you've probably heard the saying you can't choose who you fall in love with right well I'm here to tell you that that's BS because some women they'll derail your life faster than a train off its tracks if you're not careful today I'm going to break down the types of women you should never fall in love with no matter how tempting they may seem and trust me if you stick around you'll thank me later when you dodge some major heartbreak Jessica OS here welcome to the channel let's Jump Right In the first kind of woman to
avoid is The Chronic drama queen she's one of the most exhausting personalities to deal with in a relationship at first she might seem exciting though she's full of stories about the chaos in her life wild fights with friends dramatic work Saga the constant issues that no one else understands it might even seem endearing at first like she's passionate emotional and needs someone to lean on but the truth is she thrives on turmoil drama is her lifeblood and you're her latest spectator believe me when I say the drama won't just stay outside your relationship it's coming
for you too if she doesn't have enough chaos in her life she'll start creating it with you you'll suddenly become the villain in her latest episode maybe you didn't text back fast enough or you didn't say the exact words that she wanted to hear before you know it you're in the middle of a shouting match about something you didn't even realize was a problem this is a huge sign of emotional instability and it will drain you faster than you think so how do you spot a chronic drama queen early on here are some red flags
number one She's Always In conflict with someone if she's constantly fighting with her best friend her ex her boss or even her family take note the common denominator in all her drama isn't other people it's her two she has a problem escalating small issues you forgot to call her when you said you would prepare for an emotional meltdown she'll blow up minor inconveniences and turn them into major catastrophes three she enjoys gossip and thrives on negativity listen closely when she talks about others does she constantly bash people or seem to take pleasure in their misfortunes
that's a red flag that she feeds off negativity and that negativity will spill into your relationship the thing is being with a chronic drama queen isn't just stressful it's toxic over time this will drain your emotional energy affect your mental health and even impact your confidence the best thing you can do though is to step away you're not her therapist you're not her fixer or her emotional punching bag you're supposed to be her partner and a real partner doesn't bring turmoil they bring peace number two the manipulative nice girl she seems absolutely perfect she's sweet
she's caring she says all the right things she supports you when you're down and cheers you on when you're up but something doesn't quite feel right it's subtle at first but over time you start to notice a pattern she's always finding ways to guilt trip you or twist situations in her favor congratulations you've encountered the manipulative nice girl what makes this kind of girl so tricky is that her actions don't scream toxicity they whisper it she's not shouting at you or blatantly mistreating you no her manipulation is far more Insidious it's hidden in her soft
tone her seemingly innocent words and her carefully crafted image on the outside she's the dream partner but on the inside she's playing you like a chessboard here are the telltale signs of this dangerous archetype one she uses guilt as a weapon pay attention to phrases like I guess I just care too much or I can't believe you'll do that after everything I've done for you these statements aren't innocent they're calculated to make you feel bad and bend to her will two she's a master of backhanded compliments she'll say something like you look great today I
was starting to think you didn't care about your appearance anymore trust me that's not a compliment it's a subtle dig designed to make you second guess yourself three she always plays a victim if there's ever an argument she'll flip the script so that you're the bad guy even when she's clearly in the wrong this girl thrives on being the victim because it gives her the upper hand she knows exactly how to win you over she starts by building you up making you feel like you finally found someone who truly understands you she'll shower you with
praise and attention what I like to call the honeymoon manipulation phase but once she's got you hooked the shift will begin her compliments will come with strings attached her support will feel conditional and her love is something you'll have to earn you'll find yourself constantly trying to meet her expectations even when they're unreasonable because basically you don't want to lose the version of her that you first fell in love with third woman you should never date is the serial social climber she's Charming polished knows exactly how to make you feel like the most important person
in the world but here's the problem her interest in you isn't about you it's about what you can do for her now at first glance this kind of woman might seem harmless ambitious even after all isn't it natural to want a partner who inspires you to aim higher sure but there's a difference between a woman who wants to build with you and one who just wants to ride your coat tails to the top the serial social climber isn't interested in love respect or partnership her goal is to leverage your status resources connections Etc to boost
her own position when she's drained everything she can from you guess what she'll move on to the next step in her ladder now this kind of woman isn't always obvious at first glance in fact she's a Master of Disguise here are some red flags I want you to look out for okay one she's overly focused on status and appearances okay if her first questions to you are about your job the car you drive or how many followers you have take a step back a genuine connection isn't built on superficial stats okay two she's more interested
in your network than your personality does she get overly excited when you mention influential people in your circle or maybe she keeps asking you to introduce her to certain friends or colleagues beware three her lifestyle expectations don't match her effort she wants luxury vacations fine dining expensive gifts but what's she bringing to the table if she expects you to fund her dream lifestyle without contributing anything meaningful you're dealing with a Serial s she climber her strategy is simple but effective she'll flatter you make you feel like a king and subtly align herself with your goals
and Ambitions you'll feel like you found someone who's on your level someone who appreciates the life you've built but the catch is she's not in it for the long haul the moment you face a setback or lose a status or fail to meet her escalating demands should be looking for the next opportunity and trust me it will not take her long to move on let me tell you what the best defense against a Serial social climber is it's awareness okay here's what you need to do test her interest in simpler moments take her out on
a low-key spot no fancy restaurants no luxury experiences see if she enjoys her company when there's no Glitz and glamour two protect your resources early on keep your Financial and Professional boundaries clear don't let it pressure you into spending big or sharing access to your network until you're sure that her intentions are genuine three have the courage to walk away if you notice the signs don't make excuses for her behavior serial social climas rarely change and staying in the relationship will only hurt you in the long run the bottom line is such a woman doesn't
love you she loves the lifestyle you can give her and the connections you can provide as well as the doors you can open be on the alert four the Perpetual victim she's got a sub story for every occasion and while it might tget your heartstrings at first there's something deeper going on there with this woman nothing in her life is ever her fault her exes were toxic her boss is unfair her friends are disloyal and somehow the universe is always conspiring against her the Perpetual victim may not seem like a threat at first I mean
after all she's not yelling or lying or outwardly being manipulative instead she's subtly pulling you into her endless cycle of problems and playing on your empathy take note her victim is a tool of control so how do you spot this kind of woman early on one her ex is always the villains she's never had a breakup where she wasn't the one who wasn't wronged every ex is a cheater a liar or a narcissist now while it's possible that she's just had a bad experience or two take note that if every single EX is the worst
person ever it's a red flag two she never takes responsibility for her actions every issue in her life is someone else's fault whether it's missing a deadline at work falling out with a friend or an argument with you she's never to blame there's always an excuse or someone to point the finger at three her life is one long sob story it's not just relationships it's just her entire life is a series of unfortunate events bad luck seems to follow her everywhere she goes and while it's natural for people to face struggles her struggles seem to
never be ending they're exaggerated strangely convenient when she wants your attention or sympathy the hottest part about dealing with someone like this is they don't actually want to change because being a victim works for them and guess what even if you try to gently encourage her to look at her role in the problems or take steps to improve her situation she'll resist guys she's invested in her victim narrative and any attempt to shift it will be met with deflection denial or even hostility fifth kind of woman the commitment phobe in Disguise one day she says
I'm just not ready for the relationship right now but still expects you to act like her boyfriend Mi signals constant hot and cold Behavior that's the Hallmark of this kind of woman if you're not careful this woman will have you running in circles trying to win her over while she keeps one foot out the door this woman is a master of emotional manipulation she gives you just enough affection and attention to keep you hooked but never fully commits this keeps you in a state of uncertainty always questioning where you stand and whether you're enough when
it comes to her spotting a commitment phobe and disguise is tricky because she doesn't come out and say I'm scared of commitment instead her actions reveal the truth so let me tell you what to look out for the biggest sign she sends out mixed signals like I said one day she's all over you calling texting constantly making you feel like a priority the next day she's distant claiming she's busy or needs space two she avoids defining the relationship if you bring up an idea of commitment she'll Dodge the conversation or give you a vague answer
like oh let's just see where this goes three she has a pattern of short-term relationships after ask her about her dating history and you'll likely hear about a string of flings or situationships that never turned into anything serious four she loves the chase she's super engaged when you're playing hard to get or when things are still casual but the moment you start getting serious she pulls away if you suspect you're dealing with a commitment phobe and disguise do this call out her behavior be upfront about what you're noticing and say something like I feel like
you pull away whenever things start to get serious can we talk about it two set boundaries don't let her dictate the pace of the relationship make it clear what you're looking for and what you're not willing to tolerate three don't chase her chasing a commitment fob will only reinforce her behavior instead you want to pull back and let her figure out what she really wants and finally we're there the overly controlling perfectionist have you heard of this woman before this woman initially seems like she just cares deeply or has high standards but over time her
attention to detail becomes criticism her care becomes control and her standards become impossible to meet she's the type who wants everything to go her way and if it doesn't you'll feel like you're the problem at first you might think her controlling behavior is harmless or even flattering she remembers the small details organizes plans to Perfection and seems like she has it all together but the thing is it's not about partnership it's about control this woman has a deep need to dictate how everything unfolds in her life life including you she may frame it as helping
you be better but in reality she's trying to mold you into her ideal version of a partner and the cost your individuality your confidence and eventually your happiness here's how to spot her she micromanages everything you do number one whether it's how you dress how you load the dishwasher or even how you order your food at the restaurant she's always quick to correct you two she disguises control as care she might say things like I just want what's best for you or I'm only doing this because I love you now while it sounds sweet these
phrases are often used to justify her constant interference in your decisions three she criticizes more than she compliments her feedback rarely feels supportive instead it's a laundry list of what you're doing wrong or how you could be better four she gets anxious when things don't go her way if something doesn't go according to plan whether it's a small change in schedule or a minor decision you make she'll spiral into frustration and anger at first this feels thoughtful like she's invested in you and wants to see you succeed but over time her help becomes suffocating you'll
notice that nothing you do is quite good enough and she'll constantly push you to meet her impossible standards the harder you try the more she'll demand and until you feel like you're losing yourself in the process the overly controlling perfectionist doesn't see her behavior as a problem she sees it as a necessity in her mind her controlling nature is what keeps everything perfect and any resistance to her methods is seen as a threat to her sense of order even if you try to set boundaries she'll push back claiming that you don't appreciate her efforts or
understand how much she does for you unless she's willing to acknowledge her controlling Tendencies and work on them don't expect this woman to change so there you have it women that you really must avoid dating if you want to be happy if this video hit a nerve Because deep down you've probably encountered at least one of these types of four do me a favor and re-watch the video take some notes and make sure you're choosing a woman who's worth your time energy and love and hey if you got stories of your own about women who
fit these descriptions drop them in the comments below I want to hear all of the tea plus I love reading your messages Jessica OS here don't forget to like share and subscribe I'll catch you in the next video cheers
