what does it feel like to be truly loved and to be with the one God has destined for you it can feel amazing can't it the joy happiness and peace you feel are beyond words it's like having butterflies in your stomach when you're with the person God has chosen for you you'll experience fulfillment in every aspect of your life God wants you to have a beautiful relationship and experience true love therefore get ready because he's about to pair you with that one person who will call you their true soulmate now I encourage you to have
faith in God's divine plan to establish you in a new relationship it can be tough to trust that plan especially when it comes to finding the right partner I totally get it I feel that way sometimes too but God is working behind the scenes to bring your ideal match into your life all you need to do is trust TR the process God has prepared someone who will love you regardless of the obstacles you both encounter in life now you need to embrace this journey with trust and excitement As you move toward a beautiful future filled
with love and purpose how will you know if this is the right person and the right time for a new relationship stick around until the end of this video as we explore the signs that God is confirming that they the one for you let us consider root Ruth and boaz's love story as a beautiful example of divine connection their love story signifies a beautiful Union orchestrated by God remember that Ruth's Devotion to Naomi her mother-in-law and her willingness to glean in boaz's field led to their coming together Boaz on his part showed kindness and protection
towards Ruth recognizing her virtue and character their Union not only resulted in marriage but also played a significant role in the lineage of Jesus Christ awesome right when God is pairing you with that special soulmate these signs will let you know that they're the ones God has destined for you the first sign is a deep connection have you ever really felt a deep connection and affection with someone it's like you've known each other forever and there's a strong bond that ties you together you can't imagine going a day without seeing or talking to them beloved
that's one sign that the person is your soulmate you have a strong feeling because God put it there sometimes God instills this feeling in your heart so that you can easily find a connection with your soulmate having that feeling in deep connection with someone is confirmation that they are your soulmate and he wants you to be with that person the truth is that you must be prepared for what he has for you why because some people hold on to the past so they don't recognize when God is pairing them with their soulmate often the struggles
we face in finding the right partner can be overwhelming these aren't physical struggles they are spiritual battles planned by the devil to keep us from a fulfilled life Ephesians 6:12 says for our struggle is not against flesh and blood but against the rulers against the authority against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the Heavenly Realms imagine the struggle Ruth went through before finding the one God had destined for her unlike orpa who stayed behind Ruth chose to leave with Naomi and go to Naomi's Homeland because of this
Brave decision she met Boaz if God is guiding you toward the right person he will create a deep undeniable connection between you both just as he did for Ruth God has a plan for you and is orchestrating everything for your good you need to trust that the Deep connection you feel is his way of showing you that you're on the right path beloved if you feel that strong unshakable bond with someone it's a sign that God is positioning you for a relationship filled with love and purpose trust in his timing and his ways and let
that connection grow and flourish under his guidance aside from a deep connection another sign you can have when God is pairing you with your soulmate is an undeniable sense of Peace this profound peace is a clear sign that you're with the person God has chosen for you it's God's gentle yet powerful way of revealing your soulmate to you everyone has a soulmate a specific person crafted by God just for them when you're with that person you'll feel an inward confirmation of a deep reassuring peace that transcends any doubts or fears this peace is a Divine
signal a whisper from God affirming that you found the one on the contrary if you're with someone and you don't feel this peace and comfort it's crucial to pay attention stay away from that relationship as the absence of peace is a strong indicator that God is not in that relationship it can even be a trap from the enemy anything God orchestrates will come with clear confirmations and peace is one of the most significant ones Galatians 5:22 says but the fruit of the spirit is love joy peace forbearance kindness goodness faithfulness peace is a fruit of
the Holy Spirit and it's confirmation that God is involved in that relationship trust in this inner peace as he brings you together with your soulmate it's a Divine Compass guiding you toward the love that God has prepared for you what if I told you that God truly wants us to live a life full of purpose beloved as children of God we were created for a special purpose and each of us needs to fulfill our purpose here on Earth in fulfilling this purpose our soulmates have significant parts to play Imagine a car with an engine specifically
designed for it sure another engine might work but it wouldn't perform as well as the original it's the same with relationships you might love each other but if your values and beliefs don't align it won't work as smoothly now this brings us to the next sign you'll notice when God Wants You together with your soulmate there will be shared faith and values now this is much deeper than love and affection a pastor once told story about his quest to find his soulmate before meeting his wife he thought he'd found his god-given match in another woman
they cared for each other and seemed to be a good fit but over time they realized something important was missing they didn't truly understand each other or offer the support needed the woman's actions showed she didn't share his beliefs causing confusion and distance between them despite their love they couldn't overcome their differing values without a strong spiritual and emotional bond their relationship Came Crashing Down beloved genuine relationships ordained by God are built on understanding Mutual support values and shared faith without these core elements even the strongest affections can falter this story is a reminder that
God's true soulmate for you will come with a deep sense of Peace shared faith and values and unwavering support Amos 3:3 says can two walk together except they be agreed God will not give you to someone who will bring destruction to your life instead he will give you the one who will have the same Faith values and belief if the person you're with has these criteria then you are on the right path do you know that God can also confirm your soulmate through other belie Believers when God is pairing you with your soulmate he can
confirm it through Godly Believers their counsel can provide us with wisdom on how to go about God's plans for our lives Proverbs 11:14 says for lack of guidance a nation Falls but Victory is won through many advisors when God intends for you to be with someone he may use these Believers to reaffirm why you're meant to be with that person imagine yourself surrounded by trusted individuals whose Faith aligns with yours all pointing toward the person God has shown you that's how God intended things to be beloved you may wonder why they keep on telling you
to go ahead with that relationship it is simply because God is speaking through them though you might be doubting if it's God's will for your life don't worry confirmation from this set of people will let you know that God has a plan for you with this person Beloved the journey to finding your soulmate is a profound process orchestrated by God he can use various ways to bring two hearts together the real question is are you truly ready for your soulmate to be with you many of us carry the weight of past experiences convinced that history
will repeat itself even when the right person comes along this mindset often causes us to miss the incredible opportunities God has envisioned for our relationships but I urge you don't let the past dictate your future beloved I encourage you to hold steadfast though the shadows of yesterday may try to Cloud your spirit remember that your trust and faith in God should keep you going God is a master at turning defeat into Victory he sees beyond our pain and prepares us for a love that transcends all understanding your past does not define you your faith does
God's timing is perfect and his plans are for your ultimate good embrace the present with hope in anticipation knowing that God is preparing you for love that will honor and uplift you don't give up hold on to your faith and let God's love lead you to your soulmate he has planned for you trust his process as his ways are better than ours and his love for you is Everlasting it's truly a beautiful and meaningful Journey when God is bringing your soulmate into your life I encourage you to keep seeking God through your prayer regularly believe
in God's plan and remember that the right person will share your values and faith stay hopeful and joyful knowing that his love for you is genuine and his intentions for you are amazing God bless you what do you think makes a great love story I'm sure you've watched hundreds of stories about two people falling in love there's no one size fits-all type of love story but I want you to think about the common denominator all inspiring and exemplary love stories have it's simply this great love stories are characterized by excruciatingly beautiful twists and turns hear
me out the sweetest romantic relationships you'll ever know of are the ones where both parties overcome the toughest circumstances just to be with each other this is the very reason we're familiar with the formula producers and artists use and conveying love there's always a series of struggles before they reach the happy ending this is not to say that we just romanticize hardships in finding love because we see it in the media no the point is that art imitates life which involves all the realities we commonly face we see it on the big screens because this
is exactly what we go through and most of the time we have it worse the kind of challenges we must deal with in our pursuit of romantic relationships are perplexing but we endure because of the happy ending we'll have with the love of our life so if you decided to seek this message out because of a very challenging situation about a special connection you have with someone promising you made the right call because here's a big misconception even us Christians fall victim to just because we're loyal Believers doesn't mean God will hand out his blessings
on a silver platter our identity as Christians doesn't guarantee that we'll conveniently meet the one and everything moving forward is sunshine and Rainbow those the truth is that God will reward your faithfulness by giving you his guidance and wisdom but you're not Exempted from the trials that come from the Blessed event of meeting the right person for you the fact that you've been a committed follower only means that you'll feel the gravity of these challenges more because people who have strayed from God's presence are more likely to ignore the fact that the challenges are blessings
in Disguise let me walk you through four challenges that God will allow for the purpose of orienting you and your heart to prepare you for your destined partner's arrival the first one is an inner struggle Matthew 6:21 says for where your treasure is there your heart will also be when we want to train a muscle we do specific exercises that Target that muscle in the same way God will sometimes allow you to experience internal conflict because he needs you to train your heart and mind in order for these to be fit and mature when dealing
with love it's common for us to have our heart and mind in Conflict this isn't necessarily bad sometimes it indicates a red flag but in other cases this is merely anxiety getting the best of us now you've been blessed with the right skill set to discern whether your inner struggle about your connection with this person is a serious red flag or simply indicative of the need to reflect if this person is the one God's chosen for you he's likely to allow your heart and mind to clash so that they can eventually find the right footing
as your love story unfolds as we go through phases embark on new Journeys or acclimate to different environments these changes will cause us to recalibrate the way we think and feel your Season of Love will not be Exempted from this when God prepares you for your future spouse he'll push the necessary buttons for you to adjust Psalms 26:2 declares trust me Lord and try me examine my heart and mind and this is exactly what he'll do in your best interest a few examples of inner struggles you may face involve Discerning your true feelings coping with
differences between your expectations and reality realigning your priorities and battling a lack of self-esteem these internal challenges are essential because you get the opportunity to Deep dive and tap in on how you really feel about all this it's just like when you decide to deep clean your room and ReDiscover things you truly value yet forgot about Mark 6:52 says for they had not understood about the loaves their hearts were hardened conquering inner struggles means to both strengthen and soften your your heart to accommodate God's instructions about your true love let's move on to the next
the Second Challenge is when you're put in trying and unfamiliar circumstances that concern priorities or values close to your heart in other words the Lord will let external pressures enter your life to help you build resilience as you will greatly need this for your marriage 1 Peter 510 tells us and the God of all Grace who called you to his eternal glory in Christ after you have suffered a little while will himself restore you and make you strong firm and steadfast who you are now is a result of all the challenges you've ured when you
want to achieve a certain physique we do this by subjecting ourselves to a little pain and discomfort and not happily lying in bed right now when God wants to put you in the heart of an amazing partner to be he wants to make sure that you're prepared to cope with uncertainty and trying times James 1:4 let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete not lacking anything by allowing you to go through difficult situations God is polishing you so that you may be mature and complete for your soulmate emotional intelligence and
maturity are frankly the top traits everyone wants in their future partner and these are the exact qualities that you strengthen when you persevere the third challenging thing is this God can also use your failed relationships to advance you to the path of True Love Yes brothers and sisters your past relationships have not been a waste of time these experiences lead up to the partnership God has promised you Proverbs 24:16 declares for the right ious falls seven times they rise again but the wicked stumble when Calamity strikes you will never see Biblical scripture that tells you
that it's wrong and shameful to fall in love several times you'll learn that you have to be careful Discerning and protected by the armor of God for your own protection But ultimately God advises us to be filled with love and share this with our neighbors most of you I believe have tragic experiences with love and God uses such events to teach you lessons to apply to the lasting relationship he's prepared for you you know what they say you're not starting from scratch but rather from experience your past issues trauma and scars might come into play
and challenge your ongoing connection with this special someone but again challenges are not supposed to be walls that block blessings and opportunities lastly I would say that the most challenging thing you'll inevitably encounter along the way is when your spiritual relationship with God experiences a bit of trembling let me explain the Lord really wants a Clear Channel to communicate with you now if he observes that we are too occupied with worries or other matters our relationship with him suffers bit by bit earlier we established that the prospect of love and meeting your true soulmate entails
a lot of challenges and thoughts there will be times when you find yourself drowning in everything until you accidentally neglect your connection with our father this in itself is a challenge he'll pose in order to align you with this person testing your spiritual strength in John 15:5 he tells us I am the vine you are the branches whoever abides in me and I in him he it is that bears much fruit for apart from me you can do nothing thing the fact of the matter is that our relationship with God is the foundation for our
relationship with everyone else if you don't have a strong relationship with God do you think you'll be able to build a healthy one with your loved ones or even more with your future partner remember that your spiritual growth advances your maturity God will challenge you to strengthen your spirituality as your faith is meant to be at the center of your romantic relationship before you can become the perfect partner to your soulmate you are first challenged to be the perfect child of God this is what Matthew 5:48 says you therefore must be perfect as your heavenly
father is perfect furthermore your relationship with the Lord promises you the fruits of the Holy Spirit and these are the only values you'll need to be the most suitable partner for your soulmate I'll quote from Galatians 5:22-23 but the fruit of the spirit is love joy peace patience kindness goodness faithfulness gentleness self-control against such things there is no law these are just four of the challenging things God will use to prepare you for the sacred relationship you're about to partake in but don't get me wrong just because there are numerous challenges doesn't mean that our
father takes joy in knowing that we have to suffer this is never the case my friend our God is a god of clarity and it should be clear that these challenges are brought upon you so that you may end up stronger and better than who you were yesterday this is God at work in your mind heart and soul to prepare you for the most enchanting love story that's ever written a story that's in just for you look forward to this and remain spirited as your Season of Love is right around the corner what can be
more frustrating than the pain of heartbreak the hurt the torture and the trauma of a loved one walking out of your life can be one of the hardest to Bear few people fully recover from this kind of hurt heartbreaks and breakups can be devastating and dangerous because we become deeply attached to our significant others many relationships have been Shattered by breakups leaving countless young people wary of embracing the gift of a new relationship one of the main reasons for heartbreak is a lack of proper understanding of what love truly is love isn't about emotions and
physical attraction it's much deeper than that have you ever felt unable to move on and enter another relationship after after someone walked out of your life if this sounds like your experience you need to watch this video by the end you'll see how God is giving you a fresh chance to love again and we'll discuss the signs to look for in a new relationship before we go on remember this every breakup is a chance to learn and grow like the saying goes every disappointment is a blessing in disguise heartbreaks as tough as they are are
a part of life while it's tempting to believe in the concept of the one scripture teaches us that God has blessed us with Free Will and the capacity to love many the idea that only one specific person is destined to be your spouse isn't biblical instead trust that God can lead you to a compatible partner who shares your values and Faith when we cling to the notion that our ex was the only one capable of loving us completely we risk falling into a pit of despair this mindset can lead to prolonged emotional suffering and hinder
our ability to recognize new opportunities for love that God may be sending remember your worth isn't determined by one person's ability to recognize it as Psalm 13914 declares I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made your works are wonderful I know that full well Embrace this truth and know that God has a plan for your life that includes love and companionship while it's natural to feel responsible for finding the right partner it's crucial to recognize that ultimate control lies with our heavenly father no matter how hard you try you won't be able to
find the perfect partner on your own Proverbs 19:21 reminds us many are the plans in a person's heart but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails now it's tempting to just throw up your hands and say God you take care of this love stuff but taking a chance on love is worth it in the long run Proverbs 19:14 TPT says you can inherit houses and land from your parents but a good wife only comes as a gracious gift from God this isn't just about wives God is in the business of providing awesome husbands too right
now God is working on bringing the perfect match into your life trust that God's plan is greater than any effort you can make on your own Embrace his guidance and believe that he is leading you to the right person remember Adam from the Bible he didn't have to go looking for Eve God literally brought her to him Isaac didn't have to stress about finding Rebecca God had it all planned out so what does this mean for you beloved it's time to let go of all the hurt fear and bad stuff from your past relationships instead
turn to God and ask him to guide you to a new partner who fits with his awesome plan for your life I get how tempting it is to jump into a new relationship right after a breakup we all want to feel better right but this is where patience and other Christian virtues such as self-control come in let me share a quick story there was this young lady who rushed into a new relationship after a breakup because she was worried about what people would think she ended up giving in to pressure from her new boyfriend and
did think she wasn't ready for what's the lesson here after a breakup you might feel like everyone's judging you but don't let that push you into a relationship that's not right for you a lot of young people make this mistake but remember my friend that God wants you to rise above all the shame and drama and focus on him don't let pressure lead you into situations that could hurt you even more here's the awesome news no matter what you've been through God is giving you a fresh start with someone unexpected this is your confirmation but
one thing I do forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead God is speaking to you right now you need to place the past in its proper place be very careful not to let past hurts interfere with what God has prepared for you in the future you must be certain not to bring the past into the future the past is gone and the future has yet to come only God knows what the future holds however Satan wants to keep us glued to our past experiences to hinder us from the Glorious future God has
for us while it is true that some heartbreaks can be very painful we must not remain in the prison of unforgiveness and bitterness because of what we have experienced there is someone and something special God is working out for you he is preparing someone who will restore your faith and true love he isn't just bringing you the perfect match he is also working on bringing someone who can make you forget every hurt you have ever faced in past relationships having believed this the next question people ask is how will I be sure that this person
is not the same as the previous partner who betrayed us in this video let me share two signs so you will know that the new spouse that God is sending your way is different from anyone you have ever experienced before the first sign is favor he who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord one of the signs you need to watch for as you navigate the Journey of finding a new relationship after a breakup is what the Bible describes as favor when the right person shows up one undeniable sign
you will notice is that you will experience favor sometimes the right person is more than favor the right person is more than a gift the right spouse is God's wisdom offering you the best out of life in another human being if in your journey of finding a new relationship after a breakup you are unable to discover favor then you need to pay close attention to be sure if this person is truly the right person for you what exactly is the kind of favor that the right partner brings the right partner brings several kinds of favor
including emotional support companionship spiritual growth strengthened family relationships personal growth and practical support in daily tasks and life decisions making life's burdens lighter the second sign is the fear of God charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised again this is not only about women the need to fear the lord applies to everyone in your journey to discovering a new relationship please be sure that this Prince or princess Charming fears the Lord they may be kind Charming intelligent beautiful and handsome however if they lack the
fear of God it may be a sign for you to maintain your composure until the right person comes along never give in to the pressure and stigma of getting involved in a new relationship because of how wealthy or influential someone may be one outstanding trait you need to watch out for is the fear of the Lord a partner who fears the Lord will not only love you but will also live life with you in a way that glorifies God and leads you on the right path as you journey to discover a new relationship may the
Lord give you the wisdom to find the right relationship and may you find Grace to make your relationship work and bring glory to Jesus may your relationship be one that truly brings peace and Lasting Joy maybe you clicked on this video with a heavy heart you might be asking am I ready to welcome someone into my heart or am I just misinterpreting the role this person should play in my life questions what ifs and all the theories in between can Cloud your judgment and frustrate you one thing I'm sure of is that someone is penetrating
your heart isn't this a good thing sometimes the most unexpected person takes up a spot in your heart but this is only because you've been blessed with a kind and hospitable heart not convinced well acts 1614 says one of those listening was a woman from the city of thota named Lydia a dealer in purple cloth she was a worshipper of God the Lord opened her heart to respond to Paul's message who do you think is opening your heart to make space for someone else it could only be be our one and only father as he
wants a message to get to you just like Lydia God will not hesitate to touch your heart if he needs you to be attentive so believe me when I say that pushing people away is an act that speaks volumes about you rather than them novelist Sarah desen once said that holding people away from you and denying your self love doesn't make you strong if anything it makes you weaker because you're doing it out of fear Micah 68 says he has shown you oh mortal what is good and what does the Lord require of you to
act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God he is showing you what is good for you and who is good for you the question is how will you respond if you're tempted to drive this person away you need to hear this out first here are the two things you need to reflect on first this person is here and ready to help you heal from relationship trauma but you're not quite sure about moving forward yet if you've been hurt by past partners hear me out all the people in the world can't
help you if you can't help yourself therapists doctors and all the greatest professionals out there can't help you heal if you yourself don't want to I'm not saying that it's wrong to be wounded pain and love are intertwined and Trauma from the past is completely understandable but what's wrong is letting these hinder you from opening your heart again you can't use these issues as an excuse to deny yourself the opportunity to love and be loved especially when you're already looking at the one who God has chosen to be with you Psalm 1473 declares that he
heals the Brokenhearted and binds up their wounds whatever and whoever hurt you in the past that chapter is done and you've already learned your lesson now is not the time to dwell on what went wrong in the past but rather to explore what could go right if you pursue an intimate connection with this promising person once your heart is opening itself up to someone all you really have to care about is whether or not you want this opportunity don't let your butts and wh ifs get the best of you you're most likely thinking but what
if they're just like my ex what if I get hurt again if you let yourself be consumed by these thoughts you're letting the enemy win your heart he's trying to persuade you that second chances don't work or that the only thing people are capable of is hurting you is this how you think about yourself too starting again is really scary and I get that but I want you to ask yourself this thought what is scarier giving love another shot or are missing the love of your life 2 Corinthians 5:7 tells us for we walk by
faith not by sight I know that the situation you're in right now might look pretty hopeless it's traumatizing when you look back on what you've been through and it seems even more horrifying to make yourself vulnerable to what could be another heartache but that my brothers and sisters is what you see and as Christians we're asked to walk by faith we are task to walk with our head held high because we have faith in the Romantic partnership God has prepared for us Ruth did not have any children and was widowed and alone in her calling
to act as her mother-in-law Naomi's caretaker they also had to relocate to another place while Ruth had to work to fend for themselves in that kind of situation a romantic relationship was the least of her concerns but when God led her to Boaz and Ruth responded to God's invitation the magic happened this could be the same thing the Lord is setting up for you the truth is we often underestimate ourselves you think that you're not ready for this you're not capable of that and you believe other limits you impose on yourself however God's green light
is the only signal that matters and when he conveys to you that your soulmate is right around the corner it's him telling you to explore the potential between you and this person because he knows that you're matured enough to receive this blessing the second possibility is that you may be resistant because you have a vision for your love life that doesn't exactly align with who this person is guess what preconceptions won't make things any easier let's say that you have an ideal person you've figured out everything you want in your future partner from their physical
attributes to their attitude and values and what happens when the person God has sent you despite clearly embodying Godly qualities does not exactly match whatever you have laid out in your mind this is real and common you know sometimes factors like social and economic status or cultural differences come into play even funnier there are actually people who hated each other yet fell madly in love after some time Ecclesiastes 81 asks us who is like the wise who knows the explanation of things a person's wisdom brightens their face and changes its hard appearance you may be
asking yourself out of all the people in the world why did it have to be this person let me tell you that only God knows what's up and all you need to know is that there's a very good reason we are so used to having options to choose from especially when dating we can entertain whoever expresses their interest decline whoever we don't click with but when it finally comes to meeting the one that God has destined you to be with I'm afraid this is done and final even before you enter the world it's him saying
that you've had your run you've had the chance to explore your options in the past now it's your season of True Love it's the right time to introduce you to the one who will love and care for you unconditionally the thing is that even if you still don't understand why and how this person is most likely your soulmate what matters is that you put all your trust in God and his plan for your love life Psalm 34:19 says the righteous person may have many troubles but the Lord delivers him from them all don't trust yourself
to know but do trust God's Flawless execution slowly but surely you'll find yourself in awe of who this person really is you may not have fallen in love with this person immediately but he will make sure that you fall hard and deep at just the right pace isn't this the best option the biggest problem here is in the idea that God will conform to your expectations but that is never the case you might think that since you prayed that your soulmate should have this and be that the Lord will give you what you requested however
his standards are far greater than what we have in mind I understand that you can't grasp why this person is being led to you but I think you should take comfort in the fact that you deserve only the best and most compatible soulmate which is God's ultimate priority for his cherish children if you need a reminder of the specific qualities that matter let 1 Corinthians 13:4 to8 reiterate them for you love is patient love is kind it does not envy it does not boast it is not proud it does not dishonor others it is not
self-seeking it is not easily angered it keeps no record of wrongs love does not Delight in evil but rejoices with the truth it always protects always trusts always hopes Always perseveres Love Never Fails but where there are prophecies they will cease where there are tongues they will be stilled where there is knowledge it will pass away this person might not be as tall as you want or even as good-look as you wish but what use is your dream wife or husband if the Lord has not deemed them worthy to be your partner lastly I want
to emphasize something I need you to fully absorb the scripture I'm about to tell you Proverbs 23 26 says God declares my son give me your heart and let your eyes Delight in my ways Give the Lord your heart that's the main takeaway you really need from this message give your heart to him and not necessarily to this person and then God will give you the clarity you so long for open your heart to his plan of a successful and long- Lasting marriage with your future spouse because you know deep down that you are worthy
of a Kind tender A nurturing partnership with someone your soul will fall in love with that is the promise God will fulfill but you might not witness this if you keep on pushing this person away do you think it's possible to love someone more than once well here's the overlooked thing about love and relationships in general love is something you carry forever once you love someone it'll always stay with you and you'll carry a part of it even after the relationship ends we are a mosaic of everyone we've ever loved even for a heartbeat loving
someone is sharing a piece of who you are and this piece is still yours regardless of what happens to the relationship you can't UNL someone Love Remains only its magnitude varies with this a failed relationship does not necessarily mean that the bond between you and this person is over it doesn't equate to them being exiled from the next chapters of your life especially not when God still wishes to use this person as an instrument James 1:4 reads let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete not lacking anything think about how
your relationship ended would you consider it a complete and thorough ending or is it something that didn't quite give the two of you satisfaction this is crucial because every Orchestra God conducts is towards the goal of a complete and nurturing result but if this isn't the case between your relationship chances are your connection with this person is not yet meant to end perhaps God's testing you and the failed relationship is only a setback for you to persevere through there's no need to be skeptical brothers and sisters in congruity happens s but it shouldn't leave you
discouraged think of this like when you're listening to a new song Sometimes you don't like it the first time you hear it but when you listen to it for a second time you find yourself loving it likewise just because a relationship failed doesn't mean it will permanently not work out as said in 2 Timothy 1:7 For the spirit God gave us does not make us timid but gives us power love and self-discipline being timid refers to a lack of Courage a lack of willpower to go for something outside of your comfort zone this is not
a quality God wants to see from you after an unsuccessful attempt at something that could be great like a relationship with your soulmate what God wants to see is how you keep an open mind to his supervision despite the adversity he wants you to possess the kind of strength love and self-discipline that will help you notice and navigate these three things that'll happen when God's directing you to someone from your past the first one is when you're put into situations where you're paths inevitably cross have you ever had a weird sense about something that seems
normal you ask yourself if this is a mere coincidence or if God is trying to tell you something that's exactly the kind of question that puzzles you when you start noticing increased encounters with this person it can even be moments that prompt you to think about them and not a literal encounter it can be as casual as suddenly being surrounded by things that remind you of them or it can also appear as an obvious attempt by this person to get in touch with you this is extremely confusing after a breakup since the default strategy is
to avoid the person even just the possibility of bumping into them but somehow if God is at work he will find a way for the two of you to notice each other in one way or another Proverbs 2024 says a person's steps are directed by the Lord how then can anyone understand their own way the environment you're in the signs you notice and the circumstances you take part in are all orchestrated by God now if this person is unexpectedly being brought back into the picture even if you don't have any idea why you have to
trust that this is all under God's Direction remember that when God wants something to happen he's persistent this may include him nudging you repetitively to situations entangled to this person think of Jonah no matter how many times Jonah tried to escape the task of going to the city of Nineveh God remained persistent in keeping Jonah in his presence in the same way when you notice that your connection with this person is slowly being rekindled in the most unexpected ways you might have to consider that God is touching this person's heart because they're meant to stay
if God's turning their heart back to you then believe that he's also preparing you for this event which leads us to the second sign it's when God shows you that you and this person have changed so much since you've last parted when God introduces you to an unfamiliar territory he will equip you with A New Perspective some people never look back and that in itself is a problem sometimes we need to be brave enough to reflect on our own past to be able to objectively see what there is to learn you gain new insights that'll
make you think oh so that's where it went wrong then you can move forward in confidence knowing that you won't make the same mistake twice as God prepares you for someone who he inclines to come back to you the Lord will restore you in a tranquil Discerning and forgiving heart that will allow you to deeply reflect on your past relationship with this person in this period you'll be granted the wisdom to analyze if the returning spark between the two of you is worth another shot second Peter 3:18 proclaims but grow in the grace and knowledge
of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ to him be glory both now and forever amen you ought to ponder if you and this person have grown in the Lord Grace during the time you've spent apart because this is the key to a successful Second Chance God won't be bringing this person back into your life if he knows that the both of you are as the same as before he would ensure that the two of you evolved into better versions of yourselves and that these versions are perfectly compatible Proverbs 27:17 mentions that as iron sharpens iron
so one person sharpens another the relationship might have left you broken for quite some time but surely God has helped the two of you heal and strengthen as individuals what's the point of returning to an old flame when nothing is changed right think about this person and answer this question will their return to my life be a significant contribution John 14:26 tells us but the advocate the Holy Spirit whom the father has sent in my name will teach you all things and remind you of everything I have said to you people come and go and
honestly some come back they would beg for a space in your life but not all deserve it which is why you have to discern whether or not this person has changed for the better and is worthy of another chance you have to let the Holy Spirit walk you through this you'll know that it's God who's bringing this person closer to you for the second time if you notice that you're empowered to reflect on your pass with them and learn from what's happened between the two of you the last sign is incredible but you need to
be as objective as possible it's when it feels like fate is pursuing the both of you let's be honest we're not strangers to the difficulty of moving on we all know it's hard to cope with a failed relationship knowing that you've put all your hope love and hard work into someone here lies the challenge when you're clouded with these heavy f feelings it can be difficult for you to distinguish if God wants this person back into your life or if it's just you who refuses to accept that you're not meant to be together the second
one is dangerous because the devil will lead you to misread signs you may think God wants you to pursue them again when in fact God wants otherwise as said in Galatians 5:13 you my brothers and sisters were called to be free but do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh rather serve one another humbly in love you're free to welcome whoever you want back into your life but this is not what he wants for you at this moment this is exactly why the third sign is Rock Solid you'll know that God wants this person
to return to you when it feels like fate is doing the work not you or this person what I mean by this is things just fall into place you're not trying trying hard and this person's not desperately winning you back but somehow the both of you attract each other closer like some natural magnet that's the biggest difference if this whole thing is fueled by desire this person would chase after you with desperation the kind that makes you feel uneasy but when it's God's hand that gently turns their heads towards you again everything appears to be
smooth and easy it won't feel like this person's coming back because they can't live without you but rather you'd feel their sincerity in wanting to try again because God is guiding them in this direction don't be afraid to have this honest conversation with them if our gracious God can give us double triple infinite chances what's your excuse to deny yourself and this person a chance at a successful and more mature relationship there's one thing you need to know about giving second chances it's Hit or Miss there's no guarantee whether it'll work out for the better
but we give it a shot anyway because that's the kind of generosity God has taught us second Corinthians 9:7 says each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give not reluctantly or under compulsion for God loves a cheerful Giver if there is even the slightest ounce of Love left in your heart for this person who you know is amazing and is grown be prepared to give it to them cheer carefully this may be God's perfect timing for the two of you
