want to work for anyone the more confidence you have in yourself the the the shorter that deadline will be but don't let time fool you that's why I say just stay present in the moment be better every day every day you working towards that goal you don't have to put no time on it now if you need some some time to put a little fire under your feet hey by all means do that but don't settle for nothing while you're changing understand where you need to change and be open to it because without
change we are nothing but it's all about you accepting it and it's all about you letting yourself go and you know what's holding you back I know what's holding me back there's things that I could be doing right now that could um you know wipe wipe away some of those things and I just have to do a better job at accepting that and just letting go I have to do a better job at you know stop to stop referencing referencing certain people and letting my emotions be attached to certain things like I mentioned earlier in
the video I have many times in these last few days to go down those rabbit holes but I choose not to entertain those things many things are going to come into your life many things are going to creep into your mind but it's up to you to entertain those things you don't have to so don't if it's not good for you if it's not fulfilling you if it's not healing you don't invest in it and if you have to invest in it to survive always be putting more eggs in your basket if it is your
goal and it is your dream to build your own business business go go do your 95 get your money get your money for your funding always be putting more eggs back into your basket if it is your dream to have the most beautiful relationship in the world heal yourself fix yourself become the person that you would want to spend the rest of your life with let go of all your past traumas let go of all the things that happen to you that doesn't mean you don't take the lessons with them you always take the lessons
with them but don't allow the past to hold you back don't allow the past to stop you from changing you deserve better but you got to allow better to come to you you have to allow yourself to accept better better has come to you many times you are better but do you want to be are you comfortable with letting go of those things are you comfortable with letting go of those people are you comfortable with letting go of the past but if you want to change my friend it's not going to be comfortable but when
you do change it's a beautiful thing it's all about what you [Music] want how you going to get it it is a privilege to be here we get to live we get to breathe we get to experience I know things aren't always the best but that's why it's beautiful there's no up without down there's no left without right there's no good without bad there's no day without night it's just life but if you don't accept those things if you don't accept the equal and opposite reaction there's no way to appreciate what's bound to happen so
so if you're watching this right now you made it this far I challenge you to let go of yourself let go of your past keep those lessons appreciate those experiences but Free Yourself free your mind from what has already pass or better yet from what you have already left behind Let It Go cut those streams and start flying start elevating start running gracefully and freely into the new path that you deserve cuz it's long overdue but you just didn't want to change so I'm challenging you starting today starting now to make those changes if you
want to go on a diet start right now if you want to start back going to the gym start right now if you want to start reading and writing more start right now if you want to start a YouTube start right now what if I would to continue to wait what if I would have continue to wait but if I were to continue to
