[Music] hi I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's newsletter is going to be the power of walking away I've got a really interesting article here from a viewer who met a woman he was actually out at a night club and she really was just exhibiting flaky kind of disin interested type of behavior but he really liked this girl but it also appeared that she was interested in him but he' been studying my work for a while and he knew how to handle her and so he goes
through I think it was the third or the fourth date third or fourth time that they got together that he was able to sleep with her and so there's like several occasions where he does the power uses the power of walking away at Key moments and you see just the amazing how it just literally flips a script and this woman goes from not giving a flying [ __ ] and hey I'm busy I'm going to go do this and he's cool with walking away and she turns right back around and says hey why don't you
come back over let's come over and hang out and I think like I said I think it was on the third date they ended up hooking up and so he shares exactly what he was saying and doing throughout the process so it's a great email to learn from and learn how to powerfully use this technique to your advantage to get what you want so I got a quote that I wrote on this topic and then we're going to go through his email and the quote says being able to walk away from potential lovers increases sexual
attraction being able to walk away communicates that you highly value yourself what you have to offer and that you won't tolerate being mistreated or taken for granted walking away causes the person whom you walked away from to pursue you like you more and make more of an effort to keep you in their life however if they don't really care about you they will let you go it's healthy in any relationship to set and maintain your boundaries of how you want to be treated otherwise you open yourself up to becoming someone else's doormat people will treat
you exactly how you allow them to treat you no one will ever do or say anything to you that you don't invite them to do so let's go ahead and jump into this guy's email he says hey coach I considered myself 75% alpha male until I watched your videos now I'm pretty close to 100% please allow me to share my success story well I mean everybody watching this whether you're a guy or a girl knows a certain percentage of what they need to know in order to be successful in life and in their intimate relationships
and by reading my book 10 to 15 times and applying it you can fill in your knowledge Gap and learn the things that most people don't know about being successful in life and in their Intimate Relationships sounds like one of the buildings that's near where I live downtown there [ __ ] fire alarms going I love how you these weird these weird noises go off you get dogs barking [ __ ] drills going in the background fire alarms going off from other buildings like none of this shit's been going on all day but of course
right when I'm going to shoot videos far alarm has to go off a't that funny so he continues on I was out in a club about a month ago and I met this gorgeous exotic Asian woman I went right up to her smiled reached my hand out and said hi my name's Bob what's your name she told me her name and I proceeded to tell her that she caught my eye from across the room and she looked absolutely stunning I like what you said you're being authentic you're being real and you're telling her exactly what
you think absolutely stunning that's pretty honest and congruent it's believable what you said it's coming from your heart that's what I talk about you want to be real you want to speak your truth without any hesitation or any apology for your interest he said we had a few drinks and exchang numbers as I was leaving I waited to give her a hug and she said you'll have to earn that kiss buddy I responded with no big deal I know I'll kiss you next time nice cocky he responds he says I texted her a few days
later to set a definite date to go out to a lounge and have some drinks hang out have fun hook up she immediately responded with I would love to I picked her up we went out to the lounge and had a great time she proceeded to tell me that she doesn't usually kiss on first dates and that I shouldn't try to kiss her translation if you got balls and you're a real man you will definitely try to kiss me it's like she's d ing you to do what she says she doesn't want you to do
J how would James Bond responded to that it's like if I want to kiss you and the moment is ripe and you're showing me the signs that you're ready to be kissed I'm going to kiss you he says I responded with I consider this a borderline date number two so it's perfectly acceptable for me to kiss you later that's [ __ ] great comeback that's the way you respond you use playful humor and banter you're not being a dick about it but you're playfully basically saying I'm going to kiss you later and here's why of
course this is going to elicit a smile and a good positive response and when a woman is smiling and laughing with you she's feeling good and that means she's associating being with you with feeling good hence hang out have fun and hook up he's having fun with her while they're hanging out and later on hopefully he'll be hooking up with her after a few hours of food and Cocktails I bring her back to her place walk her to the door and begin to kiss her in the doorway he did what he wanted and he communicated
that that was what he was going to do playfully not in a controlling way but playfully she basically texted me non-stop for the next few days and I scheduled another date to go see a magic show with her she was very excited and all for going with me I purchased the tickets ahead of time online to get a discount 3 hours before the time of the show she texted me saying she had to cancel because she wasn't feeling well that [ __ ] sucks three hours before come on my reply was okay let me know
if you changed your mind it's going to be an awesome show and she never responded and notice what he says here this is generally where most guys [ __ ] up and panic but I just relaxed and knew she was eventually going to contact me again yeah cuz the average guy thinks oh I have to pursue more I have to do more I have to do things to get her like me I don't want her to forget about me let me call her let me reach out oh are you okay are you feeling better no
[ __ ] that you bought tickets ahead of time and three hours before oh I'm not feeling well sorry I can't make it you reward a woman who treats you properly with a gift of your time when a woman jerks you around and takes you for granted and waits till 3 hours 40 days say oh I'm not feeling well maybe she wasn't feeling well it's possible but at the end of the day doesn't sound like she brought up anything about rescheduling and that was kind of a shitty thing to do on her part so therefore
why would you want to call her again if she really values you and like I really like this guy and I don't want to let him get away she would reach out to you cuz if you you got to act like you're a catch and this is the power of walking away she doesn't treat him properly he walks away and he ain't never looking back and if she doesn't calm then that's it it's over forever and she'll never hear anything from him again but if there's any kind of interest on her part she go I
am feeling better and God you know it was kind of a shitty move to 3 hours before cancel the date on him and a week goes by he says one week later she texted me asking if I hate her so other words she all a sudden realizes hm I kind of really like that guy I told her that I don't hate her and didn't know why she would have thought that because that's how most guys would have reacted would have been able to handle that they would have been so pissed off and like [ __
] you she showed up to my job with a bunch of homemade Asian food for me and tupperware and told me how she had a hotel room right next to my job and wanted me to come up after I got off work well isn't that interesting she cooks your food she's got a hotel close by to where you work all part of her evil plan to get you alone I thanked her met up with her after I got off work and we began making out as soon as I walked into her hotel room I had
her stripped down to just her panties and as I tried to make a move down there she tells me I should probably leave soon because my friend is coming over to spend the night and inside any guy's going to be going like come on man [ __ ] that's why these kinds of situations you have be like James Bond that [ __ ] don't bother me he's like all right whatever it's like hey it's your loss so you perceive yourself as a catch and you value yourself you're like all right call me later see you
cuz most guys would not react well in that situation they'd be going quit [ __ ] jerking me around and playing games they'd be freaking out about it and some women do do these kinds of things to see if a guy is doesn't lose his cool because if he doesn't lose is cool it's like the draw bage lowers and all you got to do is walk across into her kingdom he say I told her that her friend can wait and continued putting the moves on her she got dressed and told me I really have to
leave because my friend is going to be here any minute I responded with it's all good I know I'll get you next time I gave her a kiss and left so either way you're like [ __ ] it okay you want me to leave I'm out of here [ __ ] it she texted me immediately the next day saying how sorry she was and she couldn't wait to see me again I met her at another club a few days later for some drinks and out of nowhere she said that she had to leave and it
was nice to see me like she's definitely doing this [ __ ] on purpose she's trying to see how you react cuz most guys don't react well to any of this Tre they'll get [ __ ] frustrated mad and angry and be like why are you playing games it's like this particular woman like yeah she's playing games and she's trying to jerk you around to see if you lose your cool but you don't you're indifferent to it the difference that makes a difference is indifference I told her that it was nice to see her too
and I gave her a kiss I didn't chase her or kiss her ass and went back to the bar to have some drinks with some of my friends within 15 minutes she texted me begging me to come back up to her hotel room again and see her ding ding we have a winner to make a long story short I went back up there and I sealed the deal within 90 seconds of being in the room now this chick literally calls and texts me between 3 to five times a day this just this just reconfirms the
fact that if you chase women it will never work out once again thank you for your spoton advice so it's like he did a great job of textbook applying what he's learned from me and this is one a big reason why I do these video newsletters because this is one of those kinds of situations it's a curveball it comes out at you out of [ __ ] left field and you know this woman's doing all she she's all hot she wants you there then you get there and she's like oh I got to leave her
I want you to leave it's just another way that because every woman is different and you got 10,000 different ways they may approach these particular situations this is where the importance of knowing my book having read it 10 to 15 times really will help you and having experience and practicing these things because this girl is obviously really hot and she has lots of choices with men and she is not going to give it up to just any old guy she's only going to give it up to a guy who knows how to act like [
__ ] James Bond how to act like a real man is supposed to act a Charming James Bond that is but he does a beautiful job of taking the wisdom he's learned in the book and applied it to a very specific unique situation cuz everything it's not like one size fits all it's like you know like I said this is an unusual type of situation this woman she's acting like a woman to act but the way she's going about it the coming the going the coming back the going and you notice the third time they
got together he SE deal the deal with her most women will sleep with a guy by the third or fourth date second third or fourth that's here it is once again third dat ding we have a winner third time they got together boom he sealed the deal so great job thanks for sharing your success story and how you appli the principles that you learned in my book and if you'd like to get my help personally the quickest way is a book a paid phone Skype or email coaching session you can choose any of those options
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