If you're going out there and you're finding yourself more successful with women, you know you're going to probably end up in the bedroom with them. One thing that guys overlook and they don't pay a lot of attention to is the techniques and the dynamics between foreplay. What you have to understand is the foreplay is very crucial in terms of being able to have a great sexual experience both for you and the woman.
Of course, I have here in this video, a woman giving you the detailed step by step instructions on how to be amazing at foreplay and going down on a woman. I wouldn't have anyone else explain it because think about it, it's a woman's experience so she knows exactly what she wants done to feel good. I'm going to let my good friend Laurel House take it away and give you step by step what to do with the next time you are in the bedroom with the girl and you are having fun.
Hey you, it's time to learn how to go down on her. Let me tell you that oral sex is often a sadly overlooked and underrated foreplay technique. In fact, sometimes it can deliver orgasms that are deeper, longer and more intensely satisfying than any vaginal sex.
Even giving your woman squirting orgasms over and over again. That make her feel like she's gonna black out and she's uncontrollably moaning, screaming, biting and riding with pleasure. Yeah, that good.
I know because I've had them. Now it's your turn to give them to your girl. Here's how you give her mind blowing oral sex.
Do it slow. Soften your tongue. You want to allow your tongue to be easy.
You want it to be malleable. I've been with some guys who have tongues that are hard, like hard, not sexy, does not feel good. If your tongue is a hard tongue, work on releasing those muscles in your tongue.
Then go slowly. You're going to start with making out. I'm talking about kissing, everything on top.
Kiss for a while, kissing, make some woman wet if you're good at it. Then move on to touching, start putting your hand down and doing some fingering, then comes the mouth. Massage can also help.
You might want to give your woman a nice deep back massage. When you go low under her low back, that area actually helps to increase the blood flow, which means you're increasing the blood flow to her vagina, which is going to turn her on. If she's a little bit uptight or uneasy with oral sex, that's a good thing that you can do.
Oral sex is really intimate. A woman might feel anxious about letting you go down, smell her, taste her and see that close to her hair or lack of hair down there. It can be more intimate than sex.
Some women are a little bit anxious about it. Respect that. By going slowly, you're going to help to get her in the mood.
Once you are down in her vagina area, you're going to start with the clit. Use your fingers first, use the pad of your finger to roll around the clit. You can also use your thumb.
You can do a little bit of pushing also, but you don't want to go super fast at first. Yes, that is oftentimes what's going to make a woman cum at the end, that really fast movement. At the beginning, you want to start slow.
You can go around, you can go in, you can go across with your finger as well. Then add your tongue and allow your tongue to take over where your hand was. Same thing, around the clit, across, all over.
You can go lightly, and as the intensity builds, you can go harder, you can go faster. You also want to touch on her lips. When you're going to do that, you want to lick on it.
You're going to go bite her lips,. Some women have bigger lips than others. Again, it's the differences of vaginas, like how some men have bigger penises.
You want to lick inside the lips. You can suck a little bit on the clit, depending, some women are a little bit too sensitive there so gradually do it. What you don't necessarily want to do though is try and stick your tongue inside of her.
This is not about fucking her vagina with your mouth. Some women might like that, but you're not doing this and trying to mimic having sex. That's not what this is.
This is different. It's a different sensation. That's what's so great about it.
What you do want to do is put your whole mouth on her vagina, so she feels the heat, she feels the wetness from your tongue, she feels totally owned by you, you've got her. With that, you're going to be licking inside, you can still be thumbing her clit at the same time. You're going to be moving around.
You want to think about how you might suck a mango, like a whole mango. You can have your mouth on it. Your tongue is moving on it, or an ice cream cone, you're going around.
You want to continue moving around when you start to feel her body waving a little bit. When you feel her heating up, when you taste that she's getting wetter, that's when you're going to increase the intensity. Both speed and pressure can go up.
Then you're going to start to see when she likes those little movements, that's probably because she likes that more. When she's moaning somewhere, that's because she likes that movement that you're doing more. Try and focus on that.
Don't only do that, but try and incorporate that movement a little bit more. You can also talk dirty to her. Obviously, it's hard when you're licking, also talking.
You're going to do the licking, or do the moving, you have your whole mouth on there, then you can say, I want you to cum, or you're going to cum for me, or I can taste how wet you are, and go back. When you start talking, you're getting into her head. A woman loves good head.
Both this head and that head. That's how she's gonna cum. That's how you can control her cum, talk the cum out of her by talking about it, by telling her you want it, by telling her how good she tastes.
You're not again going to talk, talk talk. It's a little bit of talking, going back in, and intensifying. When she starts to cum, she might start bouncing up and down pretty hard.
You can grab her ass so that you got her and you don't knock yourself out while you're doing it because some women really lose it. Once you made her cum, she could do a sporting cum. It's not like any bad tasting stuff, it's just a lot of extra wetness.
It's great. Good job. That's the goal.
It is hard to make a woman do that. Some women do it very easily and naturally and some women almost never do. If you do, oh my gosh.
You might think that she's done because she's got, that's not it. She has more and you can tell her you're not done yet. You have more in there for me.
Keep on going. It's like climbing a mountain. You got to this peak, but from that peak, you can get her up to here.
That's the big one. That's where she loses control. That's where she's, after it, she's just complete jelly.
If she does that, there's more in there. You can do it. The first time that happened to me, that was like, I'm done.
I came. He's like, if you're talking like that, you're not done. You didn't cum enough.
If you can be like, oh, yeah, I'm all done. That wasn't enough. There's more.
Give it to her. Pull it out of her. Keep going until she is erupting.
That's what you're going to do to go down. If you want to learn more about me, get some more of my coaching, not just when it comes to sex, but also when it comes to everything, when it comes to dating, relationships, getting over a breakup, flirting and getting into a relationship, go to my website Love Actually Academy. I developed multiple hour coaching video program where I will walk you through every relationship phase so that you can get into that relationship, that gives you the opportunity to give a woman incredible head.
Go to Love Actually Academy and learn more. It's also comes with a workbook so you can really dig in and get what my clients get and get a lot more. Thank you so much for watching.
I can't wait for you to go and give your girl amazing head. See you guys soon. Thanks Tripp.
