guys this is episode six of our six part M series and we're going to be talking about front middle and end [Music] game the reason why all three are very integral because at some point in our lives we'll be attacking all three of them in different dimensions and what I mean by this is the front of the game needs to happen right it's it's our general interaction and communication it's our our energy and how we actually approach people but not only how we approach girls also the aspect um of approaching and communicating in a business
Manner and uh generally working on our skills of front game and then we're looking at middle game how to sustain that how to have a successful dating operation going on can we be dating modable woman at the same time can we be attractive to woman consistently for a longer amount of time can we control uh with the right manner relationships that we hold casual relationships longer relationships and then endgame can we be desirable to a woman for a long amount of time can we attract the right woman can we find the right woman so there's
so many kind of dissections within the the each segment of the game and we're going to be breaking it down ever so slightly first of all talking about front game and here we're focusing on the initial approach how do I actually become successful at talking to approaching and gaining the attraction of or being an attractive human to [Music] girls so one of the most important things we need to think about on the approach is that our first impressions L they are very important girls are going to think about the first impression for for the whole
time actually I remember dating girls for years and we always talk about the first uh interaction the first actual initial approach so it's very important that that you know you utilize this first impression to make a very long lasting strong impression but also most importantly everything aligning with what you want to represent I feel like a lot of guys will present something on the initial approach and then when they begin to date the girls change and then when they're serious about the girls change we want to keep a constant level of dominance leadership and strength
throughout all of this we don't want to be changing depending on the season or depending on what we actually want to portray to this girl we want to portray these characters as a human always and the reason I emphasize on the points about our values and who we represent is because I feel like very very often guys will go on with a more desperate approach to get said girls and either initially if the girl's intelligent and high value initially this will put her off or if not then in the long run or the short long
run within weeks within months she will lose respect for you because of this type of Personality girls sometimes like a bit of difference a bit of variety a bit of excitement at the start but we want to be coming from a position where we can consistently attain high levels of respect from our woman whether it's short-term casual or longer term and something more serious so at no point in these relationships with these girls are we begging are we desperate are we in need of some sort of Love or attention we are always coming from a
point of a respectable dominant approach to go and get Instagram number to explore the connection we could have and the relationship that we could possibly have one of the main things I talk about extremely commonly is our energy we want to master our energy which is going to be the absolute hack of how to master this initial interaction to get results to be productive with these interactions we're having with girls cuz a lot of guys are going over with very dull energy and there's this kind of balance you need to have between having a lot
of energy and coming off excitable nervous and having a good calm dominant but also engaging energy which girls find attractive both in a masculine way and also in a way where they could actually enjoy the interaction and enjoy your company and it both stimulates them physically and psychologically so the way we want to integrate energy into the first interaction is we want to provide a lot of it in the first interaction the girl's always going to be a little bit more taken back a little bit more uh in her comfort zone we're fine with her
being there we don't want to push a girl to come outside of her comfort zone when you push someone to do something uncomfortable a lot of our reactions as humans is to escape from that scenario and that's when people get a lot of negative results from from pickup or from approaching girls so what we want to do is allow her in our comfort zone we want to provide the energy we want to provide the security and the Comfort to her and allow her to gradually get out of her shell we're providing that level of energy
as almost a metric of attraction that she's able to look at and go I want to be on that energy I want to be on that Vibe I want to to join him and match him where he is so I can appreciate that energy off of him and I'm going to eventually match him um you know at that point of of of energy the next thing we're going to touch on is mastering the approach the physical approach in itself is my body language right there are so many 1% things that we can bring up to
maximize our chances of success during the first approach interaction do I approach with open body language do I provide an interaction that allows her to feel comfortable and included do I stimulate her curiously or intellectually or through my energy these are all questions we need to be asking on the approach now if I was to give you a simple answer on how to master these aspects if you put in enough repetition understand and come to terms with the the the your fear of rejection the level of failure you're going to attain by approaching this many
girls when you come to term with all these things and learn from all these things you're going to learn a lot more than sitting reading about it so put in the Reps understand the information understand the criticism ask yourself why am I not being successful is my energy where it needs to be study your interactions study your communication skills and begin to master the [Music] approach approach is a lot about reps and rejection and just just you know having the confidence to approach these girls the middle game is where it gets very Tactical for me
it was always about attaining something casual and relax with a girl whilst also having that level of like loyalty and Purity from her so this is very hard and requires first of all you to be a man of value so if you're not already doing it if you're not already building your value as a man having a high level of value will be the biggest Catalyst in mastering this this part of the process so you must be growing and and progressing your value consistently as a man practicing this aspect of the middle game successfully I
get [ __ ] tons of questions about what do I text a girl and I never understood it how how guys can't text a girl I don't enjoy it it doesn't stimulate me as a man I find a few tricks that really help you keep that level of energy and and high level of playfulness and and Sexual Energy and chemistry throughout the text so first thing I say to guys is when you approach a girl you should have enough energy and substance to have things that you talked about and have topics where you connected on
where you talked where you related to each other and these are the topics that you're going to incorporate into your text because what you want to do in your text is you want to remind her about the approach the approach is where you are able to give Lo your energy is where you were able to sell her the dream of you two are great together and you're a great man of high value and she'd be lucky to have you how can I continue texting her using inside jokes that we've created in this first interaction using
points we talked about or laughed about and then it's balancing that right level of inuendos and information where you're having text messages that not only stimulate educate and talk about intelligent topics but also allow her to fill your energy even through her phone which is one of the hardest things to do that's why you have to be creative if you're popping up saying hey how are you blah blah blah then your game over if we're talking about texting a girl generally what's the first thing you should should say always I say imagine her DMS imagine
what her DMS look like imagine the hundreds of guys in her DM saying yo what's up hey you're hot oh you look nice liking her story this same old [ __ ] message her something unique authentic where she'll reply to you over the hundred of other guys in your phone cuz the har reality of dating is that throughout the first week or two weeks it's our job to get her attention and from then on she's going to be chasing our attention for the time being and this is an important part of the texting game we
do not want to make ourselves overly available we don't want to be texting her all the time we don't want to be replying to her as soon as we see her message on her phone we need to let her know as a man of value our time is limited and valuable and this I have to tell you may lead to you having to sacrifice some girls that want to call your phone every [ __ ] day and go Diego why aren't you making time for me why do you take so long to reply my love
to the life I live I don't have time I'm working I'm doing all this [ __ ] if a woman cannot appreciate these things it is going to take a lot of energy for you to maintain these relationships and cuz we are not coming from desperation we're not interested in these girls that want to play games like this we want to make her know that in this situation my time is valuable and any second she is getting from us she is lucky to have we don't have to say these things we have to show these
things with our level of high value and the action we take within our lives and that she's able to see and also she will end up respecting these things from the action she sees you taking so when you're texting think about the amount of times you're applying in a day how often you're applying don't over complicate it don't get to the point where you're thinking oh should I wait one more minute to text it's just about making sure she knows you reply you're making time for her but you're busy every time you text her it's
you making time outside of your day because you're interested in pursuing something with her or you think she's cute whatever it is you need to make sure she has this recollection this is how our relationship is going to function so text game can be really intricate but I say keep it nice and simple be creative be authentic and don't overtext when we have these unlock you're going to have a woman that's going to be much more interested in you and much more interested in seeing you to close off on our texting game I'm going to
say to you now don't text for too long of a period of time before you try and meet try and get the meet super super soon try and create the vibe of comfort relativeness so she likes you she she relates to you so it's not awkward if you say hey what you doing later in this week I just really enjoy texting you I really enjoy seeing you let's meet later this week let's make it happen but the way you're going to make this seem more natural is by having an authentic conversation over text maintaining the
energy of the interaction one of my favorite metaphors to dating or to midle end dating specifically is chess chess is my move your move we have to dominate The Chess board the best chess players in the world will predict your move and make them they move accordingly so you will then move a certain way after respectfully manipulating the chess board so we can win now I'm not saying dating is playing with her emotions but dating is certainly a game it's certainly a game and anyone in denial of that is uh is lying to themselves frankly
so we need to become a master at chess which means we need to start well first of all we need to learn we need to learn the game of chess we need to learn the chess board and we need to learn how to play how to control the board and most importantly how to win a really important thing we need to think about is attracting the right woman when you're sexually involved with someone or casually involveed with someone or even involved with someone on a basis of time they're consuming your energy so it's very important
that we're protecting our energy and giving our energy to the right people make sure we're attracting the right woman this always comes for me when you have a choice when you become a man of high value and you have choice you start looking and choosing the right woman the woman who offer better and and higher traits I'd say the best way to master this is by mastering yourself becoming a high value man and having access to a lot of women where you can filter out what I call the [ __ ] and start to talk
to and date more intelligent and higher value women now I'm a huge believer in ownership so I'm going to relate this straight back to us this doesn't come unless we present as a high value man so how do we present as a high value man one thing is our time as I said to you before making sure our time is not too accessible we need to be showing the traits of dominance leadership and self-control and emotional control always throughout this middle section of our Dating Game to have a woman respect you to become a master
at chess and also to have a woman desire you more so so always maintain the traits of dominance self-control and Leadership and a couple more things of that though is our level of authenticity and integrity people neglect it so much during dating and then they wonder why they become unhappy [Music] when we're authentic when we're able to be authentic to ourselves when we actually not only presenting a high value man that we want to be but the high value man that we work to be everything becomes so much easier during dating so much easier the
hardest thing about dating is learning the art of manipulation but what if we work to a stage where we no longer have to manipulate because the guy that we want to present is the guy we actually are think about that and also our level of Integrity as I said before selecting the right woman make sure we're dating women that align with our values that we enjoy you know spending time with this is a simple case of options when you build your level of value to a certain aspect you'll access a better variety and a better
amount of woman which will then allow you to select more intricately who you want to be expending your energy on you must consistently to allow your woman to not only consistently love you but also consistently respect you and that level of love and respect will be the integral factor to maintaining a strong and compassionate relationship you must maintain your levels of masculine energy for me I see the one of the biggest mistakes guys are making when they're locking down a woman or when they're becoming serious with a woman or when they're spending a lot of
time with a woman is when they stop showing their masculine energy now there's always going to be a level of of feminine energy that creeps up the longer we spend time with a girl because the more comfortable we get and the more we think we can tune into them little uh jokes or show off more of the reality of maybe our past and I'm not neglecting this idea fully but I am giving you a full [ __ ] disclaimer the more you do this the easier it will be for her to not respect you I'm
not saying immediately she won't respect you but the easier it will be for her to lose that respect to you if you can maintain that masculine energy throughout your relationship with her until you're [ __ ] married with five children then do what the [ __ ] you want until then maintain your level of masculine energy because you are building a household which needs strength in masculinity strength in leadership strength in dominance think about the stubbornness and the pride of a male lion in his jungle with his kids and his pride we are animals for
[ __ ] sake at the end of the day so never neglect our ability to maintain masculine energy and this comes more than anything through our self-control to maintain our our morals our values and what we must do the necessities of action in our lives to maintain all of this masculine energy and all of our masculine traits and to extend on that point and close off on our back game respect the respect that we need to have a functioning and thriving household is earned through example through examples of actions that you are able to set
and do and Achieve as a man of the house your woman will be watching what you do so what you say is not as important so make sure we are always sticking to our word we always being an example because the more your woman can see you working hard the more your woman can see you trying your absolute best to provide for the family and to grind day in day out the less your woman will feel the need to argue with you the less your woman will feel the need to challenge you the less your
woman will feel the need to talk back to you the less your woman will feel the need to cheat on you or talk to other guys or think about doing anything that is being the most loyal loving and pure woman that she can be to you and that's what we want from our woman so the the higher example you can set of an outstanding Flawless and Incredibly hardworking man the better of your woman will portray her traits of loyalty of purity of love of kindness of patience of nurture to you and your children of taking
care of you one of the most important things where I differ to men online that say my woman needs to give me all of this is where men forget the part where they need to act the [ __ ] part if you want AB andc of a woman insist on it but make absolute [ __ ] sure you are doing everything you need to do to provide her with an example that you are working hard enough to practice the preach that you give of masculine energy and masculine roles front middle and back game is all
a [ __ ] chess board we need to have good energy confidence mastering techniques and once we have all of this it will be much easier just to play the game of chess with our natural traits and when we can do that we can Master our front middle and back in game with perfection attract high value woman portray a high value man always and have success in every part of our dating life sh
