hey guys my name is Bella welcome back to my channel and in this video we are going to be talking about the Chastity lifestyle and what I mean by that is that we are going to be discussing everything that you have to remember if you want to include Chastity in your day-to-day life again let's repeat what Chastity is it's basically um abstaining from like doing you know anything or it can also relate to wearing a chastity device right so without further Ado let's get started what do you have to know if you want to be
a child City slave and you don't even have to be Cassidy's like they can just be a you know regular person who wants to who is curious about this lifestyle and wants to know how this all goes so number one point that you have to remember is accountability all right who is who is going to be accountable for you um stay in Chastity because if you are a person that just cannot go without it you know it's going to be hard right so either you have to be very accountable for yourself you have to um
have a strong willpower or you have to find somebody else who is going to um hold you accountable it can be on my stress it can be your master your girlfriend your boss I don't know you have to find somebody who is accountable for you if you do not have that trust in yourself that you are able to go with it first I really recommend starting um where you are the only one accountable for yourself because you know you don't want to go to extremes too fast but at the same time um it's like you
know you can just lose that control anytime you know it's just like an addiction right when when somebody is hiding cigarettes from you and making sure that you don't get to find them then you're more likely to stop smoking than like when you yourself have to hide that hide them from yourself right but anyways so I recommend definitely starting with self-chastity and um one thing that you another thing that you guys also have to remember is that if you have a problem with morning wood it's going to be quite hard in the start some guys
um some Chastity guys that I've been talking to some of you guys actually um can go with Chastity on the whole day even morning the whole night you know it's not a problem but a lot of you guys have a problem with morning wood so don't feel too hard on yourself from the start like if this is your problem definitely take it off and wait until it goes away like don't do anything of obviously like you're interested right you're still in Chastity even if you're taking it off all right like we are just paying attention
to the body human types of ways of functioning right so um definitely and do take it off in the morning set a timer for example five minutes until you're gonna wait for it to go down and then put it right back on and of course if you are not responsible if you cannot hold yourself accountable make sure there's somebody watching over you that you are not going to misuse this free five minutes of free time okay so but um I think this can be trained yeah so even if you have a problem with a morning
wood you can definitely train yourself to stop having this problem simply by just wearing chastity full time and trying to ignore this in the morning I guess and a gradual is going to become easier and easier I recommend starting with the bigger chastities so um bigger Chastity cages so that it's not that extremely painful for you at the start but I definitely do not okay this is an important step all right this is an important point I do not approve of Chastity slaves that just wear a very big Chastity like like you can you can
literally like you know do everything because it can grow you know it can grow inside if you have a big Chastity like of course it's going to be hard to do anything but like you know you still have the space to grow so make sure that your Chastity is nice and tight at all times you know and um yeah of course at the beginning when you're starting out yes get a bigger one just to get the feeling of it but do not stay there okay like get one that is smaller definitely do not no like
that's that just doesn't make sense to me but yeah okay next point that I have for you guys is that once you are practicing Chastity you are full-time in Chastity or part-time or we're just you know finding that you're going to notice a certain pattern which is that you will have to consciously avoid all thoughts that can make you grow down there okay you have to avoid thoughts you have to avoid sights you have to avoid um morning wood I know that's not possible but you know um you have to avoid all kind of stimulation
that can make it grow you know and that's good for you that's actually perfect for you because that's why you're doing this to kind of um detox yourself from all this stimulus that's going on out there in the world whether it's you checking out other women or other men or or you are visiting certain websites or just having very inappropriate thoughts Chastity is going to be perfect to solve this problem for you because it's gonna get tight I'm telling you like one thought that you are not aware of it's gonna be painful it's it's you
know these kind of like colors for dogs like they start kind of uh vibrating or like tightening up when the dog starts barking yeah this is this is exactly what it is and it teaches the dog to stop barking at inappropriate times at night or you know in general and it's going to teach you to stop barking too so yeah this is um kind of the mechanism how it works um of course trust your own intuition start slow don't rush into anything uh unless you have a serious problem then yeah rush into it unless you
have like a serious addiction um and you cannot control yourself definitely rush into it also if you are a and um and you have that thing down there that just shouldn't be there obviously because like or then definitely rush into it also and um yeah actually for CeCe there is so many pink Chastity cages out there that have a very interesting shape so um I really recommend getting those verses but um yeah and one more thing that I have to mention is that don't be scared of the pain you know like it's going to be
painful like every single child City slays Jesse's life experience this pain okay like it's just going to happen and you just have to get used to it and that's the point like if it wouldn't get painful like like what's the point right so um you have to be okay that it is going to hurt at times but it's gonna get better because you are you're gonna start cautiously avoiding all this stimulus out there and you're gonna be safe so yes guys I hope you enjoyed this Chastity lifestyle video I hope it helped you and understand
how to be a good Chastity slay or a chastity Enthusiast and I will see in the next one bye