so one of the things I've suggested to my audience of young men is that you're going to be looking at some point in your life when the chips are down and the storms are rising you're going to be looking for something like a sustaining meaning and if you don't have it God help you in those situations and they're definitely coming in fact you might be living chronically that way right now right depressed anxious nihilistic on the edge of suicide cuz why cuz you haven't adopted any meaningful responsibility hey look The Emptiness in your life isn't
because you don't have enough rights you have all the rights there are you have more than you should and it isn't because you lack consumerist options you have Amazon and pornography man you can get whatever you want whenever you want it and if that's still not working well what are you missing well maybe you're missing the opposite of that a little bit of restraint a little bit of sacrifice some responsibility