hello it's day four of being single and I broke my one day streak of not crying um and I keep telling myself I'm repeating this Mantra I am a strong independent woman and I do not need a partner to feel fulfilled happy or safe and I want you to know that you are also a strong independent person and you do not need a partner to be fulfilled happy or safe even if your freaking tear ducts don't know it foreign [Music] foreign [Music] foreign foreign [Music] [Music] [Applause] [Music] hey tick tock you know what's crazy because
I um joke a lot about being single and you know I am I laugh it off but I'm 46 years old and while I'm getting ready for surgery and everything it dawned on me I'm sorry it dawned on me that I'm 46 years old and I don't have a husband to take care of me I don't have a husband too help me get ready I'm 46 years old and I still need my mama to take care of me post-op I still need my sister which whether I had a husband or not they would they would
be there it sucks being single and 46. sucks that's it it just sucks and I'm [ __ ] tired and I make jokes about the [ __ ] buffoons that I have been encountering in in dating but in reality this is this is my reality this is my reality this is my reality and this those stories are the [ __ ] that's available because all the good men have gotten married in their 20s and 30s because they're good men I'm not blaming it all on men because women are [ __ ] [ __ ] they
[ __ ] batshit crazy too so but I'm this is my reality not anybody else's that's all six years old and I don't have a husband to take care of you know the same goals a smart person learns from his mistake but a wise person learns from other people's mistakes I hope there's some young women watching this please go back and watch this video I feel so bad for this woman but I'm also grateful that she's making this video and she's really being honest and brutal about the reality of Life at that age because too
many of us have bought into lies and I'm not even talking about the lies of feminism or anything like that too many of us have bought into other people's Lifestyles and into other people's reality so so many of us are on this app watching women talk down on men watching women talk down on their own relationships because they've been they went through one or two relationships with men that they chose and um they went into marriage and relationships without knowing the reality of those institutions and without knowing the reality of what life looks like um
when you get married many women are getting into relationships and marriage with their expectations just out of order and then are now selling young women that marriage is terrible and all men are terrible and it's just it's just not true and you know go and watch this video and just go and hear what this one is talking about because that is real life that is real life so I hope a young woman in her 20s is watching this and just I hope you course correct yes and I hope you take a more positive view of
life with men and of your future because sure she has family and sure she has friends but guess what your friends have a life too commitment to care for somebody after they've had surgery I've had it with my second with my second child and I'm grateful to have had a partner to go through that with me you know so go watch this video and let's chat in the comment section let me know what you think um and please don't be too bitter or to me and too mean I've seen men are having a field day
with this and it's just whatever I mean it is what it is she made the bed she's lying in it at least she's on
