it's it's unbelievable how little genuine encouragement many people need and how they had none no one ever said to them and meant it it's not okay for you to be uh weak loser it's not okay and the reason it's not okay is because you could be way more than that and it's a crime an ethical crime for you to allow all that that necessary potential to go to waste it hurts you it hurts your family it hurts the world really really it does and people think oh okay I get it