it's okay for you to want more happiness if you don't give it really like step into it you almost feel like I don't know if I can ask you can ask for it everyone turn the person left right shake them say you can ask for it you can ask for it permission with conviction when you step into that it's like oh maybe I need to print Brendan to have fun in this process to bring joy in this thing and I'm going to permit that with conviction I don't need them to say yes or no for
me to have fun I give myself that permission I think it's really hard isn't it it's it's really hard who feels like here you've had plenty of reasons to be proud of yourself you've built something but you do recognize that you deserve to feel happier now raise your hand could you look around the room look around okay he can't give you that happiness and your kids can't give you that happiness I can't do it the dancing as Sterling mentioned does need some help thank you there is nothing you're going to turn to that is going
to give you the more happiness you give yourself that permission with conviction tonight as you go to bed tomorrow as you wake up I want you to give yourself permission with conviction would you write it down permission with conviction sometimes we need to process things and I think as you process it you're almost unsure if it's okay to ask this you're unsure to ask it for yourself and who else has been there right who waited long enough anybody in the room ever before we look at I want you to see look around the room look
around the room we all wait too long and the thing is you're not waiting for anything you're waiting for yourself your next breakthrough isn't the thing you do it's who you permit to show up yeah permission with conviction I am going to show up as a happy and loving person today the tasks might change tomorrow the boundaries might get stretched but I'm going to choose to free myself and show up more happy not because someone says there's some external happy that you have to find you know it you tapping into your good energy and your
joy that's for you not for the kids that's for you because you do deserve it everyone say it with me permission with conviction it's okay for you to want more happiness if you don't give it really like step into it you almost feel like I don't know if I can ask you can ask for it everyone turn the person left right shake them say you can ask for it you can ask for it permission with conviction when you step into that it's like oh I can give myself permission to have fun today on all these
stupid Zoom calls I had to do that do you know I went almost nine months through stupid Zoom calls and in my mind I'm like oh this stupid Zoom calls and I said no no no not everyone shows up to zoom call sync and they're stupid what is it about are these necessary they are these are important this is touching base with Team or family or important Outreach maybe I need to print Brendan to have fun in this process to bring joy in this thing and I'm going to permit that with conviction I don't need
them to say yes or no for me to have fun I give myself that permission for you and everyone here your next level your Ultra thing is that next level of permission confidently stepping into it allowing it claiming it proclaiming it in whatever language that you want because you deserve it you really do you really deserve it you've worked hard to get in a room like this everyone in here worked hard everyone in this room has worked hard and everyone in this room you give yourself more permission to be as happy as you damn well
want at this stage of your life