I think it's difficult for people to share their vulnerability their transparency because at the end of the day we've all been judged we've all been judged for sharing our truth sharing our heart and and while judgment hurts and judgment you know it leaves a stain I think we have a tendency to shut down and make our future pay for our past I've said and I've heard many people say I can't trust women or I don't trust men or whatever that is and and really the reality is you can't predict the future so I'm assuming someone
in the future is gonna do the same thing that happened to me in the past our mind is designed to keep us safe your mind is designed to keep you safe so anytime you think of taking a risk playing big investing in a business starting a business starting a relationship opening up sharing yourself your mind will automatically go back look in the file cabinets and bring to your memory something that happened similar to that either it worked and it was good or it didn't work and don't do it again so your mind is designed to
keep you safe your mind is never designed to to go toward that thing that makes makes you excited or makes your belly leap or your mind isn't that way your mind is designed to keep you safe your mind is designed to make sure that you mitigate the risk and so when you want to do something your mind goes to and goes and collects evidence is it good as a bad as a good as a bad but the thing about that is that the mind can only go backwards the mind can only pull from files that
were already lived the mind can't create a new experience and so it's important to blend your thoughts with your passion your thoughts with your intuition your thoughts with your belief your thoughts with your resiliency you got to blend the boat sometimes I've heard people say the biggest distance was between their head and their heart and it's so true I wouldn't let people define me I don't want to fit in a box in a relationship and I've done all this before I'm not God I'm not I'm not speaking from having mastered it a long time ago
and I don't even know if I've mastered it now quite honestly all I know is that now I have more peace of mind now I'm more authentic and it's because once you become comfortable once I became comfortable with my imperfection we're all pursuing perfection and perfection is an illusion there's never a perfect you just simply get to learn how to perfectly manage your imperfection your issues like I know that I'm a grinder I know that I'm a control freak I know that I I'm stubborn I know I know all these things about me and that's
not to make excuses for them but it's to say that I manage me aware that those behaviors can come out and I think we're all trying to hide that part of us that we don't think is pretty I think Sheridan go here here's Who I am 360 here's Who I am here's my light here's my darker times here's what here's how I am in my conscious moments here's how I am in my small moments and everyday I'm growing and and striving to be a better version of me but here's Who I am 360 and then
let people choose if they don't love you like you or leave you alone any one of the three or five of me [Music]
