Men, the best time to date is ACTUALLY when you are broke. Let me explain

the best time to date is when you're in a financial rut let me explain so today I'm going to talk about something most men are too afraid to admit dating when your bank account is looking like a ghost town yep I'm going there and no this isn't about gold diggers or financial stability it's about something a little deeper than that so if you've been avoiding putting yourself out there because your wallet feels light you're probably making a mistake that could cost you more than just money in today's video we'll discuss the rules of day women

when you're broke how to build confidence while you're broke and I'll also share a confidence test that many people use all the time to determine their confidence level Jessica ow here welcome to the channel does money matter yes but I need you to really hear me cuz being broke could actually make you a better partner crazy right let me explain when you're in a financial rut you're forced to be resourceful creative and most importantly authentic but before you jump onto the next dating site with the ramen noodle budget there are some hard truths and surprising

advantages that you need to understand so let's face it society places a lot of pressure on men when it comes to dating you're told to be the provider the protector the guy who always picks up the check and plans the perfect night right so when you're not financially where you want to be it's easy to think well what's the point of dating anyway you'll start to to avoid relationships not because you don't want love but because you're afraid you'll look inadequate and I'm sure that this sounds familiar to you cuz you're watching this video here's

the thing though you're not alone I mean most men tie their sense of worth directly to their ability to provide it's a natural narrative men have been fed since birth real men are financially stable right but here's what no one tells you this belief can actually sabotage your love life and your personal growth when you tell yourself I can't date until I'm financially ready you're actually feeding into a toxic cycle my two cense you're convincing yourself that you're only available when your wallet is full which can destroy your confidence inadvertently and here's the thing this

mindset doesn't just affect your dating life it bleeds into everything your friendships your career and even how you see yourself as a man now let me be clear I get it nobody wants to feel like they're not enough you don't want to show up on a date and feel like you're underd delivering but the truth is the right woman for you isn't looking for Perfection she's looking for connection and that connection doesn't cost a dime but here's what you're forgetting dating isn't about proving you're rich it's about proving you're worthy and worth has nothing to

do with how much money you have in fact avoiding dating until you're financially stable can actually backfire because you miss out on valuable experiences that shape you into a better partner think about it how are you supposed to learn about building emotional intimacy effective communication or even basic relationship Dynamics if you're just sitting on the sidelines dating even when your finances aren't perfect is like practice it helps you figure out what you want how to navigate challenges and how to show up authentically and trust me authenticity is far more attractive than money ever will be

here's the truth the longer you wait to fix your finances the harder it gets to put yourself out there you'll start using money as a permanent excuse and before you know it you've built a wall around yourself that no woman can climb and the saddest part is you'll miss out on meeting women who could have been perfect for you not because you weren't good enough but because you didn't give yourself a chance to try so here's something most people won't tell you dating when you're broke can be one of the most transformative experiences of your

life and I know it sounds counterintuitive but hear me out when you strip away the money and the materialism you're left with what really matters you and that's where the magic happens let's break it down when you're in a financial rut you're forced to focus on things money can't buy things like creativity personality emotional connection and trust me those qualities are far more attractive than a fat wallet why because women remember how you make them feel and not how much you spend on them the right kind of women anyway now let me tell you about

something that happens when you date broke you weed out the wrong women if if a woman only values you for what you buy she's not worth your time period but the ones who stick around they're there for the real you the one who's trying growing and showing up despite challenges and honestly that's what a solid relationship is built on mutual respect understanding and not materialism but it's not just about the woman you date it's also about you dating when you're broke forces you to level up emotionally think about it when you can't rely on money

to impress someone you're left with your personality your humor and your intellect this is your chance to sharpen those tools and figure out what really makes you stand out even better dating during this time teaches you humility and gratitude when you're broke every small wind like a great conversation or a meaningful connection feels 10 times sweeter you learn to appreciate the little things and that mindset will serve you long after your finances improve here's another reason dating during your financial rut is an opportunity it builds resilience relationships come with challenges and if you can navigate

dating while broke you're already building the skills you need to handle tougher situations down the line you'll learn to communicate better you'll learn to problem solve and show vulnerability all of which are essential for a healthy relationship think about it if you can build a connection with someone when you're broke imagine how strong that Bond will be when you're thriving one last thing dating during a financial rut gives you perspective it helps you see which women truly align with your values and which ones are just chasing status the right woman will respect you for being

honest about your struggles and will admire your drive to improve and that kind of support is what you need it's Priceless it's one thing to embrace dating on a budget it's another to do it the right way if you're going to put yourself out there you need to set some ground rules these aren't just about protecting your wallet they're about showing up as the best version of yourself no matter your financial situation let me take you through the rules now rule number one be honest but don't overshare don't pretend to be something you're not if

your finances are tight don't act like you're a millionaire just to impress her the right kind of women value honesty but here's the trick don't make your financial rut the centerpiece of your conversations avoid saying things like sorry I can't afford that instead reframe it positively try something like I've got this cool idea for a date that's way more fun than just spending money by focusing on what you can offer you're showing confidence and resourcefulness without oversharing the negatives okay rule number two be creative with your dates this one is key creativity is your best

friend when you're broke the good news is that meaningful dates don't have to be expensive women remember effort and not dollar signs the right kind of women think about it anyone can swipe a credit card but not everyone can create a memorable experience and here's a pro tip the best states are the ones that create stories you'll both laugh about after if you can find ways to surprise her or tap into her interest without spending much you'll Stand Out rule three show ambition and not excuses let's keep it real no woman wants to hear you

complaining about how broke you are without seeing any effort to change it if you're in a financial rut own it but show that you're doing something about the situation talk about your goals your side hustles or the steps you're taking to improve ambition is attract women aren't just looking for a man who has it all they're looking for someone who's working towards it so if you can frame your financial rut as a stepping stone rather than a permanent Pitfall you're going to come across as determined driven and optimistic rule four focus on emotional connection when

money is off the table you're left with what truly matters in dating emotional connection this is your chance to show her who you are your sense of humor your kindness your intelligence ask meaning full questions listen actively and make her feel like she's the only person in the room rule five know your worth this one's huge when you're dating while broke it's easy to feel like you're at a disadvantage but let me tell you something your worth is not tied to your bank account and don't let anyone including yourself make you feel like you're less

than just because you're in a tough spot financially here's the thing the right woman will see the value in your character your ambition and your vision for the future if she she doesn't then she's not worth your time you're not just looking for someone to date you're looking for someone who can appreciate the journey that you're on but let's flip this for a second knowing your worth also means having boundaries okay don't let anyone take advantage of your kindness or your vulnerability just because you're trying to impress them if she's constantly expecting you to spend

money you don't have or making you feel small for your financial situation it's a red flag that you shouldn't ignore okay so it's about time let's talk about the elephant in the room confidence if you're dating while broke the one thing that will make or break your success isn't your wallet it's your mindset confidence is the ultimate hack it's not just about looking good or talking smooth it's about how you carry yourself how you see yourself and how you project your value to the people around you and the best part confidence doesn't cost a dime

confidence comes from knowing who you are and being Unapologetic about it if you're in a financial rut own it but don't shy away from it don't make excuses for it and definitely don't let it Define who you are instead let it fuel you let it remind you that where you are now is just a chapter and not the whole book let's get into how to build confidence while broke I've got a couple of steps to share real quick step one is to focus on what you can control your finances might be tight but there's so

much more to you than money work on improve the things you can control things like your Fitness your grooming your communication skills right a man who takes care of himself sends a message that he values himself and that's incredibly attractive step two lean into your strengths what makes you unique maybe it's your sense of humor your creativity or your ability to make people feel at ease I mean whatever it is leverage it when you highlight your strengths and shift the focus away from what you lack and toward what you bring to the table you're good

to go step three reframe your mindset instead of thinking I'm broke I'm not good enough think I'm broke but I'm working on it and that makes me resilient your mindset is everything guys if you see yourself as work in progress rather than a failure you'll start to show up in a way that reflects your potential and not your circumstances here's a quick test to check your confidence level ask yourself would I date me if the answer is no it's time to start working on how you view yourself confidence isn't just about being perfect it requires

accepting your imperfections and showing up anyway and let me let you in on a little secret the right woman doesn't want a perfect man she wants a man who's authentic who's real who's confident enough to admit I don't have it right now but I'm working on it that's powerful here's the bottom line confidence isn't just about dating it's about growth it's about seeing your Financial rut not as a limitation but an opportunity to become the best version of yourself and when you show up with that energy women will notice they'll respect you and the right

woman well she'll want to join you on that Journey so I guess what I'm trying to say is this to every man waiting out there for his finances to get right before dating stop waiting life doesn't pull for your bank account and neither should you put yourself out there learn grow and date with intention because the truth is the right woman won't care about what you don't have she'll care about who you are and where you're headed Jessica o here hope you enjoyed the video if you did share with another broke guy feels weird to

say but yes please share it and subscribe to the channel so you can get notified every time I post like this video so I know and let me hear your thoughts on what you've heard so far I appreciate you I love you see you in the next video