I get nervous for some podcasts this one I was like my stomach was rotting in the inside we lost the idea of a man leaving the house and that's going to [ __ ] us up completely I got the paranoia from my mom's side oh my god did my mom make me paranoid the next day I'm going $100 hour a week it's game over I already love this interview so much I go 17 months with no that was my biggest addiction that was my God and you were One of them in the beginning you're like
nah I don't [ __ ] with Andrew Tate how was that being in Germany in a refugee camp what is that like how dare you put it on me that's on you your policies your tax Cod your principles that you took God out of school your concept of trying to teach immoral Concepts to kids that's you doing it how dare you make us feel guilty about it so we walk on EX shows you should be walking on X shows no I'm not buying it if I ever look at My phone it's because of my notes
I'm not texting anybody don't sweat it okay when's your birthday January 3rd interesting can I ask you why did you just ask that when I asked you about the because you are concerned about how I feel when you check the phone for me to not be uh paranoid you're not paying attention to me to disrespect me why would you be concerned about it's interesting to me I'll tell you right now it's easy I could I have points of Views in my life and you have points of views in your life yeah for us to sit
down break bread discuss great ideas you have to be at your most comfortable state but listen but that that is it's common sense but some people have that U so that means you're going to be a great father for your daughters dude that's the best compliment you're going to be a great father love this interview you so much thank you so much girls are going to love you I actually uh I it's hard to Say this without feeling weird but I I treated her like how I pray one day the guy that walks into my
daughter's life treats her um and it's just the form of it's I don't believe in karma and the Dharma and all that stuff like whatever comes around goes around I don't believe in that at all I just believe truly in my heart uh Christ died for my sins and for me to be grateful I'm going to wait up every day when the Sun rises today's a a day for me to be better than the day I was yesterday respect mhm um and I mean it's you know if that's what you would want for your daughter
then how can you want something for your kids and not be that as well you know so got to set the example um we had high energy right when he walked in and I I'm going to be honest they know this I get nervous for some podcasts this one I was like my stomach was rotting in the inside it's because one a ayrian so it's like I there's so many expectations Right off the bat so like right when you're like I like you I was like oh thank God I was like the whole time he
my manager back there he's like what what are you trying to get out of this I'm like I just want to make sure that we get along I want to make sure he likes me dude like I like a lot of people could force their opinions about me before meeting me and uh no you're a cool cat I appreciate that you're a cool cat you said you wanted to get into Something and then so we started rolling I want to make sure I didn't lose your no no no it's it's it's it's stored it's going
to be here okay cool if if we're going to start out I would love to start out with a thing that me and you both have uh that I pray to God that America starts developing and so there's a few uh topics in my mind I want to cover and one first and foremost is being an Assyrian man right cuz I don't get to have this type of conversation I get so Jealous when she's like walking around and she hears French people and I'm like yo what are they saying and she's like oh they're saying
this and that but she's so casual to being able to hear her own people and I go you don't understand how awesome that is like for you to just walk by and casually just hear what this person's saying it it's it's something that I I wish I had more I and there's some places that have like Toronto has a lot of people uh uh Chicago has a lot of people Detroit has a lot of Assyrians um but man when I when I immediately messaged you CU I was so proud of watching another Assyrian man like
like just keep going up higher and higher in this world and I have so many questions but the one question I wanted to ask you right off the bat how important is community very good question so my uh my dad is a Syrian so oh I'm so sorry let me just yeah so my my dad is ass Syrian Bed David right the House of David but my mother's side they're Armenian y so it's it's there's pros and cons to it because there's two communities you have to be respectful for and God forbid you go too
much one side or the other the other side wait a minute what happened here what happened here but uh um as an Assyrian when you feel a certain fire in your belly the history what we've done the people that came before us the mistakes Our Generation made the things They did right you you have a responsibility to represent that community in your own way but also at the same time uh the one person that played a very big role in me dealing with my own community of Assyrians and Armenians so I'll give you on the
Assyrian side on the Assyrian side there's a lot of political parties right they got the church people you got the club people you got the you know oldtimers you got the new school you got The if you know what I'm talking about there's all these different political parties in the Syrian and it's like you're either too young or you're not part of this church or you're not part of this or you're not part of this so I don't like restrictions and having to walk on exells because I don't live a good life like that I
read a book by Kirk Kor and I think it's called hustler or something like that phenomenal book by the way how this guy went from being A regular guy one day he's flying a plane I think he's flying Bugsy or Ben seagull to Vegas and back and forth he's listening to the conversation then somehow he gets involved with the mob and then he gets into the airline business then he sells the airline business then he gets into the casino business then all of a sudden he dies I think at the peak his net P was
like $10 billion dies at 98 99 years old still doing deals and in one point of his life As an Armenian he gave a lot of money to Armenia but no matter how much money he gave it was never enough and it was always like but you didn't do this but you didn't do that but you didn't do this and you didn't do that so to me I I I was in the middle as the kid who wanted to love my mom and love my dad okay and that trained me very well to know when
on my mob side when they would play politics and they would say wow you know assia he's an Assyrian he's Not Armenian he's an Assyrian he's a bed David and then I would go to this and they say so he's an Armenian he's not so those games I was very young when this happened and I one day I I sat my uh uh dad's side down and I was 9 or 10 years old I said listen guys my parents are getting a divorce you're not important to me the only reason you're important is because I
love my dad and I told my mom said 11 12 13 years old Uncle I said You guys only matter to me because my mom matters to me if you play politics try to get me to not my like my dad you're not going to see me I love my mom I love my sister and I love my dad that's it you guys are secondary I'd love to have a relationship with you but if you try to divide you ain't going to see a lot of me cuz I don't like that game so that divorce
kind of messed me up a little bit so my responsibility now is on in my own way to make sure the World knows I'm ass Syrian and Armenian and contribute but not in the way of guilt and you didn't do this and you didn't that's just not that's not going to work with my personality my parents raised me and I prayed God my biggest prayer to God is it let made me a half the man that my father and my mother was and my kids would be okay the one thing that my mom and dad
taught me mostly my mother uh you better love God more than you love Me and so she would Tu me into bed and she would always say I love you the most and I go the most the number one and she goes no she goes Jesus first and then you but I was young bro and so I fell in love with Christ at a very young age and when I grew up in my church they used fear to direct people's Faith the way they want it to when I go to church I don't see anybody
my age and that's sad because the old people don't want to relate to us and we don't want to relay To them that your guys is not do you're not doing it correctly and that breaks my heart I have pros and cons and I just want to say Pro because I don't want to make it look like uh I I don't like my community the one thing I love about them is they might talk about their people but you cannot go against their people they stick together and I noticed this when I walk into somebody's
house that had a relative pass away when I walked in and I see five or six families Bring food not only for the people that are morning but hey you don't need a cook for the next two weeks we're going to be here you're not going to clean we're going to clean I'm watching these people come in like Services I'm watching this guy who has a business give his portion of his money to make sure that this woman with no fathers here I haven't se I'm getting Goosebumps right now because I go to La and
I can't even get my good friends or my brothers To even bat and I at my problems but an Assyrian man if you know you're in trouble will bring everything that he can to the community and so the reason I brought this all up and I'm sorry it was a long way to get a drink of water and I do apologize how do we tap back in to a community well I mean it's kind of tough to to especially for you and I somebody would say well if isra Community you should have married an Assyrian
yeah sorry babe okay so she's white she's French my wife is white she's Texan right she's you know according to ancestry she's uh uh British but okay so we already broke a part of the you know uh the community side both you and I as the example of where we're going right okay because when we're kids mothers are like hey just make sure she's Armenian just make sure she's a Syrian just make sure just make sure they're this right kind of like you're going through that part now uh uh so the part that we can
Do again it's not easy to do like right now my my son he's like Dad I want to learn Armenian okay no problem so we got an Armenian that comes and teaches all our kids right now how to speak Armenian right it's easier to find Armenian tutors than Assyrian tutors but right now they want to start with Armenian no problem they already speak fluent Spanish fluent English they're going to pick up Armenian they're already making progress there and then it's going to Come a Ser because my oldest son is a very interesting intellectual old soul
guy 11 years old but he's a very he reads 400 books a year 300 books a year and he's just he finished Atlas Shrug in a week okay it's a, 1100 page book he finished it in a week no for no reason he just read in a week so I kept it and my son the other one the 9-year-old right now is going through Fountain Head he's about to finish it up I think it's on like page 500 or something like that Do you tell them to read books or is it something that they willingly
are like my dad does this so I want to do this of course it's influenced by the man at the top because to me in our house our currency is Pages if the currency for you and I to go to a restaurant to buy food is money the currency in our house is Pages the more you read the more you can ask the less you read the less you can ask it's that simple you want anything in our house sold it's based on Reading getting smarter doing certain commitments responsibilities that you have and then from
there what do you want let's talk about it you know when I when these guys were kids I would buy would go to a Lego store and which one do you want I want this which one do you want oh wow Pat buys all these gifts for their kids absolutely well you're spoiling your kids well you don't know what I do when I get home come with me to the house and see what happens we go To the house okay uh this one is 20 bucks and I would put it all the way at the
top that you couldn't see like 15 ft up we had a high ceiling so I would put it up and every day they would come they would see it how many books is that 20 where you at two 18 more left how many books that's eight books okay eight more left how many so each thing was based on the number of books to read to get so they learning currency that you got to earn but let me go back to the tradition Part with the Assyrian side um listen I mean this started when blacks married
Whites Whites married blacks oh my God I can't believe you're doing this and then boom culture kind of goes away now the kid is born like half black half white goes to school are you white or are you black what are you my kids go to school what are you I'm half ayrian really I'm 25% Assyrian I'm 25% Armenian I'm 50% white but my dad did ancestry and he's 18% Italian so I'm also n like they're confused when they're going through this whole thing with them right so that part's going to kind of go it's
going to be on us to represent and a part I'll put on the older generation for them to be thinking about and considering right now I don't know how often two Assyrians do podcast together to say Hey you know we can contribute in our own way like we can bring a lot of light to the discussion of our community who we are You know we don't have a country we can do something about that you know we can really go out there and contribute some of the places in you can you have that money we
can't really build a country but but I think what we can is collectively we can put a meeting together to get people in and say guys do we want to unify and do something together or what do we want to do every time you come together they're like well you know how much money have you given Everything is that guy's got money give me some money this guy's got give me some this yo that guy didn't give money he's not this so if we really want to do something we got to figure out a way
unify so the simp simp system is very simple you unify and we get on a message we simplify on what we want to do for example we unify we come to get a meeting 10 20 450 influencers in a hotel we're sitting up for a weekend we're talking we're strategizing great let's Simplify what are we doing next seven moves is first we got to do this then we got to do this then we got to do this who's part of this these four guys have contexts for this these three people have context with this then
we go multiply so now let's go sell it to everybody like the priest from Australia that did a great job I don't know what his name is you know who I'm talking about the Syrian priest that's gone viral many times who's an incredible Communicator I've been trying to reach him I don't know how to get to him you're talking about the one who always says my beloveds like yes he speaks in English too he does speak in English so if brilliant man I'm trying you know we're trying to get something on the podcast to come
together I actually think that would be very good for you to be on because for you we'll talk about I think that's I think you guys got to talk more than probably I got to talk Because you're you're you were raised in a very much of a faith-based type of a family I think that'll be a very entertaining conversation to watch but you know a part of it is our example and then at the same time you know this you know this is we got to kind of leave our own fingerprint our own Mark in
the world and we're going to have kids my kids are going to do it in a different way than I did it and all this stuff so one night I come home very interesting My wife's like hey Tio tell Daddy what happened today and my son's name is Patrick but you know my dad called me Tio so we call him Tio we're both Patricks and no I don't want to talk about it what do you mean I just don't want to talk about it and she's like like you good and you know you know body
language when you got kids like some's off with this kid he's not comfortable so he goes straight upstairs to his room that's not him he never goes upstairs to His room and I go up I said you good yeah Daddy I don't want to talk about it I said what happened tell me what's going on so Dylan goes to sleep and I said what's up today in school everybody was Googling my name and you kept coming up I said and he says I I don't want to talk about it I said are you uncomfortable because
you think you have to grow up to be me for me to be proud of you or to have your own identity yes I said I got it because we share the Same name yes perfect let me tell you something that you have the right to then I will never judge you do you want to change your name no I love my name you have my name you have your grandfather's middle name his first name is your middle name and you have the best last name in the world that daddy I love my name so
what can we do right now for you to have this pressure being lifted off what do you want to do says Dad I don't know if I want to get into Insurance or business totally fine what do you want to do I want to do movies great let's go do it he says you just got to know with our relationship together I expect you to lead and represent your God represent your heritage your family represent your last name and represent yourself individually if we can do that together I'm always going to have your back I
love you but don't ever think you have to be me to you know go out there and fulfill your Life I'm going to love you no matter what you ever do I think the Assyrian Community needs to kind of look at it with the Next Generation coming up and saying look stop looking at the confinement of the boxes we have to fit in for you to be pleased with it it's a different world we're living in this is not the world of 20 years ago definitely not of 40 50 60 years ago so let's adjust
let's pivot and learn how to use us in a proper way and then let us do Our part as well there's certain identities that we need to have trust me this message is directed to both sides of my community Armenian and Assyrian but specifically today with you it's Assyrian I love this this incredible I'm s sorry go oh sorry no I just think you know from an outside perspective and having coming into you know your family and seeing the way that you guys function I think something that's so incredible is exactly what you guys are
Saying the sense of community and those values that it brings and the way that everybody's there for each other and I think that yeah the best thing I think that both of you can do is what you already are doing is leading by example and sharing the knowledge and the value that's been installed in you guys from your families and people can see that example and be like wow like what makes him so great and then they kind of look back and see the way that you are with Your family see the way that you
are with your community and I just think that that example alone is is such gold for people you know because we have lost that sense of strong family well we lost the idea of a man leading the house and that's going to [ __ ] us up completely my dad didn't tell me what to do he showed me what to do he didn't just go go do it and then sat home with his hands in his pocket I watched my dad do something and I followed in his footsteps I started With music my dad came
from uh a different country when he came here he didn't have money he had to actually raise his own mother and father because they were too old and they couldn't even speak language so in the middle of the night he's going to school in the day he has two jobs to support his mother and his father the ages that I was so totally different world when I wanted a microphone I know everything about a microphone this Michael Jackson recorded Thriller off this microphone this they had to put a rug on underneath his foot because he
would always have to tap his foot when he was singing I know everything about what I had to do because my dad says if you get into it you better know the ins and outs if you're at his store and his AC breaks he'll [ __ ] fix that AC by himself if he's at the store and his computer breaks he'll fix it he doesn't wait for anybody he gets it done so when I go Dad I really want this Bluebird microphone my dad goes for what for I go I got this new song he
goes okay he goes come and perform it for me and I go what he goes come sit here perform it for me so I came and I'm looking at the lyrics the first day he goes get the [ __ ] out of my face and I go what he goes why are you looking at your lyrics I go cuz I'm a performer he goes get the [ __ ] out of here he goes You Don't Know Your Own lyrics he goes get out of here and I go Okay so he goes come tomorrow prepared I
was like all right so I come with no lyrics he goes where's my lyrics I go what what are you talking about he goes you come to perform where's my lyrics I need to see to make sure that you're singing your right music and I go I need you told me not he goes get out of my face you're not prepared for me now and I was like oh my God so that I come I give him the lyrics that I had to Rite out I'm performing in front of him he Goes I don't believe
it I don't believe you like the song he goes come back prepare how you how are you um like seventh grade going into like eighth this is like summer summer and uh but by the way my dad works seven days a week seven days a week today dude he's just retiring I told him like a dad take off he's building a cigar launcher that's when I walked in here I go this is so funny me me and him are building a cigar launcher I've never smoked a cigar in my Life but my father loves it
and I I'll love everything that he loves so we'll build it together uh so I'm I'm performing and then he'll get me the mic phone my friends would be like dude you're so spoiled look your Dad gives you this your Dad gives you that yeah yeah [ __ ] yeah my dad worked hard he's able to give it to me but he doesn't just give it to me without no responsibility I used to work at his liquor store bro I'll never forget this I'm at the liquor store Chago Arizona Arizona I'm in I'm in uh
Osborne in 24th Street so this area is ghetto compared to Scottdale so I grew up every day in the ghetto and every day in the rich every day so the day daytime ghetto night time hanging out with my friends Rich the mindset that I would watch these people talk and these people talk significant one day I wanted to take my girlfriend out that he only gives me $100 every week but I work every day so I go up to M I go Dad I can only go to Chili's and the movies with this like I
can't go anywhere else and I have no money to save I need more money he goes no and I go can we talk about this he goes no he goes go go somewhere else and I was like no but I want to be here with you he goes get in the car we get in the car he rolls down this windows and there's a bunch of people standing outside he goes $100 5 days a week D and they're rushing the car he goes you Don't even deserve to be working with me but you're blessed to
be here he goes why don't you appreciate this before you ask for other things and I was like [ __ ] so what I'm the only reason I brought it up is when I watch you my question was to you you've already mastered businesses and though I was going to ask you how was your relationship with your children but you've answered it already by the way you speak about your children the whole factor of like I'm not going To get mad if you want to change your name you given your children freedom for them not
to feel like they're overwhelmed but then you also give him a level of you need to work the [ __ ] day don't go to bed like completely fine if you don't go to bed tired my dad's 60 something years old almost 70 I've never heard this man say I'm tired never he will outwork the [ __ ] out of me and he'll be dressed and ready to go out to the nightclubs I swear to God we're like We're going to bed and he's like you guys are such losers come on we're going out he
make us get dressed to go out with them to Cigar Lounge and everybody there knows who he is this guy lives his life so sorry I just I wanted to siblings I'm just curious my older sister and I don't know how you have any siblings yeah I have an older sister six years apart six years apart whoa no [ __ ] is she your second mother she's she she was when I was a kid but then my parents Got a divorce so kind of messed it up a little bit so my parents got two divorces
they got married my sister's born they got divorced they got remarried to each other unborn they got divorced W so the kids are messing up the relationship we we were we were messing it up in a big way they had their thing going what people going to think you guys can't get a divorce everyone's watching you guys you guys got to make This work they got married the second time well how old were you when they got divorced again the second time I was 11 years old in Germany when uh my mother got served with
the divorce paperwork from the states we were at a refugee camp right cuz you left Iran when you were 10 wow 10 years old and I I mean we're kind of going off the topic now but I mean how was that being in Germany and refugee camp what is that like uh if I so if I don't do that and there's not A male figure in my life I'm not as strong of a personality today because I had to go through that where you kind of have to figure yourself out from 10 to 12 parents
get a divorce I'm at a refugee camp we got people from Czech Afghanistan Pakistan Yugoslavia you know you know Poland and you're all in a community you're learning what it's like to get along with you to get along with this person why you're here where are you trying to go to what do you escaping What happened in Yugoslavia what happened in Bosnia all of this stuff is going on and we're learning about each other's traditions and cultures but there is no Father Figure there's not an older brother there's nothing like that and in Germany son
would go down like 10:00 at night so he can be outside playing till late at night it's not like it's 600 or 7:00 so we're out all day long and uh yeah I learned everything about my maturity uh figuring things out Was from 10 to 12 years old I can I can totally in a completely different way but relate to that too cuz I left France when I was 10 as well and the circumstances you know um well we were in Ohio for 3 months and then we went to Canada cuz we just didn't have
like a final destination yet when we left France cuz it was just my mother me and my sister so kind of same thing from that age of 10 up until you know yeah early teens 13 14 it's you grow up right Away you have to kind of you have to understand everything that's going on around you and you're trying to be thoughtful to your to your mother you know because she's going through a lot cuz you realize everything that's going around you to your siblings and so it's kind of at that point you're like okay
it's time to to help my family also she her father figure was absent at this time during those things so I it it when I met Belle though obviously her her Looks attracted me more than anything right but when I got to meet this woman I I realized what a what a woman turns out to be when she has to cook for herself at a young age when she knows how to deal with responsibilities when she doesn't let the world whisper what she should be doing bro I've never met a woman like this respect I've
never met a woman like this I where did you guys me our friend introduced us oh very cool yeah he goes I I met this girl and I Feel like she's for you and I was like okay and so I I met her at a at like a teaya or something like yeah was in Scottdale no this was in LA okay cool and and it was like four years ago uh but I knew I was going to be with her forever in my heart when I every girl I dated was very scared that they would
get her family's qualities it scared me when if like we have kids like what if they turn out more like her or like her family and that scared me but when I met Her I was like that would be a blessing and my kids could come out this strong minded and very very assertive to life and I'm very proud of you who you are as a human being well thank you um does she have mom's personal your mom's personality or no yeah my mom's and I didn't even know that until they were hanging out and
I was like what the hell his mom and I are very similar they're very very similar I love her so much um I want to I want to Circle back to you And Germany cuz you you just escaped um your country you're you're young um and then after Germany um most likely being painted as the evil one that came to that country uh and then you come to the white man's world America uh you had to have followed in this path of finding enemies and then you have a book that's uh choose your enemies wisely
um two question two- part questions one I want you to break down what you mean by that by pointing out your enemies will point Out your your insecurities or your problems I want you to break that down and then also the most important one and I don't think anybody could find success without this what is the first step of forgiving your enemies okay so choose your enemies wisely it's a book uh uh the first business book I wrote with Simon and Schuster was your next five moves that was you know uh concept of sequencing I
look at everything in life about Sequencing and like even when I walked in I said how you guys flipped it in my mind I'm like what did they flip first did you guys flip this first or did you do this first and what did you do there like what's the you got that from your mom's side I got I got that from uh uh I I got the paranoia from my mom we're I need you to bookmark that man oh my god did my mom make me paranoid please pause that we can do an hour
of that we can come back to that she is she she's like That so so the whole concept of paranoia comes from Mite sequencing to me comes from watching everybody and seeing you know hey what are we going to do next like War happens in Iran is like what we going to leave what are we going to next are we going to do this are we going to first go to band pal are we going to go do what's going to happen next for it was always like a almost like a uh um you know
the whole uh flight you know free like if we have to escape this Place or flight dude they get mad at me because when I'm at a restaurant my back can only be up against the wall I have to see everything identical same bro be paranoia you have to know okay if he makes this move I got to be prepared for that Fourth of July we're all at 4th of July I gathered everybody I go if God forbid I know this is a bummer you hear shooting I need you to run there swim into the
water Jessica cuz my my sister can't run too far so I go you're going To swim there I'm going to meet you over there and they're like dude you're being paranoid I go it's better to be prepared than not prepared at all same page man I mean this is if I'm here I'm sitting here cuz I told me told I love that so so but anyway so so that first one was your next five moves and the first thing is to you have to know you know who you want to be and what kind of
a life you want to live too many people everything for you happens from there so who you Want to be and life you want to live I just want to be a Christian Pastor well your enemy is the adversary choose your enemies wisely that's your enemy you know what I want to go out there and you know be the greatest basketball player really yeah what level at the highest level well like what just to make it into the NBA or do you want to be All-Star MVP Champion highest level well then your enemies are going
to be the guys that came before you and it's going To be partying and clubbing and drugs and women that's your enemies your enemies are women distraction if you want to be that guy so when Allan Iverson and Kobe are done playing a game and afterwards they're like hey let's go dinner they go eat dinner and then ai's like hey man can you drop me off at the club you want to come he said no I'm not going to the club I'm going back to the gym he AI says that's what I knew I'm not
Kobe I'm going to the club Kobe's Going back to the gym at midnight to practice basketball so Kobe was playing a very different game than AI was playing so that's the part about choosing your enemy's B so now let me go to the enemy side if your vision is big if you want to do something very very big in your life whatever that may may be you want your last name to be a strong Legacy last name you want to raise great kids you want to go out there and build a Business that's multi-national and
you know you're building a billion dollar Empire a national business you want to build a big podcast you want to build a big show you want to compete not in the top 1% but the top .1% great you have you have to be naive to think you're not going to have enemies number one it's absolutely impossible to compete at that level without having enemies okay so now what enemies are not necessary enemies to create you know like I read this one Book where the guy says you know sometimes in a company when you don't know
it sometimes you create unnecessary enemies meaning somebody is about to quit okay and it's not going to work out you have to learn the art of letting them go gently okay the art of letting them go gently does what it eliminates a future enemy if you let somebody go in a very abrupt way which we've all I've done definitely so so what what what happens when you do That you create an enemy for re create an enemy and it's no reason so by the way those types of situations you look at it you say man
I just I shouldn't have done that okay Pride got in the way ego got in the way and by the way happens to all of us it happens it's never going to stop you ain't never going to be it's look at it as a free throw shoot you ain't never going to shoot 100% but you want to shoot 80% like if you're at 50% go to 60 70 80 you Want to be around 80% which means you're going to make the mistakes 20% the time so certain enemies in life I don't want to compete with
my kids that's not my enemy I don't want to compete with my siblings that's not my enemy I don't want to compete with my parents that's not my enemy maybe you your parent is a good driver because your father left you and that's going to be a driver for you your name is Tyler Perry and that wasn't the picture and later on he shows up When you have all the money in the world and he says hey son he's likey where were you all this time how about you buy me a house and he says
I'll buy you a house I'll buy you car I buy you st with one caveat what's that never call me again and he does that that was his driver that's his Steve Jobs his mother gave him for adoption are you kidding me like you give me up for adoption I'm freaking Steve Jobs what does Steve Jobs do goes and builds a company that's A3 Trillion doll company today where 58% of America uses a tool that he built and he dies at 56 years old what do you think drove that guy what drove Kobe what drove
Michael what was a driver for Michael what was a driver for some of these guys that are certain levels that you look at so we have this very conflict Ed you know relationship with enemy because we look at words like War negative connotation it's a bad thing Enemy oh it's a negative thing it's a bad thing we look at these words and we're uncom even when you were talking about initially a word in in our faith where suicide and all that stuff the way they explain it and fear and all that stuff but for me
every level I've gone I've had to choose my enemies wisely and if I've chosen the right enemies it's brought out the best in me if I choose the wrong enemies it's brought out the worst eny I know for a fact when I chose The Wrong Enemy cuz it makes me look back and it makes me go look at the bitter side and I resent and I'm living in regret and those are not the right enemies then I know I'm chosing an enemy that's a different Target I'm like got it why the hell am I fighting
you you're my wife why are we fighting you're not the enemy why are we fighting you're not the enemy what are we doing here I don't want to fight you that's the enemy so these are different moments and I Remember I was 20 for 25 years old we went to an Assyrian Christmas party it's December 24th Eve we're there family I love but we're at this party and my dad is there I'm a nobody at this time I'm 24 years old I'm in Deb $49,000 just got out of an ugly relationship girl I'm going to
marry didn't work out I lost my Expedition I'm driving a Ford Focus right now I barely fit in this Ford Focus I was big in the Hollywood scene big into Vegas scene I used to go to Pimpson hoes I used to go to Garden of Eden Sentry Club Dublin I'm that guy you want to party with me you want to go out with me and have boom Rock Bottom no one wants to party with me I don't have money for no ladies not I got nothing going on for myself right now financially so we go
out and my dad's having heart attacks and this one guy at this Christmas party disrespects my dad and makes a condescending comment that by the way it was so innocent it's not Even funny it was so innocent what he says to my dad but you said it in front of me and I took it as I've given you permission to talk talk to my dad in front of me that way and that's my fault I said no problem may I ask what he said I don't want to say cuz he's going to know who he
is I've never disclose it he knows who this if we be it so I could just be I'll tell you privately when the camera's off so anyway so this guy says What he says and then you know I look at him and I'm just fuming I'm on fire inside and I'm holding myself I said that we gotta go he says move M I said I'm not staying here we got to go no you're here with me I'm your dad I said no I'm the driver we're going home and I let tell at get G I'm
not coming we got to go we're not staying here so we're getting into you know how you're uncom you don't want people know you're arguing he I said I'm Telling you we're leaving I'm telling you right now we're leaving we get in the car most uncomfortable walk telling me who do you think you are in front of my family you doing this kind of stuff I said no one is going to disrespect you ever again I said I'm going to make a promise to you right now the world is going to know your last name
and how incredible of a father you've been to me they're going to have to kill me they're going to know who you Are done we're in the car for 30 minutes from glendel to Granada Hills we're fighting 30 minutes I call poet my sister she comes to the house and I call CAC her husband saint of a guy loved the guy they got two beautiful kids they're not living here they moved here from LA LA and I sit him down I said guys I don't know what's going to happen the world's going to know our
last name and by the way at this point of the game I'm a regular guy AMA the next day I'm going 100 hours a week it's game over call my buddies my dad would had also gone out of the hospital a couple months prior to that UCLA Medical Center with a big heart attack don't call me to go to the clubs I'm not going to the clubs don't call me to do anything I call my girlfriend at the time and I say hey I'm not interested in anything you comeing in a birthday suit not interested
I don't believe you she comes in not interested I go 17 months with no sex That that was my biggest addiction that was my God my God was women my God was nlife my God was that that's my audience that's my crew I was from that side and I put my head down January 21st 20 2004 I want to say I give my life to Christ I go to church sitting front row 17 months done focused Friday night's Bible study 6:00 to 2:00 in the morning every other Friday night at Pasadena with pasaz this pastor
called Mono and we're talking about philosophy and I'm still an Atheist but I'm debating him there's no way in the world of Jesus this and what about this and they use it because people were so naive and innocent back in the days and didn't know what it was it was so easy to use fear again conrol them and they were doing this and you know what they were today you can't get away with that this is why there's so many more atheists today because they're being exposed Christians are I'm having these types of conversations with
them Can I pause you right there because there's a lot of men that are in the same boat that you were there and this is a huge pivotal moment for you because I believe this there is you either worship a God or you worship yourself and I think that at that moment in your life what not think I want to know what was it completely that opened your eyes because there's people that will like you could give them all the evidence in the world but they don't want they'll Reject it because they want to worship
their lifestyle of sex their lifestyle of drinking their lifestyle of this what was your pivotal moment and what would you give to your enemies and your friends to just give them that information because I think and this is just from my point of view I think that's when you started really just taking off so I'll give you I'll give you a complete curveball here what percentage of her past do you know a lot Of it I I would say like almost all of it do you think you know 100% of it I would believe I
do on the aspect of in this relationship the one who runs it is the Lord so I can never judge her for her past I can never judge her for her future what percentage of your past you think she knows every single bit of it okay fine I'm convinced if you think you know all of it you have a God complex yourself let me explain you can push back and and I'll give you my point of view so when you're marrying somebody you know a man wants to know what everything why we're insecure we're protected
we're territorial we have this natural like hey you're mine like I want to make sure I need to know like what happened with that guy and how many many this I don't to walk into a place and be embarrassed totally get it and then later on in my life what if stories come up and then I'm going to be embarrassed and these Are all valid concerns that a territorial man will have totally innocent that we have okay you can go back and forth with that in your mind saying I'm not getting married until I know
100% the stuff you ain't never going to get married you're just never going to get married so what's the moral of story there okay I'm the guy that has to know everything well now I got a problem because it's not going to happen to me I'm the mathematician I'm the freaking math guy I'm the angle guy I'm the counting every light in a place I'm the guy that's counting how many Celsius how many I'm the guy that's counting how many lines goes all the way down having a conversation with you I'm counting those little buttons
in here in that corner to see how many the but is it nine or is it 12 I'm just kind of go I'm that guy right so everything with my brain the reason why I love math is Because I can use Pythagorean theorem to get an answer to a formula that's the definite answer not the maybe answer not the 99% answer so I have a problem with faith for a guy like me because I'm not going to know a 100% so it was a it was a nurture thing you weren't taught faith when you were
younger no I was taught faith when I was younger but I was a guy that got kicked out of Bible study in a Syrian Church in Iran and tan where they kicked me out they're like you know You're asking too many questions this is not what we're gonna have you got to get out of the class and they kicked me out I said I don't I'm not a Christian guys told my mom and dad they were disappoint I said listen I'm not going to go believe in this God that if he loves us so much
why are we getting bombed so many times why we get bombed 160 sometimes in a single day yeah I'm not good with this I don't believe God exists all these people are dying for What over what what are we dying over so I was that guy that fought back so so anyways going back to the question you're asking with faith and where uh how the decision was made no matter how much I read of least Robble case for Christ if I read CS Lewis you know Mere Christianity cost of discipleship give me every book I
could get my hands on from Billy Graham it's the four different God is either this or he's that or he's this or I'm going to Go read this guy and read the Scientology argument of Christianity and I'm going to see the debate of this Muslim of Christianity on why this and this guy that before Christianity on the Indian religion that did the same exact thing was married I can go all of that stuff and even if I do my entire lifetime I'm not going to read all that material So eventually there going to come a
point in your life that you're going to have to take certain risks in Your life there's risk to stay in single big risk if if I George if I tell you right now I'm looking at Dylan my 9-year-old son and he says Dad you know oh what would happen if the war doesn't happen in Iran and Iran was at peace I said brother I got to tell you this Dilly boy in a weirdest way I'm glad it happened why Daddy because I can't imagine life never meeting you you've changed my life Dilly I said I
Can't imagine life not meeting you our Ford kid Brooklyn um it's two years old she's went to school for the first time this week we didn't want to have a Ford kid we were good with three one day my wife comes home says crying I'm like what are you crying for says I want another baby what are you talking about I want 20 more babies what are you talking about you I want another baby we get pregnant she gets pregnant while she's pregnant We're in the Island we're testing we're going 1:00 in the morning to
the gas station testing all this stuff we're coming back and she's pregnant we go to the doctor you're having twins no way yes we're expecting Twins then we go back in the 11th week one of the kids doesn't make it and one of the kids before that told us that one of them is Down syndrome so guess what we don't know which one did it make it so now we have to have a baby and we're watching Videos late at night raising kids Down Syndrome baby in a family how the kids react and for 30
days in bed we're laying next to each other it's almost you're running a company you have to still be there present for your kids you have to motivate your guys you have to run your you have to do this you have to do that and you still you're sitting there saying babe a man this is a curveball man baby's born we have no idea what's going To happen with the baby okay coming from a guy that has to know 100% because I'm a guy that takes calculated risks here's what I learned when it comes down
to marriage everything's about odds you don't know what's going to happen you could change she could change as long as you have uh you know your faith in God and you do your part your best and she does her part you guys go one year at a time you're increasing the odds but it's still not going to be 100% yeah of Course kids same way you're going to have kids the fear of kids you know you got miscarriage you got this you got that you got this there is risk what if you only have daughters
four kids it's all daughters what are you going to say I want a son what if you only have boys you never have a daughter God's plan for you you can there's certain things in life it's out of your hands it's out of your hands so Faith marriage kids these areas I don't want to control I as a Control guy I don't want to control those specific areas so the person you're talking about that's 23 24 25 there is a risk to staying single and that's a massive risk there's a risk to getting married I'm
willing to say what all the BS people keep talking about that there's risk to be married there's more risk staying single than there is to get married course there is more risk you have the risk of being an atheist not believing in God don't worry about It it is a risk it is a greater risk to be an atheist than to believe in God why I'm talking to Joe on the podcast a couple weeks ago and this conversation came up right about faith and all this stuff and and Joe has his own philosophies and you
know when he has all these different people there's a reason why he's loved because he'll talk to everybody about it I said look right now with what's going on you know who the establishment people of power hate Historically yes who theyve hated people who are hopeful people who are faithful people who have the faith to believe the future looks bright you can't control those types of people it's a very weird dynamic their eyes are different there's fire in those eyes you know what the eyes look like when somebody is hopeless or doesn't have you know
it's like so faithless you know what their eyes look like defeated bitter you can control them you can push them around you can Bully them good luck bullying somebody who has Faith somebody who has Faith or is hopeful so so to me at 24 25 years old when circling back to the whole choose your enemies wisely when I saw that opportunity when I saw what it did to my belly and I notice that fire didn't go away because a lot of times you'll get a motivational speech from a conference You're motivated for three days and
in three days you're like dude I don't I forgot I life sucks and then But this one this enemy brother I'm 44 that was 23 21 years ago the level of fire I have today is 10 times more than it was then and I was a lot so that is the ability to choose your enemies wisely of course that's a title of the book but a part of the book is also you got to choose your allies wisely you need to write enemies but you need to write allies my allies I need is the man
upstairs that's the Ultimate Ally I need amen I got a few other allies that I Need to have but um a person with the right enemy sometimes we'll disclose it to people sometimes we will not sometime it's somebody that only you know about but you don't want to advertise it and you'll all of a sudden see someone and say man that guy already has all the money in the world that guy already drives a nice car why is a guy that's worth $300 billion named Elon Musk what are you doing you can buy the big
you can buy a state you can buy a small Country you can buy bise and name it musk land you you can go do whatever what are you doing how many more billion dollar companies do you need to build do you need to go to space what's the point and then you kind of pull back and you're like okay that's his dad got it I got it and that's his mom totally get it we know who the enemy is great he may not talk about it but that's a driver and by the way we can
say this about a lot of names at the top they they chose Their enemies wisely and you just hope it's not the Wrong Enemy that eventually destroys you so you have to be very selective on which enemies you choose it's such a wise concept to really be aware of your enemies because I think you unconsciously make the wrong people in your life any means as you said you know you you try and compete with your siblings or you try and compete with your you know your your kids or people that should be that should never
be your Enemy right so when you're saying that it made me it's was like wow like as soon as you're aware of that you real you can stop yourself from kind of making those mistakes and realizing okay who am I really fighting against and who am I really fighting for it's easy to yell at your family because you're comfortable with them and then you know that they would forgive you if you guys had a conversation it's it's a good fallback I um When I was younger I uh I got permission to beat up this kid
in school because my I grew up doing martial arts and my mom and dad were like we'll pull you out of martial arts if you ever put your hands on somebody and I was getting heavily bullied one day my dad came home when he found out and he [ __ ] lost it on my mom he goes somebody put his put his hands on my son and you told him not to do anything so he grabbed me and he goes you listen to me he goes if I find out Another man put their hands on
you and you didn't do anything he goes when you come home I'm going to put my hands on you and I was like okay literally the next day some kid named Zach started some [ __ ] but now I have that like oh my dad gave me permission I'm going to start some [ __ ] now right so I started some [ __ ] and uh he pushed me I I pushed him back seventh grade and uh he pulled me up against the wall and I'm like okay perfect I was I'm not even kidding I
Remember this like it was yesterday I was waiting patiently before I strike for this girl that I like to come around cuz I knew she was a little bit farther behind I wanted her to see me knock him the [ __ ] out so I'm just waiting I'm waiting and then so finally she pulls around the corner and I hit him once Bop and I'm going for the other one and I look in his eyes and it was fear but it was a different type of fear and it locked me up and I never had
another man Look at me that way and so I I I got scared of the feeling of me powering him and so I held him and then the the AIDS were coming so I I held him I held him and something in my heart was like do not touch this man again and so I was like okay okay and then he hit me boom and I was like don't touch him boom again don't touch him and I was like okay don't let him don't don't don't just take it just take it two years go by
and in my mind I'm like why the [ __ ] Did that happen like why didn't I hit him always in my mind why didn't die Why didn't it Die Why didn't it die two years go by we're now in high school and uh we get detention but we've said hi to each other we've moved on we never like kept it like anger we moved on We're Men right we were in detention the teacher comes in and she goes guys I got to go and a family emergency happened you guys could go we're living right
next to Desert Ridge so we're like why don't we Just walk there and get food we're walking there I'm making him laugh and uh he just starts choking up and I'm like yo what the [ __ ] are you good and he looks at me and he stops he goes dude I have to apologize to you and I go why he goes and I'll never forget this and I've told you this and I've told you this and if it [ __ ] me up for the rest of my life he goes I put my hands
on you because that's what I had in my home and I thought it was okay and so when I saw His eyes I knew there was something more there but all I kept picturing now is like how many times did his dad come home and beat him that I could have given him hell here so from that day I promised myself my demons are their demons so when I look at my enemy I look past their shoulders and I'll never make that mistake again if you've got on my bad side it's because something you're dealing
with you haven't overcome and I'm not going to beat you up physically Because you're already getting beat up spiritually so I'm going to find out who your demon is and I'm going to [ __ ] him up and I'm not going to put my hands on you and so that's like changed my whole like like my whole enemy thing what what a story man first guy I got into a fight with was my best friend and we got into a big fist fight and he won the fight we were 12 13 years old at Wilson
Jr High School and then you know one day I go to His house and his dad right in front of us multiple times punched him in the face and it was a very bad I W to mention the guy's name because I posted his picture many times I love this guy I've cried a handful of times when I've given speeches to my sales guys most of the time it's about this one guy and uh on May 5th you know 2005 this guy you know took his life he committed suicide and I used to take him
to Bible study and I took him to a drug rehabilitation Center in Tarzana and in Tarzana he went to the 14 days it was 400 bucks a day etc etc and he was his his challenge was vicad then it was very hard I was driving a Diamond Bar when I got the call call I was in a it was in a um uh black uh uh town car with another guy named Jim an old friend of mine I got this call from a guy named arton who called me I'm like oh [ __ ] we
were at shakies in glendell off of Colorado when we went to the back and he was taking The pills I took the pills from him me and another guy and I said dude you ain't taking it he's crying saying please let me I said dude I'm not giving it to you crying saying please you don't know the P I said dude I'm telling you I'm not going to give it to you and I find out who was the dentist who was selling the vicad in to a kid who was selling it to him anyways that's
a whole different discussion that we had with the with the dentist and the kid but Yeah man life is very interesting how this work these types of memories they they resonate but I'll give you one other angle to take this for for you to maybe get a better understanding on how I view this because I as a Christian man I understand also you know turn your cheek Christian all this trust me I've heard that message as well um where we are right now with with America the mess that we have right it's a messy situation
right now in America I don't like what they're teaching in school I don't like what's happening with fatherless homes I don't like how many you know in 1940 4% of all pregnancies in America were to single mothers in 1940 only 4% of pregnancies babies that were born were born to a single mother today it's 40% what do you mean we went from 4% to 40% what are you talking about so what do we change we're afraid to pray in school for what you want you want to take God out of school Yeah we want to
take God out of school what are you afraid of you don't want God you don't want favor you don't want that no no so you don't want do I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America I don't want to do that no because we're imposing stuff so you replace what we were imposing with with what you want to impose now no problem so now watch where I go with this thing here for you so for me I believe we need all different types of People in life okay there's a scene I
don't know what movie this is maybe it's American history X maybe it's another one where he talks about the sheep dog we can Google this and see what movie it is what the role of a sheep dog is and they defend people who can't defend themselves and that's kind of the role they play and you know God chooses certain people to be sheep dogs and that's the role they got to play great so how do we get here guy asked me a Question what do you think happened I said listen let me tell you four
communities screwed up America I give you three of the community screwed up America what is it number one is uh uh uh the do your thing libert Arians what do you mean well I'm I'm a Libertarian a little bit myself which is what hey guys do your thing just do your thing do your thing but to do your thing Libertarians allowed everybody to kind of do their thing and now the people you Allowed to do their thing are now trying to get your kids to do their thing oh [ __ ] you're right Mustard Seed
wow this took about 20 years yes cuz you kept saying do your thing do your thing do your thing to each own to each own so then the Christian side was what the tolerant Christians it's okay let's be tolerant I pray for four things courage wisdom tolerance understanding I have a very hard time praying for tolerance I have a hard time praying for tolerance The last 12 months I've been praying for courage wisdom tolerance understanding for 20 years I cannot get myself I'm praying I go God I ask you to give me courage wisdom understanding
and I'm skipping tolerance why because there's a book I read uh recently that a friend of our one of our Executives in our company Chris Hart recommended it's uh got to do with the topic of intolerance why we have to be intolerant what do you mean we got to be intolerance isn't Intolerance a bad word nope we need more intolerance today by who by the people who are teaching the right principles to protect kids Family household how the hell do we go from 4% to 40% my mother when she was trying to raise me by
herself couldn't do anything to me one day I'm 13 14 years old she's hitting me she's doing all I said you realize you just hurt your hand what do you doing you can't do anything to me ma'am nothing you can't touch me you can't Hurt me it's over I'm a big dude don't put and I put my hand behind my back cuz I keep hitting me I'm not feeling nothing nothing and she I said let me do that with my father there's no way I could do that what are you talking about what are you
talking about his hand heavy I'm like hey do I'm sorry man I'm not going to do that that part missing my mom can't raise me by herself she needs that man in the picture to put me in my place I needed to be put in my Place who did that to me the military did drill sergeant purle Drill Sergeant Green they needed to put me in my place and they did 4% to 40% let me go to the third one the third one to me is I want to find this book to kind of tell
you because I don't want to forget about this intolerance book that's written out it's a very fascinating book it's called the the beauty of intolerance I think you would like that Christian Community would like readings by a guy named Josh McDow anyway so then you have the lazy and the scared conservatives what do you mean by the lazy lazy and the scared conservatives well let me tell you what these lazy and the scared conservatives are you know the whole uh well you know look we just we just don't say anything when we go to parties
because we don't want to offend and and because we just don't want to do anything or or the lazy ones we we're just living in Palm Beach and we have a nice house and we living In Beverly Hills and Manhattan Beach quietly it's conservatives don't tell anybody nobody's we're living in this community naville whatever all this okay so how you doing with your money now all these guys are buying all these media companies and what are you buying real estate portfolios ETFs they're buying media they're controlling your kids and it's game over for them they
control you for 20 years so now what do you want to do oh oh so now they got all the Universities education okay when what percentage of money is being given to which political party they have K through 12 you know when they're doing the math to see for every dollar given to the Republican Party versus the Democratic party a science teacher 97 cents for every dollar School teachers goes to the left versus the right math is the only one that's 87 cents to 13 cents they have a monopoly in K through2 they have a
monopoly in universities and This is a way of thinking so this gets uncomfortable because for you know when you when you look from this standpoint then you say all right let me tell you what I'm battling with should I just sit there and turn the cheek no I'm not doing that why I'm not that guy God didn't create me that way I think you're needed I think you're needed but I also think I'm needed I think we're playing different roles when you got a sports team five Shacks are Not going to win a championship you
need a Shaq you need a Kobe but you also need an Ori you also need a cerr you also need a role play Rodman you also need so so we have to find this is why I asked the question your next five moves the book which number one is what who do you want to be what level of a what kind of a life you want to build right the more you're true to your role in life and then you're able to challenge yourself to say am I kind of taking an out cuz I'm taking
an easy way out am I really kind of pushing the armal up a little bit am I leading am I compromising am I conforming I don't know that battle is okay to go through but brother I got to a point where for me it got so Crystal Clear With The Vision like if there's anything I can tell you I'm Crystal on with my life is who God chose me to be I fought these fires in my belly for 15 years trying to get rid of them until I realized you put it in me I'm going
to Run with it and let's see why you're doing this to me I'm going to do my best to be one of your best soldiers over the next four decades God willing if you choose to take me I'm chilling I'm happy I've lived an incredible I can't believe the life I've lived but if you keep me here my interpretation from you got is that you put me here to fight if you don't like it please finish this up already I'm good with that as well but if you don't I'm interpreting as pbd Keep fighting and
I'm okay with that so that's the battle that we all kind of have to go through to see what role we play in this life and what responsibility we have with the man upstairs as a as a fellow brother in Christ I want to remind you that every time a human being fell out of God's plan is when he fully in his heart felt that his motives would have done the good thing so when you don't when your your fire is like no this school system Is evil this is this is and that and I
agree with you and I'm about to open up that subject about how much I agree with you I can't tell you how many times I pull the phone to her I'm like thank God there's a real man out there speaking like this but remember Jesus Christ was the perfect man and he only acted out of love even with the biggest people that he shouldn't have given love to so have that fire but keep that love there the the whole uh uh uh idea what what you Just said right now is for the last 14 years
I wrote the structure that I want our kids to follow okay and what applies to me and when I build the insurance company when you're building an insurance company with 45,000 independent contractors insurance agents they can go anywhere to keep them you have to really love your guys for them to not go anywhere so we have few principles we have some I'll take a cutter as well if you can so lead Respect improve love go for it yeah lead respect improve love lead in every situation you're in respect everybody cuz you can learn something from
everyone improve because improving gives you peace of mind that if you can't compete today guess what as long as you improve you're going to be all right right lead respect improve and last but not least love you got to love everybody because we don't have enough love in the world if you look at one of the Criticism I give on my podcast and one of the biggest compliments we get with our podcast one week I have Alex Jones next week I got Jen guger what are you doing I one week I got you know Charlie
Kirk next week I got Chris CUA Chris CUA and I have become friends I'm like we're having conversations pretty much on a day we have an incredible relationship Charlie Kirk and are becoming friends so the these are people we have had so many socialists and Communists on my show name them I've had more Communists literally not socialist people that claim they're communist I've had more communist on my show than anybody else has had on on their show why because we lead with love so we allow that place to be safe I'm talking to a guy
who runs a podcast and you know who this person is so he says Pat how do you get these people to come to your place like an Anthony Weiner or a Jeffrey tubin how do you get these types Of people to feel comfortable with you I said hey man you know we don't walk on water you know nobody here perfect the day I'm perfect I'll interview people as if I'm perfect till then I like to talk to everybody you like me you don't like me let's sit down and have a conversation and then we'll figure
it out from there so that would be my answer to you that one of the core foundations of us doing what we're doing is with love there's a scene of a father Who guy comes in and he's every day he's bullying his daughter finally the guy's like listen stop stop stop and this video is going V viral all over the place eventually D's like look I don't want to touch you I don't want to hurt you and then boom he does Jiu-Jitsu on him drops him holds him and he's not hitting him he says dude
what are you doing I don't want to hurt you stop that that is a action of a father showing love he could have bullied him because He's got him on he's down he can do anything he wants to him he's showing love to him and compassionate to the guy the guy's going to walk away anding this guy could have destroyed me but he didn't he wanted to have that conversation with me and people need that people forgot what it feels like you all the internet stuff of like oh I could talk my [ __ ]
and nothing happens to me bro getting punched in the face will recalibrate the next time you talk To somebody and that doesn't happen anymore somebody out overpowering you showing you bringing you to the ground humbling you letting you know your mouth could only pay so many things that level of that's why when my kids are at a certain age immediate martial arts immediate martial arts it shows you that you could have power but most importantly you could control that power if you can't control that power you're lost more than anything in the world You're lost
um but let's tap into the school system the school system is at a place right now where it makes me at a point where I don't even want kids I get scared of it because I see where it is and my mother kind of circling back to the paranoia my mom was the type of mom that taught me everything's a mustard seed once you do something you have to see where it's going to grow right you make a decision but it's going to come with 15 other like effects that you have To to be prepared
for so don't just look at the first decision and just make the first decision right so I'm peeling back the school system and how they're teaching our children about sex or they're teaching our children about certain type of things that should only be discussed in a home I've thought about this sincerely from both sides sincerely from both sides because I truly on the side of that's [ __ ] gross get out of my face with it but That I can't I can't come into a conversation to talk to somebody who believes that that's okay with
the attitude of [ __ ] out of my face right their opinion on teaching kids this type of stuff is a faith-based thing they believe they should be able to do that if we're not allowed to talk about God and that's a faith-based thing I think the thing is if they took prayer out of kids so they could pray on the kids MH and I don't Care who you are you could be a Christian you could be a Muslim you could be a Scientologist when you're a child you're an empty vessel so what you're programming
these children to believe is going to be a substantial thing in their life if they feel like they need to teach this type of behavior or this type of quality I believe we should at least meet them in the middle have an after school program where the parents need to sign off on it And the children needs to sign off on it cuz I can't look at you and be like no you're [ __ ] wrong you're out of here because I don't want anybody to do that to my kids when it comes about Christ
everybody has the ability to choose what they want if God came down in the form of human and literally said you choose what your life is and he's the almighty God who am I to tell you nah you can't be doing that but it should be something where the parents need to discuss it First because that is a faith-based thing I'm not going to children at 6 years old telling them about Jesus Christ without their parents knowing about it it's not my right I'm not teaching them about sex it's not my right that is a
father and a mother's decision to teach the children that how do we incorporate this in America America for them to understand in a loving way because what they're saying is no I grew up in the closet nobody Taught me about this blah blah blah and I get that's that's a hard thing to deal with I understand but you can't take that out on our children what is your basis on trying to fix this you're a tolerant Christian is what you are and you're uh uh uh you're going to go through it when you have kids
and you're going to have your moment when you're going to call and you and I will have a conversation and you say Pat I'm dealing with this bro what Do you think and we'll talk about it you know as a father when you go through it it's different when you're in it right now you're doing like one of the things I would talk to my wife about before we even had kids or before we even got married I'd be laying in bed I'm like what if one day my daughter comes up to me she says
this to me I'm going to tell her this then I'm going to tell her this and she's going to tell me this right okay so I get that right you I'm Preparing for the conversation totally get it totally and you by the way you know what's one of the hardest conversations I had to have how am I going to process my daughter choosing to have sex before getting married how am I going to handle it do you know how much in my own brain I had to go through that to feel comfortable and get myself
in a position to not be so overly paranoid where I cannot enjoy the love I have for my daughters it's very hard for me to go Through but I finally got to a point where I'm okay with it but let me go back to you the The Lazy Christian side look do we know what immoral is do we do we do we have a standard to Define what is immorality it is is what's immoral whatever you think is immoral is that what the definition of immoral is that we know we no longer want to Define
what is moral and what is immoral we we no longer want to sit there and say this behavior is immoral you can choose to do It but guess what that doesn't make it moral you're choosing to exercise immoral Behavior no problem but just so you know it's still immoral okay no problem okay I don't think we need to uh Cave to this gang that is pushing on us in a certain way where we're afraid because look for example like I watch uh the the podcast with uh uh the first time I I saw your material
and I fell in love with what you were talking about was on the the impulsive podcast right And you know I watch Logan and I watch Jake okay these are two household names Brothers they're in the top top five brothers in the world influencers they're one of those names that you look at okay they're one of them you you can put you know Tates Hemsworth with a bunch of these brothers that we can put in that category right and I asked myself like the other day some clip was shown and Logan and Jake are going
and you know Jake has got a black eyy no Logan's got a black guy and he's holding Prime like this and he's saying uh what did he say he says yeah if I fight him I you took a fury away from me he said I'm going to go out and finish Fury well you took Diaz away from me cuz I would have done this to Diaz he says well what are you talking about you're not even a boxer you're this and then he says Jake says I'm a boxer who are you you're an exhibition guy
you don't even win you just do exhibition he says exhibition I Went have fought with Mayweather eight rounds and all this other stuff and the other the entire time he's holding this right Prime the logo like this he's handling it like this okay I'm glad you noticed that so so I'm standing there myself and I said I swear to God if if that was those two were my sons I would fly to Puerto Rico and I would bring some of the most interesting people from Low Places and we would not leave until I put the
fear of God in their Spirit to Say if you guys ever show a sign of lack of belief in each other you have no idea what I will do to you privately beat the crap out of each other make fun of each other other do whatever you want don't you ever at the cost of promoting a drink ever ever don't you ever call each other out publicly whether you're talking to each other and saying let's create some controversy so other people can talk about it to promote their drink totally fine if you sell that thing
for $600 million or a billion dollar or $10 billion your grandkids are going to see that and your kids are going to see that and what are you going to explain to every single one oh that was just a marketing gimmick so your entire family is going to be a marketing gimmick what are you talking about no I'm not for that that's not proper behavior now let me give the flip side of it did it get him an additional 100 million eyeballs of C Prime of course it did but what did It cost but that's
the part about we have to Define moral and immoral you know Jake we can look at it from the stand of hey bro let's talk some [ __ ] to each other let's get people to talk crap about each other let's promote Prim you got some equity in it anyways and let's do this let's say they had that conversation okay then one could say oh great marketing gimmick great let's say that conversation wasn't had I mean it wasn't But yeah but let's just say that conver conversation wasn't that what are you doing to Jake bro
what what are you guys doing guys like just you know like you know here's a game I play with my sons okay um I sat him down I said you guys matter more to each other than I matter to you why daddy cuz you guys are going to be in each other's lives more than I going to be in your life I said one of the brothers said something to the other brother I said what did you just say he Said he said this I said what what did you just say to him no problem
let's go to my bedroom we go to the bedroom they're thinking they're going to get POA and stuff like I said no I said here's the camera it's my phone nonstop you give him a compliment you give him a compliment I'm going to come back after you guys are done giving compliments and I want to see who's going to give a better sincere real Compliment to the other person if you give a fake compliment you're in trouble don't [ __ ] each other real compliments cuz the world is so ugly if there's anyone that cannot
be ugly to you is your brother it's not going to happen in this household so they sat there I go take a shower I come back and they're still going at it and next thing you see they're like becoming like this like it's a it's a beautiful thing that's happening a bond between those Two guys what am I doing with these guys these guys got to stay close to each other how many siblings don't even want to talk to each other like what no it's not going to happen so so going back to the we
have to Define what's immoral no bro this is not moral Behavior so you want to exercise teaching a boy about how to give a [ __ ] go do it in your household you ain't going to do it in school by the way if you a parent you want to teach your son how to give it go For it do it not in school that's your it's your kid you go do it there's certain things that we can't sit there and be so tolerant about just because we're so worried that somebody from a community that
we're getting a sponsorship from or somebody from our community Community that's going to go out there and do this we become like everybody else like got give you an idea here numbers for you to be thinking about so July of last year was an epic Epic month historic month why because that was the first time where streaming passed up cable the viewership went like uh some 32 34.4% to 34.8% okay membership so so so you got 34.4% is cable 34.8 is streaming it passed it up July of last year numbers came back this month for
July of this year that went from 34.8 streaming to 34.4 the 34.8 went to 38.9 and the 34.4 went to 29.7 99.1% difference some number like that right when you look at it 20 whatever the number is you can find a neon neelson report what the hell is going on with cable what's keeping Cable in business three things what are the three things old people watching news MSNBC CNN Fox right Boomers which by the we're not all going to live forever that's going to go away which means if you just look at the Boomer model
in 20 years C like stain Gone number two is sports okay which nowadays Tom introduced me to uh Hulu cable was down I'm like dude I'm trying to watch a World Series what's going on he's said just go on Hulu so what is how do I get the ESPN app that's right did you say Tom Tom Tom ORD so Tom ellw my one of my partners got yeah so oh shoot that's great this is sick now I can watch this is I love Hulu Okay so you know who the third one is that's keeping Cable
in business Pharma Pharma do you know what percentage of every dollar uh on sponsorship and ads cable TV gets from Pharma what percentage is from Pharma percentage for every dollar percentage so think about movie commercials you know car commercials Clothing commercials all these different companies that do commercials so many Industries ridiculous like 70% 75% you're right 75% so check this out watch how crazy this is watch how crazy This is okay how is that even legal to do that c can you while I'm doing this just on your phone Google what percentage of Pharma cable
advertisement it's going to come up saying 75% now watch this 75% right stay with me here so now we have to answer the question is it moral to advertise getting more people taking drugs okay what's wrong with that it's their choice they got to do it no problem so then why is it out of nearly 200 countries in the world Only two of them allow pharmaceutical companies to advertise on TV and the other 198 don't who are the two comp countries us and New Zealand why wait wait wait I didn't know you mean to tell
me Germany doesn't allow nope you mean to tell me China Japan nope not even Venezuela no damn that's Canada czy no only two countries yes why I don't get it because they allow it 75 75% you're out of your mind yes so what if a president gets elected now watch this Your president gets elect as an executive order moving forward guess what big farma can't advertise anymore because it's immoral you know what happens cable is gone wiped out some of these guys that are making 8 million year 10 million year 20 million year they're going
to go and have a meeting with the agent from WME and CA and they're going to say what listen John we can't pay you 20 million a year bro we just lost 75% Of our revenues we can only pay you 3 million a year that guy that was making 20 million year reading teleprompters is going to have to go make in the podcast World he's going to realize how hard this game is this is not an easy game but what's stopping them from coming here this is this is not easy brother no I'm saying like
if they conquered TV to to take over uh commercials to go to YouTube and all that other stuff that's what I'm saying cuz gambling is doing That right now by the way they can say no they can say no we're not uh uh there's no advertising with big Pharma right now if you go look at your commercials on your YouTube videos sometimes go watch your videos and just watch who does the ad do you ever do that to kind of okay so you're like oh okay interesting oh wow oh these guys are interested in my
problem cool that guy's running an ad huh but you can't control it but that's fine what I'm Trying to say is that's fine the point is the subscription model doesn't rely on big Pharma money but the cable model relies on big far money the subscription model Netflix has got 200 whatever 10 million 20 million people that are paying 12 bucks a month and guess what they just raised the price by two bucks guess what we did no one complained okay cool they've done a few times no yeah they've done it we haven't complained it keeps
going up because the subscription Model which is the direction that elon's trying to go to if you go to the model where you don't need add money you you don't have to say what they're forcing you to say so this is the whole part where I'm going to where some of these schools are saying what the union is saying the Union's got three Nea the 3 million members part of the Union that's a powerful company the union leaders are getting paid $500 $600,000 a year so whatever place where You no longer fear having to endorse
somebody and say somebody cuz you don't want to lose that audience that's that now you're officially free so I all I'm saying is we have to Define what is moral and immoral and take the immoral stuff out of schol that part right there I love that and I back you if you're running for president you got my vote and I would tell my children to follow in my lead right I love your belief system but here's my question the reason Why Pharma took over the commercials is because there's two gods in this world there's money
and there's the real God right people that don't know a higher power in a moral State they are not going to be on our rule set so your question is who who's the one that holds the the the the law of morals if you don't believe in God why do I have to follow your morals so my question is who holds the right and wrong of what's right or wrong You could sit here all day and say like this is immoral but I could sit back as as anybody could be and be like that's your
choice you know it's crazy I had Graham Stefan here I don't know if you know Graham Stefan he's a YouTuber he's got like four or five million subscribers Finance does very good job 32 33y old guy super successful makees 678 million a year has done done very well for himself sold $10 plus million do of real estate we're doing a podcast Here he flies out and I said uh he asked me all these questions about parenting all this stuff because he's about to have you know he wants to have family as well get married and
I said hey okay let's play this game cuz he's saying I don't think we need to take put God in school and take out lgbtq because people need to be aware of what's going on and it's not fair for the longest time people couldn't be able to come out of the closet and all this stuff because They felt judg and all these things fine no problem let's play that card okay so you're asking what's moral what's immoral I said Graham question for you your wife comes home and she tells you she says babe kids are
going to go hang out with XYZ on Saturday and he's going to go hang out with this uh this kid his good friend Jason at school what's the question you're going to ask your wife who am I what are you going to ask your wife who the [ __ ] are these people Who are the parents yeah who are the parents who who is going to influence my child totally fine and I said to Graham I said Graham A Graham's not a Christian he's not he doesn't he believes in a potential Creator but he doesn't
believe in Jesus or God M he believes there's a Creator but whoever that Creator is it's a different kind of a Creator okay I said no problem I said so I'm going to give you three situations you tell me who you want your kids to go with he Said okay go for it I said the first person your wife says oh uh the wife is a teacher at the local Christian School and the father's an engineer but his dad used to be a you know a senior pastor at a local church here okay cool second
one uh it's a single father that's got two kids he raised the kids the mom is no longer there apparently something happened with the mom disappeared she left with another man man but it's a father raising two kids it's these two Kids okay cool the third one it's a mother she's funny as hell she's freaking hilarious but she does smoke weed but uh you know she's on Section 8 and she gets some money but dude she's the funniest cat out there weed she's so hilarious who you going to feel comfortable your kids going to their
house and playing all afternoon and you're not there gram says of course the one with the school teacher Christian I said okay how about the second one the Father how about the third one mother I said based on what though how how did you come out with your uh decision- making process based on what I said you feel safer that a kid of yours is around somebody that is a school teacher that's Christian why do you feel that way what you're not a Christian why do you feel so much safer around that so okay so
now let's take it to a different place you have to choose a mother who's got kids a mom's decision will be made purely on What country she wants to take their kids to based on an s-l word the a woman's going to marry a Man based on one word first and it's the SW word what is it safe safe I want my kids to be safe and secure no problem so guess what she wants a place that's got cops she wants a place that's got military she wants a place that the kids are not going
to be bullied she wants a place that's going to be she wants to make sure the husband's going to protect her She's going to face safe feel safe when she has the kids the money money is going to be there all this stuff right okay cool I said you got three countries to go to to raise your family one country is ran by a leader who is a an atheist the entire country's Foundation the Constitution is built on atheism another one is built on Christianity another one is built on Hindu what country not saying you
become that religion what country do you want to raise your kids based on those three religions oh of course Christianity why why why why do you choose that what's the second one Hindu what's the third one atheist but why though because you know their morals you know their values you know what they stand on because there is a certain set of values and principles this is not about let's go see what happened when he resurrected And have that debate because the values and principles that are taught have produced places that are safe and secure where
you want to go live there this is why 45 Now 51 million imigrants are in America number one leaders bulletin no one's even close to us and only one country in the world has ever G the reputation of being the country's name than dream we don't say Russian dream we don't say Chinese dream we don't say Indian dream we only say the American Dream because of a certain set of values and principles that this thing was built on now they're going to go and say well Thomas Jefferson was a womanizer and you know that president
was gay I don't care what they did and how they lived their lives yeah I'm trying to tell you these are the values and principles that's moral and this is what's immoral you and I get to choose to I've made a lot of immoral decisions in my life so have you I made some decisions I'm ashamed of Great that's mine and him totally fine okay we've done that I know I was being immoral I made the choice but guess what don't teach my kids to be immoral they're going to learn it already on their own
because of Temptation Of Life and especially in our school system that's problematic to me there's a Christian joke that goes there was a demon fall there's two demons one demon is exhausted and he is trying so hard to get this man to in and he can't he's Chasing him up and down but this guy is just in it and he's doing so well in life he turns to this other demon and this other guy's on the on the couch drunk [ __ ] up doesn't got going anything on like there's nothing going on for this
guy and uh the demon comes out the other demon goes how the [ __ ] are you doing this bro how are you getting this guy to to do drugs to to cheat to beat to lie he goes dude you're doing too much just make him Lazy and then everything else follows so my question to you the school system we point our fingers is that what the [ __ ] is up with you guys but when I was growing up Pat my parents would never let me go to other people's houses because they were scared
of who's running that house right everybody came to our house in fact we have an ongoing joke in my neighborhood the parents would always say what did georg's parents say and so the the kids would Get mad at me like dude why the [ __ ] is your mom and dad saying this okay but what I saw Pat is when my mom dropped me off at school she was there locking in who's the teacher who's the principal who's this what are you teaching what are you doing this blah blah blah and then I would see
my other friends they were there by themselves so is it the school's fault or is it the home's fault for dropping off the kids there being like you deal With it yeah well first of all remember 1940 4% of kids born to a mother that's a single mother today it's 40% that's 10x that is not a number to be bragging about that's a terrible and by the way it's one of the worst in the world out of all the countries in the world it's one of the worst numbers how did that happen what happened since
there do we take the Bible and church out of school with woodro Wilson when we Became too secular maybe what else do we do FDR came up with policies to give benefit Social Security and money to single mothers then in 1964-65 LBJ increased those policies to give more and they raised it where the federal expenditure went to 15% and then all of a sudden today there's incentives to have more kids at a wedlock and by the way if that woman marries a man that has an income and they find that the tax code those Benefits
stop from the from the government so why would I get married and try to no the TA the tax code is set up to ruin the freaking household look I want a sales the house is divided it cannot stand but it's the compensation structure the tax code is a comp structure look what does you to pay us what's the structure on ads 7030 whatever the structure is some say 50 55 45 7030 whatever the number say 7030 okay great guess what that's the Comp structure that they want to pay us okay if they choose to
bring another win then they're going to say well you know if we comp it this way we're losing talent to rumble guys are going to Spotify they're signing these over here maybe we got to increase our comp maybe we got to do this in a sales company one time I changed my insurance comp comp structure so many different times one day I get a call from an insurance company saying hey Pat I got to tell you Man we're getting a lot of bogus business out of 100 policies you're sending only 40 of them are getting
placed and approved I said what yes only 40 of them are getting placed and approved that's horrible numbers by the way and I they said if you continue like this we have to drop half your sales first sh I can't I'll be out of business so I came back and what am I looking boom boom okay our compensation it's all my fault I created comp to do bad Behavior okay so then we changed the comp plan and then good behavior showed up and then boom again we introduce contest that was called the March Madness contest
all the office were competing against each other and the last day of the month we would get 2,000 policies just so this office can beat the other office cuz we're given a bar of gold that was $60,000 well the guy submitted a bunch of bogus business on the 31st and it takes us 90 days to find That if that business was good but we gave the bar of gold but that was shitty business so we said no more March Madness no more discontent our placement went up 25% in quality overnight cuz you no longer had
incentive to send both bogus business to Wi win a sales contest that eliminated our com structure in America is our tax code it's incentivizing you to keep having kids out of wedlock so one is the tax code and the entitlement programs that we Came up with from FDR to LBJ to where we are today by the way I'll give you a number here for you to be thinking about let's just say you make $63,000 per year okay and out of your $63,000 per year your a Syrian you love your mom you love your dad what
percentage of that you two are living together you got a family you're trying to pay the rent all this stuff what percentage of your $63,000 a year which is roughly $5,200 a month are you comfortable giving to your mom to Help out on a monthly basis what part do you think it's fine without ruining your marriage that's a tough question cuz from my standpoint it's like I got to honor my mom and dad so everything I do is for that then again I'm in the marriage so I have to respect my my wife so I
would say whatever could my dad taught me uh help somebody but don't let you helping them break you so I would build my foundation and give enough that I could That it wouldn't break my own house give me number 5% which is you know I would I I feel like 10% okay fine 500 bucks a month no problem you ready you know why I said specifically $63,000 because America's federal expenditure is $63,000 except at8 zos which becomes $6.3 trillion you know what percentage of our $6.3 trillion we give in entitlement programs 53% 53% this is
the demons making the people Lazy yes 53% George what are we talking about I mean bro it's it's obviously not going to to to good places it but it's not but here's the other part remember remember so so Vinnie is also a Syrian and I don't know if you know Vinnie the VIN Vinnie is also Vinnie is store right now uh uh so Vinnie first comes here like well you know vote doesn't matter and we can't do anything and one nothing's going to happen none of these guys are going to get in trouble and Nothing's
ever no one's going to be held account of I said listen that's exactly how the enemy wants you to think to be defeated cuz when we feel that way we they win cuz then you're going to be like what's the point of my life what's the point we won we we won we broke you bro that's freaking awesome that's the eyes you were talking about that's the eyes I'm talking about earlier but then they're all of a sudden like going who is this guy man this guy you got to be Careful with them cuz it's
converting a lot of people and they're starting to think for themselves we got to do something about this guy and all of a sudden it's 10 people 20 people 100 people thousand people 100,000 million people oh [ __ ] now we're in trouble now we got a million disciples like this what the hell are we going to do now now it's game over now it's game over now you got a million people that understood the game and how many families you broke How many marriages you broke how many relationships you broke how many incredible kids
with Incredible talents you stole their dreams away from them by giving them free money and that dream like when I told you I met Dylan I said Dylan I can't imagine life not meeting you can you imagine that person this guy goes to heaven he dies his entire life his dream was to be the greatest General in the world he goes to heaven and he says hey you Know since I was a kid I always studied military and I wanted to um you know I've always studied war and Generals and all this stuff can you
tell me who do you think was the greatest General we ever had in America he says what a stupid question you're asking why would you ask a question like that said I want to know who's the best G I'm dead now now I'm here now who's the best General ever so are you serious he says yeah I am was it Patton was it this was it that He says no dummy it was you me I I never joined your army of course you never did because we send 17 recruiters to you those were the angels
we send people to inspire you to go into the damn Army if you would have joined you were supposed to be the greatest General ever but you missed out cuz you didn't do that the guy's in tears crying of course this is a fictional story that I'm telling but the point is they stole his they stole His dream and they made him choose that they made him choose that and all of a sudden can you imagine like for example imagine you know uh you are raised by a single mother your dad's not in the picture
to say give them money but not enough to break your back hey all these principles you keep spitting out from the father and mom that gave you hey I love you the most but Mom do you really love me the most no God loves you more so your Loyalty went here because she knows when she's not here you're going to be fine when you buy yourself you're not going to be scared these are great principles to teach okay what if your family also fell forward what if your mother had seven kids out of wedlock then
what what if she's also going through that part now here's the part we're not judging anybody trust me this isn't a message of how dare you say this stuff how dare you take it from 4% to 40% how dare you put It on me that's on you your policies your tax code your principles that you took God out of school your concept of trying to teach immoral Concepts to kids that's you doing it how dare you make us feel guilty about it so we walk on xos you should be walking on xell don't put it
on us no I'm not buying it I'm not buying it so this is the concept when you try to really break this down and and you you you you realize it's not just like an answer that's a one-step Answer it's a great element of a deceptive sequencing of 60 70 80 years of taking to by the way this whole concept when FDR said if we give this money to single mothers we going to we going to you we're going to fix the gap of the wealthy and the poor and guess what happened within 60 years
55 years it took us for that wealth Gap to reach here and the amount of money we invested National money like our federal expenditure you know what happened all Of a sudden this went down but the debt went to the roof you know how much debt we got right now we're freaking in debt so much money who's going to pay for they're going to ride it off it's going to happen with that we're going to go back to the gold standard who's going to take care of this oh don't worry about it you guys are
young you'll figure it out what do you mean I'm young I my kids are going to take care what are we going to what are we going to be responsible Are we going to really talk about the fact that we can't afford Social Security we can't afford all these in when are we going to cut section A when are we going to cut all these incentive programs you keep talking about well we should give 12 12 weeks of maternity paternity let the husband and the father go spend time with the kids we should pay for
that as taxpayers fine let's entertain that but take the damn incentives out for women to keep having More kids single mothers cuz that 40% needs to go back down to 10% that's going to take a couple decades to get there and it's going to take courageous leaders who are going to wake up and say damn all of this is starting to make a lot of sense then let's do something about it this is why this is why when I go around and I talk to different people and I say hey when are you going to
run want to get into office there's a few ways you can give back oh man I've never Thought about it myself okay you need to start thinking about it what are you talking about I'm not the guy guess what those who think it's foolish to study politics will be governed by those fools who do mhm those who think it's foolish to study politics will be governed by fools who do I didn't say that that's either Plato or Socrates who said one of those things whoever said it we can give him the credit we can't sit
around and say no it's just politics is ugly that's Exactly what they want you to say no it's not good to talk about religion that's exactly what they want you to believe but that's what the high level people that I'm around that I talk to or you're around we want to talk politics we want to talk business we want to talk marriage we want to talk parenting we want to talk religion we want to have these kinds of conversations yes said had a nice 30-minute conversation with This YouTuber his name is Dean he's a Muslim
guy and you know I'm having a big Muslim debate end of September and I'm bringing two Muslims and two who are against Muslims and we're going to have a nice little conversation together in my uh uh in the podcast I can't wait for that you're like oh you how were you able to pull these guys up to I'm it's a safe place you can come let's talk but we're having a conversation yesterday I said Listen man you got your team Prophet Muhammad I'm team Jesus but I got to tell you something that we have to
understand here together we can sit and debate and argue the faith part all that all the time let's do that over dinner and let's have a good time you and I no problem but I'm going to tell you what I love about the fact that your faith the people in your faith you guys will not compromise your beliefs when it comes on to the way they raise you it says oh not At all phenomenal conversation I had this conversation with khabib last week nor Muhammad the fighter khabib we had the incredible conversation about he's a
Muslim Dean's a Muslim so what happens there is now let me get the straight Christians and Muslims unite nah that's not going to happen a ain't that scary if they do that is kind of scary if they exactly exactly it the these are some of the things that's happening behind closed doors why I'm so optimistic about Why the future looks bright CU When you speak common sense and you break things down to the average person and you're willing to do the due diligence yourself like somebody's watching this right now say you know what screw this
guy no problem I agree go do the research yourself and give your counterargument Based on data go do it you're not scared of conversation I'm okay with that brother that's the whole idea it should be you should never be scared and if You're too scared of having that conversation that means you really don't believe in what you believe in and you feel like you're going to be proven wrong uh I was uh again I was raised in a liquor store and I'll never forget this guy was trying to my my dad yelled at this guy
because he was trying to sell his EBT card for double the amount for cash so he would go hey to my dad I'll give you this EBT car that has $100 just Give me 20 bucks cash and my dad yelled at him says get the [ __ ] out of here and my dad told me he goes a lot of people liquor stores will do this cuz they'll take the government's money and profit off these guys wanting to go buy alcohol or drugs with it um and then literally that same day he took me and
he goes I want to show you something and there was this man and woman and they lived in a one-bedroom apartment I'm not lying a one-bedroom Apartment I swear to you bro I couldn't believe it there was five people living there and I asked them I asked my dad I go why do they keep having kids if they can't afford it he goes they're getting kids because they're getting money the government will give you more money the more children you have and I was like so these kids are sitting here one has one sock on
one kid starving to death that nobody's monitoring what's actually happening in this home and at a Young age when you see this you realize the people are that are in power and they're making these laws and they're making the they don't care about the homes they care about their home if your home suffers for their home to be better they'll take that and the best trick that they ever did is the same trick that the devil did to Adam and Eve they made their decision they gave them fake options and doors that they think is
going to take him to a better life but It really just LED you down to Hell and they make you choose that it's just it's it's so sad we're now in a time where we're so reckless about human lives and we're so reckless about our children because I feel like at least you know there was a point where I mean there's evil everywhere you know all around us but for the most part we're on the same page with how children should be treated children are innocent you know you don't swear around children you don't talk
About certain thing around children right no matter who you are and now it's just the complete opposite and no we need to tell them all these things because they need to know all this information so they can make their decisions they don't know you don't know what's going on when you're can't even comprehend it yeah you have no idea you're when you're a kid you're so influenced by everyone that's around you you know when I was a kid I was Absolutely loved pink and pink everything but then I had one girlfriend who I was really
close with and she told me I was too much of a girly girl for liking too much pink so I decided to paint my room blue but that's not what I wanted I was just influence because I wanted to to make sure that you know we were on the same page and we were good so I can't even imagine being a child now in a school system where adults are telling me well what do you think about This and what do you think about that that's I the uncomfortable ability at all these children their innocence
is being ripped away from them because you don't start to think and certainly as a girl you don't start to think about even liking boys until you're maybe 12 13 you're like oh you know kissing on the cheek whatever you know but now under the age of 10 you're being asked who you like sexually oh that's not even anything they're teaching you how to Give a [ __ ] yeah that's that's not you shouldn't know who you interested in at that age when you're young that's that has to do with sex that's something that you
do when you're you're of age you're you're you're 18 and the choices that you want to make as an adult you know so it's just sad that now we've come to a point where we don't even agree we're not even on the same page that children are innocent you know what you know what's the great thing though About life uh uh bad ideas get exposed it just takes a while bad policies gets exposed eventually just takes a while social media forced us to all of a sudden look at certain people like I remember one time
a guy comes up to me this like 10 years ago eight years ago and he says hey Pat do you think my YouTube channel would grow more if you dropped more F bombs I said uh what do you mean well this guy that's growing man he's always cursing I think we got To start cursing I said you think that's why you grow well yeah [ __ ] it [ __ ] like okay I said by the way do it because it's part of your way of communicating okay don't do it because you think that's what's
going to bring you the eyeballs right yeah that's fake and then eventually you're like you know yeah that's not a good idea or is not a good idea and I don't know about the way we're doing this with kids or I don't know about what we're doing with this so So meaning social media confused us a little bit because just because somebody got 18 million views on a video you're thinking that person's right no it's just a viral video that's all it is it's entertaining it doesn't give it credibility but the fact that 18 million
people I was with Dana White last week and we went to a super slap event he said you got to come see the super slap I'm like okay let's go I'm at this place I'm like I I don't know why I like Watching these super slap videos am I sick do I have issues what you doing watching this guy being knocked out same thing as a fight he says Pat I don't understand but all I got to tell you one video 42 million views and all the how okay guess what that could be entertainment does
that mean I need to go out the house and tell my kids to start slapping each other no it's just it's a form of an entertainment but you talked about the kids here's a problem So Christians get upset when they say uh well Pat you know this whole thing you're talking about Christians and Muslims getting together and all this stff you don't really understand what they they want to be in RAR and they want to do this okay no problem so what are you upset about about are you upset that Muslims are having more kids
than you oh so you don't want to compete got it so you're a scared little Christian you just want to have one or two kids I Got you stop being a coward and have six kids if you can you go have eight kids you go have five kids well look at how fast Mormon church has grown respect to them they have more than four or five kids you know when they meet somebody like yeah I come from a family of nine kids are you guys Mormons no we just you you know that super yeah no
okay great yeah we Mormons great guess what why don't Christians have nine kids why don't you start talking so in the state Insurance company that I have I had a meeting uh earlier in December or January of last year I'm getting on my I'm giving this we have all these different Regional events I'm going to and my entire message was about the wrong people are having too many kids the right people are having too fewer kids why because well we we we have to be financially perfect everything needs to be right for us to have
a kid and we're Going to have two kids and that's it why is it because you can't afford it no we can afford it so why is it successful Financial people that make a lot of money you don't want to have more than well because we have to also enjoy ourselves oh okay I got you selfish so so guess what then don't don't don't [ __ ] and complain when you're competition if you're so concerned about what Muslims are doing if you're so upset at what Mormons are doing why Don't you compete why don't you
change youro and start saying hey Christians we need to start having more kids and the number starts with four start having four kids what happens if you start talking like that from an early on in about 30 years next thing you know the Christian number is going to go from 1.7 1.9 12 2.6 2.8 3.4 3.9 4.3 great cuz if you don't do it Christians if you're so worried because Christians get upset at me all the time As well even though I'm a Christian in about 30 40 years yes half the Senate's going to be
Muslims Congress people are going to be Muslims not because they're trying to take over the World their job is to baptize just like your job is to baptize but you're a coward you just want to have two kids they understand Legacy and protecting their you know what they want to do with their faith they're having six kids so stop complaining either do something about it Or stop complaining you have to compete so this this concept is also is very uh uh contradictory you know hypo you know we we're kind of like Hypocrites we're kind of
saying this and complaining and it's like that's not fair look what they're doing no it's fair he reads more than you do well it's not fair that he made $38,000 last month but I only made 11,000 as a realter he runs 42 appointments you run 19 what what what Do you think is going to happen brother what are you upset about so either compete or stop being envious pick and choose one of the two you can't do both of them so you know I'm trying to come from a place here that I if if we
if we truly are about wanting to increase the values principles morality stuff that we believe in we have to kind of start talking and saying really long-term type of conversations instead of shortterm Well let him do it the problem nobody wants to think long-term anymore but guess what I don't think it takes that many people I I don't think it takes that many people at all I think it takes one person to light up a world I think it takes one person to light up a a league I think it takes one Brady to Inspire
50 next bradies that's going to come up with a Mahomes to want to change the game I think it takes one mic for everybody to grow up saying sometimes I Dream that he is me you like Mike I want to be like Mike everybody's the tongue out you want to be Michael it takes one Michael it takes one it takes one Billy Grant it takes one it takes one so one person can give a message of Hope and challenge your way of thinking to shift the way you view the world to say why am I
being such a little pansy do something about it then when you're privately by yourself and you hear certain conversations and you're like oh Man this was a heavy message dude I didn't want to freaking hear this are you kidding me he's talking to me I'm such a he's I got to stop being a little you know come on you know okay now you make okay got it now you do something about it great got so we need some of these tough conversations but the the the idea of thinking we all need to agree at first
no there's a certain level of friction you got to go until the the popul says you know what good Point maybe that takes 3 years maybe it takes 5 years maybe it takes 10 years but all it takes is one person to light up the world one person absolutely two years ago Reed said something to me that stuck with me for so long cuz I didn't even notice it with myself until somebody pointed it out and he said I've never met a man who reflects as much as you like you sit there every day you'll
ask your friends you'll ask your family how do you feel about this thing that I Did what did you think how did it make you feel you even brought it up today to me right off the bat January 3rd I asked you yeah right off the bat and it it dawned on me last week I was thinking about it I said my God I I didn't even know that I was doing that I must have picked it up from my father but what a scary world would it be if I was in a world in
my life where I didn't reflect what I was doing and I came to start now that I Picked it up right you start monitoring other other people you wouldn't believe how many people as soon as they wake up boom what is everybody else doing before they go to bed they're checking out what everybody else is doing no nobody reflecting who they are anymore sitting in their own thoughts and the only time they want to reflect on who they are is who they want to portray online it's not even their identity anymore it's the identity that
they're putting on into The universe of the internet but they don't even care who they are I heard another kid I made a joke about this on other podcast other guy goes i' rather have my girl hot online than in real life yeah I I would and this is a conversation I'm hearing like in an elevator I I the world that we live in now is filtered through a screen so my question that I'm building up here how is us a USM minded humans how do we not bash the country that we live In but
build it up because it's so easy to just point your fingers on saying the school's bad the government's bad this is bad and it's a lot harder to roll up your sleeves and be like I know where we're at how do we get to work so if I had to ask you as your son or as a peer that looks up to you how the [ __ ] do I George jenko Bell read how do we contribute to our country in a good way fantastic uh the the the first thing that I think I mean
these I'm going to Give you my thoughts but you know uh first thing I think we we have to start from is the fact that my life changed the day I stopped I started reading this one affirmation I had these 30 40 affirmations I would read every day highest form of maturity is when you become independent of others opinions be careful what you joke about or be sarcastic about because your spirit will have uh stop having faith in the words that come out of your mouth I'm just Reading all these things right and then one
day I added one that just I felt like it lifted like God knows how much weight off my back stop stop trying to be God that job's already taken you can't solve everyone's problems okay stop stop trying to be God that job's already taken you're not going to know everything you're not going to solve everything it's just not going to happen you're going to need help you're going to need people and Just kind of go you know and then do your thing and see what God's given you lead with that great we have to start
off with no judgment okay amen and that's that's not easy to do but we have to do with no judgment for example I'll talk to anybody I'll sit down and have a conversation with you I won't walk on eggshells around you I'll give you my thoughts how did you get to that level how did you get to a level where you're not scared of uh speaking your truth cuz That's what I deal with I want to give them my advice and I want to give them my point of view but I'm so scared that if
Patrick doesn't marinate with what I just said he not only goes in the opposite direction he will never look at the direction that I'm going now there's always got to be an out for the individual yeah like there's got to be an out for the individual to choose to make the wrong decision that's okay there's nothing wrong with making a Wrong decision man you have to have the out so so the way I'll do it I'll sit down and you know one time you know I'm talking to my chief compliance officer this is 2003 I
want to put a big ass billboard in LA right in front of my the 2004 2000 I want to put this big ass billboard and I call my chief compliance officer he we him and I always talk about this I said hey I want to put this thing up if I do am I going to get fined he said yes I said who's going to find Me you may get fined by Fina what's the F $10,000 okay he says Pat don't do it I said no no but if I do do it my fine is
10 grand that's all I need to know so then guess what I have to decide is it worth being paid for I'll pay the fine 10 grand if I know that's my fine yeah I said but there's nothing worse than the 10 grand fine he says no that's all they can do to you no problem so I know I'm making a wrong wrong decision but I know Guess what I never did it but I knew my cost was $10,000 okay hey uh what happens if I put this in my body here's what's going to happen
Okay I don't think we've had enough research to find out what's in the vaccine I'm not going to risk it I'm not going to take it but my dad says I'm going to take it no problem super conservative guy he takes the vaccines and takes four boosters so did my nanny I didn't take it I said pop just so you know I'm just going to tell You what I'm going to do and then you do what you got to do what you doing I'm not taking it I think it's too little for us to get
the data on it okay I'm a different age I'm going to take it he gets bronchitis he's 79 years old when he gets bronchitis and Co at the same time we almost lost him he's still with us 81 years old amen but he took the vaccine but guess what it's not like how could you take it how could no that's his choice man he's got to have an out We all got to have an out I know but if you love him so much you're so scared of like something happening what gets you past the
strength of being like cuz that's God right God could go hey man you have free choice but when I have a daughter or I have my mom I comat with them and I maybe the anger comes out because I'm like how the [ __ ] are you not seeing that this is bad and then you get angry and you get scared what's the maturity growth that I have to go Through there's also not nothing wrong with that there's also nothing wrong with that man there's nothing wrong with sometimes showing a little bit of emotion there's
nothing wrong with that we're human beings am I supposed to be a freaking robot and just be like all these guys at a runner for office you're watching these guys like dude you're fake you're fake that's why you're not getting the votes that's why your ratings are going down talk to people Man stop talking to me on a script you've role played 700 times with your wife talk to me talk what pisses you off what are you not happy about what's frustrating you speak to me people want to know we're adults let me make the
decision don't talk to me like a freaking robot it's fake so we all that that's also okay there's nothing wrong with a good heated discussion dinner argument totally fine as long as it's respectful right so now the next part is A skill is I remember one time uh one of my good friends who I went to uh first grade together in Iran I went to Junior High School together Wilson Junior High School I went to high school together then I went to the Army together with him then we worked at BS together then we started
a financial services business together okay and we eventually fell apart so one day we're at Starbucks and I'm trying to teach this guy how to make phone calls okay I'm 23 years old 24 Years old I'm giving him the script he's making a phone calls and I'm getting angry I told you not to say it like that what are you doing you don't say that hang up the phone and the guy's panicking you know what happened he was afraid of making phone calls cuz now he's walking on X Scar the [ __ ] out of
scared the [ __ ] out of him and I'm and he leaves and I'm like dude you just killed the guy this guy is scared shitless of not making phone calls what Were you doing so then you're kind like man I got to learn in a better way of presenting my argument to people to receive it okay so then if you really want to be a good communicator you have to learn how to Pur uade you have to learn how to be patient you have to always learn to give an option out and there's a
way of that part comes with the ability to communicate if that's your game if that's the world you're going to go in which communication no Matter what you do it's something parenting marriage relationship business forget about it right so it's it is a and by the way we don't teach that in school we don't teach it in high school they want to they don't really want to teach leaders but again that's the challenge we're going back to right we need to what is more important in life am I going to need to learn more about
communication than more about what it is to be gay lesbian trans and all that Stuff Comm how come we're not doing it we don't teach taxes we don't teach marriage we don't teach parenting we don't need teach the big decisions that we make in our lives we don't teach but we make decisions that we're never going to make in our lives if they knew communication then they would be able to communicate how they felt about the topic yeah yeah and by the way even the debate we're afraid of debating universities you can't debate in Berkeley
you can't debate in Stanford no meaning like if your position is an opposing position Berkeley for every 13 liberal Professor one is conservative that's a monopoly there is no debate you can't have a debate you're walking on xell I'm at Harvard Business School and I'm there for an OPM program 3-we program that they allow entrepreneurs you're running a business about $10 million you can come there so 144 of us are together there from 64 countries and It's the same three weeks that I'm there while Hillary Clinton and Trump are debating and I go to the
chow hall chow hall is a name of a man named Chow who paid the facility to build build their uh cafeteria and it's called the chow hall Cho beautiful place so I go there and we're watch watching 500 people 400 people under this Auditorium so boo 100% of them yeah 100% of them I pull the professor afterwards I said I'm sorry Just curious is this a university yes why do 100% of 400 people here all only agree with one candidate this ain't no University I'm not coming back here I never went back it was a
three-year program I never went back good for you I said what am I doing here and and I pushed everybody while I'm there I'm not coming back what am I going to come back here for to do what yeah University is the place you come to you claim this is A university but you're frightened of a debate seriously and you guys all been brainwashed to think one way you think that's right you don't have the courage to stand out you're not a leader you're a conform you're conforming to what other people are telling you to
do so to go back to your messaging there's nothing wrong with having in emotional heated debate as long as it's respectful it's okay to have an argument as long as it's respectful we have to learn how to Communicate better we also have to learn to not avoid conflict you know there's a book that's written by Patrick lenon it's a it's a red book He's written many great books but one of them is five dysfunctions of a team you know what's one of them avoidance of conflict Ray Dalo Bridge Waterhouse writes a book called principles you
know what one of the things he talks about radical transparency he's built a big company he's worth $20 billion massive Organization we need radical transparency we need to be able to address conflicts we need to have some friendly debates we need to be able to sit down and have these types of conversations but we also learn how to communicate to deliver our message in a way that's still respectful safe and there is the risk of offending and that's okay when you enter a ring okay and you fight whether it's UFC MMA boxing what's the risk
public Humiliation of a video going viral that is a m can you imagine like imagine you fight and you get knocked out so bad you stand up to walk you've seen these videos they stand up and they fall and we're all like oh my God look at the you know how many text messages afterwards think about what they're texting them think about the haters what they're texting them you got your ass speed you piece of [ __ ] you exes ah you saw I'm glad he knocked his ass out it's Public there's risk to fighting
there's risk to debate there's risk to offend that's okay yeah we got to kind of go through it you know we you don't have to intentionally do certain things be respectful about it but there's still that risk that's out there and that's okay we have to be okay with that and you know it's what you said too about the being transparent not being afraid you know not trying to avoid conflict and I think that's something too that we Have strongly in our relationship you know we're very big in communication and communicating how we feel and
um you know there I think in the beginning of our relationship or we our communication wasn't as strong and then as we've been together you know our communication has grown really strong Georgie is so good at communicating with me you know he's very transparent about how he feels so we can get things on the table and talk through things but then I came to a Point where then I wasn't communicating as much because I was trying to avoid conflict and he's like don't keep your feelings because you're trying to avoid a conflict with me like
tell me how you feel so that we can figure it out cuz then I started holding I don't want to create a problem I don't want to get into a fight I don't want to separation absolutely because then I'm holding you're holding these things in you're building up resentment or whatever it Might be but if you put it out on the table and you have that conversation then really what's the worst thing that can happen right amen absolutely and also here's the thing it's like you throw away your ego I throw away my ego we're
a team and we're living in a world right now where it's like no women ain't [ __ ] men need to run or men is thinking this or man no no no no we're not listening to the outside world we come together we pray together we respect Each other so when I say yo like speak your feelings don't be worried about me being upset I'm a piece of [ __ ] if you tell me how you feel and I disregard it I'm like no that's [ __ ] stupid about blah blah then what I told
her is this God leads our relationship live your life and if I'm doing something wrong God will take me out of your life if you're doing something wrong God will take you out of my life that like that level of trust and faith in not only Your partner but in a God gives you the security and the foundation for me to go out and hunt in this world and know that my woman stands with Integrity behind my back this type of relationship is almost doesn't exist anymore because people are so consumed on what what is
Andrew saying what is so and so saying I got to be like that you don't even know there's so many people that come up to me and you were one of them in the beginning you're like nah I don't [ __ ] with Andrew Tate and I said give me one thing you don't like about him oh he's degrading to women fine give me one thing he said that's degrading to women uh okay you're just you're just coming off of your decisions of what other people think and because I've only I had only seen clips
of that side of him I hadn't actually watched myself what he actually has to say and what did I say to you I said hey do your homework for yourself evaluate your morals and his morals and then Align them then make your decision Don't just run with what somebody else hears and says and then come to me as your partner I go you just gather bad information and then gave it to me you poisoned our home don't bring that to the table come with a conclusion that you made on your own and then we'll discuss
it then we have to sit down and we literally sat down at the table we watched so many podcasts pause how do you feel about what he said here and Then we're communicating with each other but that's communication love you get what I'm saying that's why when you said do you know I know you know what you're you're right I may not know everything in her past I know enough that I know that she's my partner of course but but by the way you're not you're not supposed to know everything you know the the Samu
what time is it 7 7:30 okay dude I didn't know you had a heart out the guy behind you just went would You I'm okay because what Jen is still out there with with Dylan they're not going to get home for a few minutes yeah by the way wait um do you have plans or no no okay can you tell Alper to prepare for us SEL uh SEL are you listening yeah can you prepare Alper to prepare food and then also it's going to be four of them and if you can tell Vinnie as well
okay okay question yeah and if I ask this Question you promise me with your whole heart you won't get upset no can I go to the bathroom again yeah of course I drink so much water bro I was like dud I can't do that you want to say something yes no leading off of that and I think another thing too in this relationship that's been such a blessing is I've learned that you know it's okay to rely on somebody else and to not feel like you have to be the one to do it all you
Know I have this big mentality of like no I have to do it on my own and I have to prove myself and it has to be you know I like to find out for myself I don't want your help I I had a really hard time asking for help and he you know had made it so important so valuable to me to be like rely on me be okay to to rely on me to ask me for help to like let me in if you need help with this like don't feel like you need
to you know do it on your own and that also Brings it back to why it is so important I think to have both parents in the household because that shows you that it's a team and they have each other's back and they help each other out and for me personally you know my mother didn't have that and so and I didn't have that so in our minds you know we have to get it done on our own because no nobody else is going to get it done for us and nobody else is going to
help us do it you know so I think that that's Another really important thing with the communication with having your being communicative with your partners to knowing that you that you should have each other's back to to help each other regardless of what it is the reason why you were so receptive to to what I feel is good information is because you didn't walk into the relationship with pride you were willing to listen and and I had issues uh not like anger issues it's so scary to Say that because then people are going to think
I'm like crazy but like I would pop off and the reason I would pop off is because I didn't express myself um and you taught me how to express myself so what happened was we feed off of each other but it comes first with respect absolutely and and you don't mind me leading the house and I and I can't tell you how much I appreciate that and how you're my favorite blessing that God Gave me it's it's so uncomfortable to challenge somebody in your home there should be no challenge like how many times whenever you
put a home-cooked meal it's been four years you put three meals in front of me in the table is there has there ever been one time I didn't thank you like crazily thank you no every time you act like it's the first time I cook for you exactly it's because I'm nurturing you with things That you may have not had when you were growing up and it's it's okay to have hard conversations because it's it's better now to have a hard conversations in the privacy of our home than to have them publicly when we all
split and it's like yo cuz of this and because of that and because of this so I honestly am super grateful to have you in my life because you're a wise woman and also you and also you challenge me you don't just sit back and be my yes woman oh yeah Babe go do this go do that like you will challenge me when we go home and this is the most important one she never embarrasses me in front of people and man I see my friends girlfriends just love to jump on them when they make
a mistake she'll be quiet and meek and when we come home she'll be like you need to sit down like this when you talk to this guy or this when you brought up this like you know you got and I and as a man a lot of times you're like no what The [ __ ] but then I'm like I don't want to lose this woman and I don't want to lose his Blessing so I got to humble myself so great man that's that's wisdom but you know that's also like U uh your your parents
have raised you very well and you have have used your experiences to allow you to raise you well it's a very interesting Dynamic with the with the two of you guys I appreciate that it's exciting thank you back to you I got one question tell me I know you Never wanted to be the president and I know because you're you were born in Iran you can't be the president so you don't want to be and you you technically couldn't as at the moment of where our country is at but if you were what are four
policies you would immediately put into place uh I would change the tax code to to incentivize the right Behavior so we would sit there with I would bring 10 Predictive Analytics guys and uh uh hire Some of the best mathematicians and I would say go model our current tax system that's what 76,000 pages and maybe it's even 80,000 pages today and break down what's going to produce these behaviors so for example if we want more families and to be together what if we eliminated these behaviors that's producing all these single mothers what if we change
the incentive plan to produce more households that are father and mother in the picture okay what tax Code do we need for that fantastic no problem what tax code do we produce for us to want to go out there and create more jobs for small businesses because we need more small businesses not all these big businesses so for example all these Banks going out of business who's buying them chase is sitting around saying oh this is great keep increasing the interest rates keep it going love it why of course they're not saying this publicly but
what happens every time They incre increase the interest rates signature can't make it this guy can't make it and they keep Pi they keep pick banks are on sale right now a big way fit just lowered the rating on 15 different banks and I think they even want to do with Chase so tax code is number one we have to really investigate and structure it in a way that produces the right Behavior that's one number two big farmer is going to be one of them so advertising for me out of a uh uh cable You
know uh that's going to be out no problem use that money in a different way and actually get to work and if you got good Solutions great let's give you the incentive phenomenal go do it fantastic good for you guys we want you to keep innovating but at the same time you don't need to go out there and keep talking about this stuff because it's in incentivizing the wrong behavior for example if you and I own the Cigar Lounge together how do we measure Success we measure success based on what we got seven chairs in
front of the bar those need to be filled we got all these other chairs we got 30 locker rooms over there each one's going to be $1,000 a month for a person to buy success here is if if those 30 are rented okay success here is if we're only going to do 100 memberships at 500 bucks a month is for the 100 to be taken right by different people exclusive membership doesn't need to be public to everybody It's private so it's buy Invitation Only great if 22 are not rented those lockers we're in trouble right
we got to fill those places okay if you and I own a restaurant and we have 40 tables at a restaurant it's Friday Saturday night and our manager calls us hey hey George uh Pat we got to get on a call what's going on uh let me give you guys a report of what we got I got 100% reservations at 6 for 40 tables I got 100% reservations at 8 for 40 tables and I'm able to work something out to put some at 9:30 at 20 tables great so we're sored away today yes how about
Saturday we're full good now if he calls us and he says man I only have 22 reservations on a Friday night out of 40 tables at 6:00 and I only have have 17 reservations at 8:00 and we're relying on Walkins that's problematic fantastic so if you have hospitals if we have hospitals and we got 2,000 beds what success more sick people yeah our comp Is structured to have more sick people because hospitals make $400 to $1,800 a night as long as the beds are being used if the beds are not used you ain't making money
incentive plan has to be structured in a way for you and I to be healthy the healthier we are we have to give a tax incentive to those individuals for example this insurance company that came to us one day I think it's Hancock or it's Hartford it's one of those I think It is Hancock they came out with this product called vitality and they sell the insurance product to you and here's what they sell it with with a Fitbit with a what with a Fitbit why a Fitbit if you're willing to wear the Fitbit and
you're allowing us to track your exercise and the report comes to our website and showing us you're what exercising you're running we will every quarter rvalue and price your cost of insurance That's going to go down every quarter because you're exercising why because the insurance company wants you to live longer okay so they want you to be healthier that incentive is incentivizing you to stay healthy interesting what a concept okay so all the entire structure is messed up based on incentives one of the policies for me would be for sure on our uh kids and
schooling to say there's certain things We're not going to fund moving forward we're just not going to fund this so guess what LAUSD guess what NY you know guess what we're not going to fund this stuff so State funding it's your deal whatever I'm not going to get involved but Federal funding don't expect any federal funding if you're teaching these things if you are don't ask us for money we're not supporting you you got to collect it yourself so you can't do the isal stuff that you're doing now guess What we will give incentives to
school if they do XYZ and teach this to their curriculum no problem why hasn't that been taking place there's a reason because the Dumber we are the easier it is to control us the poorer we are the easier it is to control that vote there's a reason they don't want everybody to become financially free uh you you will understand this concept in a way where a mother I'm talking to my trainer and he's talking about the fact That his mother always broke up relationships anytime you brought a daughter home they had like five brothers she
was never happy with any of the girls because she ruined relationships cuz a mother wants to keep the boys to herself yeah no one's good enough for my boy no one's good enough for my son that's the dynamic right government has ran in a way that they don't think you know no no we don't want to lose your vote we don't want to lose The influence over you we want to have control over our kids you ain't the mom you're not these are not your kids these are not your kids these are somebody else's kids
the incentive has to be changed there and then you know a couple other things that would add to that would probably change the fact that we have 800 military bases worldwide what for Hawaii just went through their mess and now we're at1 people dying as of today if I give today's date so we know What the DAT is could change today it's 7:47 it's the 17th today okay it's 111 people dead today Hawaii we haven't sent any money to them but we're sending another 24 billion to Ukraine and we've already send $75 billion to them
why are we taking care of those any money to $700 only per person is what we're sending per families that were affected by it that's it 700 bucks 700 bucks and by the way check this out when did this event in Hawaii happen on the 10th or eth okay so that's what that's about 10 days ago it's about a week ago if we can't find out when it happened so check this out I want you to process this real quick for me we're moving so swiftly with Ukraine and zalinsky to help them out you call
me one night you're living in this area you call you say Pat 2:00 my car broke down in Miami no one's picking up no one's doing this I don't have a card I don't have my phone card is not linked To it Uber I can't get it because my card's expired I need somebody to come pick me up everybody I'm calling I'm not is not picking me up okay what would you think if I came to Miami to pick you up a week later I would think that you took forever you your reaction from me
needs to be Swift like you're expecting me to come support you when now but if I tell you two weeks from dude I came to Miami you're like bro you came a week later I needed you now yeah could have walked Home Maui needed US 10 days ago and we still haven't given them anything not not a month from now that they're going to give money to ma of course they're going to give money to Maui not a month from the fire not two weeks I Need You Now why are they taking so long so
again these are things that these are great questions to ask that we're not taking care of our home the amount of money we're spending over there and we're so worried about the school shooting you Know how much of that money we could have spent on giving more protection and security in schools and maybe putting a cop or two in every school right we could have spent that money there to do how about all the veterans living in the streets you say you're worried about homelessness no you're not you're more worried about Ukraine what so these
are things that you know some of the things that we're trying to do you know like your father Telling you listen help other people out but not at the cost of breaking your back and ruins your family life right okay guess what we'll help out Ukraine here's a couple billion dollars no problem but hey man we got to take care of our family and it's what America it's so confusing how we're running this country today with the way our money is being spent and we keep getting more and more and more into debt it's super
confusing and these are Common Sense Conversations nothing I'm telling you you're walking away saying oh my God it's so complicated no I'm I'm forgive me for my uh stupidity on the knowledge of this but I'm just starting to learn now because I'm not running away from that conversation uh when it comes to inflation I'm very new to this um I should have probably studied a long time ago but I didn't know it was important so now Uh from what I'm reviewing myself I feel like inflation comes from one in One Direction only it's the printing
of money like for example Reed if you don't mind I if I could bring this up we could cut if you don't want you're very excited about the uh paying off of school debt it's not happening it's not happening but when it it was happening uh I was like great that's a cool thing they're you know for giving people's loans but then the the thought of Printing money that we don't have who's making this decision if if I if I think of my country as my friend right if my friend came up to me he's
like hey man I'm $220,000 in debt on this credit card and I go oh [ __ ] he goes but don't worry about it I'm going to go fix this and I'm like great great great fart like this is a great start to like fixing your thing I'm like you going to go get a job he goes no I'm Going to open up another credit card I would have been like dude you're working the opposite direction you're not fixing the problem you're thinking the right way though so why why is it that a stupid YouTube
kid that's 30 years old is a Syrian is understanding the decisions that our check like our our leaders are making but nobody like our church that are Sur y nobody wants to stand up and be like hey man you're wrong let me give an Example Donald Trump I didn't vote for him and I didn't vote against him I'm not a voter I I I I truly don't I think right now in my stupid mind I feel like there's just a lot of manipulation so my vote is not even going to matter but how weird is
it that I can't if I wanted to vote for Trump I can't go right now and be like yeah I vote for Trump because then I lose sponsors I lose fans I lose this we can't stand up for our country and say Hey I really believe that this person is so and so and so and so and so and so because of the fear of what other people think of me and then we have to be worried about money being taken away from you this is the land of the free but the home is an
empty crib there there is no Freedom if you can't really speak about how you want to speak how do we get to a place where I could have my peers my enemies and my friends speak freely and because like now like When I see somebody go oh he's a [ __ ] idiot like for example I don't think Biden should be president not because of his policy I truly think this man's not in a state right now where he should be a president I'm not going to bash him I don't know what he's done enough
for me to bash him but when I hear my friend go [ __ ] Biden he can't talk about there's nothing good that comes out of that either bring something to the table that could help our country go up or shut the [ __ ] up there's no reason for you to be talking [ __ ] about somebody there's there's nothing's going to benefit from that how do we get to a place where I could call you out hey Pat I don't like the way you spoke about that bro you need to hold yourself accountable
how do we get to this place cuz right now I'm getting to a like I'm looking at where our country is going and I'm like bro like I don't I don't know where to go the one move that I made that thank God I made before I even started my careers money won't be the motive I've lost a lot of money because I want to stand on the principles that God want me to to stand on but you know what came from that maybe not the Lamborghini maybe not the Mansion yet maybe not the watch
maybe not the whatever the [ __ ] it is but you know what I have that a lot of my friends don't have that I don't give a [ __ ] what you feel about me I'm going to say how I feel you can't buy me you Can't buy my mouth how do I get people that watch this podcast to know that it's more valuable to stand up for what you believe in versus what people think you are listen man this it's so so I got so many things to tell you and and we'll make
this the last thing and I and then we'll we'll uh uh uh uh go to the house cuz the kids are waiting but uh I will tell you this so one for you okay I don't think it's cool what they're doing to you with your school loan and you're Like man I'd love for us to pay this off etc etc no problem in the last 20 years okay inflation Consumer Price you know CPI what's increase stuff that we're buying is up around 220% okay so something that was you know that cost us 10 bucks you
know whatever in uh 20 years ago today is 220% more expensive college education today it's 1,200% more expensive did it get 1200% better no it's the same thing why the hell you charging me 1,000% more than CPI oh it's no longer school it's now the ultimate Capital list except what school tools have that capitalists don't have is you guys don't pay taxes you're freaking brilliant so Harvard sitting on how much on endowment if you Google it right now $60 billion why do you have $60 billion do you know Harvard can give free tuition for the
next hundred years they won't even feel it how come they don't do it I think I thought you were about Education why oh during covid hey since the kids are not staying on campus can we pay less tuition since it's all online no you still have to pay full tuition what yeah that's what they did of course wait fought that no you still have to pay for it's Harvard okay so it's it's a Harvard you know it's a okay no problem great I'm glad you did it you know why cuz you expose yourself yeah no
problem fantastic you don't give a [ __ ] about that exactly so don't tell us your Education just say you're capitalist just say you are the most brightest capitalist out there cuz you as much as you [ __ ] about how much billionaires pay taxes you don't pay taxes bro you don't pay taxes on a lot of stuff go look at the money that they don't pay taxes on okay schools what what a freaking brilliant business but let's trash the billionaire that doesn't pay no no no you don't pay taxes and you're sitting on 60
billion doll of Cash go look at the top 10 endowments of universities and you want to say let's pay the debt off of course College professors are going to say let's forgive all the debt you're not going to pay worry about it because you already got the money you're not going to pay the money we're going to pay the money who the hell are you to tell us let's let's vote for this thing to be forgiven because it's the noble thing to do how about you pay half of it you have the Money collectively colleges
let's get all the money that you guys got in your bank you pay half of it okay now let's have a conversation no no no no no that's not because we are this this then then be quiet when you say you're so Noble cuz you're not all you're doing is worried about your bank account you endowment guys that all this money you have in a bank perfect now the other part is schools check this out kind of weird loans an 18-year-old kid if an 18-year-old kid with zero credit what's the likelihood of bank's going to
give this guy a $200,000 loan for a house very very low it's just not going to happen but what's the likelihood of bank is going to give a loan you know why because you can't file that file bankruptcy and not pay the school loan they came out with a law that you have to pay the debt what a freaking brilliant model everything else I can put on my BK except for my school loan Yeah wow you guys are so so you really screwed up all these young kids that made them pretty much slaves to have
to make these payments for 20 30 years what a brilliant move you say we're anti-slavery you're producing Slaves by going to your schools financially you know how much it sucks when you're slave to your $200,000 loan or hun so I totally feel a frustration for a guy like him that's going through it of course I feel it but it's not your fault It's not my fault the taxpayer it's the incentives that we have and no one's talking about this stuff imagine it being in a in a in a that you're like oh I want to
switch to this but now you're like well [ __ ] dude I can't switch now cuz I'm $200,000 in debt and now this person is working in a career choice that he no longer wants to be but he has to be there because he has to pay that I mean doctors go to school for what 10 12 plus years and then you know they're Like yeah I'm going to be a doctor I'm going to make great money they don't even get to make that money for years 30 years old yeah and then they have $400,000
of debt so again by the way credit for their systems to be able to control contr tens of millions of people what a system to control people and you control them for 20 30 40 years fascinating how they've been able to do this and we all follow go to college what I got to do Now is yeah oh [ __ ] this oh my God what is this all about okay and then the other thing you talk about and say I don't understand this why why is it set up this way and why are they
saying to do this and to do that well because these politicians man the way you work where you're like inflation you know we're printing money and why are we okay with printing all this money and to pay the debt off you know I'm just a YouTuber why would I know this stuff Very simple George the real policies that America needs to be a better Nation would never get you elected the policies that get you elected is to say I'm going to give you free money I'm going to give you free this I'm going to give
you free that people don't realize it's short-term satisfaction you know versus long-term you know like say for for instance your uh uh I'm going to give you two Scenarios your father's a disciplinarian get up you better clean the bed he you better take the plate you better do this what' you say to your mom I'm sorry what did you just no no no don't ever talk to your mom like that again let's go I got to talk to you [ __ ] okay Mom and Dad get a divorce she marries another guy you're 13 years
old he's now your stepfather he comes in oh I'm sorry John I didn't make the beted today don't worry about it man I don't never make my bed okay I'm so Sorry I didn't put the plate back it's totally fine man don't worry about it you're going desp your father hey hey hey hey Mom hey uh mom shut up mom you don't know what you're talking about you know what you're right bro I agree the same way with your mom you know what just happened now you like him cuz he's warm and fuzzy now like
screw my freaking Dad I can't I'm so happy he's not in my life anymore just no wonder mom left him you know what hey don't Worry about it let's go smoke a joint you and I let's you and I do you smoke a joint 13 14 with your stepdad a freaking cool guy and your best friends are like dude I love George's Dad we smoke weat him all the time we go to my mom won't let me but we go smoke and he also knows how to get the smell off my clothes so when I
come on my mom's not going to smell the weed I freaking love George's stepdad but you're like him for how long for 10 years 20 years and then you're 35 And now you realize screw that guy mhm okay so now you flip it so how do you how do you teach the Sheep it's going to take a couple years of talking making sense for people to say I want high standards look eventually what we all realize everybody wants to be led everybody why did Tate all of a sudden get picked up and go viral because
the stuff he was saying younger boys and men and grown men were saying finally someone saying Some of this stuff you know what yeah why don't like you know why am I watching it's making it's making sense it's making okay I don't agree with that but I I don't by 10 things he says I agree with 80% someone's finally saying this stuff yeah we want high standards we want expect we want somebody to challenge us that crowd who has been high as a kite for decades is waking up and now they're saying there's more of
us out there yes yesterday I'm over here We're finishing up a shoot and Mario and I are outside guy pulls up the car he starts running up to me I'm like oh [ __ ] Mario hey you ready you ready and let's see what this guy's going to do okay it comes up Closer Closer Closer Closer hey man I'm so sorry I just want to say I've been following this content I got to tell you freaking life changing I hope you continue I'm like okay so bro the way you walked up was a little you
know Insane totally fine okay he says he says hey you know what but let me tell you man they're ruining America they're ruining this I said bro they want you to talk like that but I want you to know something he says what's that you know what's the crazy thing about what's happening right now he says what I said this is scary he says what's that I said I said the the like-minded people are finding each other it's so freaking awesome and that scares The crap out of them when I started my own insurance company
a guy comes to my office and I'm watching to see what the other guys are saying about me as competitor it's always easy to find out what people are saying about you when they're coming to you and they said hey Pat I don't know why here's all they're telling me go anywhere we won't sue you but if you go with Pat we'll sue you interesting another guy comes next week same line another guy comes next week Same line then I finally realize they're brilliant because they're better off having 50 people leave a company and have
50 different companies versus 50 people leave and go to the same company oh [ __ ] that's a force to be reckoned with they want all of us to be divided they want Muslims and Christians to be divided they want all these different people to be divided they want to pin you against each other but you know what's taking place right now we're Finding each other absolutely we're saying D listen man I don't agree with you on 95% of stuff or 82% of stuff or 70 but the stuff that I agree on that's the stuff
that's important in my life let's roll you ready let's roll it up you good let's go let me introduce you to oh [ __ ] that he's like yeah there's 20 of us now there's 48 of us now there's 100 of us there's a thousand of what the hell is going on Bo so that that's the freaking exciting part that These True Believers are finding each other and it's going to take us a decade or two or three to address this but eventually if we stay solid we set a good example we lead with faith
and hope one day we're going to wake up and we're going to be 70 years old 75 years old looking back saying hey my man we did a good job hey my man we did this hey guys freaking great all right guess what now guys looking down and saying hey proud of you guys you left this thing better Than the others did now just make sure you don't spoil the Next Generation so they become pansies toughen them up as well don't let them live an easy life let them also have some challenges so they're going
to pass this tradition to the Next Generation and the Next Generation and the Next Generation absolutely and even I'm so sorry now go ahead please oh and even now too on you know when I watch certain videos about you know certain political things are Happening or certain things in schools that are happening and then I look at the comments and I always see a Christian that has a comment and then underneath a Muslim will be like us Muslim Brothers have you you know your Christians backs and I see this on I've seen this on I
think every video that has to do with schooling politics whatever it might be I love it I'm going to end it with this one I really appreciated your time our ancestors the Assyrians created the wheel and our mindsets are are rolling right now and I and I hope hope and I pray that our next Generation we keep the wheel rolling thank you so much thank you so much brother this was great thank you so much yes really enjoyed it this was fantastic this is awesome this is good by guys how long was this a little
over maybe two and a half hours or something like that it was really good it felt like this was great
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