if one knows if one enjoys being alone it means they are definitely better organized psychologically emotionally far better organized than others it's a demanding life it's a lonely life if one is not substantially organized within himself then being alone is very difficult being alone is not a struggle because in that there is enormous strength enormous a human being becomes phenomenal simply because his ability to organize himself in such a way that being alone is not an issue those who seek company all the time compulsively nothing wrong meeting and mingling and being in company with people
but if it's a compulsive need you have to be with somebody or something in that state one becomes unnecessarily vulnerable once your way of being is not determined by anything outside of you then there is no such thing as loneliness you will enjoy your aloneness because whether you like it or you don't like it this young age it's a little difficult to understand this whether you like it or you don't like it within this body you're always alone isn't it whether you do interaction or intercourse or whatever whatever whatever still you're alone in this body
yes or no if you don't learn how to handle this aloneness you have not learned anything about life this is the most beautiful thing the most beautiful thing about life is nobody can get here it's just my space isn't this the most beautiful thing nobody can invade me they can capture me they can torture me they can do so many things but they cannot invade me because I have a space which is just my own isn't this the most wonderful aspect of your life don't suffer that that is the most beautiful thing when gaut the
Buddha was asked is it better to walk alone or in company he said it's better to walk alone than to walk with a fool a yogi is always alone by choice not because he doesn't get along with people simply because he's so well organized usually he doesn't find any company which is that well organized you want to do a short and quick Journey walk alone when you want to do a long journey walk in company but the important thing is who is walking with you not always being together is a good thing many times being
together can be a Nuance first and foremost unless you are a twin even then we come alone and we go alone if one does not know how to be by himself or herself then being together can be a lot of nuisance we are referred to as human beings human beings means every other creature is what it is simply because of what it does but a human being can simply be which is a unique quality of the human being that we can simply be that we are not compulsive action that's what it means well in today's
world where if they having breakfast they must take a picture of the breakfast I'm having breakfast if I'm going to the toilet I'm going to the toilet and when this is the world to just shut up and sit in one place takes a lot initially it looks like a struggle but once you really taste what it is you can't be without it people sit by themselves and mess with themselves and make a mess out of themselves if they stay alone they'll go crazy a whole lot of people in 24 hours time how many moments are
you really life most of the time you're just a bundle of thoughts emotions ideas opinions ideologies prejudices something something other than life have you noticed this on a specific day you were very happy 24 hours poof went off like a moment another day you were depressed 24 hours feel like a yon so only miserable people can have a truly long life if you're really joyful if you're very joyful before you know what's happening it gets over for the possibilities that a human being has come with if you live to be 100 it's really nothing 100
is not a long life 100 is nothing if you're really ecstatic it'll just pass away like this in no time if you're miserable every day feels like 100 years so time is a very relative experience but the only thing that you can Master is your energies energetically if you are at a certain level of intensity what somebody does in 10 years you will do in one year because of this the impact and the profoundness of your experience in terms of experience the profoundness of experience in terms of activity and impact in the world it may
be like Thousand Years though you lived only 100 years simply because you have multiplied yourself but time is limited personally I've spent a lot of time by myself in the jungles of Southern India in the Himalayas now every year I spend time in Tibet these days it's very difficult for me to be alone people all the time and like that is that something that you you now seek that that time alone or I'm at my best when I'm alone it's like this if I shut myself up once in a way from everything around me because
otherwise I'm 7 Days of the Week 365 days 20 22 hours a day I'm on on on so uh if I shut myself I don't read anything I don't watch television I don't use the phone I don't even look out of the window if I just sit there for 5 days I don't have a single thought in my mind I simply it they are the best times if I do that once next few years non-stop no vacation no holiday no weekly holiday no nothing we just go on and on and on because once you touch
the source of your life the way the surface functions is almost people people around me think I'm super human no this is not about being super human this is about realizing being human is super because there is a phenomena of life within you which is far bigger than all the entertainment you have one of the important processes of uh spiritual sad we give the tools that we offer is always to go into silence people go into silence for from 3 days to 3 years 4 years like this people go on silence not saying a word
to anybody because most people are only living with their psychological drama of their own thought and emotion they get bored they want to do something else they want interaction is not for nothing that we are the peak of Evolution on this planet we the peak of evolution on this planet it's to make you the way you are it took millions of years of work Nature has worked millions of years to get you to this level but now all must be human beings can do is complain this is a product which is arrived at after phenomenal
development over a few million years but now you're complaining about how it is because you not explored the full depth and dimension of what a human being is a human being is not just a bundle of thoughts and emotions like you're not just body there's something more to this body you accumulated what you call as my mind is an accumulation of Impressions this is a heap of food that is a heap of Impressions between these two heaps where the hell are you yes where are you it's time everybody pay some attention because this life is
not for good since you came and sat here you are 45 minutes closer to your grave I'm not wishing this on you this is the nature of our life this is not clock ticking away it's our life ticking away isn't it most people think other people die you know no no you and me will die if you understand that this is a limited amount of time and energy you would see how to master this in some way do whatever you want you can't stop one minute from Rolling isn't it whoever you may be can you
stop it no it's rolling away for all of us at the same Pace well how quickly how rapidly or how slowly simply depends on how joyful or how miserable you are in Tamil language this is very well said when somebody dies we don't say he died we say that means his time got over perfect it's a perfect description time got over that's all that happened time is getting over even now isn't it so how young you are how healthy you are how wonderful you are it doesn't matter time is getting over if you're conscious that
you're mortal and it's a limited amount of time naturally you would tweak up your energies to such a level that time would be enhanced for you otherwise if you think you are here forever you think you're an eternal being then you have time for all kinds of rubbish that you don't care for if you knew it is very limited you wouldn't do one thing that doesn't matter to you isn't it if you really knew see every day nearly quarter million people die on this planet just by natural process and you think those people are all
thinking tomorrow morning I will die no lot of people were going to their office somebody was going home somebody had all kinds of dreams young people old people all sorts of people die every day in the world if you knew that it is possible it's not my wish I'll bless you with a long life but it's possible tomorrow morning you and me could be dead isn't it it's not our wish possible or no if you know it is possible that it is possible tomorrow morning I could be dead would you have time to quarrel with
somebody would you have time to bicker with someone else do some nonsense that doesn't matter to you you would do only what truly truly matters to you if every moment of your life if you're doing what really really matters to you you will live a Wonderful Life what is the highest value in your life Freedom or bondage please I would like to hear that word Freedom if you are free you feel lost so this is evolutionary issue in the sense human beings are right now like this a caged bird if you keep a bird CAG
for a long period of time and then one day you took off the door of the cage still the bird won't fly from inside it'll protest that it's not free but it'll not fly Human Condition is just that for all other creatures Nature has drawn Two Lines within which they have to live and die and that's what they do but only for human beings there's only bottom line there's no Top Line and that's what they're suffering if their life was also fixed like every other creatur's life they wouldn't be stressed they wouldn't be anxious they
wouldn't be struggling how to handle their own intelligence and that is what you're seeking unknowingly you may seek it in the form of relationships you may seek it in the form of profession you may seek it in the form of form of nationality ethnicity Community God Heaven hell all you're trying to do is draw an artificial line which does not exist Freedom needs courage freedom needs I said Madness if you're very San you cannot be free because you will go between the two lines of logic to be free it takes lot of strength first of
all what needs to happen if you want to be free is do you understand that all human experience has a chemical basis to it what you call is joy is one kind of chemistry misery is another kind of chemistry stress is one kind of chemistry anxiety another kind of chemistry Agy one kind of chemistry ecstasy another kind of chemistry at least ecstasy you know it's another kind of chemistry so your experience of life has a chemical basis to the most superficial way of looking at it there are other dimensions to it but for you understanding
or in other words what you call as myself right now you're a chemical soup the question is only are you a great soup or a lousy soup right now if you have a chemistry of blissfulness if you close your eyes it's fantastic if you open your eyes it's fantastic if somebody's here it's fantastic nobody's here it's very fantastic but you have a lousy chemistry if you look at them they smile at you it's nice nice not fantastic if they look at you like this suddenly it's a problem these people are happening just the way you
want your chemistry is reasonably balanced if they do something that you don't like boom go somewhere else so essentially you have not looked at this mechanism what is the basis of this how it functions how I can make it function at its highest level right now let's say you really blissed out like me do you care who is around who is not around they around it's fantastic they're gone your experience of life is no more determined by what you have and what you don't have whether it's people or things or food or this or that
it is not determined by you must fix this being an individual is very important that means you're not further divisible if I'm wonderful it's me if I'm nasty it's me if I succeed it's me if I fail it's me you have to fix this I'm just asking you a simple question within this how many people how many people within you 1 2 only one if you one you're normal human being if you're more than one you're either schizophrenic or you possessed you either need need a psychiatrist or a Exorcist but you will see whenever things
don't go right another guy will pop up from somewhere so becoming an individual means you killed all those popups and just said this is me this what is me has many dimensions if I don't see this is an individual I cannot divide this further then transformation will not happen if transformation does not happen if people come together in that state there will be more mess than Solutions All Creatures hang out together whether it is various wild creatures most of them hang out together even monkeys who are just one step behind us they are also in
bunches it is only human being who can sit alone and transform himself or herself because this is the prerogative of Being Human that we can simply be this is why you are called human being you're capable of being you're not in a compulsive state of activity if you want consciously you can evolve in this evening you can evolve if you're willing it doesn't take a million years because our evolution is not biological anymore our evolution is conscious for every other creature it is fixed Nature has fixed two lines within which every other creature lives and
goes but once you have come as a human being there is only bottom line there is no Top Line there is no limit and as to how a human being can become so before we associate ourselves with people it'll be good every day in the morning or a certain period of your life if one withdraws to spend a little time with oneself and see how in what ways can this be a little better than the way it was yesterday this life how it can be a little better life than what it was yesterday because most
people are coming together for their needs to fulfill needs people come together some people come together to fulfill a purpose or a cause some people come together to eat drink and be together because they cannot be alone this is something that every human being must do a certain period of time you do one thing just 24 hours take a break from everything not today right now you're among people you take a break sometime just 24 hours don't read don't watch television don't use a phone simply sit in your room alert not sleeping and if you
watch the nature of your mind you yourself will certify this is a mad man for most people their mind cannot stay on any one thing unless they're in activity simply they cannot be here in compulsive state of psychological activity is on when you are like this you cannot be that means you cannot be a human being being has to happen only then togetherness will be very rich if you know how to be by yourself then coming together will be hugely rewarding and of tremendous value that means we came together consciously [Music] [Music] [Music] for
