[Music] where are you at this point in your life I'm getting the sense that you're in a figurative waiting room hear me out you might be in a situation where you are romantically attracted to someone but there are a few factors that hinder you from being with them you might not be fully aware of your feelings for this person yet but your heart tells you that there is something complicated about the situation you're in you are subconsciously waiting for something to Catal I a spark with this person not many realize how denial often plays a
big role at the beginning of romantic involvements we tend to Flinch a bit when someone tries to get more emotionally entangled or we pull away when we first feel an unusual force of attraction perhaps this is why we tend to shy away from opportunities that will get us to where we need to be and who we're destined to be with when this happens God will not hesitate to put you in different places until you recognize his will God has always been vocal about how spouses serve as extensions of his Undying Love marriage is an essential
aspect of his plan which is also a promise to us Believers now you might be asking what happens while we are taking the long and faithful road to this destination however in most cases the real question is what happens when we keep on missing this road Road often times we fail to recognize that we're on a path that is not meant for us and when this happens it takes us time to realize that we are lost in the wilderness and taking the same road over and over again but not getting to where we want to
be in this message we focus on the possibility that you are as I mentioned in a waiting room because you refuse or are unable to accept a connection you have with a certain someone you are are in a place where God has been giving you subtle instructions to pursue this relationship because he has approved and orchestrated it this message is to give you Clarity of why certain things have been happening and how it may be connected to your involvement with that certain person most of the time your heart Guided by the holy spirit is already
giving you a heads up on what is going on for example one usually finds themselves asking am I delusional or is this connected to something else well the circumstances you go through are usually related to each other in one way or another so if you're emotionally connected to someone then there's a great chance that what you're going through in your daily life is influenced by this here's the point until you end up with who you're meant to be with there will be time fillers Ecclesiastes 31 states there is an appointed time for everything and a
time for every Affair under the heavens God controls the timing of every matter we deal with from birth to the time we Ascend to his kingdom and everything in between if entering a relationship with your soulmate is plotted in the near future there will be events that build up to this momentous Milestone think of this as the period where God prepares you for the transition being in a relationship calls for and also as the grace period where he allows you to discover that you are destined to be with this person during this time there are
generally two kinds of things that take place while you're not with this person yet firstly there will be times of anxiety challenges and uneasiness this is not to discourage you brothers and sisters I promise you that these kinds of things are eye opening an excerpt from author Elizabeth Gilbert perfectly captures the main point of this she says people think a soulmate is your perfect fit and that it's what everyone wants but a true soulmate is a mirror the person who shows you everything that is holding you back the person who brings you to your own
attention so that you can change your life assuming that the person who is the subject of your emotional predicament right now is the one God has chosen for you the starting point of this connection won't be as smooth as possible there would be friction since this helps polish a relationship to unfold into a greater one Proverbs 18:24 says a man of many companions may come to ruin but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother this period is supposed to show you who your real friends are which is a defining quality embodied by
your future partner this explains why you may be prone to feeling vulnerable or anxious about where you're currently at and that doesn't necessarily indicate that you're headed in the wrong direction you might experience self-doubt and feel confused overwhelmed or emotionally unstable things of this nature will continue occurring but it's not because you're being punished it's because you are so close to where God needs you to be when hiking up a mountain are you most exhausted at the beginning or toward the top fatigue kicks in when you're close to the peak of the mountain doesn't it
perhaps another way of looking at this is by examining the story of Adam and Eve God loved Adam to the point that he did not want him to be alone Genesis 2:18 says then the Lord God said it is not good that the man should be alone I will make him a helper fit for him God felt that Adam needed a partner in life while Adam had no idea that he needed one or that a partner was even possible we should know better by now but we can be oblivious at times perhaps God is using
this time to make you realize why being alone is not good enough maybe God sees that you are rejecting the opportunity to be with this person so he is challenging your preference of being alone aside from this seemingly negative experiences can also put a spotlight on the potential of your relationship with this person 1 Thessalonians 5:11 commands us therefore encourage one another to build each other up just as in fact you are doing times like this provide the opportunity for you to see how this person can bring a positive healthy impact on your life through
these challenging moments God is saying that this is a non-negotiable path that will bring you closer to this person to be clear it's not all negative this brings me to the second classification of events which are circumstances that will heal you and prepare your heart for marriage until you end up with that person you are still being renewed by God as declared in Revelation 21:4 he will wipe every tear from their eyes there will be no more death or Mourning or crying or pain for the old Order of Things has passed away healing and nurturing
events also happened in this period foreshadowing the relationship you will eventually enter with this person you will be given the courage to move forward from everything that has has been holding you back including trauma and past wounds gradually God will use events to allow you to open your heart examples of such events are coming to terms with having children changing your mind about worldly beliefs and being excited by the idea of making a home among others sometimes he would bless you so much that you would eventually seek someone to share this Joy with when God
sees that you're afraid to take a risk for this person he will put you in places surrounded by those who took leaps of faith when he sees that you're in denial of your attraction to this person he will show you more examples and models of happy and healthy relationships God will continuously arrange events that will debunk your false convictions specifically those that will transform your heart in your perceptions about love some animals shed their skin or their fur undergo changes to suit the season This Is How They adapt to major changes this is basically the
same thing that we experience the difference is that ours is internal and we change mentally emotionally and spiritually God transforms us to empower us to pursue a future with this person God declares in Ezekiel 36:26 and I will give you a new heart and a new spirit I will put within you and I will remove the Heart of Stone from your flesh and give you you a heart of Flesh God will renew your heart and spirit through healing circumstances so that you may be clothed with Grace humility and love once you end up with this
person all these things will keep happening not necessarily to rush you into this relationship but for you to finally arrive where he wants you to be and in this case it's in the arms of your soulmate Romans 8:28 reads and we know that for those who love God all things work together for good for those who are called according to his purpose the things you're experiencing now lead to a loving place where your purpose as a worthy companion will be fulfilled as they say change requires repetition as we can only then unravel the pattern into
decipher messages if you feel that everything that is happening is repetitive in that you're running in circles it is likely because you are refusing to accept your romantic fate with this person take time to reflect because if there is one thing about God's way of teaching it's that he will never bring you to the next chapter until you've learned your current lesson pay close attention to what is happening in your everyday life because if God is willing you to be with this person you will definitely be able to trace everything back to this connection the
almighty in His Infinite Wisdom sees the entirety of our lives our p past pains our present struggles and the future he desires for us sometimes the heart we wish to win is guarded wrapped in layers of past sorrows and hesitations in these moments God might be using your unwavering affection as a Beacon of Hope a testament to the enduring power of love God's guidance is a lamp unto our feet especially in matters of the heart he doesn't lead us astray nor nor does he dangle false hope before our eyes every emotion you experience every longing
in your heart is under his care and in this delicate dance of waiting and hoping there's a profound opportunity for growth to love unrequitedly to care deeply even when it's not return in the moment is a reflection of God's unconditional love for us consider the biblical passage love is patient love is kind 1 Corinthians 13 4 gains that come quickly often vanish just as quickly lacking any real significance now I ask you are you going to let the short-sightedness of others derail something that could flourish beautifully it's easy to Stand By and Watch but I'll
be the first to admit my patience hasn't always been what it should this impatience has cost me more than I can fully Express instead of waiting trusting in the guidance from from above I rushed ahead thinking I held all the answers the result nothing but heartache yet it's through God's grace that I found the strength to rise again I share this with you not from a place of judgment but from a heart that's learned the hard way the key patience a virtue that's not just preached but profoundly provided by the Lord himself this isn't about
preaching from a high horse it's about sharing a universal truth that can transform lives remember true power and authority come from speaking truths that resonate not just with our ears but with our Spirits I urge you let's not be quick to act but wise to wait for in patience we find not just answers but the right path forward Guided by a hand far greater than our own so if you find yourself pouring care and affection into someone with little and return pause and Ponder maybe just maybe God is sculpting your heart preparing you for a
love that's not only profound but also divinely appointed it's an opportunity to grow in faith to lean not in your own understanding but on the assurances of God God's wisdom is infinite and his plans for us are always for our ultimate good when he allows us to experience such deep care for someone someone it's an invitation to participate in a higher form of love one that transcends human understanding and mirrors the love that God has for Humanity this experience serves as a spiritual lesson in love patience and resilience loving someone without the expectation of return
teaches us about the nature of divine love just as God loves us despite our flaws and shortcomings we are called to love others in the same unconditional manner this journey of love is not always easy it often requires us to give without receiving to love without being loved in return yet it is in this process that we grow closer to understanding the heart of God the scripture reminds us in 1 John 4:19 we love because he first loved us this passage highlights the source of our ability to love deeply it flows from the love that
God has for us when we find ourselves caring so much for someone it's a reflection of God's love acting within us urging us to extend Grace kindness and compassion to others even when it's hard moreover loving deeply in the face of rejection or indifference can be a powerful Catalyst for change both in us and in the lives of those we care for through our persistence in love we become beacons of God's grace offering others a glimpse of his unconditional love this might be the very lesson God wants us to learn and perhaps the lesson he
wants others to receive through us our role divinely assigned is to be vessels of love in a world that desperately needs it this calling may lead us down paths that are difficult and heart-wrenching but it's also incredibly rewarding as we embody God's love we not only draw closer to him but also invite others into the warmth of his Divine embrace the essence of true love is painted in The Strokes of 1 Corinthians 13 4-7 love is patient love is kind it does not envy it does not boast it is not proud it does not dishonor
others it is not self-seeking it is not easily angered it keeps no record of wrongs love does not delay and evil but rejoices with the truth it always protects always trusts always hopes always perseveres is not one of superficial attraction or fleeting moments of Happiness it's a testament to patience kindness and a resilience that stands firm against the tests of time and tribulation this scripture isn't just poetry it's the blueprint for how we're to love one another mirroring the boundless unconditional of the God showers upon us even when we falter and stray his Love Remains
steadfast a beacon of forgiveness and hope why then does God allow us to care so deeply for someone especially in instances where our love seems like a solitary Journey the answer lies not in the love that's returned but in the love that's given through this experience we're invited to partake in a slice of God's Own Heart learning to love without conditions without expectations of reciprocity it's a Divine invitation to cultivate a love that Echoes the sacrificial love Jesus demonstrated on the cross love in its purest most selfless form in the Gospel of John 10:34 Jesus
answered them is it not written in your law I have said you are Gods we reminded of our potential to reflect God's love on Earth to be vessels of his light in the world that often dwell and shadows to love someone who may not love us back is a testament to strength not weakness it challenges us to grow to nurture a spirit of forgiveness and to remain steadfast in Hope and Faith even when the path of Love is a solitary one this journey of Love is a mirror reflecting the very challenges God faces in loving
us we are imperfect often unresponsive to his call yet he loves us still with a fervor that never waines thus when we find ourselves loving someone from a distance it's an opportunity to experience a fragment of God's Own perseverance and unconditional love so let's Embrace these moments not with sorrow but with gratitude for through them we are offered a glimpse into the heart of God learning to love as he loves to forgive as he forgives and to hope Against All Odds this is the true essence of love a gift that transcends the confines of human
understanding reaching into the depths of our souls and transforming us from within have you ever wondered why you find yourself deeply caring for someone even when the reciprocity seems lacking it's a question that tugs at the heartstrings of many leading us down a path of introspection and ultimately spiritual enlightenment at the very core of our being we are made in the image of God designed to reflect his Essence and attributes including his boundless capacity for love this Divine blueprint within us nudges us towards love even in the face of rejection or indifference but why does
God allow us to experience such depth of care and affection for someone especially when the present moment offers no glimpse of mutual feeling the answer while layer in complexity is rooted in the very nature of God's love for us the Bible in its wisdom speaks volumes about love urging us to love unconditionally just as God loves us 1 John 47-12 this Divine love is not deterred by rejection or indifference instead it is steadfast enduring and self-giving when we find ourselves caring deeply for someone with no immediate reciprocation in sight we are in essence participating in
the Divine Love Story reflecting God's unwavering love for Humanity The Seasons of unreciprocated Love Are Not Without purpose they're times of growth self-discovery and spiritual deepening through these experiences we learn to love more purely without the immediate gratification of reciprocation we learn the essence of patience the virtue of Hope and the strength of faith and in this Divine classroom we're taught the most valuable lesson of all that true love is worth waiting for worth fighting for and most importantly worth praying for moreover these Seasons serve as a reminder that our ultimate fulfillment and satisfaction come
not from Human Relationships but from our relationship with God he's the one who fills the voids heals the heartaches and renews our spirits and sometimes it's in the very Act of loving someone without immediate return that we draw closer to God leaning on his strength and finding peace in his presence so if you find yourself in a season of caring deeply for someone with the future of that Bond shrouded in uncertainty take heart God is at work molding your heart deepen Your Capacity to love and preparing you for the journey ahead and who knows in
his perfect timing he may just bring the love you've given so freely back to you in ways you never imagine share your thoughts in the comments below and if this message resonated with you don't forget to like And subscribe for more insights on navigating relationships through faith as God's children reaching maturity the quest to encounter your divinely chosen partner to navigate life's path together is a profound yearning yet this Pursuit isn't straightforward it demands the fortitude to overcome the emotional enticements and mental Persuasions of the flesh which beckon you to settle for just anyone remember
your emotions aren't inherently negative however they are susceptible to being swayed by darker forces due to their fleshly connections being ruled by emotions can confine you to a a realm of unpredictability and instability why simply because emotions fluctuate on the contrary anchoring your decisions in the spirit and the word of God elevates you to a realm of stability and Clarity ensuring your choices are Guided by Divine wisdom and foresight thereby safeguarding you from future sorrow and harm beloved perhaps you're unaware but akin to Adam's experience in Genesis 2:18 God's design for you doesn't include a
solitary existence devoid of a compatible companion he envisions you in a joyous Union pursuing your destiny alongside a spouse of his choosing reflect on Genesis 2:18 where the Lord God declared it is not good for the man to be alone I will make a helper suitable for him understand that God's plan doesn't involve a haphazard encounter with someone on the street through a social platform he doesn't Wish For Your Divine Destiny to be compromised by an arbitrary Union his followers of Christ we're bestowed with the discernment to recognize who's right for us and who we
should steer clear of in this journey consider the biblical example of Ruth and Boaz Ruth a woman of virtue found herself in a foreign land yet her unwavering faith and Noble character aligned her path with Boaz a man of equal virtue and understanding their story isn't just a testament to love but to God's Providence and bringing together two Souls meant to fulfill his purpose together just as Ruth was guided to her Divine partner rest assured that your steps are being ordered dear friend you may not know this but just like Adam in Genesis 2:18 God
does not want you to live alone without the help of the right partner this means he wants you to be happily married fulfill filling your destiny with the spouse he gives you now God's not going to allow you to just marry anyone you meet on the street or some Social Hub so as you navigate the Waters of relationships arm yourself with patience and prayer seek wisdom and discernment from above remember the right partner will not only align with your Earthly Journey but also your spiritual Mission they will be a testament to God's love and purpose
in your life as Proverbs 18:22 reminds us he who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord your journey isn't just about finding love it's about discovering Divine partnership when you cross paths with the person destined to be your life partner the first thing you'll notice is the clarity of God's voice in the matter it's like the Dawn breaking through the night unmistakable God is not a god of disorder but of peace and filled with promise the scriptures remind us 1 Corinthians chapter 14:33 he orchestrates Your Love Story with the
same harmonious Precision consider this when God brings two people together he doesn't do it in isolation he provides a tapestry of affirmations weaving together strands of assurance that resonate in your spirit and circumstances these affirmations aren't random they are the threads of a Divine narrative being spun before your very eyes let's delve into the types of confirmations you might encounter firstly there's the inner Assurance this isn't about fleeting emotions or superficial excitement it's a deep-seated peace a knowing in your soul that resonates with the truth of your union this peace is accompanied by a gradual
alignment of your deepest desires and values with theirs synchronization of hearts and Minds that feels both natural and divine externally the confirmations are just as significant they come through conversations with those who are spiritually attuned and deeply care for you through sermons that speak directly to your situation or even through events that align so perfectly they can only be of divine origin these aren't just coincidences they are the brush Strokes of God's painting his will in your life but beyond the internal and external there's a third type of confirmation the Eternal perspective this is where
you see your relationship not just in the context of your happiness but as part part of a bigger plan that God has for his kingdom it's about understanding that together you are stronger more effective in fulfilling God's purpose on this Earth it's essential as a child of God to seek these confirmations with a heart open to whatever answer comes it's not about setting specific conditions or looking for signs in every corner instead it's about a posture of listening and willingness to accept God's guidance whether it leads you together or apart remember the goal is not
just to find a partner but to fulfill God's perfect plan for your life in this journey let the words of Matthew 7:7 be your guide ask and it will be given to you seek and you will find knock and the door will be open to you as you seek these confirmations do so with a spirit of humility and Trust knowing that what God has in store is infinitely better than anything you could orchestrate on your own with internal confirmation your peace will be intact your emotions will gradually align and you will have a strong conviction
that this is the one for you this also involves a sense of satisfaction with them because they'll meet your desires as a partner to a large extent the tapestry of your relationship seems to be woven by the hands of the Divine is a Harmony that resonates through every thread of your interaction the scriptures provide a blueprint for love and commitment a Sanctified Bond that's both honorable and pure as stated in Hebrews 13:4 marriage is to be held in honor among all and the marriage bed is to be undefiled this isn't just a statement it's a
Divine standard for those who are led by the spirit the role of the holy spirit is guiding us towards the one chosen for us cannot be overstated as a beacon of Truth the spirit leads us into understanding and aligns our paths with God's will in the profound words of John 16:13 Jesus promises that the spirit of truth will guide us into all truth this isn't a passive Journey it's an active ongoing conversation with the Divine one that illuminates our path and directs our decisions now let's consider the implications of this Divine guidance in the realm
of relationships when you feel a deep unexplainable connection with someone when the values you both cherish align seamlessly with the word and when peace rather than confusion characterizes your relationship these are signs not to be ignored they are in essence a Divine nudge indicating that perhaps just perhaps you're on the right path but what about the contradictions we often face for instance the scriptures clearly caution against being unequally yolked with unbelievers 2 Corinthians 6:14 so if you find yourself drawn to someone who doesn't share your faith or values it's a moment to pause pause and
reflect the Holy Spirit The Same Spirit that raised Christ from the dead dwells within you and guides you towards truth and righteousness it's implausible then that this Same Spirit would lead you into a partnership that contradicts the very essence of God's word in moments of confusion or uncertainty remember that the spirit is not an author of confusion but of Peace 1 Corinthians 14:33 the relationships bless bled and ordained by God will not lead you into chaos instead they will reflect the love respect and sanctity that are Hallmarks of divine Union let's also remember the power
of prayer and discernment as you navigate the Waters of relationships engage in Earnest heartfelt prayer seek wisdom and Clarity from above James 1:5 assures us that if any of us lacks wisdom we should ask God who gives generously to all without finding fault and it will be given to you in the context of relationships this promise is a Lifeline it's an invitation to bring our desires our doubts and our decisions before the throne of grace and to trust in the guidance that only the Divine can provide as you Ponder the possibility that God is revealing
your partner to you approach this journey with a heart open to Divine guidance a mind anchored in the truth of the scriptures and a spirit attuned to the gentle whisper ERS of the Holy Spirit embrace the journey with faith knowing that the God who leads you is always faithful and his plans for you are perfect in love and timing remember the path to love is not just about finding the right person but also above being the right person one who walks in step with a Divine radiates the love of Christ and honors the sanctity of
the Union God has in store for you is there someone in particular whom you have intentionally avoided lately perhaps this is a person who openly admires you or even someone who you feel is attracted to you I have no idea what your circumstances are with this person and if we're being really honest a situation like this doesn't have a one- siiz fits-all kind of solution what I'm inclined to tell you however is the reality on the other side of the coin if you had truly decided to push this person away you would not even bother
to listen to all of this the fact that you're seeking this message suggests that God is asking you to hear this out have you ever played with Legos or building blocks you purchase a set based on the model you prefer and when you open it all the blocks and accessories are in shambles there's no way you can build this item correctly unless you closely follow the instructions sure you can randomly stack blocks on top of each other but by doing this you're not not honoring the purpose of the design when God sends a person your
way you are honestly as clueless as a kid without an instruction manual on hand you have a hundred possible ways of treating this person but without heeding God's instructions you can never be sure of the role they are intended to play in your life Micah 68 says he has shown you oh mortal what is good and what does the Lord require of you to act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God when you push someone away despite the Lord's effort in connecting the two of you you're telling him no God
I don't need this person isn't this a statement of Pride contradicting his command to be just and humble it's an explicit expression of impatience as you've already labeled this person unnecessary when God wants you to figure out the blessing that this person is about to bring the truth is everything he brings you is everything that you need in a pack of blocks or puzzles they won't give out a piece that's not needed in the same way only our creator knows what and who we'll need this is exactly why there is a force pulling the two
of you together pushing a person away means that they are continuously being pulled toward you in the first place don't you think that this correlates to the fact that God actively works both within and around us he ensures that everything and everyone are right where they're supposed to be clearly you're meant to be in close proximity with this person what is so troubling about this you might say that you're pulling away because this is not how you envision things to be so what else do you expect from the god of the unexpected life and love
are two things that cannot exist without the other and what makes both so beautiful is all the surprises they hold it's all about the twists and turns we take along the way that lead us to the grandest unimaginable destinations I know you might be surprised that your soulmate has been introduced to you at this point in your life but don't let this hinder you from responding to God's invitation to the relationship you are worthy of the problem is most of the time we can't recognize what's meant for us even when it's right in front of
us the relationship you have been praying for will not reveal itself like magic it's often like treasure that is buried deep and securely however some may find they are not ready to open this chest yet this is an inner struggle we can face we have Tendencies to avoid Intimacy in trusting people mostly because of experiences that have scarred Us in the past these factors trigger our flight or fight response which might have led you to continuously put distance between yourself and this person moreover we often fall victim to the notion that we know what and
who is best for us this is something we need to let go of we read in Jeremiah 179 that the heart is deceitful above all things and desperately sick who can understand it pushing people away does not necessarily make you a brave person it only shows that you are afraid to be vulnerable sabotaging a potentially loving relationship is a sign that your heart may not be at its healthiest State the hard truth is that we let our emotions get the best of us our hearts allow us to perceive what we want to perceive because deceiving
ourselves is often more gratifying than seeing the real thing you'd rather isolate yourself then believe that this person is your soulmate because of the fear your heart holds let me remind you that God's power is made perfect in our weakness his grace Embraces us so that we won't be encouraged to walk away from what scares us Proverbs 4:23 says above all else guard your heart for everything you do flows from it if your heart is closed and unwilling to accommodate someone sent by God then what kind of love or goodness can enter and flow from
it no matter how hard you push they're never going away I want you to know that meeting your soulmate was never guaranteed to be easy once you've crossed paths the connection is bound to be lasting and unwavering you cannot Escape what God has willed for you and your soulmate Jonah if you remember was meant to go to Nineveh he declined this instruction from God because Jonah held on to his personal belief that the people in this city were not worthy of God's forgiveness so he tried to go to the farthest place possible and boarded a
boat long story short God used a big fish to swallow him to save Jonah from drowning then the Lord had the fish spit him out onto dry land so that he may once again instruct Jonah to obey his command the thing is just like Jonah unfairly judged the people of Nineveh who are you to claim that this person is not worthy of a chance if God is consistently bringing this person closer to you it means that they are worth your time and energy it's never good to second guess the Lord's decisions sure driving this person
away from you may affirm your beliefs calm your anxiety or give you a sense of protection but at the end of the day you may just be dragging yourself away from God's presence you might be unnecessarily preventing yourself from experiencing love and happiness you shouldn't wait for God to reprimand you as he did Jonah before you realize that his will is in immovable and for the best Proverbs 19:21 reminds us that many plans are in a man's heart but the counsel of the Lord will stand the point of all this is not necessarily to ask
you to step forward you're not quite ready to open your heart to them yet that's all right all you need to do now is stop resisting stay still and just be open to the possibility in Proverbs 23:26 God declares my son give me your heart and let your eyes Delight in my ways again brothers and sisters give your heart to God so that he may prepare you to offer it to your soulmate next I hope this makes sense Minister John Newton once said God works powerfully but for the most part gently and gradually by staying
still you give God the opportunity to work on you and this relationship little by little slowly but Sur L God is enriching your soul with wisdom so that you may discover the reason why he anointed this person as your lifelong partner Proverbs 198 says he who gets wisdom loves his own soul he who keeps understanding will find good you may not want anything to do with this person now but as time goes by you might gain a deeper understanding of why they are the one the Lord is putting in your heart it's kind of like
how your hair dresser asks you to stay still so they can cut your hair as effectively as possible let the Holy Spirit be the only one in motion especially at times like this where you have no clue what is about to come after all the way we perceive people evolves over time the person you didn't find attractive at first might become the most attractive person to you after a year the admirer who failed to meet your standards at the very beginning must even exceed your expectations once you get to know them remember that we are
malleable Souls because God is continuously changing us spending time with your soulmate might help you become more compatible because by doing so you're allowing yourself to explore each other's identities don't put this person in a box let them prove themselves to you Hebrews 1036 tells us that you need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God you will receive what he has promised you need to make an effort to be curious and full of Hope instead of shooting down the chance of what could be with the best love story you have
ever dreamed of the Lord promised you a relationship with a person who will love you unconditionally know that he will indeed guide you in this direction if you open your heart to the person he sent you let your prayer be patterned in the scripture in Psalm 51 verse 10 create in me a pure heart oh God and renew a steadfast Spirit within me a pure heart can never let you down because its devotion belongs only to the Lord this person was handpicked by God to be your future partner and his chosen time to open this
chapter of your life is now consider the moments when you find yourself irresistibly drawn to someone it's it's not just a surface level Intrigue but a deeper Soulful pull this feeling is more than just a passing fancy it's a gentle whisper from your heart seeking to explore a bond that might have been orchestrated by higher powers in Proverbs 1921 it said many are the plans in a person's heart but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails this verse reminds us that sometimes our deepest attractions might be part of a greater plan now it's essential to
differentiate this Divine pull from Mere human infatuation while the ladder is fleeting the former has a purity and persistence that aligns with God's love and teachings this connection is not about Obsession but a mutual respectful interest that honors both individuals values and beliefs have you ever found yourself pondering over someone and at the same time sensed a unique closeness to them perhaps this person finds reasons to be near you or you stumble upon each other in unexpected places these occurrences Are Not Mere coincidences but could be signs of a deeper connection as Matthew 18:20 says
for where two or three Gather in my name there I am with them this scripture might suggest that when two souls are drawn together in Purity and Faith they are in tune with God's plan when you feel this connection you might ask yourself several questions is this the feeling of love as God intended could this be the soulmate that complements your faith Journey it's crucial to approach these questions with prayer and reflection seeking guidance from God to understand the true nature of your feelings remember a connection that is constantly on your mind yet honors God's
teachings is unique it's a bond that goes beyond the Physical Realm touching the spiritual it's not about finding someone perfect but about discovering a companion who shares your journey towards faith and growth number one they remember important dates they work hard for you and put you right when you are departing from God amidst the hustle and bustle of daily life someone special remembers your birthday the anniversary of when you first met or even the day you were baptized this isn't just a mere coincidence or a sign of a good memory it's a reflection of their
heart's priorities in Proverbs 279 it says as water reflects the face so one's life reflects the heart when someone cherishes you deeply these dates become etched in their heart resonating with their spirit it's not about the capacity to remember dates we all forget things even important ones but when someone is constantly thinking of you these dates transform from Mere numbers on a calendar to significant Milestones celebrated and honored this remembrance is a way of honoring not just the day but you as a person recognizing God's hand and bringing you into their life consider your own
experiences can you recall every birthday of each friend or family member likely not but there's a high chance you remember the birthday of someone you deeply care for it's the same when someone is thinking of you your special days become landmarks in their journey of affection but it's not just about remembering dates it's about the effort and intention behind it they might go out of their way to make these days special to show you in tangible ways how much they value and respect you this is beautifully aligned with 1 Corinthians 13: 4-7 which teaches us
that love is patient kind and always protective by remembering and honoring your important dates they are not only showing love but also respect for what those moments mean in your life and faith moreover this remembrance is a reflection of their desire to align with you spiritually when someone corrects you gently steering you back towards God's path it's a profound indication of their care and thoughtfulness Proverbs 27:17 says as iron sharpens iron so one person sharpens another their attentiveness to your spiritual wellbeing being demonstrates a deep-seated respect and love for you grounded in faith in a
world where we are often distracted and forgetful finding someone who remembers not just your special days but also your spiritual path is a treasure it's a subtle yet powerful reminder that you are that you are constantly in their thoughts prayers and heart let this be a Beacon of Hope and a testament to the kind of Godly love that nurtures respects and grows in the light of Christ's teach teachings number two they mirror your actions they don't take away but amplify your relationship with God reflecting on the many ways we navigate the tides of relationships there's
a particular behavior that stands as a profound Testament to someone's deep consideration for us it's a behavior rooted in the essence of connection and admiration often unnoticed yet profoundly impactful this trait a subtle yet powerful signal is is the act of mirroring imagine walking alongside someone whose heart aligns so closely with yours that they begin to reflect your very essence it's not just about adopting your choice of words or phrases it's a deeper resonance where they Echo your humor your style and your way of being this phenomenon known as mirroring isn't a mere imitation it's
a form of unspoken admiration a silent language of affection consider the times you've shared a laugh with someone and you find them echoing your unique sense of humor or when you express their thoughts and they resonate so deeply that they begin to embrace your perspectives even in the most subtle ways this isn't about losing individuality it's about finding a shared Rhythm a harmonious dance of personalities that enhances not diminishes our connection with God the Bible speaks of unity and mutual edification in relationships in a relationship where mirroring occurs there's a beautiful alignment of souls each
enhancing the other's Journey towards God and wisdom this mirroring goes beyond mere words it's in the attentive gaze that lingers a moment longer a gaze that says you matter your words matter it's in the small details they remember your likes your dislikes the tiny quirks that make you uniquely you it's as if they made it their mission to understand stand and cherish your essence in a world where authenticity is treasured some might mistake this mirroring for insincerity but look closer and see it's a genuine expression of admiration and care it's about someone valuing your influence
so much that it becomes part of who they are it's a way of saying I see you I appreciate you and I am here with you when someone mirrors you in this way it's a sign they hold you in their thoughts often a reflection of their desire to build a connection that transcends the ordinary a connection that nurtures both your souls this isn't just about romantic relationships it's about any bond where mutual respect and admiration are the foundations so next time you notice someone reflecting your mannerisms your style or your way of speaking take a
moment to appreciate the depth of their regard for you it's a sign of a bond that's not just about the surface interactions but about a deeper more meaningful connection a connection that in its own unique way brings us closer to the love and understanding we all seek in our walk with God number three the art of thoughtful gifting the Bible teaches us each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give not reluctantly or under compulsion for God loves a cheerful Giver 2 Corinthians 9:7 this verse captures the essence of giving
in love it's about the joy and thoughtfulness behind the gift not its material value imagine a scenario where you mentioned your love for early morning walks one day you find a small package at your doorstep a pair of comfortable walking shoes it's not just a pair of shoes it's a symbol of someone listening to you remembering the details and acting on them to bring joy to your life this gesture is a powerful indicator that you occupy a special space in their thoughts thoughtful gifting is a testament to the giver's attentiveness to your likes dislikes and
even those small details you mentioned casually it's a reflection of Proverbs 279 perfume and incense bring joy to the heart and the pleasantness of a friend Springs from their heartfelt advice just as fragrance adds Beauty to our lives a well-thought-out gift adds warmth to our relationships when someone gives you something that aligns with your interests it's not just about the object itself it's about them taking the time and effort to understand you deeply for instance if you're an animal Enthusiast receiving a gift related to animals isn't just about the item it's about the person showing
they value your passions and interests moreover the act of giving in a relationship is not a one-way Street it's about building a mutual connection a shared understanding that elevates the relationship to a spiritual and emotional depth in Ephesians 4:32 we are reminded be kind and compassionate to one another forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you this kindness and compassion are vividly expressed through thoughtful gestures in summary the gifts we choose for someone special are more than just items they are expressions of our understanding care and affection they are tangible representations of the
thoughts and feelings We Carry in our hearts for that person as Christians let's cherish and practice this beautiful act of giving remembering that it's a reflection of God's love and generosity towards us keep an eye out for these subtle yet significant signs in your Christian dating Journey for they often speak the language of love louder than words