never try to solve his problems for him whenever you are trying to solve a man's problem or to meet his needs or to help him in some way you are in masculine energy because masculine energy is about giving and providing feminine energy is about receiving and being vulnerable and so if you find yourself problem solving and trying to be his therapist or his mommy or his teacher or his doctor or his nurse etc etc well you know maybe in some context the nurse is okay but uh yeah anytime you're trying to give and provide to
him and and take on those roles you are in the masculine energy which is going to destroy the polarity which will destroy the attraction because the law of polarity states that opposite energies attract masculine energy attracts feminine energy and if you are entering your masculine energy you're going to push him into his feminine energy or you're going to push him away because there won't be any attraction anymore there won't be any devotion because the masculine core the masculine Instinct needs to feel valuable he needs to feel that he can provide for you that he can
make you happy and that he can be your hero and if you are doing those things for him it's not going to allow him to feel that deep sense of devotion for you which is our first point on the things you should never do with a man that every woman should know about so hi I'm Brody Boyd and I'm with magnetize your man and for over 20 years combined with my wife Auntie we've been helping thousands of successful women all over the world to get a loving long-term and committed relationship so let's continue with these
powerful insights so the number six thing that you should never do with a man is never withhold your emotions from him now there are no ugly emotions there are only ugly behaviors a man actually wants to feel your emotions he wants to feel your full heart because that is your feminine energy your feminine energy lives in your heart and your body it's the flow of the emotions it's it's your heartbeat it's your Cy cyclical nature the the the breaths that you take every minute the hormone cycle all of that is part of your feminine energy
and if you're repressing that and if you are hiding that from him because you don't want to be too dramatic or be too needy or be too much or you don't want to rock the boat or scare him away you're actually depriving him of the ability to feel your feminine energy and actually be attracted to you and feel a deep sense of uh love even love and devotion for you because he's just going to feel that you are uh like a buddy like him you're like another man because there is no feminine energy coming from
you when you hold that back now the key here is like I said there's no ugly emotions there's only ugly behaviors there are ugly behaviors that you can do with your emotions that will push him away so for example when you are sharing an emotion with him but you're using that emotion to try to control him so you're using that emotion of fear or anxiety or sadness and you're using it to attack him and to blame him and saying like you're not being a good man you're not doing enough for me you are you are
hurting me you are not doing a good job you need to step up or if you're using those emotions to lash out and uh again attack him in some way criticize him complain U you know they call it nagging sometimes where you are constantly uh trying to manipulate him to give you what you need there's nothing with needing things from him that's your feminine energy that's a natural as a human being to want attention love adoration from your man however if you are then instead of vulnerably making those requests of him using magnetic feminine communication
that we'll teach you in our Advanced courses that he's not going to be able to actually hear what you want because he's going to be so blinded by the masculine energy the criticism the control the manipulation that's coming from you or that you he just can't feel your feminine energy cuz you've shut down you've you're stonewalling or you're just um not speaking up you're not sharing because you don't want to rock the boat so there's those two extremes we call it the dmat archetype and the archetype the dmat archetype uh some people call it the
white cat in other in other terms um is the woman who doesn't speak up who doesn't share who doesn't want to be too much and who is just um doing whatever he says and being quiet or just trying to be keep things light and and keep things fun and then the on the Other Extreme is the woman who is telling a man what to do she is stonewalling she is controlling him Etc and what you want to actually embrace is that healthy Middle Ground which is the queen archetype that will teach you how to be
the queen that is the balance of both of those and that involves sharing your emotions and letting him see your emotions and feel your emotions but doing so in a respectful way in a way that he wants to hear it where he's letting you letting you share it he wants you to share it because you're not being disrespectful with your emotions and you're not whacking him on the head with them so the fifth thing you should never do with a man is never tell him what to do we've talked about this already if you're telling
man what to do you are leading him you are in your masculine energy you're guiding him you're treating him like a little boy and this can be done in small ways when you are even setting boundaries with him and saying you can't do that you shouldn't do that you you can't talk to me like that which which sounds like it's good thing on the on the surface right it sounds like well yeah you should set boundaries but the key is you're telling him what to do in that moment which is going to make him feel
disrespected which is going to make him pull away and not want to be in a relationship with you however if you set a boundary with yourself and telling yourself what to do telling yourself I can't be around somebody who's disrespecting me like this I need some space I need to uh I need to move move on potentially when you're really setting a boundary in the in the most extreme way which is can be very helpful if you're with a man who is not treating you well who's not taking care of your heart but it's about
yourself you're setting boundaries with yourself you're keeping yourself from being disrespectful which then inspires him to actually want to come closer and want to open up and show love and devotion because the deepest needs of a man and Every Man Has a masculine core inside of him the deepest needs needs of a man from his masculine is to feel respected and trusted the deepest needs of a woman in her feminine core every woman has a feminine core is to feel adored and cherished so if you start by respecting him even when he may not deserve
it in the moment you inspire him to want to give you that love and devotion and he comes closer and that means not telling him what to do not leading him not guiding him not manipulating him not trying to lead your relationship forward but simply sharing vulnerably what your needs and desires are using magnetic feminine communication and allowing him to hear those needs and desires and want to do them on his own that he feels inspired within himself to be your hero to be your protector to be your provider that's what you can do when
you're in your faminine energy that'll allow a man to give you everything that you want everything that your heart desires but he's doing it from his own motivation which means it's more likely to actually stick because it's coming from within himself not from you telling him what to do so now if this is helpful and you really want to start embracing principles of magnetic feminine polarity before we get to our next Point make sure you also take our free magnetize your man quiz to get a loving long-term and committed relationship with a man you desire
by going to our website magnetize your man.com or you can click on the link in the description or comments below this this video as well which I'd highly recommend to get to the next Advanced principles with feminine communication how to actually do this in a deep way with a man so the fourth thing you should never do with a man that every woman needs to know is never pay for dates if you find yourself paying for dates or paying for anything really with a man again you are in your masculine energy you are the provider
you are putting him into the feminine role you're making him into uh the faminine in the relationship or the little boy because a mother and a child the mother is actually in the masculine role the mother is providing for the child the mother is giving the mother is helping the child the mother is making decisions and leading the child that is a masculine role which the mother needs to do in order to help help the child to survive but the child will always stay a child as long as the mother is still doing that to
the child eventually the child's going to grow up and it will become a man and in order for that man to be born you have to stop being the mother which means you need to stop providing and you need to stop giving things to him unless he has led you to give you those thing to give him those things unless he has asked you specifically to give you those things to give him those things so even if a man um if a man asks you to pay for the date you know in theory you could
do it however and let's say if this is an exclusive relationship a committed relationship however you need to look at the relationship as a whole if you are the one primarily giving and P primarily providing him for him in a variety of different ways and he's receiving more from you he's more in the feminine that's going to be a problem because again that shows you that you're in a depolarized relationship and the dynamic is going to become such that you're both going to lose attraction for each other likely at some point but especially on his
end he's going to start losing attraction and he's going to be looking outside the relationship to get those needs met um or just breaking up or just pulling away so you want to make sure to keep that polarity and keep that attraction in your relationship ship and the big way you do that is by not paying for dates and really not doing anything for a man unless he's LED you to do it and even then even if a man asks you to pay for a date you don't want to do it if it doesn't feel
good to you and if if if a man asks you to give to him and it doesn't feel good to you you need to share your feelings about that because that's about respecting yourself and that's about being true to yourself and you need to use magnetic feminine communication to share how that makes you feel otherwise you're just going to be complying with him you're going to be um just going along with whatever he tells you to do which isn't treating yourself well and that's not actually respecting yourself as a high value woman and that's not
good either so even if a man is leading you and he's not leading you well you need to speak up and that this would be one of those situations where I would I would always speak up if a man is asking you to pay for anything you should share your feelings around that and allow him to feel your heart so that respectfully so that he doesn't do that anymore and he actually wants to provide for you and does provide for you because that's something you should never really do unless maybe a very specific situation and
um maybe he asked you and you really want to give back to him in some way and it feels good to you and then that's okay in that moment but you still want to look at the overall relationship so there are slight caveats on it but I would say the overall rule is never pay for dates now number three thing that women should never do with a man is uh never assume that he knows what you want you always hear this saying men are not mind readers and it's so true the more masculine a man
is actually the less he will become a mind reader because masculine men are focused and they're single focused generally on solving problems and providing and being the hero and so that means they're going to be more in their head which is where the masculine comes from rather than in their heart they're going to be thinking about how to how to make you happy what are the plans for the future his purpose how he can become a better provider a better hero a better husband a better boyfriend he's going to be focused on his his mission
in life now you in the feminine opening your heart and sharing your your feelings vulnerably can communicate to him in a way that he gets Clarity around how to make you happy because if a man is in his masculine Instinct and he has any level of care for you he's going to want to make you happy that's part of his provision that's part of him knowing he's doing a good job as a man men need to feel valued in a relationship if he doesn't feel valued if he doesn't feel he can make you happy or
he doesn't know how to make you happy happy he's going to become disassociated from the relationship he's going to feel like why am I here I can't make her happy I can't provide so I have no purpose in my life he's going to feel depressed at some level that he can't provide so you need to give him that Clarity and you need to give him a path where he can make you happy and that involves clearly communicating to him how you feel and what does make you happy you do this through two ways the first
way is through magnetic feminine commun communication that will teach you where you can share your feelings respectfully through asking permission through sharing your feelings vulnerably through sharing problems and the stories that you're telling yourself and making about yourself there's many principles that go into that and specific scripts that we'll give you as well but you're able to communicate to him what is going on for you whether that's sadness anxiety fear loneliness so he gets it he wants to hear it because it's done so respectfully and he then wants to solve the problem he gets Crystal
Clarity on what the problem is and he has a path should he choose to the mission so he choose to accept it is to solve your problem is to make you happier to fix whatever is wrong quote unquote to make you feel better in the relationship or in your life in general and so he needs that Clarity to know what to do so he can empathize he can understand because if again a more masculine man is going to be more up here rather than down here in his body so he needs to hear that from
you you're like his surrogate heart you're like his surrogate feelings he gets to feel his emotions through you he gets to understand that through you so if you can clearly communicate that vulnerably which is why vulnerability is so important for faminine energy he gets to understand and he can make a shift he can help you and the other caveat is then um number two the other way to to communicate to him how to make you happy is through sharing your your appreciation when you appreciate him for the small things he does for you right now
the things that about what he does for you how he does make you feel good happy relaxed safe confident Etc then he has a clear path as well how to do more of that so you can also communicate the things he has done or is doing currently that has made you happy how it made you feel so he understands the feeling and the impact of those actions so that he has a map in his mind how to win your heart how to make you happier and it also is good for the relationship because it shows
him how he is not just a total failure in the relationship but there are ways and things that he's doing well that he can do more of and that boosts his masculine morale and self-esteem that he wants to do that more as well number two thing to never do with a man is don't interrupt him respect is key so like I said before the deepest needs of the masculine is to feel trusted and respected so if you're interrupting him that's one of the smallest and easiest and most probably one of the most frequent things that
a woman will unknowingly do that makes a man feel disrespected that makes him feel like you don't trust him that he's not um not a good leader not a good communicator not a good Problem Solver so that's just a small one to be aware of and there's so many other variations of this and bigger ways that that disrespect can happen in the relationship that'll cause him to feel like he needs to pull away or he needs to leave that relationship because he's not being valued or respected so he's going to he's going to start um
feeling like less of a hero so the way you can start doing that is to stop those small behaviors like interrupting him like telling him he's wrong like um bringing things up that that he forgot about or that he said that were hurtful to you from years ago um like criticizing him making him look bad in front of friends and family Etc these things will cause him to feel disrespected and um that will make him pull away so another inverse of this to start actually making a man feel that you respect him which will then
allow him to come closer because if you want to shift masculine feminine energy if you shift in your feminine you're going to naturally start shifting him into his healthy masculine so it only takes one person which is amazing that we have you here now listening to this because we can start to shift you which will then shift him which will then shift your relationship into a positive upward spiral so it starts by you being willing to respect and trust him even if he doesn't really deserve it but by you going first you showing him that
first in in big ways and small ways especially if you're using our um magnet magnetize your man 30-day challenge or 90-day challenge is really what it is it's a 90-day challenge to really shift a relationship and inspire a man to become better um which again you can get by clicking the link to our quiz um after you're done watching this video um that will start shifting him and it may take some time so that's why you want to give it like 30 to 90 days of you really being respectful trusting towards him appreciative using feminine
communication sharing your hearts vulnerably using magnetic feminine polarity that's going to start drawing him closer to you so um yeah so doing things like listening to him as uh telling him things like I hear you I got it thanks for sharing that with me or you know was there anything else you want to share with that like really listening to him and understanding his perspective and even admitting when he was right if he's right about something like admitting it and saying you know you're right and I'm sorry for questioning you or I'm sorry for being
disrespectful or interrupting you or um telling you you were wrong you know of course within reason if he if he was clearly lying to you you don't need to say you were right about something um but there's ways you can share your feelings around that using magnetic feminine communication but that's going to start shifting him that those little things surprisingly will start shifting your Dynamic with him and drawing him closer like really hearing him really listening respecting him as a man finding those things you respect about him and um treating him with respect and not
penetrating him energetically not telling him what to do that's going to do a lot to to bring him closer to you and have an incredible relationship now the first thing that the number one thing that women should never do with a man if you want to draw him close is never forget to appreciate him we talked about this a little already but just as a constant reminder to yourself appreciate appreciate appreciate try to find one to three things about him every day that you can appreciate that you can actually say thank you for or tell
him how he makes you feel with when he did that thing so appreciation isn't just being polite it's not just saying thank you although that's great and that's better than nothing but it's really sharing the emotional impact how he made you feel when he said something or when he did something that's what's going to make him feel appreciated by knowing that he's making you feel good that he's making you feel happy when he knows that he's doing he feels he's doing a good job he feels more invested in the relationship he feels like he has
a path to make you happy and why would he ever walk away from that why would a man ever leave a relationship where he feels fully valued and respected and trusted and appreciated it's going to be very hard for a man to leave a relationship like that partially because they're so rare and so many women don't know these things that you're learning here you know 90 98% of women potentially don't know these things 95 somewhere in there and you're going to be one of the few that does know these things and you're practicing them and
you're going to master them and you're going to learn more with the work you'll do with us ideally with our Advanced courses and whatnot really mastering this for yourself to be the most high value magnetic woman you can be so that your life is just set after that you just you mastered relationships you continually have better and better better experiences with your man with men they want to provide for you they want to make you happy they become your hero um they'll provide in all different levels financially emotionally spiritually he'll just want to be that
hero and that leader and that that um loving man to you he'll adore you at that point so why would he ever step away from that so it's so key you never want to forget that you never want to lose it because it's also a safeguard to help you avoid going into disrespectful Behavior avoid going to into distrusting behavior and trying to Mother him or control him or tell him what to do so it's a good Safeguard also one of the keys one of the powerful keys to Magnetic feminine poity that will dramatically shift your
relationship so much love hope this was helpful today love to hear your thoughts below and I will talk to you again in the next training very soon uh much love bye-bye
