[Applause] my problem in my life is I have this wonderful life I come home from work I play with my children at home I play with my dog I listen to your CD every week and I really feel so incredibly thankful my contrast is and this is not very deep I procrastinate my house is a mess I have clutter everywhere I don't want to do the dishes I want to play I want to have fun have you heard nothing from us I know I know this is what makes you fun I know I'm fun you
can be really neat or really fun we choose fun I agree with that this is exactly the thing that we're talking about isn't it in other words here's what procrastination is procrastination is an understanding a deep understanding on a vibrational level that the energy is not lined up and so any action that you do is going to be poultry and ineffective anyway that feeling of procrastination it's like pushing a noodle it's a feeling that I should be doing something but the should is Upstream while all of the energy is Flowing Downstream so it means that
there's a crosscurrent going on and so even if you were to push yourself into the behavior of it you still would not get the results that you seek you got to understand that everything you put in vibrational escrow is out there in the process of rending with all of the other aspects that are important to you and everything is not ready to manifest right now and when you follow your bliss when you follow your inspiration when you follow the feeling then your timing is such that the effort goes right out of the way you begin
to realize that you were never meant to use your action to make things happen you were always intended to use your action to enjoy the benefit of what your energy alignment had actually accomplished you create through thought you create through vibration what you create in your day-to-day life is not different from the way the molecules of this time space reality have formed into that would you call your planet it was thought first and vibrational alignment everything is that way so a feeling of procrastination always means the same thing I'm taking action too soon and it
doesn't mean that you have to wait a long time it means it is my work to line up the energy and worrying about what you're not getting done is Upstream every time looking for what feels good is Downstream every time you see and there's another piece to this that we want to offer to you and this is the most important thing that we will say today or on any day your work is to manage your gap between who you have become and who you're letting yourself be in any point in time that's your work so
as you realize that managing this Gap is about following your bliss it's about reaching for the best feeling thought that you can find it's about allowing the universe to yield to you what you've already asked for what's already lined up for what you're already deserving of when you realize that managing the way you feel is what it's all about and then you think about these playful children and you think about how so many adults in their life are already putting the you should do this and you shoulds do that in it now think about this
feeling of being called toward source and think about how that calling is always happening and it's not an arbitrary thing it's a certain thing it's that broader part of you already being everything that you want to be so as you are now reaching for the thoughts that feel the best and discovering the thoughts that feel the best little by little and consciously knowing the difference between the thoughts that feel Downstream and the thoughts that feel Upstream now think about the children and their playful nature and think about how intuitively they are reaching for for the
thoughts that feel the best and then think about how the adults around them are systematically trying to train that out of them by saying things to them such as no longer reach for the thoughts that feel the best instead do the things that I'm telling you to do so instead of doing what actually feels best which is Source energy calling you in the direction of all that you've become instead you're listening to some voice that's outside of you seeking the approval of someone else when someone holds you as their object of attention and they like
what they're seeing it feels good to you in their appreciation of you they're tuned into to Source they're flooding it all over you so there's a tendency to try to teach our children or anyone anyone that we're trying to get to conform or to play along or to cooperate there's a tendency to expect them all to disregard their own intuitive calling and replace their own intuitive calling with our rules and our intentions as a teacher or as a mother or as a mentor if you can just always remember that the thing that you want more
than all other things put together as you're interacting with another is that you help them to always remember that their natural Good Feeling instincts are what they want to follow and that if push comes to shove and they have the choice of following the feeling that feels good to them or the rule that someone else has set out that as far as you're concerned you want them to always follow the feeling if you are tuned in Tapped in turned on and you are shining your appreciation on them then you are a catalyst that is actually
it's like you've joined the ranks of their Source energy and you are calling them in the direction of who they really are as well so now if you are a teacher and you are looking at them and your assumption or your determination is that they are off the beam in some way and so now you are guiding them from your place of seeing that they are out of whack now they are being asked to choose between you and their Source who would never do that can you feel the distinction in this this is such a
powerful thing to understand and that's where people begin to lose sense of their own guidance where someone with a louder Voice or someone with more Authority or someone who has the ability to give or withhold rewards when you stand as that kind of an arbitrator in someone's life and you're not tuned in Tapped in turned on as you are guiding them now they're confused about what's the right direction to take and we think that's why you find them for the most part joyous when they are in the classroom with you because you managed for the
most part to be connected to your source as you approaching them so why is your clutter a problem I panic when the front doorbell rings go um because because you know because someone may disapprove of you exactly I think because I work every day in a system where there's judgment on children and adults and adults were all evaluated um I think that I am very overly concerned with what others would think all right so and that's really I'm working on it well it's big but it's big you see but here's the thing because many as
they're listening in would say she needs to figure out how to clean up her mess and and which is the which is the opposite of what we would say to you what we want to say to you is you need to stop worrying about your mess you need to not care about what somebody else thinks about your mess in other words that really is the bigger issue here so now you put your boat in right where you are try to find a statement that gives you a little feeling of relief without cleaning up the mess
in other words we don't want you to clean up the mess which changes the conditions we want you to adjust the way you feel in the conditions so what do you say to yourself that closes that Gap I say this is a lovely home there's a lot of of uh creative things happening um I can see a lot of projects going on all at once um we eat really really good food because there's a a lot of dishes well all used all of the all of this all of this sounds good and it is potentially
Downstream it's a tiny little bit off the subject in other words we're not trying to get you to validate or Justify the M we're just wanting you to acknowledge that sometimes in a little bit of chaos the very best creations come out and when I'm relaxed and easy about it things flow and I want our home to be one that's comfortable where everybody feels comfortable in moving around and and I do like order but there isn't anything inherently wrong with disorder this doesn't mean that I'm a bad person it just means I'm a busy person
it doesn't mean that that I'm not a good mother it just means that I'm a full mother I'm involved in a lot of things I so enjoy having conversation more than I enjoy bringing order to something I believe that there is order to my disorder in the sense that a part of me knows where everything is in other words you're not trying to fix anything you're just trying to adjust the way you feel within it does that give you any sense of relief oh yes yes now and this is the crucial part to this we're
not guiding you to cleaning up your vibration so that then you'll be inspired to the action that will bring order to your house we're not trying to get you to come into the back door and Align Energy so that then you'll get your act together and keep your house so that the neighbors will approve of it that's not the point of this at all we really are wanting you to find alignment with Source regardless of whether your house is clean or not right and when you show yourself that you can love yourself whether your house
is messy or not that you can be proud of your S as a mother and as a teacher and as a homemaker in other words we promise you the source within you is not proud of itself because it keeps an orderly house the source within you feels the way it feels because it chooses only the thoughts that feel good can you feel the difference we don't want you to clean up your house we want you to find a way to be happy in a house that's messy that really is what unconditional love is and when
you are happy in a house that's messy here's the miraculous thing it's not miraculous but here's the seemingly miraculous thing that happens if all the time that you've been messy you've been putting order in your vibrational escrow when you stop pushing against not having the order you will be inspired to the things that will make the order come about with ease so the question is is an orderly environment really in your vibrational escrow and we say well whether an orderly environment is in there or not feeling good is something that's in there we are so
looking forward to the day that the doorbell rings and that you look around the chaos of your home and you throw open the door and you say to whoever it is and we hope it is the most vidious picky person on the street and you say welcome to my home and the person walks in and they look around and you can almost hear what they're thinking and you don't care because you have for days now been practicing coming into alignment with you and in alignment with you in alignment with you so here's this uptight very
orderly person feeling all uncomfortable about the disorder of your life and there you are a really rare specimen of a human adult you're joyful in your disorder because you don't give a rip what anybody else thinks you only care about your own energy alignment and your own energy alignment is in place and you know what that means that means the doorbell rings you don't feel the fear you know why because the fear isn't there you know why because fear can't be present within you when you're in alignment so you open the door and you welcome
them in and it doesn't matter what they think because what you think dominates and before you know it you start a whole new trend it's this trend of easier life it's this trend of doing what I feel like doing it's this trend of being tuned in Tapped in turned on it's this trend of being happy because I choose to be happy not because I've pleased you and you and you and you and you because when I try to please you and you and you and you and you you disappoint me because one day you want
this from me and another day you want that from me you can't make up your mind what you want from me because in the reality there's no way that anything that I can do can ever make you happy so you can be an unhappy person standing in Judgment of my messy house or not doesn't make any difference to me the only thing that matters to me is my alignment with my source and that's what those little kids know they're not naturally neat they're not they're not naturally neat they're naturally Progressive they're naturally moving on to
the next thing they're naturally doing the most fun thing that they can find in the moment they're naturally knowing that the mess will keep they're naturally not worried about all of those things you see clean up your vibration don't clean up your house clean up your vibration don't clean up your house clean up your vibration don't clean up your house and before you know it the house will be a non-issue and then if neatness is in your vibrational escrow order will come about first the vibrational alignment then the inspiration yes yes thank you so much
thank you [Applause]