4 ways your EX tests you after a breakup and how to respond

these are four ways your ex will test you after the breakup and how to respond number one they will use the back door to put you and Friends arm now what does this mean after a breakup your ex wants to be comfortable they want to put you on the back burner and go see if the grass is greener do their own thing but have unlimited access to you so a lot of times they'll ask you to be friends you know if you've been watching this Channel or you understand no contact more than likely you said

no but your ex is smart they're gonna test you they'll ask you to do things that they would typically do with a friend they'll keep calling and texting you and basically keeping you around on the back burner without a title do not fall forward to set boundaries and say I have no interest in being friends and it looks like based on our communication that's what you're looking for I'm asking that you do not reach out to me unless you want to date number two is that they ask you for favors a lot of times your

ex does this to see if you still have feelings for them to understand where they stand with you but understand you do not owe your ex anything when someone dumps you they do not get benefits they do not get unlimited access to you so if your ex is asking you to do favors respectfully say hey I can't do that I'm busy I'm working whatever it is do not spend your time doing favors reacts number three is that they violate your boundaries so what does this mean sometimes your ex will call you at two o'clock in

the morning three in the morning text you at odd hours all right they'll try to set last minute plans with you with no intentions you you need to reject these if they call you at 2AM do not respond get back to them the next day they are no longer a priority if someone dumps you they do not get special treatment if they ask you out last minute a few minutes or one hour before you say no I'm busy tonight let's look at another night have boundaries maintain and enforce boundaries with your ex number four is

that they try to make you jealous they might talk about someone that they're dating or someone who likes them you need to just dismiss it just like hey I'm not interested in talking about your dating life again that's what you want to talk about I'd appreciate it if you don't reach out to me if you want to talk if you want to go on dates that's fine let's organize something then right oh this is a cell phone I'll catch you in the next video peace