what's up everyone welcome back to my channel my name is alex costa and i'm sure you've heard this saying before right nice guys finished last now while i don't fully agree with that saying i do think there is some degree of truth to it being a nice guy is a good thing and i don't ever want you to try to be a bad guy to get girls or any of that i think that's lame but what i will say is that if you're too nice then it can be mistaken for weakness shyness or the most
modern term used by everyone now it can be mistaken for simply so how can you be nice while staying far far away from simping well you got to break some rules you have to do the seven things on today's list by the way on this channel we discussed everything from men's fashion hair grooming health dating and so much more it's my job to make sure that you live an amazing life and that you look your absolute best if that sounds good to you then hit that subscribe button below and join the youtube family and the
first thing that you have to do that's on this list is get used to saying no there is so much power in no and sometimes we get you know in this habit of just saying yes to everything right just agreeing to everything just being nice and that's good i think going with the flow sometimes is not a bad thing right you want to live a nice easy life but if there's something that you don't want to do right and this girl wants you to do it and you really don't want to do it it's completely
okay for you to just say no once in a while that's fine that's not just for dating this goes for everything in life right sometimes saying no is very very powerful and it will help you live a better life live a more fulfilled life because by saying no to the things that you don't want to do you can say yes to the things that you do want because you will have time you're going to have energy to pour into the things that you actually want to do the things that you actually enjoy in life number
two is take more risks now please don't go spend all of your money on the next cryptocurrency that you think will go to the moon be careful invest safely what i mean is just do more cool things get outside of your comfort zone because you know what your comfort zone can get pretty boring get out of it try something new something that you've never experienced before just experience those butterflies that's a good feeling i know it's a little uncomfortable at first but then you get comfortable doing the uncomfortable how crazy is that all of a
sudden something that felt so wrong back in the day will feel so right so normal so every day and mundane to you now it's crazy how that happens and it happens with everything i mean going on dates the job that you do for example me when i started doing this youtube job i had no idea what i was doing i didn't feel comfortable speaking in front of a camera i didn't feel comfortable going live and speaking on podcasts and now after practicing a lot i feel a lot better i do this every day right it's
very normal for me that can be applied to anything so take more risks step outside of your comfort zone because it will feel so good once you do that number three don't blend in all the time be bold if you're always hiding you're invisible right then how do you expect to live a truly memorable life a life that you're going to look back when you're 80 90 and you're gonna be like wow i had an amazing life this was great i had an incredible life i don't regret anything i did everything that i could have
tried you know be bold in every way possible in your style in your music taste in the concerts that you go to your your travel experiences your fragrance right don't be boring because it gets you nowhere guys if you want a bold fragrance today's sponsor manscaped has got you covered with their refined cologne now if you've watched my channel for a while you know that i'm a huge fan of manscaped and they have their performance package 4.0 kit with the lawnmower 4.0 and it's an amazing grooming kit that makes trimming the hedges safe and easy
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lot of products that you guys will want and thank you to manscaped for sponsoring today's video and sponsoring the channel for so long now we've been working together for a long time and that feels really really good now the next item on this list is you have to be selfish once in a while what does that mean don't take it don't take it to the top be selfish once in a while it kind of goes back to what i said before about the power of no right being selfish means do what feels right to you
right it is our job your job to be happy that for you to be happy you need to work on yourself you need to take time that you're putting into other things that you're putting into other people and put it into yourself you need to work on yourself and the majority of this channel is about that right it's about working on yourself it's self development but if you're always helping other people if you're giving your energy if you're always trying to help other people then you're going to have nothing left you can't pour from an
empty cup so make sure that you're filling your cup up make sure that you're resting make sure that you're going on vacation make sure that you're seeing your loved ones people who aren't just sucking your energy people who are giving you energy that is very important in life find those people that charge you up not that draining and you know what once in a while take that energy and keep it be selfish that is okay as long as you're giving back when you can people will love you you're gonna feel happier than ever and you're
gonna live a better life next on the list and number five is treat yourself now what does that mean you know every time you go online you see things like don't spend money don't don't buy a car don't buy your tv don't buy a video game invest your money buy real estate i get it i get it right yeah you got to do that you got to invest in your future that is incredible i say that all the time but treat yourself once in a while you know you get caught up in savings investing being
smart being responsible sometimes you got to live and that is completely okay as long as you don't go overboard you have to be smart but treating yourself living life going on that vacation with your partner right buying something nice that you've always wanted that you saved up for that you worked so hard to get that's an amazing feeling why not you guys know that i love watches for example you know so when i got this watch this rolex submariner here i bought it when i reached a million subscribers on youtube i waited i saved up
i knew i could afford it that's when i bought it i loved rolexes ever since i was a kid i didn't get one when i couldn't get one right so treat yourself enjoy life because that's what it's all about number six this is a big one especially for you guys out there who think you are superman and you have to fix everything and you have to help everyone out especially when it comes to girls you have to change them right and bring them up look stop trying to fix everything stop trying to fix everyone this
whole need this whole feeling of i have to fix this person's life i have to fix my own life so things are wrong the truth is nothing is less sexy than someone who is constantly stressed out about every minor aspect of his life and other people's lives don't sweat this small stuff man you know like you need to make sure that and understand that everything will work out and you're gonna have it under control at some point but stop trying to control every single thing not only for your life but other people's lives as well
because it's too much the truth is people need to learn and they're only going to learn by making mistakes here and there of course if you can help someone help someone but mistakes are good for growth everyone makes them next up be independent there's nothing sexier than someone who is independent who doesn't need anything or anyone right you don't need anyone else other people are nice to have around of course and they can really level you up and help you but it's not necessary for happiness you have to learn to enjoy yourself and to enjoy
your own company you realize that the less you need other people the more other people will need you which is an interesting thing right the more you're like i'm good i don't need to hang out today they were like oh let's hang out tomorrow then because we have you know what i'm saying like it's always this interesting balance and it's so so true so be independent learn to be happy on your own and like i said fill up that cup so that you can start helping other people but first think about yourself make sure that
you're happy make sure that you are doing everything that you need to be doing with your life and of course if you want to smell amazing while you're doing everything in your life check out manscaped manscape.com alex to get 20 off plus free international shipping it's gonna be listed in the description below thank you manscape for sponsoring today's video and thank you guys so much for watching peace
