My Wife Want's Me To Cheat On Her w/ Her Friend... Idk if I should

welcome to the betrayed and broken today we've got some pretty Twisted relationships to talk about let's get right into it first up we've got this one my 29 male wife 29 female is trying to push me into sleeping with her friend 27 female I'm not sure why and I'm not sure if I should do it my wife are 3 years 10 years together and have what I think is a solid marriage and sex life a long time ago she asked me if there was any of our mutual friends I was attracted to I told her

that I only had eyes for her she said she was serious and she said she wanted to know names I refused to answer she kept trying to get me to tell her and eventually I broke and said a name she then asked if I would sleep with her I told her of course not she then asked if I would if we weren't married I still said no my wife said I was lying and she kept pushing me to answer other otherwise I again just gave up and said sure if I wasn't in love with her

I'd sleep with her friend that was the end of the conversation over the last few months the friend has come up in conversation my wife specifically has been comparing herself to her like she'll make a comment on how said friend has a better butt than her or is more well-endowed than her I'll always tell her that she's better looking but she won't believe me I get the feeling she's very upset that I said that and is now jealous of her friend because she caught my attention 3 weeks ago my wife offered to get me and

her friend together I was taken AB back and asked her what the she was talking about she then said she knew I wanted to sleep with her and that I thought she was better looking than her and she would understand and wouldn't care if we slept together once I told her that she was speaking crazily and that I wasn't into her friend she then said that it's not going to hurt her feelings if I am and that she really thinks that I should accept her offer I told her no and she legitimately asked me if

I would her friend I again said no I asked why she wants this she said it wasn't some weird fetish that she just wanted me to be satisfied I told her that I couldn't sleep with another woman she had been asking me to do this for a while now and she even told me that the friend is open if I am which bothers me that she told her friend about this she really wants me to do this for some odd reason and isn't letting it go I'm tempted to just do it so I don't have

to hear it again but I really don't want to sleep with anyone other than my wife but apparently she's all for me banging a friend that she is jealous of this is such a strange situation and I'm really at a loss can anyone tell me why she's like this or what I should do date I wanted to make sure my feelings came across as clear as possible so I spent some time writing what I planed to say what I said was wife's name I love you more than anything in this world I don't want anyone

except for you I happily swore to you that I would be yours and yours alone for the rest of our lives that's what I want I don't want to be with your friend she is nothing compared to what you mean to me I need you to tell me why you are doing this even if it hurts me I need to know why no matter what it is we can work through it and it won't make me stop loving you I just need you to be honest with me I confronted her the night I posted after

we both got off work she started weeping she said she was so sorry for being like this and that she couldn't help it I cried with her and comforted her after the tears stopped She told me why she was doing this unlike many of you said she was not cheating on me in fact she assumed the opposite would happen eventually she said I was doing this because I'd rather youf asterisk asterisk asterisk around with her because she won't try to steal you from me I was blown away that she said something like that I asked

her why she felt that anyone could ever take me from her she said that since we've been together for 10 years and have only ever had sex with each other she thought that eventually I'd get bored of her and one to to find someone new to sleep with I told her that I'd never get bored of her and she would be the only one forever she said that she knew as how men are and she was worried that now that we're getting older I'm going to cheat on her with someone younger she then told me

how she feels so unattractive she mentioned that she had been gaining weight which I didn't give a f asterisk asterisk asterisk about and how she's not sure she'll be able to pull off the trick she does in bed for the the rest of our lives I told her that she is amazing in bed and blows my mind every single time I then told her that even if we didn't have sex I wouldn't run off to be with some younger woman she again cried into my shoulder and said she can't believe that I'd still want her

after a decade I assured her again that she is the only person I want for the rest of my life as of right now I'm encouraging her to get therapy for herself and we're going to try little coup's counseling I don't think this is much of a roadblock in our relationship but it couldn't hurt to look into professional help ah well this sounds like a happy ending and I certainly hope it stays this way that would still be cautious op it's still possible that she wanted you to sleep with her friends so she could go

off and sleep with whoever guilt-free I only say this because I've Seen It All Before check out so many other videos we've done but of course I generally hope this isn't the case and the two of you live unhappily best of luck in your future op all right gang you know that one was bizarre check out this next one my ex 28-year-old male tried to sabotage my 24-year-old female new relationship I feel weird about it so long story short me and my ex were together for almost 4 years I loved him very much but our

relationship was very toxic I knew it for a long time towards the end we got a bit better we went on a vacation then planned on moving in together but the toxic behaviors still continued he would hang up on me when he felt get mad at me ignore me and lastly he blocked me on the phone cussed me out and said to lose his number in anyone's head that means he broke up with me at that point I was done how could I get an apartment with someone who acts like that even if I loved

them I want to make sure a home life is more peaceful then dramatic so I did as he asked I lost his number well I just kept him blocked months later me and a very good friend of mine actually got together and our relationship is so different we've been friends for a long time and I feel mostly happy with him well 2 days after we got together my ex suddenly appears from his mother's Facebook account telling me goodbye and long paragraphs about how he loves me I leave my house and and apparently my ex came

to my house to drop off everything I ever bought him so dramatic obviously I would have wanted him to throw them out and himself or keep them it was pretty cool stuff after that I messaged him back telling him my peace and goodbye then a couple days later his friend calls me and says he's doing really bad not eating and all that I'm very empathetic so I felt bad and called him to check up we talked and I ended up seeing him and speaking in person he told me he wanted me back he loved me

and he would finally marry me I was shocked I waited for almost 4 years to be engaged he knew how much that meant to me and now that I have a new boyfriend he wants to marry me it was so confusing I kept telling him that he has a lot to work on for himself and so do I so maybe if God wants it it will I said maybe a year or two in my head I'm like okay if you really want marriage I'll do it but in time we have to make sure the toxic

aspect is gone he gets mad that I have a boyfriend and he says I did infidelity and I said how you broke up with me he sends me heart messages gets mad when I don't respond sends fake pages to go on my Instagram I told him I want to maybe just be friends and work back to what we had one day he sends me a screenshot of me and my boyfriend from a friend's party he he starts cussing me out blowing up my phone and threatening me he then apparently finds my boyfriend's cousin's phone number

to text him about me to tell to my boyfriend after saying how much he wanted me back he then texts me how grateful to God he is that he's not with me and he's glad that I had an abortion and accused me of cheating on him my ex then lies to him and says I went to his car and did a bunch of stuff with him and that I was going to break up with him and overall just lied he even fabricated texts that I had to show my boyfriend I was so hurt because this

man the other day said he wanted to marry me and he was going to work on himself and be around to see in the future where it goes to this mind you he is the oldest one in the situation my heart felt so uneasy and weird it's like if I wasn't with him then I'm not allowed to be happy the up part is sometimes I still think about him but I guess I just romanticized what our relationship could have been and well it didn't exactly ruin my relationship like I said my boyfriend now is very

different from my ex so he was understanding about everything more than I would have been in his shoes P we feel for you he's still toxic and controlling he realizes now that he can no longer get you to react by being nasty the same way he once did while you were in a relationship so he's now using what he knows about you to make you jump at his whim while you aren't together be careful nothing has changed he's still playing the same game he's just wearing a different shirt and you know that and our last

story is yet another one with some weird relationship stuff going on check it out my male 26 girlfriend female 25 is convinced that my sister female 24 is weirdly obsessed with me after she visited last weekend weirdly background my sister and I have always been close hung out frequently and shared similar ideas and interests we attribute this to our similar upbringing in the same environment with shared events and memories I have always taken it as her looking up to me as her older brother we share similar tastes and art music philosophy politics just fundamental things

I guess I have appreciated this closer relationship ship with my sister and continue to today that is until my girlfriend told me what she did context I left my hometown and moved a couple of States over about a 4-Hour Drive give or take I live up here alone my sister still lives near a parents and where we grew up so her coming up is usually a big occasion she likes to see the city and drink coffee and take pictures and just hang out and chat she's always been this way and we've always done done those

things my girlfriend who I have been with for 9 months has met Haley three times each time has ended in a catastrophic fight seriously we've broken up twice because of them where I have somehow heard her feelings by hanging out with my sister when she is visiting my girlfriend said she feels like we are purposely avoiding her when we really have just already made plans to hang out with her she wants to be with us for the whole weekend what my girlfriend said said that ultimately my sister is weirdly obsessed with me she said it

is weird that we spent the weekend hanging out and drinking coffee sightseeing going to parking decks or parks to take pictures both wearing flannels and a beanie in other words dressing alike whatever it was all something a couple would do but not siblings I asked her if it would be any different if instead of my sister it was a brother or parent she basically came to the conclusion that my sister is so obsessed with me that she has caused my previous two relationships to end and that she is trying to end my current one because

she doesn't want to compete for my attention with another girl thoughts there a lot to take in it should be said that my girlfriend suffers from bad anxiety and OCD which I think definitely heightens tension because of how she reacts and speaks to me I was truly just trying to enjoy a weekend with my my sister visiting I made plans to hang out with my girlfriend and sister and we even surprised her at her job one night but my girlfriend has convinced herself that the reality is that my sister hates her and wants nothing to

do with her so we purposefully excluded her all weekend this put her in a horrible mood all weekend picking fights over texts and acting pissy and weird in front of my sister a wow nothing you and your sister did together sounds that all weird or overly involved in each other's lives it sounds to me like your girlfriend is insecure about you spending time with any girl other than her even if she is your sister hopefully she doesn't act like this when you hang out with friends gez I hope you too can talk this through and

she can get over the insecurity or this will continue to be an ongoing issue if anything I would say it's a blessing that you and your sister have such a tight Bond knowing so many families and relationships that they don't have the same kind of chemistry but it's also healthy that you're willing to take a step back and do some reflection just to make sure and maybe get another perspective