BAD THINGS, PAIN AND SUFFERING MAKE REAL MEN - Andrew Tate 1 Hour Motivational Speech

I've always been rich but I'm not just Rich because of money you have to understand I'm rich because of a bunch of things that money cannot buy like I know there's people with lots of money but they don't have the network I have they don't have the Brotherhood I have just sitting with my boys knowing that if if it comes to if it's if if the bullets start flying me and my 10 friends we all die or no one dies having That Brotherhood having women who would literally you could go to jail for 10 years

and they would wait for you they exist for you and only you completely and utterly you are their entire universe like having physicality walking through the world bigger and stronger than everyone else having all those professional fights having and all the bad things having the trauma all the pain all the [ __ ] I've been through you ain't a good man if you haven't had Trauma though I'm rich not because of money I'm rich because I've been through a whole bunch of [ __ ] like I don't see anyone else in the planet richer than

me because they're either too old or their life's been too easy like I have a I've had a very very unique life very very eclectic life I was born with the best possible start a man can have which is good parents and no money I've made all of my money completely myself the hard way if if you see a Lamborghini pull up And a little nerd gets out you think oh [ __ ] super tech nerd probably invented stripe or something he's a nerd whereas if you see a Lambo pull up and a big [

__ ] strong bald whatever crazy dude gets out you think okay he's a drug dealer he's a Mafia Boss the lambo doesn't change what you think it amplifies who the person is money is an amplifier it doesn't change so I'm very I'm very fortunate I'm very happy that I was poor for a long time cuz I never Would have been able to learn the lessons I've learned if I was rich I wouldn't never been able to take those risks I would have never been able to be in those situations I've been stabbed just like you

I'll show you my scar so I would never been able to put put been put through hell if I had money so I'm very glad I was poor for a very long time and the reason I'm the richest person on the planet is not because of the amount of money I have it's because Of all the [ __ ] I that happened to me when I was poor and I state that without arrogance I don't mean to be arrogant but I am a realist and as a realist it would be absolutely unprofessional for me to

sit here and pretend I'm not an exceptional human being because I am and a lot of those things I did myself and some of them were god-given but the ones that weren't god-given was because I put myself through hell I put myself through hell because I decided to throw Comfort Away for 10 years of my life I was never comfortable as a man if you don't make yourself valuable you have no value you have to get up and do it just like a video game you start with [ __ ] zero you have to decide

if you want to complete it you have to upgrade your character so I find it amazing that men are going to play video games and [ __ ] about and waste their time instead of upgrading their character everyone knows what to do you know what you have to do Right if you had to become the most dangerous intelligent respectable man on the planet you know you're supposed to go to the gym you know you're supposed to train learn how to fight you know you know all these things you don't do them that's your that's your

decision it's your prerogative I didn't I didn't make that choice I made the choice to do it all I decided all of that that every single man watching this can do the exact same thing and me as a man when I've put myself through hell when I have had such exacting such stringent standards for myself why would I then have have less exacting stringent standards on the people I meet why would I put myself through hell to be me and then meet someone who didn't put themselves through hell and then treat them like my equal

no [ __ ] you I suffered when you didn't so you not my equal because you decided not to suffer you have enjoyed Comfort when I haven't And that's fine but don't expect me to look at you as my equal cuz you're not I'll snap your [ __ ] neck if we were still in the animal kingdom the lions that you see on TV they weren't just born big lions they had to fight other Lions they had to fight to get that Antelope they had to fight other animals hyenas Jackal they had to fight to

be the boss we live in a comfortable world now where people think oh it doesn't matter it doesn't matter but you know What to some degree it does matter it does matter and I tell you who it matters to it matters to your soul and it matters to God I stand in the mirror with a pure heart I know I am the best version of me that could possibly ever exist I know that God is proud of me there's nothing that God hates more than sloth and laziness if God were to create a man and

that man were to sit around and do [ __ ] off God will frown upon you it's why you're Never lucky if you're listening to this and you think I'm never lucky I'll tell you why cuz God dislikes you because you're [ __ ] lazy start to work start to show God the beauty of his own Creations you be amazed how lucky you'll become wow God is unhappy with these people and inside their hearts they're unhappy we talk about depression anxiety all those things you mentioned in the earlier on this podcast that comes from self-loathing

you loath your own Weakness you loath your own laziness this is what all of these things are I don't feel depression how can I feel depression when I'm the most powerful version of me that I could ever [ __ ] be how can I feel depression when I could squeeze my own hand hard enough to break my own bones how can I feel depression when I've smashed and destroyed 68 people's faces in front of me men who thought they could test me in Fair combat how can I feel depressed It's impossible if you cannot control

your own mind then you are just a feather in the Wind of life because your own mind is the only thing you can control you can't control the weather you can't control people you can't even control whether your heart stops beating you might have a heart attack tomorrow you can't control anything besides what you think if you cannot control your own mind then you go through life with zero control Zero influence you can't control anything you're just a feather in the wind waiting for life to blow you from happy place to sad place to happy

place to sad Place completely hoping on the gods to be fortunate to you because if any genuine discomfort comes your way you're [ __ ] it is trained like everything else in life it is trained so if you find yourself not appreciating what you have until it's gone then you must blink and cure your Brain if you find yourself unable to focus or concentrate on tasks you must blink and cure your brain if you find yourself unable to go and dedicate yourself to something you don't want to do you must blink and cure your brain

because all all of our minds have been under constant assault for years the genu the way the Mind functions the way people interact has changed so significantly in the last 10 years you wouldn't believe if you go to a party Today as opposed to a party 10 years ago they look completely different people are acting differently people are on their phones now than ever used to be even now people will go to places only to get an Instagram picture even if they don't enjoy the place wow it's all about pretending they're having fun as opposed

to actually having fun the entire Paradigm of society and how we interact has now changed every single thing in the world is attempting to influence you I'll give you another Paradigm that people need to understand I ask people people have these beliefs doesn't matter what their belief is doesn't matter they believe in something I say where did you get that belief from and they don't know oh I well it's just how it's supposed to be we're just supposed to wear a mask whatever it is right where did you get that belief who told you that

and does that person have your best interests at heart think about it think about all the Things you truly believe think where you learned it and think if that person actually gives a [ __ ] about you because the only thing you should be learning from his personal experience for people who genuinely care about you and love you most people are out here believing things and repeating things that were told to them by people who don't even [ __ ] like them by their enemies everyone's mind is fundamentally [ __ ] all of it look

at me I'm a guy Who decided to conquer social media I blinked I cured my brain I used basic indefatigability I used perspicacity I used compend I used my mind and I focused and I [ __ ] conquered the world in a few short months it's not difficult there's just no competition because everybody's [ __ ] distracted Conquest is all life's ever been for men this is what men have an innate desire to Conquest to to conquer even you you care about having as many viewers as Possible on your streams you care about being as

big as possible you care about conquering why did the Romans wake up make melt rocks make swords and walk in random directions they didn't have Google Maps they didn't have a [ __ ] clue where they were going random directions to find some other group of people and [ __ ] them up and take their [ __ ] why conquer Conquest a conquer why did genas Khan ride his ass from Mongolia all the way to [ __ ] Vienna It's a long way why conquer men are born with this innate desire to conquer it's inside

of us they're trying to suppress it they're trying to distract it away from you tell you that you're wrong you're toxically masculine you shouldn't want to conquer you should want to sit at home and be tolerant no you shouldn't you should want to conquer [ __ ] only thing that's going to make you intrinsically happy is Conquest nothing else if you're depressed it's cuz you Don't conquer [ __ ] conquer or something get up and do it it doesn't have to be a negative at all you can do it in a very very positive way

you can have a positive impact on the world I like to think that my my impact on the world's been positive I've conquered the whole [ __ ] internet and I've done it in a positive way I'm helping the world as good as I am I still I still push myself to the Limit every single [ __ ] day I have every single thing a man could Possibly want I'm still pushing myself what do you think is the hardest challenge for the average man I think that a lot of people don't understand that it's all

of the challenges and struggles that's going to make them it's either going to make or break them every time I feel stressed or under pressure I get excited I I I hate to not be stressed I wake up and I'm like everything's [ __ ] good yes like that's just how I am right but it's it's how You adop it's how you look at the problems and how you use them to fuel you so the question was what's the problem for the average man today what's the biggest problem I think there's a whole host of

problems but what you have to do is frame it inside of your mind and understand that all of those problems are going to allow you give you the fuel the unlimited motivation that you need to become a successful and and beautiful individual if you frame it in The right way if you take a man and give him a life shielded from problems and he never has any to face I guarantee you he's terrible at being a man the best men in the world have gone through [ __ ] that's just that's why women love scars

because they didn't kill you that's the whole point of it right so the best thing you can do as a man is look and go okay this is hard this is hard this is hard this is hard I feel negative because these are all so difficult I'm Struggling with XY Z let me internalize all of that and turn it into a superpower let me become genuinely uncomfortable with my situation in life and go and fix things because like I said the universe is absolutely unly very giving and if you truly hated being in the position

you were in you wouldn't be there ready to K I don't do this for fun this is all sports me I don't enjoy it I hate training this I was born for this I have no choice I'm in there to Kill that's it pain all I enough if we were still in the animal kingdom the lions that you see on TV they weren't just born big lions they had to fight other Lions they had to fight to get that antelope they had to fight other animals hyenas Jackal they had to fight to be the boss

that's the world the world has become exceptionally easy for a lot of men it used to be a diff different place most men were camf most of us would have ended up in Wars dying For [ __ ] no reason damn now we don't have to do that so because we don't have to do that men think it's okay to just become comfortable now you don't not supposed to be comfortable you were never evolved to be comfortable you're supposed to be uncomfortable right and if you find make yourself uncomfortable constructively it's very easy to be

anything you want we live in a comfortable world now where people think a it doesn't matter it doesn't matter But you know what to some degree it does matter it does matter and I'm tell you who it matters to it matters to your soul and it matters to God I think we're here to struggle and to learn I don't think we're here to be happy that's why when we keep going back to the Happy argument I've always found that kind of frustrating and annoying when someone goes oh but I want to be happy why I

think we're here to struggle I think we're here to endure pain I think we're Here to just see how hard we are to kill I think that going through terrible things and living through them and and coming out the other side is one of the most fantastic things about being human uh I think that it's it's almost like once you understand what life is really about there's no emotion which isn't enjoyable the only emotion that the only emotional state which can be seen as detrimental is feeling nothing at all but if you're sitting at home

and you're Feeling truly heartbroken at least you're feeling something right and and and I think that's the whole part of Being Human I don't I I think we're here to struggle I think we're here to go through pain that's I wake up each day Ang go what can I what can I attack what problem can I solve and and look at history why did gask Khan wake up want to conquer the whole world why did Napoleon conquer the world why did Alexander the Great conquer the world You just wake up and just say give me

this give me the I want all of it I need to there's an army there they're really big we're better it's intrinsic you need to go and Conquer that's that's the purpose of life I I believe that I mean the most important thing you can do as a man is is to gain control of your own is to gain control of your mind once you have control of your mind life is so ridiculously easy it's it's so ridiculously easy it's so easy to be in People say to me T you're in good shape all you

do is drink vulka and travel the world you're never even home you never even have a gym how do you do it it's ridiculously easy if you control your mind if I decid to do a th push-ups I'll do them maybe I have to do one at a time maybe I'll get tired maybe I need a break I'm going to do a thousand cuz I said I'm going to do a thousand it's not [ __ ] hard everyone knows what they're supposed to do once you control your Mind it's easy right getting over a breakup

with that [ __ ] you missed that girl you're upset you miss her with all your heart D but once you realize she's gone if you control your mind she's gone now she's gone now going to miss her that's a shame off to the gym but like you either control your mind or you don't and and this all of these things stem from the same problem it's something you can do it's something that is learned It's something that is taught but it's it's something that I needed to survive so for me it's easy right it's

all I've ever known but people have like now they don't need it to survive so they never develop the skill that's just how it works at the end of World War II when men seen seen when men went to Europe and saw on speakable Horrors at the end of World War II did they all come home and need therapy or did they all come home and get back to life get back to Life because because that was everyone was taught to have a mind that they controled because they needed it to survive there's no one

else that's that's how life worked back then this is it but people are so scared of the emotions that's all it is no one's going to shoot them in the head they're scared of the emotions of missing her you're a full grown man you're scared of some emotions sit in bed and be sad and [ __ ] play your chest and go to the Gym and be sad and lift your weights and be sad for a while and do your [ __ ] till you're not sad anymore the [ __ ] you're scared of emotions

to the point you let a [ __ ] run your [ __ ] life it's insane Conquest is all life's ever been for men this is what men have an innate desire to Conquest to to conquer even you you care about having as many viewers as possible on your streams you care about being as big as possible you care about conquering why did the Romans Wake up make melt rocks make swords and walk in random directions they didn't have Google Maps they didn't have a [ __ ] clue where they were going random directions to

find some other group of people and [ __ ] them up and take their [ __ ] why Conquest this a conquer why did genas Khan ride his ass from Mongolia all the way to [ __ ] Vienna it's a long way why conquer men are born with this innate desire to conquer it's inside of us they're trying To suppress it they're trying to distract it away from you tell you that you're wrong you're toxically masculine you shouldn't want to conquer you should want to sit at home and be tolerant no you shouldn't you should

want to conquer [ __ ] only thing that's going to make you intrinsically happy is Conquest nothing else if you're depressed it's cuz you don't conquer [ __ ] conquer something get up and do it it doesn't have to be a negative at all you can do it in a very Very positive way you can have a positive impact on the world I like to think that my my impact on the world's been positive I've conquered the whole [ __ ] internet and I've done it in a positive way I'm helping the world maybe my

enemies maybe the Matrix doesn't like me but there's young men who are watching every single one of my videos whose lives are changing so I Conquest can be a very positive thing so I'm here on the internet Conquering the internet Because I've decided to because that's my hobby because I don't I don't do anything degenerate I don't take drugs I don't gamble anymore I used to gamble a bit bored a it don't gamble don't take drugs I drink sometimes but it's really not a big deal for me I don't like to drink too much pussy's

great but how much of it do you really need I have enough and what the [ __ ] else is it to do drive cars and con the internet there a nothing else to do that's it so my my Organization the war room is already I would I would vouch as one of the top five most important and Powerful organizations on the planet within 10 years we will be the most powerful organization on the planet I can't even tell you here in public that you will not believe the influence we have you will not believe

the the organizations we have infiltrated you would not believe it if I [ __ ] told you D I'm going to run the most powerful closed Circuit organization on the [ __ ] planet it's going to be mine and I'm going to conquer Earth and I'm going to have 20 sons from 10 supermodels and I'm going to die and there's going to be 10 20 Andrew Tates watching my old videos continuing the Legacy this is what I'm going to do from my bloodline I'm going to conquer [ __ ] Earth goals are something you put

on the wall to motivate yourself right right goals are Mo so if you want you want to buy a car You put the car on the wall and it motivates you to go to work to get the car so you that's a goal goal goals are for motivation I don't work on motivation I work on discipline so I don't have a set goal I just get up and do what I know I'm supposed to do I don't work to try and afford that car I work because I'm supposed to work and then I can already

afford that car and another one and another one and a boat and a plane and a house and another House and a land and then I just work I do my work that is my duty as a man is my duty to God I train the gym it is my duty to God I do I do my duties to God I fulfill my duty I'm an old school gentleman of honor and respect I do what I'm supposed to do I don't have any particular set goals anything I decide to do or want to do I

can do instantly and if I can't do instantly I can do it pretty [ __ ] quickly I don't need goals in that old traditional sense I do What I'm supposed to do wow it's it's not a matter of how I feel or how I'm motivated if I was depressed it's impossible but if I was depressed my life would be and the day-to-day activities would be exactly the same as if I was ecstatically happy you wouldn't be able to see a difference I'd be up at the same time I'd be in the gym the same

i' be doing the same [ __ ] it's it's those are my duties as a my duties to God I don't how I feel has nothing to do With it completely unrelated how I feel is unrelated to my duties to God they don't change based on how I feel they're the same and they will be completed because I refuse to fail God or my bloodline that's amazing how let me no I'm telling you there's a bunch there's how many people in this stream 188,000 168,000 whatever you could take 150,000 of these people and and and

Sh and time travel back in time and stand them in front of their Ancestors and their ancestors who fought [ __ ] saber-tooth tigers or escaped the the Mongol hordes or managed to dodge bombs in the second world war all the [ __ ] they went through just for this [ __ ] keton to be born and to look at him look at who he is listen to his life story listen to what he does on a day-to-day basis and they would feel nothing but [ __ ] shame your ancestors did all that [ __

] all that struggling to survive hunting hunting and Gathering [ __ ] avoiding enemies anything it took dying at age 30 from a tooth infection all the crap they went through just for you to be born so you could smoke weed and jack off that's what your ancestors died for that's what they work so hard for that's who you are that's the end of your [ __ ] bloodline do you feel no shame it's [ __ ] shameful my ancestors will look at me and think everything we went through was [ __ ] worth it

your ancestors will look at Most of these people their ancestors look at them and feel nothing but [ __ ] disgust it's [ __ ] true it's disgusting and they should look in the mirror look deep in their own eyes and say yes I'm [ __ ] disgusting I can change this that's the beauty about being a man if you're disgusting you can change it that's the beauty there's nothing stopping you changing it you're right you must accept you must accept it first most of these people what they do Is they hang around with other

disgusting people and then they're little little group of disgusting people and they think well I'm not disgusting everyone's disgusting and this is normal and it's normal to be a [ __ ] jerk off not not in my world isn't this is when I when I was making jokes earli about predators and prey in my world I'm in a world of predators it's not it's not it's not normal to be a [ __ ] jerk off in my world as good as I am I still I Still push myself to the Limit every single [ __

] day I have every single thing a man could possibly want I'm still pushing myself this is your prerogative as a man but you need to be instilled with a sense of duty duty to your bloodline you must want it you need to want it deep inside your soul I can't die as anything less than Emperor it's it's my destiny what do you think is the hardest challenge for the average man today that's a good question it's a Really good question I think that a lot of people don't understand that it's all of the challenges

and struggles that going to make them it's either going to make or break them I read I don't read studies very often but I was sent a study about stress from somebody it's probably the best study I ever read and it's talked about the placebo effect of stress and it said that there they took some of the most stressed people in the world CEOs Etc and the ones who believe That stress was really bad for them were dying earlier because of the cortisol inside of their blood and they said stress is really bad they having

heart attacks but the ones who believed that stress was good for them and it made them perform I perform Under Pressure stress was good for me they were living longer so the same drug inside of their blood how they framed it inside of their mind had different effects on their body so from that point onwards even though I Already thought this way I knew I was the right way I knew it was the right way to think andate because I've done pretty good in life that way but this confirmed it every time I feel stressed

or under pressure I get excited I I I hate to not be stressed I wake up and I'm like everything's [ __ ] good yes like that's just how I am right but it's it's how you adop it's how you look at the problems and how you use them to fuel you so the question was what's the Problem for the average man today what's the biggest problem I think there's a whole host of problems what you have to do is frame it inside of your mind and understand that all of those problems are going to

allow you give you the fuel the unlimited motivation that you need to become a successful and and beautiful individual if you frame it in the right way if you take a man and give him a life shielded from problems and he never has any to face I guarantee you he's Terrible at being a man the best men in the world have gone through [ __ ] that's just that's why women love scars cuz they didn't kill you that's the whole point of it right so the best thing you can do as a man is look

and go okay this is hard this is hard this is hard this is hard I feel negative because these are all so difficult I'm struggling with XY Z let me internalize all of that and turn it into a superpower let me become genuinely uncomfortable with my Situation in life and go and fix things because like I said the universe is absolutely unly very giving and if you truly hated being in the position you were in you wouldn't be there well emotions are feedback the that men don't feel emotions is incorrect we feel emotions I would

actually argue we feel emotions in C with certain emotions stronger than women I would argue that we feel heartbreak stronger than women I would argue we feel anger like a woman Could never understand I would argue we are extremely emotional rage rage pure rage it's feedback so when you get the feedback it's all about how you internalize it and how you process it right it's having stoicism is not not feeling emotions it's feeling the emotion and going okay why is this happening how much does this really matter what's the most intelligent move on the chess

board I'm not even that good at chess right my father was a Grandmaster I'm I'm like 1,800 year I'm okay I was a CH a child chess Bry but I stopped playing chess professionally when I was like eight so I'm as good now as I was in fact I'm worse now than when I was eight I've never I've never taken any lessons or anything properly since my mother and father broke up we moved to England my dad stayed in America lost my chess coach and England didn't have a chess infrastructure America had a chess infrastructure

in the lower income Schools my dad used to go to the ghetto schools cuz he was black go to the black schools and teach him how to play chess so we had a big infrastructure you Peak to eight I Peak at eight yeah but um chess is a fantastic game because in the game of chess there's no M there's no luck if you lose no matter how well you play if you lose at some point you made a mistake even if it's the most minor mistake you made a mistake so you learn to understand that

no matter what Happens to you if you lose a scenario you made a mistake maybe it's a tiny one maybe it was two years ago whatever but you made a mistake and you learn absolute our accountability for yourself and that mentality is extremely powerful to apply to all things in life the position I'm in now as the most haed man in the world although I agree and I truly believe it's unfair I still take complete responsibility for I'm not going to sit here and say I'm telling You why it happened when I talk about Tik

Tok and YouTube shorts but I'm not going to blame them absolutely they're they're a company making money and they're monetizing the best they can fantastic all of this is my fault but the Bugatti on my drive is my fault and the yacht is my fault the private Jet's my fault so it's all my fault so I think the good with the bad I take all responsibility for absolutely everything including if a woman leaves me if a Woman stays if I end up heartbroken if I end up filled with rage I take responsibility for that something

happens to me that makes me enrage I will take responsibility why has this happened to me why do I feel this way how did I end up in this position is this help me in this scenario and sometimes it is I've had scenarios in my life where I was prepared to die to protect somebody else and I was enraged and it was healthy I've also had times Where I'm in a room by myself in raged sitting there going this is no good for anybody I need to just calm the [ __ ] down so emotions

are feedback but stoicism is the ability to process and that's what you need to be learn as a man you're never going to be able to turn them off you're going to feel them you have to learn how to turn you have to learn how to process them and turn them into ay it's energy it's unlimited energy I say this all the time I say That the biggest periods of transformation in my life is when everything was going wrong when my life was going good it's I'm not a hedonistic person I don't do drugs I

don't G I don't do prostitutes I don't do anything that hiis but I'll certainly go on the yacht with a bunch of women I know and chill and have some that when life's smooth that's then it's semi- headis pretty relaxed but when I make my biggest progress when I really change Who I am and change the world that's when everything's [ __ ] when things go wrong or I'm feeling things I don't want to feel or bad things are happening that's when I'm like okay I can current I currently cannot sleep I've completed the day's

tasks I've tried to go to bed I can't more [ __ ] has to that's when the amazing things happen in my life when I was heartbroken when I was whatever everyone's been heartbroken I can't Remember a specific example I hit the gym hard right if something goes wrong with your payment procer that's when you get [ __ ] invented that's that's business right that's when you get invented so all the bad things that happen to you as a man if you're stoic you get to take unlimited energy heartbreak is unlimited energy so is depression

so is Rage show sadness all these negative emotions they tell you to to collapse behind it's like people talk Like Brucey says be like water and people see that as be fluid and just go with the flow I disagree if you're like water you are you're necessary for life you are scary when you're enraged you're powerful you're beautiful when you're calm you're so many things when you're like water right so if I'm enraged it's like water behind a dam you just got to put the dam in for in place and you got get the turbo

the hydro electrics put in don't tsunam your life put the energy Somewhere and this is the most beautiful thing about it cuz people message me all the time like oh but T you don't know how sad I feel no incorrect I know exactly how sad difference is I used it and you're sitting here still crying some random guy on email for the [ __ ] third month in a row that's the difference between you and me my friend I was becoming a world champion kickboxer I got to a point I people all often talk about

depression say I don't Understand that I will say listen there's been times in my life where I was fully functional as an adult I would never label myself depressed because I don't believe in the idea of labeling myself in negative because I don't believe in things that take power from me which we'll talk about in a second but there's been times in my life where I didn't give a f of [ __ ] if I Live to Die been times in my life where I went to fight a man for money and I didn't Give

a [ __ ] if I if I if I lost and even woke up again didn't give a [ __ ] I had nothing worth living for I was Brokey didn't have a girlfriend didn't have any [ __ ] money got two-day call fight some world champion had to lose 10 kilos in two days had nothing else going for me go on a plane to dagistan and [ __ ] won there's been times I've done that by all conventional wisdom I was depressed I suicidal did I but I was just like no I don't give

a [ __ ] that that and that's What I was at my most powerful now if I get that call I'm like bro I got new car outside and [ __ ] going to where sorry how much money nah but back then I was like yeah cool who is he oh this guy all right fine I didn't I didn't give a [ __ ] I was most powerful when I was sad when I was depressed and all these things and and the difference is was the framing I've always been rich but I'm not just rich

of money you have to understand I'm rich Because of a bunch of things that money cannot buy like I know there's people with lots of money but they don't have the network I have they don't have the Brotherhood I have just sitting with my boys knowing that if if it comes to if if it's if if the bullets start flying me and my 10 friends we all die or no one dies having that Brotherhood having women who would literally you could go to jail for 10 years and they would wait for you they Exist for

you and only you completely in ut you are their entire universe like having physicality walking through the world bigger and stronger than everyone else having all those professional fights having and all the bad things having the trauma all the pain all the [ __ ] I've been through you ain't a good man if you haven't had trauma though I'm rich not because of money I'm rich because I've been through a whole bunch of [ __ ] like I don't see anyone Else in the planet richer than me because they're either too old or their life's

been too easy like I have a I've had a very very unique life very very eclectic life I was born with the best possible start man can have which is good parents and no money I've made all of my money completely myself the hard way if if you see a Lamborghini pull up and a little nerd gets out you think oh [ __ ] super tech nerd probably invented stripe or something he's a nerd Whereas if you see a Lambo pull up and a big [ __ ] strong bald whatever crazy dude gets out you

think okay he's a drug dealer he's a Mafia Boss the lambo doesn't change what you think it amplifies who the person is money is an amplifier it doesn't change so I'm very I'm very fortunate I'm very happy that I was poor for a long time cuz I never would have been able to learn the lessons I've learned if I was rich I wouldn't never been able to take those Risks I would have never been able to be in those situations I've been stabbed just like you I'll show you my scar so I would never been

able to put put been put through hell if I had money so I'm very glad I was poor for a very long time and the reason I'm the richest person on the planet is not because of the amount of money I have it's because of all the [ __ ] I that happened to me when I was poor and I state that without arrogance I don't mean to be arrogant But I am a realist and as a realist it would be absolutely unprofessional for me to sit here and pretend I'm not an exceptional human being

because I am and a lot of those things I did myself and some of them were god-given but the ones that weren't god-given was because I put myself through hell I put myself through hell because I decided to throw Comfort away for 10 years of my life I was never comfortable as a man if you don't make Yourself valuable you have no value you have to get up and do it just like a video game you start with [ __ ] zero you have to decide if you want to complete it you have to upgrade

your character so I find it amazing that men are going to play video games and [ __ ] about and waste their time instead of upgrading their character everyone knows what to do you know what you have to do right if you become the most dangerous intelligent respectable man on the Planet you know you're supposed to go to the gym you know you're supposed to train learn how to fight you know you know all these things you don't do them that's your that's your decision it's your prerogative I didn't I didn't make that choice I

made the choice to do it all I decided all of it that every single man watching this can do the exact same thing and me as a man when I put myself through hell when I have had such exacting such stringent standards For myself why would I then have less exacting stringent standards on the people I meet why would I put myself through hell to be me and then meet someone who didn't put themselves through hell and then treat them like my equal no [ __ ] you I suffered when you didn't so you are

not my equal because you decided not to suffer you have enjoyed Comfort when I haven't and that's fine but don't expect me to look at you as my equal cuz you're not I'll Snap your [ __ ] neck if we were still in the animal kingdom the lions that you see on TV they weren't just born big lions they had to fight other Lions they had to fight to get that antelope they had to to fight other animals hyenas jackals they had to fight to be the boss we live in a comfortable world now where

people think oh it doesn't matter it doesn't matter but you know what to some degree it does matter it does matter and I tell you who it matters to it matters To your soul and it matters to God I stand in the mirror with a pure heart I know I am the best version of me that could possibly ever exist I know that God is proud of me there's nothing that God hates more than sloth and laziness if God were to create a man and that man were to sit around and do [ __ ]

all God will frown upon you it's why you're never lucky if you're listening to this and you think I'm never lucky I'll tell you why cuz God dislikes you because You're [ __ ] lazy start to work start to show God the beauty of his own Creations you be amazed how lucky you'll become wow God is unhappy with these people and inside their hearts they're unhappy we talk about depression anxiety all those things you mentioned in the earlier on this podcast that comes from self-loathing you loath your own weakness you loath your own laziness this

is what all of these things are I don't feel the depression how can I feel Depression when I'm the most powerful version of me that I could ever [ __ ] be how can I feel depression when I could squeeze my own hand hard enough to break my own bones how can I feel depression when I've smashed and destroyed 68 people's faces in front of me men who thought they could test me in Fair combat how can I feel depressed it's impossible if you cannot control your own mind then you are just a feather in

the Wind of life because your Own mind is the only thing you can control you can't control the weather you can't control other people you can't even control whether your heart stops beating you might have a heart attack tomorrow you can't control anything besides what you think if you cannot control your own mind then you go through life with zero control zero influence you can't control anything you're just a feather in the wind waiting for life to blow you from happy Place to sad place to happy place to sad Place completely hoping on the gods

to be fortunate to you because if any genuine discomfort comes your way you're [ __ ] it is trained like everything else in life it is trained so if you find yourself not appreciating what you have until it's gone then you must blink and cure your brain if you find yourself unable to focus or concentrate on tasks you must blink and cure your brain if you find yourself unable to go and Dedicate yourself to something you don't want to do you must blink and cure your brain because all all of our minds have been under

constant assault for years the genu the way the Mind functions the way people interact has changed so significantly in the last 10 years you wouldn't believe if you go to a party today as opposed to a party 10 years ago they look completely different people are acting differently people are on their phones now than they ever used to Be even now people will go to places only to get an Instagram picture even if they don't enjoy the place wow it's all about pretending they're having fun as opposed to actually having fun the entire Paradigm of

society and how we interact has now changed every single thing in the world is attempting to influence you I'll give you another Paradigm that people need to understand I ask people people have these beliefs doesn't matter what their belief is Doesn't matter they believe in something I say where did you get that belief from and they don't know oh I well it's just how it's supposed to be we're just supposed to wear a mask whatever it is right where did you get that belief who told you that and does that person have your best interests

at heart think about it think about all the things you truly believe think where you learned it and think if that person actually gives a [ __ ] about you because the only thing You should be learning from is personal experience were people who genuinely care about you and love you most people are out here believing things and repeating things that were told to them by people who don't even [ __ ] like them by their enemies everyone's mind is fundamentally [ __ ] all of it look at me I'm a guy who decided to

conquer social media I blinked I cured my brain I used basic indefatigability I used perspicacity I used compendious I used My mind and I focused and I [ __ ] conquered the world few short months it's not difficult there's just no competition because everybody's [ __ ] distracted Conquest is all life's ever been for men this is what men have an innate desire to Conquest to to conquer even you you care about having as many viewers as possible on your streams you care about being as big as possible you care about conquering why did the

Romans wake up make melt rocks make swords and Walk in random directions they didn't have Google Maps they didn't have a [ __ ] clue where they were going random directions to find some other group of people and [ __ ] them up and take their [ __ ] why Conquest this a conquer why did gask Khan ride his ass from Mongolia all the way to [ __ ] Vienna it's a long way why conquer men are born with this innate desire to conquer it's inside of us they're trying to suppress it they're trying to

Distract it away from you tell you that you're wrong you're toxically masculine you shouldn't want to conquer you should want to sit at home and be tolerant no you shouldn't you should want to conquer [ __ ] only thing that's going to make you intrinsically happy is Conquest nothing else if you're depressed it's CU you don't conquer [ __ ] conquer something get up and do it it it doesn't have to be a negative at all you can do it in a very very positive way you can have a Positive impact on the world I

like to think that my my impact on the world's been positive I've conquered the whole [ __ ] internet and I've done it in a positive way I'm helping the world I think we're here to struggle and to learn I don't think we're here to be happy that's why when we keep going back to the Happy argument I've always found that kind of frustrating and annoying when someone goes oh but I want to be happy why it's it's almost like once you Understand what life is really about there's no emotion which isn't enjoyable the only

emotion that the only emotional which can be seen as detrimental is feeling nothing at all but if you're sitting at home and you're feeling truly heartbroken at least you're feeling something right and and and I think that's the whole part of Being Human I don't I I think we're here to struggle I think we're here to go through pain that's I wake up each day and go what Can I what can I attack what problem can i s and and look at history why did gask Khan wake up and want to conquer the whole world

why did Napoleon conquer the world why did Alexander the Great conquer the world just you just wake up and just say give me this give me I want all of it I need to there's an army there they're really big we're better it's intrinsic you need to go and Conquer that's that's the purpose of life God created us to learn and Understand ourselves and understand other people and understand the world and what did I say earlier I said that you don't learn a lesson where you don't appreciate something without pain so you have to struggle

to learn anything I think that a lot of people don't understand that it's all of the challenges and struggles that's going to make them it's either going to make or break them I read I don't read studies very often but I was sent a study about Stress from somebody it's probably the best study I ever read and it's talked about the placebo effect of stress and and it said that there they took some of the most stressed people in the world CEOs Etc and the ones who believed that stress was really bad for them were

dying earlier because of the cortisol inside of their blood and they said stress is really B and they're having heart attacks but the ones who believed that stress was good for them and it Made them perform I perform Under Pressure stress is good for me they were living longer so the same drug inside of their blood how they framed it inside of their mind had different effects on their body so from that point onwards even though I already thought this way I knew I was the right way I knew it was the right way to

think and eight because I've done pretty good in life that way but this confirmed it every time I feel stressed or under pressure I get excited I I I hate to not be stressed I wake up and I'm like everything's [ __ ] good yes like that's just how I am right but it's it's how you adop it's how you look at the problems and how you use them to fuel you so the question was what's the problem for the average man today what's the biggest problem I think there's a whole host of problems what

you have to do is frame it inside of your mind and understand that all of those problems are going to allow you give you the fuel The unlimited motivation that you need to become a successful and and beautiful individual if you frame it in the right way if you take a man and give him a life shielded from problems and he never has any to face I guarantee you he's terrible at being a man the best men in the world have gone through [ __ ] that's just that's why women love scars CU they didn't

kill you that's the whole point of it right so the best thing you can do as a man is look and go okay this is Hard this is hard this is hard this is hard I feel negative because these are all so difficult I'm struggling with XY Z let me internalize all of that and turn it into a superpower let me become genuinely uncomfortable with my situation in life and go and fix things because like I said the universe is absolutely unly very giving and if you truly hated being in the position you were in

you wouldn't be there the fact that I believe each and every one of you Is exactly where you deserve to be in Life or where you belong or let me change the word it where you want to be so if you're not a millionaire and you're not happy with your life guess what you are where you deserve to be and the reason I'm going to say that is as follows this is all I had a bad bad luck this or I tried this or I can't pull off that blah blah blah blah it's impossible to

exist somewhere where you're not Comfortable if I were to say lay on these red hot stones and you tried to do it you'd get up and move cuz it's it hurts it's not comfortable you have to get out of that position yet if you look at your lives your life is in a [ __ ] position but you still you don't move you don't do anything about it so if it was really truly uncomfortable to you you like those red hot Stones were you change something but the fact you refuse to change something shows that

you're Pretty comfortable where you are now of course you can talk a good talk all you [ __ ] will sit there and go oh but I no my life's not in order I want to be rich and I want to be in shape and I want and I want and I'm going to and I'm going to and then you don't do anything which shows that you know how to talk the talk but you can't walk the walk when I was broke I couldn't sleep and I say that people laugh I'm not joking when I

I wanted money like [ __ ] I needed air I am smart enough to know that money equals freedom and I don't want to live controlled by a job I don't want to live controlled by a government I don't want live controlled by nobody I want to be free I want to be able to go on Twitter and say what the [ __ ] I want and not worry about losing my [ __ ] job like a little [ __ ] I needed money and I used to sit there and just literally my hands on

my head and people like what's wrong with you it's Like I I I need money I want money today I would have been one of them cats that rubbed a bank if I didn't find money by the time I was 40 I would have walked in there with a [ __ ] shotgun I'm not going to live broke get rich or die trying I understand that completely you [ __ ] are sitting there going oh well yeah I really want to be a millionaire and then just just go to sleep get my pillow I'm tired

the [ __ ] you are not uncomfortable in your Position same thing with physical fitness you're a fat [ __ ] oh yeah I really need to lose weight I know I'm going to lose weight why are you fat then getting fat does not happen slowly I mean sorry fat does not happen quickly it's a slow process you didn't [ __ ] notice across a year every time you looked in the mirror your eyes were closed you knew what was happening and you were comfortable being fat cuz if you weren't comfortable you would do Something

about it talk to people with their lives are all [ __ ] up and they're like well my life's all [ __ ] up and I'm like yeah of course it is cuz you're happy for your life to be [ __ ] up even if you're dis even if you're not happy even if you're uncomfortable you're not uncomfortable enough to change it if you were genuinely unhappy about your position you would not be coming to me for motivation if you were genuinely pissed off about your Situation you would not need me to motivate you you

would motivate your [ __ ] self and you would do something to change it yourself but you don't which says a lot so this whole motivational [ __ ] it's all garbage all you [ __ ] are exactly where you belong I'm where I belong the top of the mountain with a [ __ ] Lambo Bentley asked in five houses 6 million liquid cash and 20 girlfriends this is where I [ __ ] belong cuz I refuse to stay Anywhere Elsey old Andrew what would you tell yourself I think Justin actually nailed it he did

I know you nailed it do hard things name name a single attribute for masculinity which is going to come from a a place other than trauma or pain I talk about this all the time people say I've had a traumatic life I said well then you're very very fortunate you had a traumatic life now you may have misused that trauma you may have misplaced it you may have accepted the Matrix telling you that you now have an excuse to fail as opposed to using it to grow but every single man of value went through trauma

and they went through pain it's going to be painful to get strong painful to get rich painful to become important it's be painful to become good with women your hearts get broken a bunch of times you have to be prepared for the pain if you're not ready for pain you're never going to be anything that that matters so Justin Just absolutely nutly nailed it my kickboxing coach used to say to me I used to come in the gym say what do you hate the most and I said I hate running he say okay you're going

running I say why he goes because whatever you hate is what you need whatever you hate is what you need I want to spar bag work pads no problem running I didn't want to run but that's what you need and that's what life's about you're not going to be able to go through life avoiding pain and Also becoming a man of quality you're going to have to be that guy who's been through so much [ __ ] that he can wake up and go this ain't nothing this this ain't nothing compared to back then this

ain't nothing compared to that time you know and if you're not going to be that guy then you're going to always suffer the consequences of not being that guy there's pain to become important and there's pain in not being important so you have to make a choice so I think Justin absolutely notely nailed it I think his answer is even better might could be you need to find something you're afraid of find something that could hurt you and go do it and that's one of the great things about being young right you're basically superhuman stop

talking start listening get out there get hurt get the [ __ ] back up that and and there's a there's a degree there's also something I want you to comment on from the football perspective But there is a degree of wisdom that comes from physical physicality I learned a whole bunch of [ __ ] about the world from just having my ass KET it wasn't even conversations it was just getting beaten up and you learn about the world from a I write tweets people like that's so wise where'd you learn that oh kicked in the

face that's how I would say the number one thing that will tell me how successful a person will be especially as a man is their stress Tolerance yes you're not going to have a big life without big problems you're not going to be important without four girlfriends 22 cars three businesses [ __ ] your phone ain't going to stop it's going to be stressful Banks going to get Frozen money's going to go missing you're not going to have a big life that's a calm ocean you need to learn to just surf the waves and laugh

CU most people just collapse under the pressure stress tolerance is a massive indicator Of how successful you're going to be and no matter what happens in my life now I can sit there and go well at least I'm not about to get in the cage and deal with that guy you know and and you need to have at least I can eat we've all been to stages where we can't eat so St stress tolerance is something that can be learned it's something that you can you can like you said when you're it's a muscle it's

a muscle when you're young go out there and get get stressed get Upset have those sleepless nights you at 17 18 you should be panicking right and that's going to give you a stress tolerance level that allows you to grow into an adult which can handle a big life you're not going to have a big life you're not going to be here like all four of us are living the life like we're living rolling around Europe in supercars with unlimited finance and have that big life and think that you're not going to have any kind

of stress or Problems to get there and maintain it that's not [Music] real if you're not Not Afraid then you're not sharp when you walk Al when you walk along the street at night and it's dark and you're a little bit intimidated and you're a little bit scared because you're in a bad part of town your your hearing is sharper your eyes are sharper your reactions are quicker so I think that fear is a Fantastic thing in the right scenario but there were days where me and Tristan we were finally in the same cell there's

times we laughed like we've never laughed before I'll will sit and and admit that's absolutely hardly true I feel like if you're going to be the kind of person who strives for an exceptional life which is what I am I think I'd be a coward if I said I want an exceptional life but I only want to be exceptional in a good way I don't think that's Genuine I want an exceptional life and exceptional means away from the norm and away from the norm means flying your buatti on a jet to Dubai and taking your

own plane to meet it there and it also means a Romanian dungeon with cockroaches on New Year's Eve they're both exceptional experiences and the times I was with my brother and it was just him and I we truly had some genuine days where we laughed like we always laugh me and him laugh and have fun on a Private jet and we laughed and had fun in a Romanian prison cell because that's just who we are and I also have to give my brother some credit while we're here I would like to state that I absolutely

genuinely believe I have the best brother in the world and I'll tell you why I always knew I had the best brother in the world but he proved it in jail and I'll tell you why my brother was put in jail for being my brother he hasn't said any videos he hasn't said anything On the internet he hasn't said any of the things I've supposedly said he's NE The Matrix isn't attacking him the BBC doesn't print about him nothing why was Tristan taton in jail because it's tap brothers so they just took him and threw

him in a Cell now what's interesting is when I got out of jail so many people near me got heat all business partners got heat with the tax they got hit with like a tax paperwork and uh they were calling everyone who's ever known me and Ex-girlfriends got heat and all these people got heat and some people complained some people didn't but some people were like oh since you've been in jail it's been so stressful for me the media's outside my house like stressful for you I was in jail what do you want me to

do and people were complaining at me and as these people start to complain I sat there I said to Tristan you got thrown in jail purely for being my brother and never for a fraction of a Second did you even moan didn't even no even for a fraction of a second did he say oh they only put me here because of you why am I here I'm innocent this has nothing to do with me nothing in fact he said the absolute opposite he said I am so glad I went to jail with you I would

be furious if they sent you here by yourself if they're going to lock you up they better lock me up and there was a time about two months in because there's less media pressure on Tristan they're talking about releasing Tristan first and he was saying no I won't leave without Andrew there are certainly times where you need to be calm and you can't let it overcome you but I think fear is a fantastic thing I I do have fears that I have not yet overcome and I don't want to overcome them I I do have

the fear of not being able to take care of my family for example in if the Matrix attack is successful I do have fears of I call it Fear but this this actually sounds quite arrogant it's not not fear but I love now and I'm very accustomed to having anything I want all of the time I would hate to go back so I do wake up and think I don't really feel like working today but Andrew you can have anything you want all of the time even when I was a professional fighter I wanted to

win but the primary reason I wanted to win is so that I could make him lose it wasn't about me winning it was about him Losing he spent 8 weeks calling out my name and telling the world he's going to beat me and telling his wife don't worry wife it's going to be okay I'm going to win I'm going to pay for the kids don't worry I love you I'm training so hard and he's told the whole world he's going to beat me so by forcing him to lose in front of his family that gave

me satisfaction more than winning itself I've always been attached to the Dark of the world I feel like the dark of the World has always motivated me so on the ying and the Yang scale I have a lot of light and I have so much Beauty and I have a very blessed life yeah but it is because I've been so deeply in the dark and understand the realities of how the world works but that's just always been what motivated me if if there's a business problem I'm the one who's like [ __ ] we have

to fix this now [ __ ] [ __ ] and Tristan's the one like Andrew you are so ridiculously Rich chill but we Need that we need both right but he couldn't be that chilled if I wasn't the way I was because he wouldn't be successful you need you need the opposite so everyone goes oh you and your brother you're so close we're so close cuz we're actually very different people but yeah he he was amazing in jail and even afterwards I I still struggle to sleep he sleeps fine because I think my experience of

jail was a far more stressful one because I but I Adopted that now I'm not saying I couldn't have done what Tristan did I could have done what Tristan did if I were to go into jail and say your MO is to not care I could not care but myo was how do I get out of this Matrix attack so I I was the most stressed I've ever been in my life so that's carried over so I don't sleep he sleeps fine but he slept fine in jail so why wouldn't you sleep fine now right

so yeah it was uh it was interesting but I have to give Him problem because it's it's amazing to have that level of clarity and and he said things which were absolutely unly true things I already knew but it was nice to hear I have no problems admitting that I am motivated by the dark of of the ying and the Yang and I have no problems admitting that my ego motivates me and that I'm motivated by pride and I like to feel proud and I do things that allow me to feel proud and as long

as I stay realistic and I don't Become egocentric then I feel like it makes me as competitive as possible so you keep upskilling yourself well you have to always push the limits right what's the point in living otherwise what are you doing right now just keep yourself up well well this is the thing it's in general it doesn't matter if you go to the gym and you try and lift more weights it doesn't matter if you try and make more money that you can't possibly spend right doesn't matter if you need More beautiful children you

always need something to do right and you always need somewhere to push I I I think there's a lot of men out there who perhaps are battling with themselves because the Matrix and system has told them no you're not supposed to think that way you're not supposed to be that way you're egotistical you're you're driven by Pride you should get rid of all that and you should I don't know what become sppy goo and instead just Some porridge mess that the Matrix can program but no you're supposed to wake up and look in the mirror

and say this is my name this is who I am I'm going to be the best version of myself and everybody's going to respect me and I'm going to force them to because that's the way the world Works respect respect can be squeezed out of people they don't have to like you it's you can't squeeze someone liking you you can't grab SpaceTime from the universe and force Everybody to like you but you can force everybody to respect you whether they want to or not all of my haters respect me they sit there oh yeah they

oh this guy's so bad so bad that but they they can't say I'm unsuccessful they can't say I'm not intelligent they can't say I'm not rich I'm still worthy of all their time and attention they've dedicated their lives to me so I forced them to respect me if I was a nobody then and they wouldn't be reporting on This garbage case of mine so you can force respect from people and this is actually most observable with women there's a whole lot of women who are dating men they don't even like yeah and and they're sleeping

with men they don't even like but they respect him because it's the security that they offering that's right the security offer and the respect and they can say I don't even like him that much in fact I hate him but I just do as he says why is that Because they respect you so I I'm driven by that and I guess I mean I've talked to psychiatrists and there's some psychiatrists who would argue that it's insecurity to feel like you need to prove yourself to the world all the time and I think that's part of

the scop they convince you you're insecure if you want to prove you're capable if you want to prove that you're different and intelligent and interesting you're insecure they always say that you're Born abundant any which ways then why is the rest of the world poor well there there you go but but they say you should have no interest in what people think about you that makes you insecure and that is the largest s off in history to wake up and say I'm not going to be successful I'm not going to be strong I'm not going

to be interesting I'm not going to go out there and test myself and I'm not going to put Honor on my last name because I would hate for People to think I'm insecure I'm secure so it doesn't matter if you think I'm a loser and it doesn't matter if I am a loser so I'm going to sit at home and I'm secure no it's not insecurity it's called duty to your last name and honor and that's just another one of the many different tentacles inside of the scop octopus trying to snatch any motivation left from

the masculine Spirit if if I was a man who was unsuccessful and I hadn't met my physical capability or my Financial capability or my mental capability or my spiritual capability I would be insecure I would sit and say this is a failed version of who Andrew Tate could be and I'm not happy with who it is and I think that every man should be like that so he gets up off his ass and does something I learn my mindset in battle my mindset is 87 professional fights my mindset was learning the reality of the real

world your winner fighting out of the blue corner for the USA Andrew the king cobra Tas I don't know if the fire inside of me is any bigger than it is inside of every other man and I think that every man at home watching this if they don't have the things they want in life should feel a degree of resentment towards themselves or disappointment understanding that they have the same desire and drive out I have they just allowed themselves to be sced out of it I don't believe in the societal Paradigms in which they have

tried to construct this idea of happiness I don't believe or subscribe to the way that happy and sad is currently understood by the masses of the population my mindset is 87 professional fights my mindset was Lear in the reality of the real world I don't need to read a self-help book I don't need to read about motivation or confidence I think if you are anything less than absolute distraught you are happy you're a version of Happy it's Like saying gray is a version of black right no matter how light the gray is you can still

call it a version of black and unless you've gone through an event which hopefully doesn't happen too often like the passing of a family member or something that's truly destructive and detrimental to your mindset besides these events which hopefully only happen a few times in your life you should be happy if you're not crying or paralyzed in silence due to the absolute magnitude Of a detrimental circumstance or the absolute magnitude of a negative event then you are a version of Happy so I am always happy is the short answer I don't believe in not being

happy I don't believe in not saying to myself I'm happy I'm always a version of Happy and this chasing this idea of chasing happiness and always being concerned and preoccupied with how happy you are is actually the biggest mistake that a lot of people make I think in the world Today especially men who wake up and go I don't really feel happy so I need to get happier and that's how they end up that down a hedonistic path of drugs or alcohol or gambling chasing pleasure I don't care how I feel I don't care if

I feel happy or sad it doesn't really affect what I do each day I do the exact same things I act the exact same way I it does I don't care it does I doesn't I don't put weight to the significance of the emotion so I always consider myself A happy person but if I woke up and I was slightly less happy one day than another it wouldn't affect anything I do and I wouldn't put any relevance to it I'm human and that's life and so yeah am I any happier now that I am that

I have hundreds of millions of dollars than before I was broke yeah not really but I was never unhappy I'm I'm I'm the same state that I was then that I am now I have work to do and I will do it was as simple as that also there's no light Without dark and there's no joy without pain you can't have a rainbow without a little rain and no matter how hard you chase pleasure and happiness there's going to be dips and troughs and between going be come downs and downtrends and you're going to have

the J position between that time you were laughing your head off and acting Gish like a child and the time that you feel depressed as such and I think it's much better to just adopt a very disciplined stoic Mindset I'm always the same base level of happy regardless if I lost all of my money today I would be the same happy if my net worth quadrupled I'd be the same happiness yeah as long as I'm alive which is a struggle unfortunately in the current climate but as long as long as I'm alive and the people

I I care about and love are alive and as long as I get as long as God gives me the honor of doing my duties and providing for the people I care about as long as I get to Wake up and know that there's a whole bunch of people in the world who need me and I get to work hard to please them and do good for society and good for the world yeah then then I'm I'm a vessel of God and I am happy I'm happy enough to survive that's that's all I look at

it as I don't ever consider how do I feel that doesn't cross my mind I have things to do I have things to do you're too busy to think about I'm too busy I'm I have things to do every single day I Have very important things to do and how I feel really is not going to affect how I complete those tasks right and I when I speak to men they say I'm unhappy or I need to be happier I think that's absolutely the wrong frame of life you're a man you have duty you have

honor you have things you should be doing regardless of how you feel and the people who are Perma obsessed with happiness or sadness I just think it's the wrong Paradigm to view the the lens Of life I think you should get up and do what needs to be done I learned my mindset in battle my mindset is 87 professional fights my mindset was learning the reality of the real I don't need to read a self-help book I don't need to read about motivation or confidence I've been in the cage smashing people's faces in I don't

need to learn any of that stuff I learn reality and and reality is always going to be a better teacher than a book Because you're not learning when you read books you're you're regurgitating you may be reading but I don't believe you're truly learning my coach used to say if it doesn't hurt you didn't learn and I think he's completely right and it's the same with it's the same with entire life you see people make the same mistake over and over again until until it eventually goes really wrong and it's only then they'll change so

absolutely so I I learned how to Become self-disciplined and become self motivated and work hard and I learn how to face adversity and find strength Within Myself I didn't know I had yeah because people were trying to kill me inside of a cage I think if you I think as a young man if you want to get your life better the most important thing you have are your waking hours need to be out competing all the other people on the planet who are hyper competitive and if you think you have eight hours to sit There

and just read a book you are wasting your time you are too slow and you are going to lose against people me cuz we're just too quick too fast our networks are too various and large and we make decisions too quickly and we absorb information too quickly and you're just behind it I understood from a young age I had to stick up for myself and defend my ideas and my ideas were always different and I was always an outcast I guess to a degree and that Certainly played a part later on in my life because

it's been very easy for me to look at the programming The Matrix is trying to push down my throat and just say no that out his own philosophies I don't think we definitely never read any pH philosophical books we didn't study any old philosophers but he he'd say things now which you can even still see his Twitter if you want to see a philosopher you can go through his Twitter now and see all of the things he Was saying when he was still alive yeah but I think life is actually pretty simple there's action and

reaction there's cause and effect M there's brave people and there's cowards a lot of people are self-interested and if you understand the basis of these motivations it's not difficult to work out why the world functions the way it does and and calls and effect and action and reaction are very real and I think one of the largest Plagues we have in the world today is a lack of action amongst people and deciding not to act is an action in and of itself right and and that's the only philosophy you need for life if you want

something to move you have to move it if you sit and wait for somebody else to move it you're a coward and you're just hoping it's going to happen that's why I don't understand when a lot of people who un who see where the world is going and see the future that's going to be Laid out for their children kind of just hope and pray a lot of people I think all men are born with a masculine desire to conquer Earth and I think you're only going to be happy if you're conquering but if you're

living a semi-comfortable life and your mother is nice to you and you're not under any pressure and the Matrix is telling you it's fine to just be average well then you're going to be sitting there being average I I was never comforted I was never given an Easy life I was never I never had anyone in my life who was saying don't worry Andrew it's okay to just be this guy I was told the opposite all the time I don't know if the fire inside of me is any bigger than it is inside of every

other man and I think that every man at home watching this if they don't have the things they want in life should feel a degree of resentment towards themselves or disappointment understanding that they have the same Desire and drive that I have they just allowed themselves to be sced out of it they've allowed the Matrix or whoever to convince them it's okay to not be the man they could be and I never allowed anybody to do that to me I know that I'm right because the way I think allows me to be correct in every

scenario I've ever been in I know when someone's going to hurt me I I know when my time's almost up I know how to make a bunch of money I know when I know all of it I've Never been wrong about anything every time I've ever been truly sad again it was beneficial for me to feel that way and yes there was a point when that was semiconscious and now it's not conscious at all if I start to feel angry it's not conscious I am angry completely and artly and I trust my body and my

spirit that I'm supposed to be angry and I'm supposed to act within that frame and uh that's what true Enlightenment is because thinking outside of it and being Conscious of it is good but it takes time and often in the most extreme scenarios of Life the one thing you will not have is very much time there has to be instant and complete decisions and there has to be a final scenarios final story I'm looking for consequences the bad things that are happening to you are what you need to become the man that you want to

be I can't talk about women cuz I'm not one I actually think trauma is terrible for Women cuz masculinizes them they become cold and that's not attractive right we want feminine pure protected women I don't want a woman to ever go through anything bad in her life I think a man should go through it for her and protect her because I think that's how she's her best self as a woman but I think to be your best self as a man is the absolute opposite and when someone emails me and says this has happened to

me I'm like good no what do you mean good it's Terrible how else are you going to become important how else are you going to find endless fire to get up and struggle and in the face of the competition that's out here in the world how else you ever you're going to do all that with a nice kushy life if any man's honest with himself think about the biggest transformative stages in your life think about the times you got the most work done it was a bad part of your life you were heartbroken or you

know You lost a house or broke or whatever that's when you did [ __ ] when everything was fine when the woman's still sucking dick the the mortgage is paid dinner's on time it's kind of doopy doopy dooo little by little do a little bit of work do a little bit of relax but the big events come from trauma this is it so it's a cheat code it's a cheat code to climb the mountain so when I get a message from whoever and he goes my wife left me I'm devastated I said I Understand I

completely understand how hard it can be to lose a woman that you've given your entire life to and you've been done so many nice things and then because of one thing you did her innate and absolutely insane level of ungratefulness has turned her bitter and she Now talks to you like she hates you over one thing you've done after thousands of efforts showing how dedicated you are to her and even now that you're prepared to die for her she Doesn't give a [ __ ] about you I understand that pain but my answer is good

it's still good now take all of that pain instead of emailing me do this and then you're going to become the kind of person that women don't leave then you win ready to kill I don't do this fun this is not sport to me I don't enjoy it I hate training I hate this is I was born for this I have no choice I'm in there to kill that's it hey that's all I know so for someone to come along And try and convince me that my mental model and my way of viewing the world

isn't accurate it's going to be extremely difficult because I'm going to sit and say well my mental model produces X to this accuracy and you're a dumbass so what can you predict my friend and and that's the reality of the world so my my stories are being told the lessons of them at least when I'm speaking yes I am misunderstood I'm misunderstood because the things I say Are a large web of nuanced and they're interl and if you take one individual part from the web then completely I understand how some things can be massively misunderstood

I also understand that most people have no interest in the truth and no interest in digging deeper and finding out the truth about a person or a scenario if you have two arms and two legs and you can think and you're not trying your abs AB best that's the reason you're not lucky he Doesn't like you he likes the people which show him the beauty of his own creation he likes to give somebody building blocks and them to build something amazing it's the best thing about being a man you have to build who you are

right you can decide if you want to be a funny comedian or a musician or a kickboxing world champion or fight the Matrix you can decide whatever you want to be God loves to see that those people for some reason seem to be enormously Lucky right the person who goes I don't have to prove anything to God I don't owe all of my ancestors any effort you know for 5,000 years people were dodging saber tooth tigers and catching the plague and running from genghiskhan just for my stupid ass to be born I don't owe them

anything don't owe them a thing cuz I want to play video games these people are [ __ ] losers you should walk through Earth with Force inside of you if I walk as I walked into this hotel Reception everybody looked not because they know who I am but because as I move even even if it's behind their head people feel something and they go it's it's an energy that comes from brutal competence it's almost like an evolutionary thing where a rabbit can just smell a fox it just knows that's what happens when a predator walks

in a room even amongst humans you pay attention next time you're in a restaurant if a man who's truly Dangerous walks in nearly every other man kind of looks up at the same time you feel it you need to or you don't survive we've evolved with that to live that's who I am I couldn't imagine not being that man I've done because I've been trying to prove myself to my lineage my entire life I wake up every day with something to prove I have hundreds of millions of dollars I wake up and think [ __

] more I'm in fantastic shape four times world champion fighting The Matrix out here by myself more I will have to be braver I must try harder I all I do is prove myself so when I hear people go I don't have nothing to prove then you're a [ __ ] loser peasants have never felt like they needed to prove anything but Kings felt like they needed to go and Conquer land isn't that it's coincidential that the king who already had it all felt like he needed to go to some farflung land and Conquer it

and take it and prove he's The king but the peasants oh I don't have to prove nothing to nobody you're a [ __ ] loser then you're a dummy I absolutely and utterly completely have everything to prove to everybody all of the time that's who I am I will prove anything to anybody if I sit and say x I will prove it to anyone I can be checked to any time someone would have come up to me in that in that Lobby and argue with my ideas I would have proved that my ideas sound if

they would have Attacked me I would have destroyed them completely absolutely that's who I am so yes I have a lot to prove my friend and until the day I die it will remain and this is the true height of the slave mind if you can convince somebody to have a strong emotional reaction about a subject they don't even understand imagine the level of slave these people are imagine if every time you saw the color red you just lost your mind you're a slave you're controlled every single Time I've been fu seriously angry or even

in a murderous rage it's been a very appropriate time to be so and I don't mean appropriate because of the reasoning I'm not saying I had a good reason to be angry I'm saying that it was the best decision at the time every time I've ever been truly sad again it was beneficial for me to feel that way there are times in life where while there are times in life when murderous rage is is the best possible option on The table time well there are times in life where if you're genuinely threatened the best possible

emotion you can feel is murder is rage right there's times when it's appropriate and there's times when it's good to be sad and there's times when it's good to be empathetic and there's times when it's good to be ruthlessly psychopathically cold so I think Enlightenment is making sure that your brain and Soul and Spirit are Trained in a way that the emotions you feel at any given time are the best possible card in the deck of all the options you have in the Playbook depending on the scenario your own spirit gives you the exact act

perfect way to feel to handle that scenario in the most effective and compend way possible I knew I needed to become successful and become a kickboxer and and get money and I knew all of these things from a very young age and I even I remember being 178 seeing a Ferrari on the street and being like [ __ ] I need to get one of them I just kind of knew inside and and I knew it and it's worked out for me that's all great but now I use hypergaming against women completely because I know

that they'd rather share an alpha than have 100% of a beta right I know that even though they may sleep with me and then cry their eyes out the next day because I'm with some other girl I know they're not going to leave If you always have a higher purpose then a woman can never truly control you and she can never truly destroy you and your frame can't be broken if I had to go train for a fight and the girl was complaining well then she could [ __ ] off and leave cuz I ain't

getting my ass kicked for nobody not you or no one else I have to go fight in front of 10,000 people so I don't care if it's your birthday I'm going to the [ __ ] Gil it I don't care put someone in front of me Put someone in front of me it's all I have to say do I enjoy training no do I enjoy cutting weight no am I nervous yes do I think to myself what am I doing yes completely unfortunately it's one of those things you're either born with or not and the

only way I can explain it to try and make it make any sense is that if I'm not doing something which is either extremely difficult or extremely stressful I'm in a Perpetual state of crippling boredom I can't explain it I See other people live their lives and they're like oh I can't wait for the weekend because I want to watch this movie I think who cares about a movie you're looking forward to the weekend for a movie looking forward to the weekend to get drunk like these things to me are so mundane they mean nothing

and if I don't fight if I'm not in a situation where I'm stressed or worried or concerned I'm just perpetually bored and boredom is crippling if you're an Intelligent person and you've got a good brain on your shoulders you can't just sit there bored you know so most smart people take the academic route to avoid boredom and they learn learn learn learn learn but that's never really interested me either although I've always been an intelligent guy and I've always done well academically it was it never really interested me and then I see people climb out

ever or jump off buildings or do base jumping or the guy who jumped From space people think what's he doing he's crazy I understand because some people can't live normal lives some people cannot just function 9 to 5 office job get drunk at the weekends that is not for some individuals and it's not for me so I have to find something which keeps me physically tired enough to stop me going aw um and mentally tired enough and I've chosen fighting because without this when I'm not in training I wake up every day and Think okay

what am I going to do today it's 9:00 a.m. on a Tuesday I'm bored everyone's at work I'm bored and I'll end up doing something crazy I'll either end up drunk or or on the Eurostar or you know it's just it's just a random lifestyle cuz I'm constantly looking for never ending entertainment and it doesn't exist I think the only thing that could stop me fighting as if I had enough money to constantly entertain myself unless I'm a billionaire I need Something that keeps me focused and keeps me occupied in life with fighting I have

to train twice a day and I have to train hard and the stress can be the stress it brings in every aspect can replace fun and my mind is occupied it occupies me it's the only way I can try and explain it it occupies me and I could never stop doing this even if I lost a 100 fights because I'm not built to live a normal existence I can't do it I couldn't just have a kid with some Girl and sit at home and work a little bit and relax I've never relaxed my entire life

I don't know what relaxing is it's just not me so I always had a higher purpose and that allowed me naturally to build a frame where I learned that it's better to never submit and that relationships are happier if I never submit so I always kind of had that so I kind of learned everything I Knew by just being preoccupied with something completely separate and it was Something that took a lot of my time and 100% of my concentration so that's kind of where I learned my frame and now even when I stopped fighting my

frame's the same I believe the most miserable existence on Earth is living a life pretending to be something you're know I really believe it and that's why I don't for a second hide what I do or apologize to anybody if you look at what I do and it offends you you that the the hate is inside of you the hate ain't inside of Me you need to go look in the mirror and deal with your own problem I don't do a [ __ ] I don't care and I'm the same with women if if you

get with me and then you start complaining about how I am you better [ __ ] leave because sound like women try to say why do you still live with your brother why don't you want to live with me and I try and explain to them that one I don't think I can be my most competitive without him two I'm most emotionally stable with him I like The idea I'm most competitive with him I'm I I'm my best version of me if it doesn't matter I have to go into a fight doesn't matter if I

have to run a business I'm better with Tristan by my side than I would be by myself and three my ideal family life even my ideal family the way I live my life now is very much more like a clan than a nuclear family I like me my girl my kids Tristan his girl his kids my cousin his girl his kids I like this idea of lots Of people I like that I like that feeling so girl say to me well you don't want a family like no I want a family bigger than you want

I just don't want to just sit with you I want a lot of people around me and I think it's better for that and I think it's better for the children especially also I think they enjoy it more but yeah I've got the best brother on the planet I truly do and um this is why I'm saying some of our Best Days of Our Lives are in jail if I feel Extremely happy and excited I'm going to use that as motivation or energy to do amazing things and do good and work hard if I feel

absolutely depressed and distra I'm going to use that as endless energy and motivation to do amazing things and work hard it doesn't matter what you give me energy cannot be destroyed it can only be converted and transferred it doesn't matter what fuel you give me if you give me diesel petrol kerosene vodka doesn't matter what you Put inside of my engine hard work is going to come out absolutely that's all I know how to do that's all I know how to do it doesn't matter what fuel you put in my engine my engine only knows

how to do one thing and that is succeed that is only that's all I know how to do so it doesn't matter what you feed me with I'm going to be massively successful regardless yeah doesn't change I was now the oldest man alive in the Tate family I had to look after my Mother and my siblings and take care of people I did I had to make a choice do I fly back to America and spend money and time and go to this funeral and you know waste a few weeks or do I sit here

and just focus on this Enterprise and make sure that cannot fail and we talked earlier about Speed most people go that you know it's only two weeks it's only a week it's only a week people that say it's only a week are the people who are broke they don't Val your time that's The reason you're all poor because you say it's only a week it's oh it's tomorrow oh I'll do it later it's only an hour it's only a day it's only a minute you are competing against people like me we do not waste a

second I just personally could never sleep at night knowing oh I got 100 million in property I'm good cuz I'd be like I don't have anything I am I have to be quiet and I have to be careful and if they don't like me they'll get me that to me Doesn't feel like ownership ownership is they can't take that off of me that's true so you don't own property it's a scam it's a I I'll give you let me give you a quick story I bought an Aston Martin DBS three months ago I pulled up

outside the hotel I bought it in London I pulled up at the hotel I parked in the double yellow I left it there traffic Warden is right there so I'm going to give you a ticket and I said bro have you ever seen James Bond look for Parking give me a [ __ ] ticket don't care put a ticket on it went in the hotel stay in the hotel for stay in come on I'm busy stayed in the hotel for 4 days ticket ticket ticket it came out to a window it was on my Instagram

to delet it window of tickets now how do they enforce those tickets well we said they'll take your home off you right I don't own anything I don't even own that car and the car is not the country anymore sitting in my house in bul area So now what the [ __ ] are you going to do so I got thousands of thousands of pounds of parking tickets and guess what happened nothing zero because I don't play by the stupid rules the Matrix tells me to play by if I was joeo and I ignored them

I would lose my home but me I can turn up tell them to get [ __ ] and do whatever I want and what you'll actually learn is that much like parking tickets pretty much all laws on Earth and all rules on earth have an economic There's an economic level to which you must adhere and there's an economic level to which you don't have to adhere anything that's Financial in and of itself is basically saying it's okay for rich people to do anyway let's a let's say I agreed to pay the fine cool I didn't

have to look for parking I paid three grand that's worth five minutes of my time so it's basically saying it's okay for a price so it's okay for rich people it's not okay for poor people Whenever there's a fine as a punishment they basically saying no Poes no brokies or rich people can do it look at Banks they make TR billions of dollars breaking the rules and pay a million dollar fine it's okay for the rich not allowed to do it for poor if you do that if you pull off some fraud as a broky

guess what happens jail time do the bankers go to jail [ __ ] never this is the whole way the whole entire world works so extrapolating that out yes at Certain economic level there are things you can do an iido you can pull that make property fantastic but as a broy it's [ __ ] that's the point way mindset is your key to everything absolutely everything join the top G's on patreon