your new life is going to cost you your old one it's going to cost you your comfort zone and your sense of direction it's going to cost you your relationships and friends it's going to cost you being liked and understood it doesn't matter the people who are meant for you are going to meet you on the other side you're going to build a new comfort zone around the things that actually move you forward instead of being liked you're going to be loved instead of being understood you're going to be seen all you are going to
lose is what was built for a person you no longer are your new life is going to cost you your old one and that seems really scary because we attach to the things that are familiar to us even if those things don't serve us even if those things are painful even if those things hurt us we cling on to those things we cling on to that past life because it's familiar to us it's comfortable to us but we have to understand that until we detach from our old life from our old habits from old relationships
from all of the things that no longer serves this new life that we want for ourselves but we're literally going to be stuck in this reality unable to create a new one I used to think that the number one sought after thing for us human beings is Success money but I recently found out that the number one thing the number one desire for us as human beings is Comfort it's Comfort we want to be comfortable above all else when you're operating from a place of comfort there's there's not much thought that goes into that because
you've done these habits you've done this routine over and over and over again so you don't have to think about it too much think about going to the restroom think about driving to a place where you've driven a million times there's not much thought in that you don't have to really think about that for me me for example I have a bad habit of mindlessly getting on my phone when I'm bored or even when I'm procrastinating I get on social media more than way more than I want to there is not much thought that goes
into that and when you live a life that has Mindless Behaviors without intention without purpose you're going to create a familiar future think about that it's literally impossible to do the same habits that no longer serve you that no longer serve you in this new life this transformation this journey that you're about to embark on it's literally impossible to continue doing those habits and expect to create an unfamiliar future a future that looks different from this current reality it's literally impossible so it baffles me that we I'm speaking for all of us cuz I know
so many of us do it it baffles me that we believe that we can keep doing the same old thing and get a different results that's literally the definition of insanity doing the same thing over and over and over again and expecting different results we have such a hard time detaching from past experiences identities pain trauma we have such a hard time detaching from those things and it it puts a dent in our progress it puts a dent in our transformation and truth be told we are afraid of change but change is inevitable it's happening
like literally all the time but we just don't see it it's the small change that we just just don't see and I swear human beings are the only species that goes against the natural flow of the universe that goes against the natural flow of transformation and evolution we think about the trees outside they just grow when we think about the water it just flows we think about the seasons summer spring winter fall the seasons just naturally change why don't we flow with it why don't we just change with the Seasons because we're attached to versions
of ourselves we're attached to past experiences we're attached to relationships we're attached to people we're attached to so many things that no longer serve us and is stopping us from changing our lives a large part of my inability to change is that I feared that this person I am becoming or I will become won't align with the way that my family perceives me the way that my friends perceive me the way that Society perceives me I'm so caught up in controlling the narrative about how I am being perceived and it doesn't serve me it's stopping
me from doing the things that I actually want to do it's stopping me from following my heart it's stopping me from listening to my intuition and trusting my gut there is so much energy unwanted energy from past thoughts that I currently have just like the one I just mentioned but I have to let those beliefs go I have to let those thoughts those worries those cares I have to let them go if I want to move forward and enter this life that is waiting for me and it's going to take a lot of journaling a
lot of inner work a lot of breathing it's going to take a lot of things but I I have decided today in this moment that my comfort zone isn't working for me anymore it's not working for me I'm in a space where I've outgrown my comfort zone and it's literally driving me insane it's bringing up a lot of emotions of sadness and stagnancy and I'm not going to run from those feelings I'm going to feel every one of those feelings because I have to literally in order to get through what I'm going through to move
and flow through what I'm going through I have to feel those feelings and I'm going to let me tell you something last year 2023 was such it was a painful year for me I allowed people and espe it's hard when it's family but I I allow people I allowed my circumstances to affect my inner being to affect how I showed up but but this year I'm not going for any of it I'm not playing about my energy I'm not playing about myself I'm not playing about that life that I know is mine it's literally waiting
in another dimension for me it's mine and I know it's mine it I can feel it and I'm not playing about that I began to understand over understand that those habits that life those thoughts those people if they don't serve me it's time to let them go all things people places they serve you for a point in your life people things places habits they're there in seasons and yes they comforted you during that time when you thought you needed them but it's time to move on it's time to go 2024 is a year of change
and I promise you I'm not being left behind I'm tired of feeling stagnant I'm tired of not getting the things that are mine because I made a choice I made a decision to be in my comfort zone I'm done doing it I needed this conversation and I feel so much better after having it this is a reminder for you let my journey be a message a sign for you today is the day you literally have to start by starting let's be conscious let's be mindful let's be intentional about the things that we do let's intentionally
manifest the life the things the people the love the energy the peace that is rightfully ours it's time
