become your own man you don't need their world and you don't need them you don't need them and nobody can destroy you if you won't let them don't let them you're a man you are a man stand up and be a man make the hard decisions make the sacrifices make the unpopular decisions and become comfortable in your own skin and if you are not a person that you are comfortable being alone with that is the one person in this universe that you have full power full right and full responsibility to change I don't have the
right to change anybody except myself now there's people out there I don't like and if I don't like them I just walk away but if I don't like me if I don't like me if I'm not comfortable being with me well that's a different [Music] story when you make mistakes they add up they add up one mistake compounds and leads to another which leads to another and they can lead you to a downward spiral of Destruction here's the thing you know what else adds up the positive things the good moves the small sacrifices that you
make to do things right the adjustments needed to correct problems the daily discipline required to get you where you want to get to those little positive things add up too and it's obvious and we know it but here's the question why don't we do them why don't we do them well it's because in most cases it's because they add up slowly they add up so slowly that you don't really notice the results right one day in the gym is basically imperceivable 2 Days in the gym you don't recognize any change whatsoever a 100 days in
the gym and you're almost a new person so we let these things slip because it takes so long to see the progress we let them slip and when we don't do them it becomes 0 * 100 or 0 * 1,000 and that Nets out to a zero when you do anything it adds up when you do nothing it amounts to zero so take the small steps every day do what you're supposed to do and don't expect some incredible results in 1 day or 2 days or 10 days worthwhile thing take 100 days they take 500
days maybe they take 5,000 days they take time but it's little steps that add up so put in the daily effort let that be your reward reward yourself feel gratification from knowing that you mve the needle even just a little bit Rome wasn't built in the day the Grand Canyon took millions of years to form and whatever it is you want to do isn't going to happen in one day you have work to do and I know it's just a little bit I know it's just a little tiny movement forward but that work is what
it takes so go do it and so you can flip the fact that you have nothing going for you with you have nothing to lose and that means that you can take lots of risks very quickly and end up in the exact same position you are which is nothing and so if you eliminate downside it should decrease your action threshold meaning you should be able to do more things faster rather than do fewer things because you don't have a great life or things going for you and so I think if people flip that a lot
more people would take action because they actually realize the advantage of their position you be that warrior in that garden and you stand strong you be a strong man you be a good man and you just let the world rage around success comes down to doing the obvious thing for an extraordinary period of time without convincing yourself you're smarter than you are all successful people people think there's magic to it there's not magic to it dude if you win the day if you win one single day if you can win one single day you have
exactly the amount of magic needed to achieve anything that you want going to keep this short going to keep it sweet you want to be somebody who succeeds you want to be somebody who builds something you want to be somebody who people write books about one day you are going to have to be okay okay with being bad at [ __ ] for a long time and that's the mentality you guys have to have you have to be okay with looking like an idiot for a long time you have to be okay not being good
at [ __ ] all right every valuable lesson that you're going to come across in your life is going to come from you failing all right because I hate losing I hate to lose but the thing is is that once you understand that every time you lose it's an opportunity for you to not only learn that lesson but take it a plus one step okay listen to what I just said a plus one step past the lesson you'll start to appreciate those lessons you'll start to be okay with not being good at [ __ ]
you're going to have to understand that losing is a part of ultimately winning you're going to lose a lot more than you win and when you win you're going to you're going to figure out how to get better on top of it if you're a true winner you know they don't celebrate their wins true winners take the win and they say how could I have even gotten better how could I have ran the score up how could I have won by twice as many points so you never really feel like you win and you have
to be okay with that I don't know what that dream is that you have I don't care how farfetched it might appear to be I don't care how disappointing it might have been as you've been working toward that dream but here's what I know that that dream that you're holding in your mind that it's possible let's say that together please it's possible see sometimes we can't say I can do that but what we can say that it's possible that I can have my dream as we run toward it as we work on it day in
and day out that in the process of working on your dreams you are going to incur incur a lot of disappointment a lot lot of failure a lot of pain a lot of setbacks a lot of defeats but in the process of doing that you will discover some things about yourself that you don't know right now what you will realize is that you have greatness within you what you'll realize is that you're more powerful than you can ever begin to imagine what you will realize is that you are greater than your circumstances that you don't
have to go through life being a victim someone's opinion of you does not have to become your reality and most people don't work on their dreams why for many years I didn't one is because of fear the fear of failure what if things don't work out and the fear of success what if they do and I can't handle it the other thing is that most people ladies and gentlemen they get comfortable they stop growing they stop working on themselves they stop stretching they stop pushing themselves and they end up becoming very simp cycal about life
and they throw in the towel on themselves and on their families and on their dreams and the other thing is that most people don't feel worthy what I'm doing now I could have been doing years ago but because I did not have a college education because I didn't believe in myself because I allowed other people's opinion of me to control my destiny I didn't act on my ideas so I applaud you for your dream for you're running towards your dream I applaud you for believing in yourself because that's what life is about stretching and challenging
looking for ways that you can begin to improve yourself and I don't know what that dream is for you I can tell you that it's possible I've learned to look at every single loss as an opportunity of how to win more you are going to be bad as [ __ ] you know you're you're going to suck nobody comes out and is a CEO on boss level status it just doesn't happen those come from learning lessons putting in the time and not being afraid to be laughed at all right guys so check ego at the
door if you ever want to be successful people are going to laugh at you people are going to Point At You people are going to make fun of you but if you understand that losing and getting laughed at and all these things and you understand how to use those things to improve and get better you're going to have the last and laugh whenever I get to a low point where I think why do I even bother I just remind myself this is where most people stop and this is why they don't win and this relates
to another one which is a reminder for the Gladiators in the arena who feel beat up and scarred with no hope in sight building a business is hard hard feels shitty this is what hard feels like and this is why most people can't do it but you can this is what hard feels like this is where most people stop and this is why they don't win so success is a strange thing presumably we want success because we think a more successful life will bring us more happiness meaning and fulfillment here's the problem we sacrifice the
thing we want happiness for the thing which is supposed to get it success failure can make you miserable but I'm not sure that success will make you happy but people come at life with the wrong attitude okay and and they don't like hearing the truth and the truth of the matter is this the world owes you nothing the world doesn't think you're special like your mom does it doesn't think you're a delicate Little Flower it doesn't care about you you have to focus on being of service you have to focus on solving problems the world
doesn't give a either way the world doesn't care if you know who you are what you do the world doesn't hate you either it just doesn't care about you do you understand that it's like you're like a piece of [ __ ] lint it's it's indifferent it doesn't matter so quit going through life thinking the world owes you something because nobodying owes you anything and quit going through life you other people thinking that the world hates you the world doesn't hate you the likelihood is you hate you fix your mindset understand that success is an
equation of math it is 1 + 1 = 2 it is a + Bal C there's no magic dust in there it's just it is what it is it's cause and effect it's action result and once you accept that and once you eliminate all the Hocus Pocus then you're going to be on the right track there is no limit to how far you can go except that all of your heroes are full of [ __ ] Your Heroes aren't Gods they're just regular people who probably got good at One Thing by neglecting literally everything else
