I just find this to be really nasty isn't this nasty or am I the only one who thinks that this is so inappropriate so vulgar and so rude and I just don't understand that how we can live in times where this is like oh no but this is normal like this is fine I personally don't want to be so intimate with people that I have to really get into the nooks and crannies of their body parts like but we don't even know each other I don't want to be that intimate with you now I have
included this short in my content in the past and the reason why it had to make a Revival today it's not just about the Jean short itself is the fact that when people are walking they don't realize that actually it's going up your butt crack and from the behind it is quite distracting that some women walk around like that I mean imagine if we also had men who wore short pants and they would walk around like that I mean what a crazy world we would live in at least we only have half of the population
potentially walking around like this no but really it's distracting it's inappropriate it's too intimate and I don't want to sound like an uptight person sitting here and be like o skin ew no like I'm a fairly chill person but you know I think some boundaries is necessary among strangers don't you think I mean what do you think the cycling shorts they weren't cute when Princess Diana wore them in the '90s so why would they be cute today like 500 years later no this is not a good look and especially not if you have an elegant
aesthetic in style the cycling shorts and the crop top they don't belong in the Elegance Department whatsoever in fact I personally don't think they're very flattering on anyone plus it just looks weird it's almost like the athlete Leisure trend is just here like a hemorrhoid cannot leave us and therefore need to reinvent itself year after year I mean we had the leggings we had the sports bra we had the crop top or we still have it we have the tracksuit pants and now we have the cycling shorts sorry I just had to let it all
out so every time I do these videos by the way I always go and Google like oh Haley Bieber you know what is she wearing because I always get so many new ideas of what to put on today's list and she definitely loves the cycling shorts by the way but she also loves the puffer bomber jacket and that's actually a piece of garment that I know is super popular right now but I don't think it belongs in the elegant aesthetic Department either in fact I think it looks kind of weird like she looks like a
lollipop you know her legs are so skinny and then she wears this massive jacket on her upper body so it creates this kind of Lollipop effect but it almost feels like they're just trying really really hard to look cool or to look edgy or to I don't know look something else and when somebody tries too hard of something it never equals good like even in my department like when you try too hard to look elegant or you try too hard to look expensive you start looking a bit ridiculous right and here on this channel I
am teaching you a balanced approach so make sure you subscribe for more content moving on so another candidate that I always use as my base for research whenever I do my serious things elegant ladies never wear make sure you watch the entire series after this video and that is our beloved Kim Kardashian she's a great inspiration for what not to wear in my personal opinion I also don't think this is part of the Elegance aesthetic the kind of crop top combination cuz actually this is a look that I've seen around quite a lot and I
think it's a little bit of what I was saying with Haley Bieber earlier is the fact that it's almost like you're trying a bit hard here to look cool to look edgy I mean my pet peeve is the crop top I cannot stand the crop top and now the crop top has really become mainstream and oversaturated and I unfortunately don't think it's going anywhere although I I'm still there praying every morning I pray that I hope today I don't have to see it anymore but no I still see it every time I go outside of
my door now one of the things that we just saw Keem wearing was actually a muscle t-shirt and I think that this is a garment that is very tricky to style especially if you like to have a feminine aesthetic the reason why it looks so masculine is because it cuts off here in the arms so it really does kind of wider the upper body you basically look broader and therefore you look more masculine I do get it that ladies who like to have more of a masculine or edgy aesthetic probably this is a really good
choice for such aesthetic but you know here on my channel I teach more elegant or classic aesthetic or feminine aesthetic and then this kind of t-shirt will be the opposite of that so if you're looking for that kind of aesthetic then definitely stay away from the muscle t-shirt then we have the darar old dearl hoodie that you know I've spoken about for many years on this platform but today I want to talk about the hoodie set because why only settle for one piece of garment when we can have two in one the hoodie set the
hoodie set is basically a walking pajama in public it's for those who say that yes but I just want to be comfortable okay I get it yes it looks very comfortable but it also does look like you're walking around in your loungewear in public you know some people even go to the office like that again I don't want to sound like somebody who comes from the middle-aged time I mean maybe that's what you think about me I don't know but I just don't think that this makes any sense I think a little boundary is good
to have you might want to keep some for your own privacy maybe not share everything with the world and maybe we don't want to see everything from your intimate world and so to me the hoodie and the hoodie set kind of represents that but I'm not saying that okay nobody should wear a hoodie in public and by the way I am aware that certain type of aesthetic Styles like streetwear they might incorporate a lot of hoodies okay but maybe you should just wear the hoodie them but maybe not do the entire set because that's when
it starts looking like a pajama you see again this is my personal opinion if you disagree you should definitely let me know in the comments tell me Anna you are you are wrong you should absolutely wear what you feel is right for you what you feel your best in I'm just here guiding you for an elegant aesthetic for a feminine aesthetic and definitely the hoodie set does not fall under that kind of aesthetic and I feel like it kind of downgrades a person's look instead of elevating it we have to talk a little bit about
the over the knee boots but the high heeled version now I have been recommending the over the KNE Boots the flat version in my content over the years and I still think it's a decent type of Footwear to wear if you have the body type for it as an example I know that some petite ladies struggle with this kind of boot because well it kind of shortens the leg a little bit so the flat version is fine but the problem is with the high heeled version because as you can see here can easily look a
little bit vulgar right and I've certainly seen over the years how some ladies are able to style it in a way where when it looks really classy and sophisticated but unfortunately it can get tricky and if you get the styling wrong then you will instantly look more on the kind of Cheaper side it just looks less refined I think the over the KNE boots we can maybe associate a little bit with like a pretty woman type of style right and therefore we find it to be a bit more vulgar a little bit more on the
cheaper side but again with the right styling with the right eye for aesthetic you can definitely nail this look so that it actually looks good but maybe not suitable for beginners there are definitely certain necklines that are more outdated looking and some that just looks a bit like hm yeah uh no you know what I mean this this neckline is one of those offthe shoulder plus choker collar style neckline okay frankly I have no idea what the official name for this neckline is but yeah as you can see it's not really the most refined looking
yeah so if you have something like that just just burn it trust me on this one now another style that actually looks a bit dated or out of style out of fashion by the way I have a video on this topic that you can watch straight after this video but it has to do with a kind of cutout heel on the heel so the cutout out heel heel okay that's just my name I just invented that I don't know what it officially called but I think this name suits it don't you think the cutout heel
heel so the cutout heel heel why it made it to today's list is because I just don't think that having your heel as the focus point of your shoe is the most flattering idea like think about it some people have like cracked heels like do you really want to show that all I don't think so and so this shoe therefore doesn't really make any sense to me like the peep toe shoe I get it absolutely a little peak of the toe can be cute right but a little peak of your cracked heel not sure about
that okay even if you don't have a cracked heel I still don't think it makes sense okay so for me it's a no if you want to have an Elegance aesthetic now one thing I would like you to know that even though my advice for you is to avoid mishaps like this but we are humans after all and wardrobe mistakes are going to happen and they happen to all of us I want you to have a healthy mind when it comes to the Elegance aesthetic incorporate it in your life in an authentic way in a
way that feels right for you and avoid any form of perfectionism and if you feel like I pointed out something on today's list that perhaps you're doing it wrong with then again it's not so serious it's just an opinion and who knows maybe you're doing it in a way that really does work well for you now in my next video I want to show you 10 items that I think are classic items but unfortunately now they look a bit different they need to be stowed away now for maybe 5 years or more so hop on
over to that video where I will show you which items I'm talking about [Music]
