How to Recognize That Your Desire for Someone Really Is from God and NOT from Yourself

When you find yourself longing for someone and wonder if this desire is truly from God or just your own feelings there are some clear signs to look out for here are five Clues to help you discern if your desire is god-given one does your desire align with Biblical principles and commands when God plants a desire in your heart it will always lead you towards righteousness Philippians 2:13 tells us for God is working in you giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases him if your feelings for someone are steering you towards actions

and behaviors that honor God that's a strong indicator that this desire is from him on the other hand if this desire pushes you towards sinful paths it's a red flag for instance Desiring someone who does not share your faith contradicts the biblical command to not be unequally Yoked 2 Corinthians 6:14 similarly if your desire leads you into sexual immorality it clearly displeases the Lord and you can be certain it's not from him Jesus said you will recognize them by their fruits Matthew 7:16 a desire from God will produce good good fruit in your life peace

Joy patience kindness and self-control if pursuing this person brings turmoil anxiety or leads you to Compromise your values then it's not from God conversely if it brings growth draws you closer to God and fosters virtues like patience and kindness it is more likely to be a desire placed in Your Heart by God two seek confirmation through prayer and wise counsel Proverbs 11:14 says where there is no guidance a people Falls but in an abundance of counselors There is safety when you're unsure about your feelings pray earnestly for God's guidance additionally seek advice from trusted Godly

mentors who can provide objective insights God often us uses others to confirm his will for us if those around you who walk closely with the Lord affirm your feelings and see God's hand in it that's a positive sign Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us for Everything there is a season and a time for every matter under Heaven God's timing is perfect and a desire from him will often align with his perfect plan for your life if you feel rushed or pressured it might be wise to pause and reflect god-given desires are often accompanied by a sense of

peace and patience knowing that he is in control and his timing is best three pay close attention to the Doors that God is opening in your life when the path to pursuing a relationship is clear and unencumbered it's a powerful sign that God may be guiding your desires you might feel a strong good and biblical attraction to someone a person who loves the Lord encourages your spiritual growth and fits many of your ideals but it's essential to discern if this desire is truly from God or just your own Emotions even when your feelings are strong

and seem to align with Biblical values God might still say no or not yet because he knows what's best for you he might have a different plan a better person or a different timing in mind just like in the life of Paul who had a sincere desire to preach in bethenia but was prevented by the Holy Spirit instead he was led to traz where the door was wide open for his ministry acts 167 and 8 Paul's desire was good but it wasn't God's will at that moment when God opened the door at traz Paul knew

that was where he was meant to be in the same way if your desire for someone is from God he will clear the path and open the necessary doors for that relationship to flourish there will be a sense of peace and Alignment in the circumstances surrounding your relationship you'll find that Things Fall into place naturally without forcing or manipulating situations to fit your hopes this Divine orchestration is a clue that God is behind your desire working everything together for your good and His glory imagine you're navigating a maze and every turn you take leads to

a dead end except one path opens up effortlessly before you that's how God guidance often Works In our lives he closes some doors and opens others leading us to where we're to be so if you're finding that your desire for a particular person is met with open doors and God's blessings it's a strong indication that your desire aligns with his will on the other hand if you're constantly hitting obstacles feeling unrest or having to compromise your values to pursue someone it might be a Sign that this desire isn't from God trust his timing and his

plans for for they are always perfect he knows your heart your desires and your future if you stay patient and faithful he will reveal the right person and the right path for you four if your main focus is just on what you can get from the relationship it might be time to reassess true it's natural to want someone who makes you happy but when God Is the one guiding your heart you'll find a deeper reason to be with that person you'll also be eager to pour love and support into their life it's about a balance

where both of you uplift each other picture it like a partnership where both partners are constantly looking out for each other's well-being when your desire for someone is god-given you'll want to see them Thrive and be happy just as much as you want that for yourself You will feel a calling to offer them the love and support they deserve which naturally leads to a stronger commitment think about it this way a friendship might not be enough to contain the love you want to give your heart's overflowing with care and support and you realize that only

a deeper more committed relationship can fully Express that love it's a beautiful sign that God is nudging you towards something more Significant now let's be clear this doesn't mean that every strong desire or attraction is from God we need to be careful and prayerful but when your longing to be with someone is about more than just your own happiness when it's about truly wanting to bless and support them that's a strong indication that God is at work so as you seek to understand your feelings take a moment to reflect on your motives are you driven

by selfish Desires or is there a genuine god- inspired love pushing you towards this person ask God for clarity and guidance he's faithful and will reveal the true intentions of your heart do not forget God's love is selfless pure and always seeking the best for others when your desire mirrors that love it's a beautiful clue that it might be from him keep your heart open to his leading and trust that he will guide you To the right person in his perfect timing five when your desire for someone aligns with your spiritual growth and strengthens your

relationship with God it's a significant clue that this desire comes from the Lord our connections deeply impact our faith Journey the people we surround ourselves with can either bolster or hinder our walk with God if this relationship encourages your spiritual growth it's a strong indication that it is God Ordained think about it how many times have you noticed your passion for God wavering when you spend time with people who don't share your faith or values this isn't a coincidence God understands that our human relationships are pivotal to to our spiritual health that's why the Bible

instructs Us in 2 Timothy 2:22 so flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness Faith love and Peace along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart imagine your life as a garden the people you let into your life can be like water and sunlight helping you grow and flourish in your faith or they can be like weeds choking your spiritual growth when God places a desire for someone in your heart it's often because this person will help you grow closer to him they will inspire you to pray more read the Bible more and

live out your Faith more boldly reflect on this is your desire for this person driving you closer to God do you find yourself more eager to dive into scripture more more motivated to attend church or more passionate about living out your faith if yes these are not just feelings they are Divine nudges God uses our relationships to draw us closer to him and when a relationship has this effect it's a sign That it's from God on the other hand if you notice that your desire for someone leads you away from God causing you to skip

prayers neglect your Bible study or compromise your values then it's likely that this person is not from God a relationship that pulls you away from God's presence is a relationship that needs to be re-evaluated in essence godd designed relationships are like iron sharpening Iron as described in Proverbs 27:17 they push you towards your spiritual goals and make you a better follower of Christ so pay attention to how this person impacts your faith do they challenge you to be better encourage you to stay committed to your spiritual disciplines and walk alongside you in your pursuit of

righteousness by seeking someone who helps not hinders your walk with God You're aligning yourself with God's will remember a relationship that comes from God will always lead you back to him enriching your spiritual journey and drawing you deeper into his love sometimes we spend a long time waiting for God's answers to our prayers for love and intimacy we picture this perfect someone in our hearts someone far away who will one day come and take our loneliness away but what if the answer is closer Than we think life can feel like a puzzle with missing pieces

we pray for a sign and a clear Direction and it can be frustrating when they don't come right away but maybe God is working in a gentler way maybe the answer to our prayers for someone special is already in our lives answered but currently a friendship now think about this have you ever felt drawn to someone you already Know maybe this is someone who makes you laugh laugh who you confide in who shares your faith those connections can be God's Whispers guiding us towards Something Beautiful in today's video I want to share that God is

saying until you are together with that person this will keep happening most people think and expect some things to happen in a certain way they forget that God is too big to be boxed in by our ideas about how things Should or should not happen let me tell you a story from 1st Samuel 16 that really drives this point home when God needed a new king for Israel to replace King Saul he sent Samuel The Seer to anoint David when Samuel arrived in Bethlehem he first thought elab one of Jesse's sons was the chosen one

saying surely this is the Lord anointed but he was wrong here was God's answer to him but the Lord said to Samuel do not consider his appearance or his height for I have rejected him the Lord does not look at the things people look at people look at the outward appearance but the Lord looks at the heart just like Samuel almost found himself anointing the wrong candidate for kingship many single Christians today stumble into a similar trap when it comes to their marital relationships often we cling to Imagination convinced that our ideal partner must possess

certain qualities or fit a specific mold yet in our fixation on these preconceived notions we risk overlooking the simple truth God's plan for our marital bliss May unfold in ways far beyond beond our wildest dreams just as Samuel had to learn to discern God's true Chosen One among Jesse's Sons we must open up our hearts and Minds to the possibility that God's Perfect match for us may defy our expectations it's not about finding someone who checks all the boxes on our list it's about trusting that God's plan is infinitely wiser and more fulfilling than anything

we could imag imagine this is very true my friend this is what God has sent to me to share with you today he is saying until you are together with that person certain things will keep happening now what are those things that Will keep happening until you and the right one are united well one of the things that will keep happening until you are together is disagreement sound weird right I agree but let's take a closer look to understand what this means have you ever wondered why you were battling so many arguments conflicts and Chaos

in your present relationship sometimes it's because you have yet to meet the one person God has Destined for your life imagine that deep desire to make your partner happy to be their Rock yet no matter what you do it feels like you're hitting a brick wall that frustration might be a sign that you're not aligned with your true soulmate according to Divine plans on the other hand when you have found the right person it's like finding the missing piece of a puzzle you will enjoy a remarkable level Of harmonious agreement between the two of you

the level of synchrony that will exist in your relationship will be so profound that other people can tell this is a match made in heaven Amos 3:3 says can two walk together except they be agreed this is one great question that people need to answer before they jump into a relationship if God is forging your Relationship then you will experience this depth of agreement between the two of you but until then one of the ways God tells you to move on is by how you disagree over every little thing this is not to say there

are relationships out there with absolute agreement all the time however your relationships should not have constant disagreement now the second thing that will keep happening until you meet your God-ordained spouse lack of inner peace one major way God leads his children is by giving them peace but we we often take God's peace for granted especially when it has to do with relationships when you are not with the right person you will notice that you lack a depth of peace in your mind the holy spirit is the author of peace and sometimes when he wants to

let You know he doesn't support your relationship he simply withdraws that peace this is to get our attention because when we have lost our peace we know we need direction so inner peace is elusive when you're not with the right person but when God blesses you with the right soulmate you will discover the peace of God more than you could ever imagine just as and the peace of God which transcends all understanding will Guard your hearts into your minds in Christ Jesus now to the last thing that will keep happening until you find the right

person Divergent opinions and values marital relationships stand as one of the most complex aspects of human life why is it this way relationships are not one size fits all what works for Jack is not exactly what will work for Nick sometimes when you are with a partner and there is always conflicting Opinions and values it may be God telling you to reconsider that relationship of course you will not always have similar interests and opinions even but the right person however when you both always have conflicting opinions and values it is a critical time to pay

attention to your relationship when you meet that person that God is bringing your way your opinions May conflict but overall there will be that unique alignment of your Values why because God is leading you to and as a result your values will align well with each other even your compromises will stay within the borders of your faith and not go against God I appeal to you brothers and sisters in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ that all of you agree with one another in what you say and that there will be no divisions among

you but that you be perfectly United in mind and Thought friends it is God's absolute will that you and your significant other are perfectly United in mind when this happens it strengthens your relationship and makes it very beautiful finally never close your mind when it comes to these things that keep recurring they may just be the necessary hints that God is giving you about your present or future relationship in the midst of disagreement and Divergent opinions Peace can seem elusive yet as Christians we are called to navigate these storms in relationships with Grace and wisdom

that comes from God let us strive to not impose our own will but to seek God's will for our marital relationships God is committed to Leading us on the path that leads to true love and Lasting peace May our relationships be flavored with Grace and our actions be guided by genuine love as we journey together in finding the perfect soulmate amen what does it feel like to be truly loved and to be with the one God has destined for you it can feel amazing can't it the joy happiness and peace you feel are beyond words

it's like having butterflies in your stomach when you're with the person God has chosen for you you'll experience fulfillment in every Aspect of your life God wants you to have a beautiful relationship and experience True Love Therefore get ready because he's about to pair you with that one person who will call you their true soulmate now I encourage you to have faith in God's divine plan to establish you in a new relationship it can be tough to trust that plan plan especially when it comes to finding the right partner I totally get it I feel

that way Sometimes too but God is working behind the scenes to bring your ideal match into your life all you need to do is trust the process God has prepared someone who will love you regardless of the obstacles you both encounter in life now you need to embrace this journey with trust and excitement As you move toward a beautiful future filled with love and purpose how will you know if this is the right Person and the right time for a new relationship stick around until the end of this video as we explore the signs that

God is confirming that they the one for you let us consider Ruth and boaz's love story as a beautiful example of divine connection their love story signifies a beautiful Union orchestrated by God remember that Ruth's Devotion to Naomi her mother-in-law and her willingness to glean in boaz's fear Led to their coming together Boaz on his part showed kindness and protection towards Ruth recognizing her virtue and character their Union not only resulted in marriage but also played a significant role in the lineage of Jesus Christ awesome right when God is pairing you with that special soulmate

these signs will let you know that they're the ones God has destined for you the first sign is a deep Connection have you ever really felt a deep connection and affection with someone it's like you've known each other forever and there's a strong bond that ties you together you can't imagine going a day without seeing or talking to them beloved that's one sign that the person is your soulmate you have a strong feeling because God put it there sometimes God instills this feeling in your heart so that you can easily find a connection with your

soul Mate having that feeling in deep connection with someone is confirmation that they are your soulmate and he wants you to be with that person the truth is that you must be prepared for what he has for you why because some people hold on to the past so they don't recognize when God is pairing them with their soulmate often the struggles we face in finding the right partner can be overwhelming these aren't physical Struggles they are spiritual battles planned by the devil to keep us from a fulfilled life Ephesians 6:12 says for our struggle is

not against flesh and blood but against the rulers against the authorities against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the Heavenly Realms imagine the struggle Ruth went through before finding the one God had destined for her unlike orpa who stayed Behind Ruth chose to leave with Naomi and go to Naomi's Homeland because of this Brave decision she met Boaz if God is guiding you toward the right person he will create a deep undeniable connection between you both just as he did for Ruth God has a plan for you

and is orchestrating everything for your good you need to trust that the Deep connection you feel is his way of showing you that you're on the right path beloved if you feel that strong Unshakable bond with someone it's a sign that God is positioning you for a relationship filled with love and purpose trust in his timing and his ways and let that connection grow and flourish under his guidance aside from a deep connection another sign you can have when God is pairing you with your soulmate is an undeniable sense of Peace this profound peace is

a clear sign that you're with the person God has Chosen for you if it's God's gentle yet powerful way of revealing your soulmate to you everyone has a soulmate a specific person crafted by God just for them when you're with that person you'll feel an inward confirmation of a deep reassuring peace that transcends any doubts or fears this peace is a Divine signal a whisper from God affirming that you found the one on the contrary if you're with Someone and you don't feel this peace peace and comfort it's crucial to pay attention stay away from

that relationship as the absence of peace is a strong indicator that God is not in that relationship it can even be a trap from the enemy anything God orchestrates will come with clear confirmations and peace is one of the most significant ones Galatians 5:22 says but the fruit of the spirit is love joy peace forbearance kindness goodness Faithfulness peace is a fruit of the Holy Spirit and it's confirmation that God is involved in that relationship trust in this inner peace as he brings you together with your soulmate it's a Divine Compass guiding you toward the

love that God has prepared for you what if I told you that God truly wants us to live a life full of purpose beloved as children of God we were created for a special purpose and Each of us needs to fulfill our purpose here on Earth in fulfilling this purpose our soulmates have significant parts to play Imagine a car with an engine specifically designed for it sure another engine might work but it wouldn't perform as well as the original it's the same with relationships you might love each other but if your values and beliefs don't

align it won't work as smoothly now this brings us to the next sign you'll notice when God Wants You Together with your soulmate there will be shared faith and values now this is much deeper than love and affection a pastor once told a story about his quest to find his soulmate before meeting his wife he thought he'd found his god-given match in another woman they cared for each other and seemed to be a good fit but over time they realized something important was missing they didn't truly understand Each other or offer the support needed the

woman's actions showed she didn't share his beliefs causing confusion and distance between them despite their love they couldn't overcome their differing values without a strong spiritual and emotional bond their relationship Came Crashing Down beloved genuine relationships ordained by God are built on understanding Mutual support values and shared faith without these core elements Even the strongest affections can falter this story is a reminder that God's true soulmate for you will come with a deep sense of Peace shared faith and values and unwavering support Amos 3:3 says can two walk together except they be agreed God will

not give you to someone who will bring destruction to your life instead he will give you the one who will have the the same Faith values and belief if the person you're with has These criteria then you are on the right path do you know that God can also confirm your soulmate through other believers when God is pairing you with your soulmate he can confirm it through Godly Believers their counsel can provide us with wisdom on how to go about God's plans for our lives Proverbs 11:14 says for lack of guidance a nation Falls but

Victory is won through many advisors when God intends for you to be With someone he may use these Believers to reaffirm why you're meant to be with that person imagine yourself surrounded by trusted individuals whose Faith aligns with yours all pointing toward the person God has shown you that's how God intended things to be beloved you may wonder why they keep on telling you to go ahead with that relationship it is simply because God is speaking through them though you might be doubting if it's God's will for your Life don't worry confirmation from this set

of people will let you know that God has a plan for you with this person Beloved the journey to finding your soulmate is a profound process orchestrated by God he can use various ways to bring two hearts together the real question is are you truly ready for your soulmate to be with you many of us carry the weight of past experiences convinced that history will repeat itself even when the right person Comes along this mindset often causes us to miss the incredible opportunities God has envisioned for our relationships but I urge you don't let the

past dictate your future beloved I encourage you to hold steadfast though the shadows of yesterday May try to Cloud your spirit remember that your trust and faith in God should keep you going God is a master at turning defeat Into Victory he sees beyond our pain and prepares us for a love that transcends all understanding your past does not define you your faith does God's timing is perfect and his plans are for your ultimate good embrace the present with hope in anticipation knowing that God is preparing you for love that will honor and uplift you

don't give up hold on to your faith And let God's love lead you to your soulmate he has planned for you trust his process as his ways are better than ours and his love for you is Everlasting it's truly a beautiful and meaningful Journey when God is bringing your soulmate into your life I encourage you to keep seeking God through your prayer regularly believe in God's plan and remember that the right person will share your values and Faith stay hopeful and joyful knowing that his love for you is genuine and his intentions for you are

amazing God bless you what do you think makes a great love story I'm sure you've watched hundreds of stories about two people falling in love there's no one size fits-all type of love story but I want you to think about the common denominator all inspiring and exemplary love stories have it's simply this great love stories Are characterized by excruciatingly beautiful twists and turns hear me out the sweetest romantic relationships you'll ever know of are the ones where both parties overcome the toughest circumstances just to be with each other this is the very reason we're familiar

with the formula producers and artists use and conveying love there's always a series of struggles before they reach the happy Ending this is not to say that we just romanticize hardships in finding love because we see it in the media no the point is that art imitates life which involves all the realities we commonly face we see it on the big screens because this is exactly what we go through and most of the time we have it worse the kind of challenges we must deal with in our pursuit of romantic relationships are perplexing but we

endure because of the happy ending we'll Have with the love of our life so if you decided to seek this message out because of a very challenging situation about a special connection you have with someone promising you made the right call because here's a big misconception even us Christians fall victim to just because we're loyal Believers doesn't mean God will hand out his blessings on a silver platter our identity as Christians Doesn't guarantee that we'll conveniently meet the one and everything moving forward is sunshine and rainbows the truth is that God will reward your faithfulness

by giving you his guidance and wisdom but you're not Exempted from the trials that come from the Blessed event of meeting the right person for you the fact that you've been a committed follower only means that you'll feel the gravity of these Challenges more because people who have strayed from God's presence are more likely to ignore the fact that the challenges are blessings in Disguise let me walk you through four challenges that God will allow for the purpose of orienting you and your heart to prepare you for your destined partner's arrival the first one is

an inner struggle Matthew 6:21 says for where your treasure is there your heart will Also be when we want to train a muscle we do specific exercises that Target that muscle in the same way God will sometimes allow you to experience internal conflicts because he needs you to train your heart and mind in order for these to be fit and mature when dealing with love it's common for us to have our heart and mind in Conflict this isn't necessarily bad sometimes it indicates a red flag but in Other cases this is merely anxiety getting the

best of us now you've been blessed with the right skill set to discern whether your inner struggle about your connection with this person is a serious red flag or simply indicative of the need to reflect if this person is the one God's chosen for you he's likely to allow your heart and mind to clash so that they can eventually find the right footing as your love story Unfolds as we go through phases embark on new Journeys or acclimate to different environments these changes will cause us to recalibrate the way we think and feel your Season

of Love will not be Exempted from this when God prepares you for your future spouse he'll push the necessary buttons for you to adjust Psalms 26:2 declares trust me Lord and try me examine my heart and mind and this is exactly what he'll do In your best interest a few examples of inner struggles you may face involve Discerning your true feelings coping with differences between your expectations and reality realigning your priorities and battling a lack of self-esteem these internal challenges are essential because you get the opportunity to Deep dive and tap in on how you

really feel about all this it's just like when you decide to deep clean Your room and ReDiscover things you truly value yet forgot about Mark 6:52 says for they had not understood about the loaves their hearts were hardened conquering inner struggles means to both strengthen and soften your heart to accommodate God's instructions about your true love let's move on to the next the Second Challenge is when you're put in trying and unfamiliar circumstances that concern priorities or values close to Your heart in other words words the Lord will let external pressures enter your life to

help you build resilience as you will greatly need this for your marriage 1 Peter 510 tells us and the God of all Grace who called you to his eternal glory in Christ after you have suffered a little while will himself restore you and make you strong firm and steadfast who you are now is a result of all the challenges you've ended endured when you want to achieve a certain Physique we do this by subjecting ourselves to a little pain and discomfort and not happily lying in bed right now when God wants to put you in

the heart of an amazing partner to be he wants to make sure that you're prepared to cope with uncertainty and trying times James 1:4 let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete not lacking anything by allowing you to go through difficult Situations God is polishing you so that you may be mature and complete for your soulmate emotional intelligence and maturity are frankly the top traits everyone wants in their future partner and these are the exact qualities that you strengthen when you persevere the third challenging thing is this God can also

use your failed relationships to advance you to the path of true love yes brothers and sisters your past Relationships have not been a waste of time these experiences lead up to the partnership God has promised you Proverbs 24:16 declares for the righteous falls seven times they rise again but the wicked stumble when Calamity strikes you will never see Biblical scripture that tells you that it's wrong and shameful to fall in love several times you'll learn that you have to be careful F Discerning and protected by The armor of God for your own protection But ultimately

God advises us to be filled with love and share this with our neighbors most of you I believe have tragic experiences with love and God uses such events to teach you lessons to apply to the lasting relationship he's prepared for you you know what they say you're not starting from scratch but rather from experience your past issues trauma and scar s might come into play and Challenge your ongoing connection with this special someone but again challenges are not supposed to be walls that block blessings and opportunities lastly I would say that the most challenging thing

you'll inevitably encounter along the way is when your spiritual relationship with God experiences a bit of trembling let me explain the Lord really wants a Clear Channel to communicate With you now if he observes that we are too occupied with worries or other matters our relationship with him suffers bit by bit earlier we established that the prospect of love and meeting your true soulmate entails a lot of challenges and thought there will be times when you find yourself drowning in everything until you accidentally neglect your connection with our father this in itself is a challenge

He'll pose in order to align you with this person testing your spiritual strength in John 155 he tells us I am the vine you are the branches whoever abides in me and I in him he it is that bears much fruit for apart from me you can do nothing the fact of the matter is that our relationship with God is the foundation for our relationship with everyone else if you don't have a strong Relationship with God do you think you'll be able to build a healthy one with your loved ones or even more with your

future partner partner remember that your spiritual growth advances your maturity God will challenge you to strengthen your spirituality as your faith is meant to be at the center of your romantic relationship before you can become the perfect partner to your soulmate you are First challenged to be the perfect child of God this is what Matthew 548 says you therefore must be perfect as your heavenly father is perfect furthermore your relationship with the Lord promises you the fruits of the Holy Spirit and these are the only values you'll need to be the most suitable partner for

your soulmate I'll quote from Galatians 5:22 to 23 but the fruit of the spirit is love Joy peace patience kindness goodness faithfulness gentleness self control against such things there is no law these are just four of the challenging things God will use to prepare you for the sacred relationship you're about to partake in but don't get me wrong just because there are numerous challenges doesn't mean that our father takes joy in knowing that we have to suffer this is never the case my friend our God is a god of clarity and It should be clear

that these challenges are brought upon you so that you may end up stronger and better than who you were yesterday this is God at work in your mind heart and soul to prepare you for the most enchanting love story that's ever written a story that's Inked just for you look forward to this and remain spirited as your Season of Love is right around the corner what can be more frustrating than the pain of Heartbreak the hurt the torture and the trauma of a loved one walking out of your life can be one of the hardest

to Bear few people fully recover from this kind of hurt heartbreaks and breakups can be devastating and dangerous because we become deeply attached to our significant others many relationships have been Shattered by breakups leaving countless young people wary of embracing the gift Of a new relationship one of the main reasons for heartbreak is a lack of proper understand understanding of what love truly is love isn't about emotions and physical attraction it's much deeper than that have you ever felt unable to move on and enter another relationship after someone walked out of your life if this

sounds like your experience you need to watch this video by the end You'll see how God is giving you a fresh chance to love again and we'll discuss the signs to look for in a new relation ship before we go on remember this every breakup is a chance to learn and grow like the saying goes every disappointment is a blessing in disguise heartbreaks as tough as they are are a part of life while it's tempting to believe in the concept of the one scripture teaches us that God has blessed us with Free Will and the

capacity to love many the idea that only one specific person is destined to be your spouse isn't biblical instead trust that God can lead you to a compatible partner who shares your values and Faith when we cling to the notion that our ex was the only one capable of loving us completely we risk falling into a pit of despair this mindset can lead to Prolonged emotional suffering and hinder our ability to recognize new opportunities for love that God may be sending remember your worth isn't determined by one person's ability to recognize it as Psalm 13914

declares I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made your works are wonderful I know that full well Embrace this truth and know that God has a plan for your life that includes love and companionship while it's natural to feel responsible for finding the right partner it's crucial to recognize that ultimate control lies with our heavenly father no matter how hard you try you won't be able to find the perfect partner on your own Proverbs 19:21 reminds us many are the plans in a person's heart but it is the Lord's purpose that Prevails now

it's tempting to just throw up your hands and say God you take care of this Love Stuff but taking a chance on love is worth it in the long run Proverbs 19:14 TPT says you can inherit houses and land from your parents but a good wife only comes as a gracious gift from God this isn't just about wives God is in the business of providing awesome husbands too right now God is working on bringing The perfect match into your life trust that God's plan is greater than any effort you can make on your own Embrace

his guidance and believe that he is leading you to the right person remember Adam from The Bible he didn't have to go looking for Eve God literally brought her to him Isaac didn't have to stress about finding Rebecca God had it all planned out so what does this mean for you beloved it's time to let go of all the Hurt fear and bad stuff from your past relationships instead turn to God and ask him to guide you to a new partner who fits with his awesome plan for your life I get how tempting it is

to jump into a new relationship right after a breakup we all want to feel better right but this is where patience and other Christian virtues such as self-control come in let me share a quick story there was this young lady who rushed into a new Relationship after a breakup because she was worried about what people would think she ended up giving in to pressure from her new boyfriend and did things she wasn't ready for what's the lesson here after a breakup you might feel like everyone's judging you but don't let that push you into a

relationship that's not right for you a lot of young people make this mistake but remember my friend that God wants You to rise above all the shame and drama and focus on him don't let pressure lead you into situations that could hurt you even more here's the awesome news no matter what you've been through God is giving you a fresh start with someone unexpected this is your confirmation but one thing I do forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead head God is speaking to you right now You need to place the past

in its proper place be very careful not to let past hurts interfere with what God has prepared for you in the future you must be certain not to bring the past into the future the past is gone and the future has yet to come only God knows what the future holds however Satan wants to keep us glued to our past experiences to hinder us from the Glorious future God has for us while it is true that some heart Breaks can be very painful we must not remain in the prison of unforgiveness and bitterness because of

what we have experienced there is someone and something special God is working out for you he is preparing someone who will restore your faith and true love he isn't just bringing you the perfect match he is also working on bringing someone who can make you forget every hurt you have ever faced in past relationships having believed this the Next question people ask is how will I be sure that this person is not the same as the previous partner who betrayed us in this video let me share two signs so you will know that the new

spouse that God is sending your way is different from anyone you have ever experienced before the first sign is favor he who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord one of the signs you need to watch For as you navigate the Journey of finding a new relationship after a breakup is what the Bible describes as favor when the right person shows up one undeniable sign you will notice is that you will experience favor sometimes the right person is more than favor the right person is more than a gift the

right spouse is God's wisdom offering you the best out of life in another human being if in your journey of finding a New relationship after a breakup you are unable to discover favor then you need to pay close attention to be sure if this person is truly the right person for you what exactly is the kind of favor that the right partner brings the right partner brings several kinds of favor papor including emotional support companionship spiritual growth strengthened family relationships personal growth and practical support in Daily tasks and life decisions making life's burdens lighter the

second sign is the fear of God charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised again this is not only about women the need to fear the lord applies to everyone in your journey to discovering a new relationship please be sure that this Prince or princess Charming fears the Lord they may be kind Charming intelligent beautiful and handsome however if they lack the fear of God it may be a sign for you to maintain your composure until the right person comes along never give in to the

pressure and stigma of getting being involved in a new relationship because of how wealthy or influential someone may be one outstanding trait you need to watch out For is the fear of the Lord a partner who fears the Lord will not only love you but will also live life with you in a way that glorifies God and leads you on the right path as you journey to discover a new relationship may the Lord give you the wisdom to find the right relationship and may you find Grace to make your relationship work and bring glory to

Jesus may your relationship be one that truly brings peace and Lasting Joy do you think it's possible to love someone more than once well here's the Overlook thing about love and relationships in general love is something you carry forever once you love someone it'll always stay with you and you'll carry a part of it even after the relationship ends we are a mosaic of everyone we've ever loved even for a heartbeat loving someone is sharing a Piece of who you are and this piece is still yours regardless of what happens to the relationship you can't

UNL someone Love Remains only its magnitude varies with this a failed relationship does not necessarily mean that the bond between you and this person is over it doesn't equate to them being exiled from the next chapters of your life especially not when God still wishes to use this person as an Instrument James 1:4 reads let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete not lacking anything think about how your relationship ended would you consider it a complete and thorough ending or is it something that didn't quite give the two of you

satisfaction this is crucial because every Orchestra gu God conducts is towards the goal of a complete and nurturing result but if this isn't the Case between your relationship chances are your connection with this person is not yet meant to end perhaps God's testing you and the failed relationship is only a setback for you to persevere through there's no need to be skeptical brothers and sisters in congruity happens but it shouldn't leave you discouraged think of this like when you're listening to a new song Sometimes you don't like it the First time you hear it but

when you listen to it for a second time you find yourself loving it likewise just because a relationship failed doesn't mean it will permanently not work out as said in 2 Timothy 1:7 For the spirit God gave us does not make us timid but gives us power love and self-discipline being timid refers to a lack of Courage a lack of willpower to go for something outside of your comfort Zone this is not a quality God wants to see from you after an unsuccessful attempt at something that could be great like a relationship with your soulmate

what God wants to see is how you keep an open mind to his supervision despite the adversity he wants you to possess the kind of strength love and self-discipline that will help you notice and navigate these three things that'll happen when God's directing you To someone from your past the first one is when you're put into situations where your paths inevitably cross have you ever had a weird sense about something that seems normal you ask yourself if this is a mere coincidence or if God is trying to tell you something that's exactly the kind of

question that puzzles you when you start noticing increased encounters with this Person it can even be moments that prompt you to think about them and not a literal encounter it can be as casual as suddenly being surrounded by things that remind you of them or it can also appear as an obvious attempt by this person to get in touch with you this is extremely confusing after a breakup since the default strategy is to avoid the person even just the possibility of bumping into them but somehow if God is at work he will find a way

for the two of you to Notice each other in one way or another Proverbs 2024 says a person's steps are directed by the Lord how then can anyone understand their own way the environment you're in the signs you notice and the circumstances you take part in are all orchestrated by God now if this person is unexpectedly being brought back into the picture even if you don't have any idea why you have to trust that this is all under God's Direction remember that when God wants Something to happen he's persistent this may include him nudging you

repetitively to situations entangled to this person think of Jonah no matter how many times Jonah tried to escape the task of going to the city of Nineveh God remained persistent in keeping Jonah in his presence in the same way when you notice that your connection with this person is slowly being rekindled in the most unexpected ways you might have to consider that God is touching this Person's heart because they're meant to stay if God's turning their heart back to you then believe that he's also preparing you for this event which leads us to the second

sign it's when God shows you that you and this person have changed so much since you've last parted when God introduces you to an unfamiliar territory he will equip you with A New Perspective some people never look back And that in itself is a problem sometimes we need to be brave enough to reflect on our own past to be able to objectively see what there is to learn you gain new insights that'll make you think oh so that's where it went wrong then you can move forward in confidence knowing that you won't make the same

mistake twice as God prepares you for someone who he inclines to come back to you the Lord will restore you in a tranquil Discerning and forgiving heart that will allow you to deeply reflect on your past relationship with this person in this period you'll be granted the wisdom to an analyze if the returning spark between the two of you is worth another shot second Peter 3:18 proclaims but grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ to him be glory both now and forever Amen you ought to ponder if you and

this person have grown in the Lord's Grace during the time you've spent aart because this is the key to a successful Second Chance God won't be bringing this person back into your life if he knows that the both of you are as the same as before he would ensure that the two of you evolved into better versions of yourselves and that these versions are perfectly Compatible Proverbs 277 mentions that as iron sharpens iron so one person sharpens another the relationship might have left you broken for quite some time but surely God has helped the two

of you heal and strength than as individuals what's the point of returning to an old flame when nothing is changed right think about this person and answer this question will their return to my life be a significant Contribution John 14:26 tells us but the advocate the Holy Spirit whom the father has sent in my name will teach you all things and remind you of everything I have said to you people come and go and honestly some come back they would beg for a space in your life but not all deserve it which is why you

have to discern whether or not this person has changed for the better and is worthy of another chance you have to let the Holy Spirit walk you Through this you'll know that it's God who's bringing this person closer to you for the second time if you notice that you're empowered to reflect on your past with them and learn from what's happened between the two of you the last sign is incredible but you need to be as objective as possible it's when it feels like fate is pursuing the both of you let's be honest we're not

strangers to the difficulty of moving on we all Know it's hard to cope with a failed relationship knowing that you've put all your hope love and hard work into someone here lies the challenge when you're clouded with these heavy feelings it can be difficult for you to distinguish if God wants this person back into your life or if it's just you who refuses to accept that you're not meant to be together the second one is dangerous because the devil will lead you to misread Signs you may think God wants you to pursue them again when

in fact God wants otherwise as said in Galatians 5:13 you my brothers and sisters were called to be free but do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh rather serve one another humbly in love your free to welcome whoever you want back into your life but this is not what he wants for you at this moment this is exactly why the third sign is Rock Solid you'll know that God Wants this person to return to you when it feels like fate is doing the work not you or this person what I mean by this

is things just fall into place you're not trying hard and this person's not desperately winning you back but somehow the both of you attract each other closer like some natural magnet that's the biggest difference if this whole thing is fueled by desire this person would chase after you with Desperation the kind that makes you feel uneasy but when it's God's hand that gently turns their heads towards you again everything appears to be smooth and easy it won't feel like this person's coming back because they can't live without you but rather you'd feel their sincerity in

wanting to try again because God is guiding them in this direction don't be afraid to have this honest conversation with them if our Gracious God can give us double triple infinite chances what's your excuse to deny yourself and this person a chance at a successful and more mature relationship there's one thing you need to know about giving second chances it's Hit or Miss there's no guarantee whether it'll work out for the better but we give it a shot anyway because that's the kind of generosity God has taught us 2 Corinthians 9:7 says each of you

should give what you Have decided in your heart to give not reluctantly or under compulsion for God loves a cheerful Giver if there is even the slightest ounce of Love left in your heart for this person who you know is amazing and is grown be prepared to give it to them cheerfully this may be God's perfect timing for the two of you