change is inevitable we hear this all the time but it doesn't make it any easier when it happens to someone you love maybe it started gradually almost imperceptibly a shift in their tone a new way they began to look at the world different from how they used to and then before you knew it they were different they changed and you were left behind you remember how things used to be the comfort of knowing them so well the joy of shared moments the plans you made together it was familiar it was safe but somewhere along the
line something shifted they grew they evolved and somehow in that process you got left behind they became someone you barely recognized and the person you once knew was nowhere to be found it's a disorienting feeling isn't it to look at someone you thought you knew so well and see a stranger staring back at you it's like the foundation you built your life on suddenly cracked and crumbled beneath you the future you thought was certain now feels like a mirage and you're left standing in the ruins of what once was the truth is people change for
all sorts of reasons sometimes it's life experiences sometimes it's new relationships and sometimes it's just a natural part of growing up but but when someone you love changes and you're left in the dust it can feel like a betrayal like everything you shared didn't matter like you weren't important enough to take along for the ride but here's something important to remember their change doesn't have to be your downfall it's okay to feel hurt to feel lost to wonder why things couldn't stay the same but don't let their Journey become the end of yours you are
not defined by their evolution or their choices you have your own path to walk your own growth to embrace it's easy to get stuck in the past to replay old memories and wish for things to go back to the way they were but clinging to what used to be only prevents you from seeing what could be it stops you from growing from evolving from becoming the person you are meant to be it's not easy and it's okay to grieve the loss of what you once had but at some point you have to let go and
move forward you have to accept that their change isn't a reflection of your worth it's a reflection of their Journey their path their story and you have your own story to tell it's okay to miss the person they were but don't forget to honor who you are becoming don't forget to focus on your own growth your own happiness your own peace you deserve to be surrounded Ed by people who see you who value you and who grow with you you deserve to be with those who choose to walk beside you no matter how much they
change and sometimes letting go of what no longer serves you is the most loving thing you can do for yourself so if you're feeling left behind because someone changed remember this it's not the end of your story it's just a new chapter one where you have the chance to become stronger wiser and More in tune with who you are embrace the change not just theirs but yours too because in the end the only person you truly need to keep up with is yourself they changed and you were left behind but maybe just maybe this is
your chance to catch up to the person you've always been meant to be
