Men Age 25 to 35 Are Having An Existential Crisis Right Now

So this is the larger thing of what's Happening Now there's two guys that I see talking about this is's probably more one is Professor Scott Galloway the other is Chris Williamson so what he's talking about is how men are being left behind you said uh the most dangerous person in the world is a man who's broken and alone what do you mean by that young men seven to 10 high school victorians or girls for every one male College graduate over the next five years there's going to be two female college graduates 93% of mass Shooters

are men three times more likely to to overdose four times more likely to commit suicide 12 more times more likely to be incarcerated they do worse in single parent households for some reason girls have the same outcomes in a dual parent household versus a single we have more single parent households our education System is biased against men men on a behavior adjusted or boys on a behavior adjusted boices are twice as likely to get suspended for the same infraction as a girl 2third to 80% of all primary and secondary teachers are are women and understandably

they're going to Champion little girls who they see them eles in so young men just have the deck stack against them if you walk down the Avenue that is America one in three men under the age Of 30 will not have had sex in the last year and people hear the word sex and they're brain fires different ways but sex is an is a key step to the elemental Foundation of any society and that's a relationship and then you you wrap in covid you wrap in the biological fact that men's prefontal cortex doesn't evolve as

quickly they're more immature and then you have all this these this kind of short form ability to get similar dopa of relationships on Social similar dopa that you're learning or or G or taking risks with Robin Hood or gambling you're not learning you're not investing you're gambling and it's fun but it's gambling you don't have to put on a shirt or figure out the skills to meet women because you can get some of that hit by watching porn I mean what's your motivation to go out and go through the humiliation of dating to get to

your own sex when you get a sort of a reasonable fact simile of it at home What's your what's your rationale for working hard and delaying gratification when you keep keep seeing these screenshots of men who've made 12,000 per return on salana so and men aren't good at executive functions they're kind of two years behind an 18-year-old boy applying to college is sort of on par with a 16 or 17-year-old girl now saying that men are being left behind is not taking away from what women have been through which is a shitload of bad stuff

And that is real um that is not saying that uh guys should also become crybabies about it okay I'm not saying either of those things but something to realize is I want to talk a little bit about why guys are getting left behind like what's going on there what is the pattern that you're seeing here's what it is I myself as a man I look in this room and there's less than 1% of people in this room that I would trust to lead me I wouldn't trust you guys to lead me When I look at

you guys I wouldn't I would not I don't want you guys [ __ ] me I don't want you guys putting your dick in me I don't want you leading me I don't want you having control of my bank accounts I don't want you telling me what to do none of that okay none of it and the reason I I'll get into the reason what led you to that place okay but I would not allow you to Lead Me So when guys complain about modern women and how women you know the Modern Woman Is like

a [ __ ] or all this kind of stuff they're not looking at themselves as a part of the problem and then if I say this then they'll come in and say it's guy shaming and so on and so forth but what I would simply say is this um I would certainly not let any of you run my bank account there's no way but likewise I would rarely meet a woman that I would ever consider putting a ring on her finger I mean that would be so rare so it's kind of both Sid like Society's

unraveling is the point okay so in other words like I would not trust half my half what took me decades to build half half of all the dragons that I slayed and I'm just like here take half of it that's a great win for me I certainly would rarely meet anybody who I think could add that much value to my life at all there's literally no point whatsoever okay but likewise there's also really no point for women either there's not really a point on either Side because we're not culturally taught to work synergistically anymore but

what I'm going to do here is I will show you the men's side of it now you're aware of the women's side of it because you've seen that in all the different videos that are uh pushed out online and there's actually good points in those okay but I want to show you the guy side of it and then I want any woman that would watch this video there a couple wom in the audience here I hope that you Guys can enjoy this cuz like I'm going to try to show you the pattern that's happening okay

so this is a very neutral gender neutral video that men or women could learn from I think so as much as guys might complain that women don't want to get married I have amazing female friends I've got a couple female friends in this audience amazing female friends and like if I were to bring up one of my female friends right now and I got great female friends and you were to Just see how confident and well put together they are and then we could go one by one bringing you guys up from the audience and

be like should she just let him lead her whole life you'd be like nah that wouldn't really make sense like just the couple female friends that you'll that you'll see that will come to my events this weekend there's probably nobody in this room that any of us would unanimously agree like yeah this guy should just lead her life okay That's just the truth that's just the truth so I want to just show it from the guy side if you're a woman and you're looking at this you're just not able to find any good guys you

can't they're not around they don't exist okay but here's the funny thing is they do exist but they're having sex with all your friends so so it makes it even trickier okay it makes it even trickier any questions you guys ask just make sure they're on point and I'm glad to to do it what is it and Be loud stand up and be loud yeah so I hear you talking about relationships uh a lot recently see look how slow you're talking speed up okay um okay sit down yeah can H you you have 10 seconds

go okay can relationships work marriage work in the TR look it out look this is what I'm talking about like I'm literally explaining this and look I love you so this is the only real feedback you're going to get this whole month this is the dumbest [ __ ] I've ever Heard in my [ __ ] life okay this is the dumb [ __ ] I've heard in my [ __ ] life literally I'm explaining this and then you're like oh oh Tyler oh Tyler I have question get get marriage work and now my friend

Joanna's [ __ ] drying up do you understand Joanna is like oh God like oh [ __ ] okay because you're spaced out and then you're going to say it's cuz you're not good-looking enough but I promise you she's probably dated guys look dorkier than you but the point is Is that she wouldn't admit it but she probably has but the point is is that because you're spaced out you're scaring her okay and okay so so the thing is that's that's what I'm getting at so he actually so you you added a lot of value

to the seminar because you showed exactly what I'm talking about you're completely spaced out you're totally in your own little world and you're like now it's time for my question like [ __ ] all these 100 people that came here to Learn I have a question can man can marriage work in Modern Life it's like we're talking about this bro okay and I know it's not like I'm being a dick but wake the [ __ ] up and by the way when I'm on the okay you know here's what's funny I'm kind of like the

two size of a pendulum you see me in a seminar room I am the biggest [ __ ] you've ever F I'm like you're [ __ ] stupid you're a [ __ ] derper I would never let you lead me now you see me out in public It's the opposite okay it's like I I I even talk like I'm talking to a baby I'll say hi there how's it going oh that's so cool hi I'm like how's your day they're like I'm going to smoke some wheat I'm like what strain it's is it a sativa

that's going to be a lot of fun yeah oh look eat those Cheetos yes oh yes um 7-Eleven is a great job woohooo right because they didn't ask I'm assuming that if you're here you want to know the truth okay so what's happening Is and and I'm going to break this whole thing down so notice the kind of spaced out question and then think back to whatever spaced out question that you had because your brain is like wait a minute this not Tick Tock Tik Tock no worky guy been talking for this amount of time

I thought I could flip to the next dopamine Spike cuz my brain's been rewired by the Chinese Communist Party right go look at Chinese Tik Tok sometimes see the difference while they Show their kids okay not that I believe in collectivism but the point is is that they're Chinese Tik Tok is like engineering science violin they even slow it down so that you can't get a dopamine Spike off it I'm not suggesting that we need to moderate our internet but what we need to do is learn how to rise above it to where we wouldn't

have to now in effect what's happening with the women is that is that the guys are spaced out because the guys have failed The collective [ __ ] test y'all okay so here's basic here's basically out wordss okay so for guys like Chris Williamson or Professor Galloway that talk about this here's the thing okay they can't talk as blunt as I am willing to talk they probably know this they may or may not to be honest I don't know what they think in life but I have done uh split test experiments in this area for

two decades I've spent about half my adult life doing split test experiments on This so I know this stuff cold like you don't even want to know so here's let me try to show you what's going on okay so they guys like Chris Williamson or or Scott Galloway they're trying to table these issues of like yo our guys are falling behind which may which means that it sucks for the women because it basically means that women are now in Herms okay by the way women are getting laid they're just getting laid off apps like Bumble

with guys that won't commit In a herum that's all that it is okay that's 100% what's happening uh speaking of which by the way you guys remember how I said no one can afford to live here in La well how do all these gorgeous women live in LA in most cases they are on sugardaddy.com seeking arrangements.com I remember I remember in 2015 I was with a girl I was seeing and this was kind of new right and I remember we were lying in bed together and I never go in girls phones because To be honest

I'm so blackpilled that I just don't want to know okay I'm like I'm like I'm just like I just don't even want to know what's in there I'm good so okay it's kind of like how you don't want to go back into the back of the kitchen at the restaurant like just give me the food okay I'll just give me the food so so the thing is like I I never will go to a girls home cuz I just don't want to know and so I remember I uh she's asleep you know after we had

sex And and her uh music's playing I go baby can you uh turn your music off here please turn your music off she goes you turn it off you turn it off right I'm like I'm good I'm good you turn it off right she goes no you turn off I go fine so as I uh go to turn it off I see this thing like you know some guy's name uh with some message and it says sa beside it and I think to myself I roll through my brain I go ah [ __ ] is

that seeking [ __ ] Arrangements like did I just in Unwittingly have sex with with a hooker a [ __ ] cuz in my mind seeking arrangements or sugar baby is like a hooker that's how I thought of it right because it used to be well as it turns out luckily again I strap up but as it turns out I talk to her I wake her up I go yo are you a hooker like this is not cool like what the [ __ ] she's like cuz it's 2015 right she's like every single one of

my friends is on this they're all [ __ ] using it and I started now I've Got a lot of great female friends so I started asking my female friends around around La they're almost all on seeking Arrangement sugar daddy like almost every girl I know it's crazy why is that because if you live in LA and your rent is $5,000 a month how are you going to even pay for that so what winds up happening is they have a beta male and and by the way you think that being rich makes you an alpha

male you're wrong all that being rich means that you're What's Called the king of the betas most alpha males are actually not rich that is a lie that some people will tell you okay the richest guys in the world are not dating supermodels okay the guys that you see dating supermodels are like mostly [ __ ] boys okay like idiotic [ __ ] boys that cheat on them like Travis Scott okay guys like Travis Scott Will outperform Bill Gates any day of the week do you understand well now you understand okay why is Travis Scott

Probably the biggest pimp in the world because he's the biggest idiot in the world okay so he just makes a b he just does a little dance makes a bunch of sound effects doesn't talk too logically which you know is amazing okay all the logic stuff is going to is just kills your swag now going from there um basically what's happening is this so right now in effect here's kind of the breakdown women don't prefer to be inherent they would prefer to have one Main guy most women but they would rather be sharing a guy

that dating one of you that'd be the the best way that put that is a better option okay that is a superior option than dating the average guy now the reason why is not because your looks it's not because your money it is primarily and predominantly because you are spaced out you're just too spaced out that is the main reason why they're uncomfortable they feel like you're kids will be spaced out they feel Like uh they feel like you're not going to be able to handle things and then what happens is they become irate and

they become uncomfortable so they start doing what's called [ __ ] testing so they start throwing fits and they start they start accusing you of [ __ ] and all that kind of stuff and then what winds up happening is uh you don't you react to it too much which then shows that you're too reactive okay and then they break up with you so that's called [ __ ] testing So a lot of what you've seen is a giant Collective [ __ ] test it's just a giant collect [ __ ] test now the next

way that I'd explain it to you is this so how many of you in this room have ever been what's called in state and you go out to a bar club and you're in state and you're super super super in the zone and then what winds up happening is every girl that you talk to is in love with you okay it's like the whole club's in love with you basically you ever had That put your hands if you had that experience okay so you'll notice that when you get in that zone pretty much you walk

around like when you're okay because here's the big missing piece that like you know a lot of the Chris williamsons or or Scott go they're just not seeing it okay here's what they need to do they need to call me or someone like me that's the first order if they're going to do all these podcasts they need to call it doesn't have to be Me because there's plenty of other guys that know what I know but call someone like me go out with someone like me to a bar or a club watch that person like

me walk around the whole venue and watch what happens and you're going to see the most insane things that you've ever seen in your life it's going to blow your mind it's going to shock you it's going to completely invert everything that you thought was possible it's going to completely change your reality then What's going to happen now now by the way celebrities can do the same thing they may know celebrities somebody like me who's not a celebrity they need to watch someone like me go do it who looks normal not celebrity just go ahead

and do it and they need to see what happens and the Epiphany that you'll get is that when a man is in state he will be magnetic that's just how it works and as a result of that because he is magnetic that creates attraction when you are in That magnetic State you have access to the full realm of your brain brain and you're not in a der state so see what you did there when you went hey hello okay uh let me get on my phone okay can can marriage work in the modern day you

know right like like you're it's like your it's like that that should be happening when you have Alzheimer's you know you're like you're like Joe Biden right but but the thing is is that uh but you know but that's happening in Your brain because what's what's happening is your Consciousness is being suppressed so in other words have you ever had it when you went to a bar club and you had the opposite happen when you got rejected five or 10 times in a row and then your state shot down you you you completely shut down

you couldn't think of what to say you couldn't think you're in a cloud and so on and so forth you ever had that happen Okay well if you've ever had that and this is why Again I say like when you asked your question earlier like you know like uh like is it is it for your is it in your best Enlightenment like not go socialize this is the kind of thing that socializing will teach you so what happens is you go out and you'll watch your state crash you can't think of what to say I

could ask you like what's like when you're in that mode I could ask you what's your brother's birthday and it will take you 15 seconds to remember You'll be like uh uh oh [ __ ] [ __ ] don't tell him uh I got it I got it right because your brain is shutting down so in other words happening is your brain is shutting down and you can see that clearly when you go to a bar club and you get rejected a bunch of times or when you have success a bunch of times and you

can see it from both sides okay so now what happens when you go out to bars and clubs you socialize parties day venues where you can socialize you can Actually see what's happening in your brain you can see the effects that it's having on you you can tangibly say oh that's when my brain does this and then this is when my brain does this because when you haven't had that experience it's too subtle it's kind of like this refrigerator hum so watch go very very let me show you the power of like a refrigerator hum

type noise that you're not noticing watch this okay let me go quiet well go quiet now listen Now I don't know if my mic is picking that up or not but how [ __ ] noisy is that in retrospect that's [ __ ] noisy right but I you've been ignoring it the whole time while I'm talking okay good thing we're going to do uh the seminar at the Mansion tomorrow because otherwise you're gonna you can't unhear this [ __ ] it's going to keep annoying you but if we were here for three days I wouldn't

Have said this [ __ ] so okay but we're only here a little bit longer so the point is is that you have other things like that that are happen like you have trauma running like that that you're not noticing thought it went away for a second anyway okay just meet me at the Mansion tomorrow good night okay so it's so it's it's like it's uh it's trauma that you're not noticing and it's derping that you're not noticing okay it's this say the word ambient Derping or ambient trauma ENT traa okay so you have this

sort of ambient derping or you have this ambient trauma and what what starts happening is that because you're in this ambient derp State um the women can tell you've probably been rejected a bunch of times times that's sort of what they're getting off of it but they can also just tell that you're too spaced out and as a result they get turned off now let's look let's go a little bit deeper and see what's Happening here so there's a couple different moving pieces and I'm not even I'm not suggesting to make some weird law to

like Outlaw this I'm not trying to shame anybody I'm not trying to make any prescriptive suggestions or anything like that I'm just trying to show you what's going on so that we can at least start a conversation okay so right off the bat um look I'm not a a fan of [ __ ] shaming at all I don't think women should be shamed for having sex but I do Want to and and by the way women have been having sex since like I mean forever okay like that's just been happening okay so clearly like all

look at all the humans here right so that's been happening so but the thing is is that before it was kind of hidden a little bit right like you know if a girl was kind of running around getting with all these guys she kind of had to hide a little bit whereas now it's more like empowering okay and again I'm not saying Anything prescriptive I'm just pointing out the social change that we're having I'm not saying that we need to change anything I'm not I'm I'm just giving analysis here okay I'm just giving analysis here

okay I'm not saying the solution because I don't have the solution but nowadays let's say that a girl it's it's it's empowering to go have sex right now it's also combine that with more women getting into college than men and more women getting The better jobs than men and if you combine no shame around casual sex including with just the alpha that they actually want and then when you combine that with better jobs and better College well you know so you have that right but then combine that so there's a fourth element too which is

the social conditioning right so what's the most conditioning around men like what are my young Sons going to be hearing about themselves as young boys what are they Going to be hearing like like Dylan Tristan Vincent what do they hear about themselves as young boys need to be they need to be quiet and like well what's the main word what's the main word that we attribute to men in the 2020s the word is toxic right they're they're bad they've done they did all this bad stuff they've done bad stuff they did all this bad stuff

and they are bad right now my kids are not going to have a problem with that Because they have me okay but the so the thing is imagine the fact that I I have to coach my kids to say don't listen to your teachers okay we live in California right so don't listen to your teachers okay ignore your teachers ignore what you see in the media don't trust the news don't trust the media don't trust your teachers now they've got Daddy telling them that so they're going to be fine okay but some people are growing

up without even a father and some people Are not growing up with those kind of influences so now let's look at the factors casual normalization of casual sex um women making more money than guys women getting more college degrees than guys uh and then the General Social conditioning and so on and so forth so when you mix that up you have the vast majority of the male population that is a derper they're just spaced out then add to that here's what happens when you have the one guy who's having sex with Like I mean an

average Herm for a guy that's just getting laid a lot is about 20 to 50 girls that would be on average like if you just started going out and you just started socializing and you got your confidence that would be average so now if you have that one guy and what's happening is he's in an upward spiral because he's getting validation and maybe one girl validates him another girl validates him another girl validates him more girls validate him so Now he's in freaking state right how much in state you be if you just had women

crawling all over you your brain would be like Bing it's on okay so what happens is because because you're being validated okay you're also being uh becoming an addict to validation which is not great because if they pull it away You're Screwed but because you don't know how to self generate it which I can teach you but the point being is that you're getting validated so now you Have like one guy out of 50 who's being overly validated he's basically eating the validation that all those other 49 guys would have got now again I can

teach you to self-generate it you shouldn't need that but the average person's not in is not in a self-help course like yeah it's great that we got a nice big healthy room here this is awesome but look out the window okay this is like not even 1% of Los Angeles it's not even 0 point it's like a 0.0 Whatever percent right so what's happening is the vast majority of guys don't understand how to self-generate validation they don't understand how to self- generate winter effect they don't know how to turn their brain on and they're in

an environment that's shutting off their brain and then what's happening is from a woman's perspective when 99% of men that they're meeting are derp ders what is going to be their impression of men if most men are derp What's their impression of men disgusting sickening creepy weird etc etc etc right you see the cycle here I'm not offering prescription guys I'm just trying to show you what's happening okay so then and and by the way I predicted all this over a decade ago I was talking that we knew that this was going to happen and

we knew that with Instagram it was going to happen because now if you're a guy like Drake you can have your staff DM every single hot girl so It's on scale now okay look let me give you a simple example of what social media did there used to be all these different social skills companies back in the day when the Neil book came out right then YouTube came out and they all went away and there was only one group left me do you guys remember that okay I was like the only deal in town okay

so so from 2002 to 2008 there was all these different companies and then one day I was at my buddy's house and we're Looking at and he shows me this thing called YouTube and I say let me see it and I watch it and I see the Epic squirrel and the Star Wars kid and all stuff and I went oh uh we're going to be I'm already a multi-millionaire because I now have access I I now my own Media Company because they built it for me and all that I have to do is just create

the media for my own damn Media company I knew I knew I was instantly a millionaire I almost started crying I Was like oh my God like I'm going to be rich and then yeah immediately by the way it took me about half an hour to realize the potential and then from there I I we were doing uh you remember I said I made my first 2 million from blueprint decoded and reinvest that back in the business I called my team my team is like dude Owen just keep putting out DVD sets so make 2

million here make 2 million there I I go no more DVD sets I am not releasing an we will release Every piece of content that we have for free I will create a I'm going to create this thing called The Free tour at the free tour I'm going to learn to do free associative rants so that I can learn to just Spin and create content out of nowhere so that I can become like little Wayne okay so you guys remember this is back in the in the late uh uh 2000s right where it was like

little Wayne was the hottest [ __ ] in town so you remember the best rapper before Little Wayne was Eminem and Eminem would write his album for several years and then release it but then Little Wayne came out and with little Wayne did was he would take a bunch of coding and he would just free associate and make his raps and he'd be a guess on everybody's on everybody's albums any you guys remember this so Wayne blew up as the most popular rapper because he did all these guest appearances he was kind of like a

disruptive Force where he wouldn't write Anything down he' just get super high in coding and then he would uh just free associate to be on everybody's album and he was like a solid 8.5 out of 10 relative to Eminem's 10 so I said to myself wait a minute if it takes two years to make a 10 but you can make ongoing 8.5 for forever then what I should do is make a free tour I should go around working on my free associ of skills and then I should just keep cranking out 85 8585 85 8585

8585 now Here's the hilarious part as great as blueprint decoded is and is definitely a seminal work and all that Pioneer pioneering work at the same time my average free event now is 20 times better than blueprint decoded why is that because I practiced so ironically there there's actually a experiment they do with this you guys know the photograph experiment related to this so the professor tells uh two groups of kids you take a whole semester to take The perfect photo and then you guys just take as many photos as you can and the ones

that take as many photos they can wind up getting the perfect photos because if you just keep trying you'll kind of you know you'll strike P once in a while okay uh Seth Goden talks about this and his work he says just ship it read Seth Goden he's awesome and so on and so forth okay so anyway so I realized that now why was why did I basically in effect bankrupt every other Company because of scale social media provided scale I was laugh at and derided by the other companies they're like Owen's an idiot he's

just releasing all his products on YouTube what a [ __ ] and I did have to grit my teeth and make less money for a long time I made less money than them for a long time while I did that but I knew the inevitability of it right there's just a certain inevitability you can see the trajectory I knew 2020 would eventually happen you Could see the trajectory if people are more and more derp 2020 had it to happen because there's a trajectory there's a momentum it has to happen just look at the unfolding see

the trajectory and it'll happen so anyway anyway so look the it's depressing but anyway look so then what you have is because I'm just thinking about our current trajectory but anyway so then basically what you have is uh um with social media a a highlevel guy is In the DMS of all these girls okay like go out ask all the girls how many of them are dming with tiger ask them that how many of you got a direct message from tiger and it's like half of every nightclub did TAA personally DM them what happened he

has a probably someone from a third world country just you know he pays a dollar an hour just pumping it in right he like this is awesome okay so what's going on is that they're they're At scale okay and what's going okay probably a couple of my female friends in here like I wasn't talking to Ty God damn it right and so so what's happening I'm just kidding so then so what's happening is um I I know cuz I have friends that are celebrities that do this so what's happening is they all think that they're

talking to some world famous celebr so not going to so they're not going to take an average guy then the then add to the fact that the Average guy is weirder more spaced out more creepy than ever now here's the other part that I didn't even go to and this is the really bad part when that winner effect when that brain neurochemistry shuts down far enough and that person is and that guy is completely shut down that's where you see the really weird stuff and I can tell you cuz I've dated a lot of hot

women you see some really weird creepy stuff because I will be dating a Beautiful woman and we'll go out to the club and guys will literally just grab at them in the most disgusting [ __ ] places and you see this and and like I've gone up to some of these guys and go like I just want to know what you got out of that like what do you like let let's just scratch the fact that you just did that help me to even understand what you got out of that because I don't think you

can feel much through someone's genes you know what I'm saying Right like if you just go H like that like I don't think you can feel anything so I know that you didn't get any pleasure out of that so you're literally risking getting yourself in trouble you're making someone else upset what do you get out of that and here's what I think they get I think that when a guy gets so creeped out that he's so rejected and beaten down and creeped out and just like absolutely has no hope and demoralized and his winter effect

just Completely shuts down I think those guys are [ __ ] dangerous that is what I honestly [ __ ] think I think that they are dangerous and so now what you have is you're now creating a world where you've got a bunch of these dudes because they're now getting energy from creeping people out like that's their version of a good of a good night and you've got and and that's what's out there which then further reinforce and every girl like have you ever had guys Just do super creepy [ __ ] on you yeah

like how creepy like super creepy yeah like is is what I'm like I've never even asked her like weird stuff like even like doing weird dances trying to take the shirt off or even trying to grab me pull me away stuff like that all this stuff okay so this is this is kind of ongoing for you and your friends well not anymore but sure okay but was it one point yeah a little bit okay got it cuz you don't go out as much now or what Happened no I just um I don't know it's just

my energy going to change your energy change okay well that's good okay so the point being is that uh she experienced that for many years she's had a shifted energy but you see where I'm getting at with this okay what it actually might be is that even those guys gave up could even be that but what I'm getting at here is this is the phenomenon that you're seeing and what the whole like marriage thing did back In the day where it was like culturally normal that one guy would get married to one girl is it

prevented that [ __ ] okay it prevented that [ __ ] so it was preventing this whole [ __ ] Dynamic but Mother Nature finds a way and you know the way that we were back in nature for being honest if you look at every single mammal species he usually had like you know the one mammal and then he had the group of the females right and so nature finds a way so we Kind of found a way back to that and a lot of these shifts that you've seen in recent years was nature finding

a way to go back to the default basically of how it was but now what you're going to see is more young men being raised without fathers is going to be super it's going to become the norm how many of you guys in this room um we're raised in single parent households by the way put your hand up if that's this room okay well that's so that's already There and that's going to go up more and more and more okay now let's then Circle back to the business and money part so now you've got a

guy in a derb state the guy's in a freaking derb State and then you know I'll come up here and and this is like kind of where this came about for me right so I'll come up here and look over the course of this weekend I will give you piles of instructions on social skills on business spiritual growth I mean this is going to be an Amazing amazing weekend guys really good you have no idea how great this is going to be it's going to be so awesome right and I'll show you all this stuff

but I'll tell you where like I hit a bit of a breaking point for myself and here's what it was okay I had a I had a Breaking Point with this so I spent my whole adult life making the best content that I can my goal being to leave behind a legacy after I'm dead so that you know because I studied this for years and Years and years other people could see it and they could curate it or you know there could be like you could make AIS out of my personality or do whatever the

[ __ ] [ __ ] weird [ __ ] they're going to do and I'm dead Okay so right that'll they'll do it to you all too and stuff like that it's just going to be AI everywhere so pretty much what you have is like that's sort of what I was building right but what I began to realize over time was the only people That I actually saw that were getting results from my paid clients and now it's cuz they actually invested but for the vast majority of people that I saw I show them things

they're not listening so for example like and I keep bring you're like man this is not my day today but I'm sure you you seem to be taking it well he's taking this amazing give a hand for taking the brow beating of the Millennium so but when I would see like say that I'm Say that we're talking right and I'm talking about it and then you get up and and you're like a couple sets behind well the funny thing is you guys have watched me do vocal training videos for years right and I'll bring people

up to the front and I'll go hey and then I'll say now's your go hey and we'll do this whole little song and dance that we do right that's our little song and dance that we do around here and we do it all the time right so we go do that and what I found was like Jeff would always you guys know my buddy Jeff right we work together so Jeff he would always see me do this every single seminar where I bring people up to the front and he's like ohen are we really going

to do this again we have so many videos about this why are we doing this again I go Jeff watch and you bring people up and it doesn't matter that you've seen 20 freaking videos about it and and and Every video looks the same I walk up I go hey and then the person walks up and then they go hey and then I go no no no do hey okay one war up it's first speech of a big weekend and then they go right they do that right and I'm like yo you know that you're

that guy you know that you've seen this like I know that you know that you're that guy right now so if you watched 30 to 40 videos of this and how this plays out how did you walk up here and do the thing that you saw 30 Or 40 times like how did that happen human beings are meant to learn from the experience of other human beings we're learning machines so how did how did that happen and what I began to realize was wait a minute if I'm making long 3-hour videos Phil loaded with instructions

and they can't even get down hey they're not even getting that then what does that say about the sa of the world and what does that even say about there even being any point to me Making this content and then I start realiz wait a minute I'm 45 when I was a kid I would read books like ulyses by James Joyce who he's read ulyses by James Joyce yeah only raid as the top book of all time but okay um maybe alas shrug any he read Al shrug that's it you know what I'm saying right

so when when when I was young what you did was you picked these big brick books and then you force yourself to read them And you be and you'd feel yourself saying I kind of want to take a nap you go no Owen don't take a nap build your concentration get it done and you and it would force you to get it done um you know you say okay like this book is hard I don't understand what's being said there's many interpretations so then look you guys will laugh at this before the internet I had

something called a library okay okay and what I would do is I would go to the otta U Campus Library I would sneak in okay this is my version of being bad is I would sneak in I would sneak I would I would literally do something very very bad and I would sneak in the library and I would pull piles of interpretive texts to understand the book I'm reading and then I'd sit there until way late at night until they shut down the library on midnight reading interpretive text maybe to understand the significance of a

single paragraph going through the text Okay now this is not that weird it's just weird now that's what people did back then I know this is my version of when I was a boy speech when I was a boy I snuck in the library and then I you know then I I read all the interpreted texts yeah I can't even believe you just watch the the talk Ticky okay I understand how I sound like that so anyway cycle of life so now it's my turn to do that but in effect what that taught you was

you're reading a Very very dense book you'd have to hold that idea in your head you'd be you read the paragraph you hold the idea in your head and you're tired you don't want to think about it and then you're reading contradictory different interpretations of that paragraph and you're getting a broad range of ideas on it and then once you've done that then you kind of understand it maybe you write an essay out of it and then you discuss the essay and it was all this giant exercise in Non dopamine and extended focus and that's

just what you did then if you add to that things like meditation or things like building a business or things like look when I was a kid at had a paper route okay okay so when I was a kid I would have a room literally the size of this room by the way the Penny Saver you'd have about 400 newspapers and you lay them all you this is what I was doing from time I was nine and you would lay them all out so you're a Nine-year-old kid you lay out all the different newspapers you

lay them all out then you have these things called inserts you've got about 15 to 20 of them called 17 and they're slippery and you take one insert and you go boom boom and you just do that you go and put in all the inserts and then you do that to this whole room that's just one insert okay an average insert putting together because they send you the main paper and then they send you the inserts on the Side and they make the kid do it okay it's like child labor so you go do all

that okay it takes you about 3 days in all your spare time and then on the weekend you crawl through the snow and then you go deliver these big thick P newspapers F of inserts you shove it in and you crawl through the snow and you do it and then on the weekend um you also go do collecting so you go to each person you walk up to them and then you try to get them to give you a tip so Back then you know you might get a nickel you might get a dime but

you're trying to get a quarter in Canada we call a looney that's a dollar okay before the tuny don't ask and then basically uh and then do they sell the tuni and the Looney okay all right so okay so then so then what happens is um you know if you get a loony well how do you get that you got to charm and get a little swag going as you're your nine-year-old Swagger with the person That you're doing your collection from so you're like hi there I hope you enjoyed your paper did you like it

and you try to kind of Swag them in to give you a loony then you make more money like that and and I was doing this for years right like that's and then I eventually got a better newspaper I was called The otwa Citizen and then that was only like 30 or 40 papers there were these big thick papers um and you did it more often you did it every single day You got paid a little bit more right and it was super super super boring but you understood that you had to stay present to

the moment through that and if you could say present of the moment through that that is a spiritual practice it makes you more alert and more awake so then you know if you build on that then what happens you start extending your attention span maybe you go to college maybe you don't doesn't matter but you do things that extend your attention Span and then you start building little businesses you take risks in those businesses some Ventures fail some Ventures succeed some make you money some lose you money you try out different things at a slower

scale ideally when you don't have kids like you guys have no idea what it's like having three Hungry Mouse to feed you don't have staff and payroll you don't have expectations you don't have a reputation that you could lose you're Just in your 20s it's like Wide Open Water you can take a risk you can fail it doesn't even matter you go back and live at your parents house I know that sounds bad that's not bad like having kids bad you can take risks when you're younger so you go do all of that and then

you build up your skill sets and then you go make your first couple hundred grand you know and then you take some of that money you flip it and then you make your first couple Mill and then You take that money you flip it you make 10 or 20 or 30 or 50 mil then in that point you can either keep going or do what I did and just not work for 5 years which is pretty much what I did I just stopped working and I just go to national parks and I ski till I

broke my leg and then now I'm here H so that is sort of the way that life is meant to play out and through that process what's supposed to happen is you date different people they mess with you and give you [ __ ] tests and you know heartbreak you and you go through all these heartbreaks and stuff and you get tougher through that that you start to recognize what [ __ ] tests are and then you learn to stabilize your state via horrible breakups and you know people that you loved and would have probably

died for and that cheat on you because you like didn't maintain frame and you're like I would have died for you you just left me because I didn't hold frame I would have Died you're like that's kind of weird that's that's not fair I would have died and I didn't hold frame and you left but it's like bye right and then and then when they leave they're like no but you did this they have like a reason because they don't know what frame is and then you know so you go through that a bunch of

times and then you're looking for like your mother's love then you realize that you already had a mom you don't need another one you already had one She's saving that Mother's love for her kids so you go through okay so stop being a [ __ ] about it so then you go through that process then you learn to pass [ __ ] test you learn to go into different environments like Social Circles and into different clubs and parties you learn to hold your States you learn to maintain States you learn that all this all these

things that you're told are is a [ __ ] lie and that actually half of the LIE is that They want to test to see that if you're smart enough to see through the lie so by the way a lot of things you're being told by someone who you're looking to attract or lies but they're doing that to see that you're smart enough to know that it's a lie right so it's like no no like I just want to be like corded and du du but then you look at like the last five guys and

then those guys corded them but somehow you're supposed to you're being lied to yeah then if you Then if you if you took the if you took the LIE then that means that you're dumb and that means you don't reproduce right so so the thing is is like um and you can Court after but not before so what you know so what happens is this you're you're meant to be able to see through the lies right and so even you even just taking a bad job or you just like believing in 2020 or any of

those things is you failing a collective [ __ ] test you are failing a collective [ __ ] test Right how can they look to men for leadership when collectively we saw what happened in 20120 these are collective [ __ ] tests so what's going on is the women are getting more and more turned off they're getting disgusted the men are getting progressively creepier and creepier and creepier then you're getting more single parent households women are also having kids later which is not necessarily as healthy in some cases and there's this whole entire Pattern that

is going on okay now what a lot of guys do is they think that that problem is going to get solved at the level of complaining about it or at the level of grievance right okay in other words using grievance politics I don't think that you solve that at the level of grievance okay a bunch of ders complaining like you have to have sex with me give me validation like that's [ __ ] disgusting it's not going to happen they not going to do it it goes Against nature it's not going to happen okay it's

just not I'm sorry you're never going to win that way it's not it's not in the cards now I mean I suppose there's a million different things in life that can happen anything could happen I could be wrong but it's not in the immediate cards so where it fundamentally starts with you okay or if you're at home watching this video which of course most people can't even make it this far into the video which is crazy Right by the way before I get to the to my prescriptive points uh because I can't give a societal

prescriptive but I can give an individual prescription um what I also want to say is it really really freaked me out when I began to realize that Society was getting so spaced out that started to freak me out a lot because I started to realize that wait a minute I'm just screaming to an empty room at this point that really really really started to scare me I'm Like wait a minute like I already gave these guys instructions how to get rich why are they not rich yet like me I got the instructions how to get

rich and I just went and did it it was very simple like here's how to get rich just do the thing just do the thing right like my mentor mystery he's like here's how you work socially and then I when I just did it I was I was his top student I just went and did it not cuz I'm so smart I was probably one of the more dumb and Space out students in the room I just had execution I wasn't arrogant enough to think that I could break the rules my mentor told me the

rules I didn't think that I could break the rules and after half a decade of doing it then I started to break the rules and have my own rules but I originally went to a mentor and just did what he told me like why is this that complicated I don't understand but for some people it's just incredibly complicated I don't know just so damn Complicated they call it the Dunning crueger effect it's for people that are dumb think they're smart like yeah my mentor told me this but I'm so smart I'm I'm smart I'll walk

my own path all all true knowledge comes from within because I'm this super narcissistic like gifted Dynamo and all this stuff right yes there's powerful elements of intuition and knowledge and so on and so forth but you also have to learn from outside of yourself right I spent most of my life Reading books you know I just came back from TY Lopez's Crim like what is Ty Lopez called knowledge right knowledge okay let me tell you another thing too it also gets scary when you're you're making hires and I'm making hires on a regular basis

and I'm looking at you in the eye and I'm looking to see if you can hold eye contacts and what you'll see is it's super super super funny right um if you just hold eye contact you'll watch they can't hold eye contact And it's not cuz they're scared of you because they're distracted they don't have the attention that they're like they're they're they're scanning for dopamine like where's the dopamine where's the dopamine they're scanning for it they can't get it right so it's a mess and and what you have in effect is a world that

is highly compliant and great consumers and asleep compliant asleep consumers now the sad part is this would almost be a good System if the Elites at the top of it were super happy like at least if you could just find one guy out of a million who's like this is great I love poisoning the world because my life is awesome but they're even more miserable and apt to suicide most of the elites they're a bunch of their kids are on drugs uh they do all these crazy surgeries they commit suicide it's just pure satanic there's

nothing positive coming out of it in that whole Loop Nothing good is coming out of it so you've got to say no to that system repeat after me just say the word no no louder no louder no okay good I like that okay just say no to that whole system like just say no to it like no I'm not participating in this Dynamic I'm resisting this Dynamic this is not okay drugs are bad and okay all that [ __ ] just don't do it okay I'm telling you don't do it so yeah there there's much

greater things to life look you Might think like getting high is fun you know what I think is fun not working for five years while I just go to Every national park with my kids ski every major ski resort buy literally whatever I want date you know all sorts of amazing people live in giant houses and you know like that's fun not just like medicating your freaking brain [ __ ] sucks okay you want to do the equivalent of a psychedelic you can have your psychedelic Journey it's called go to The Nepali Coast or go

to Alaska go to Denali and it will look as psychedelic as you've ever seen in your [ __ ] life so just always remember anything that is eroding your brain power in any way shape or form just be very very very wary of that okay now okay okay and by the way you can have these things like you can achieve these things in fact I hate to say it look here's the sad part you want to you want to hear the sad part of the whole thing as far as your Money game I'm not happy

about this by the way I'm sad about this but let me just point it out to you if you can't get super rich right now you are the dumbest [ __ ] ever born because you are literally getting you're literally playing an environment let me point out to you this environment you're playing an environment with a dumb down compliant consumer culture population okay so you couldn't get rich in that that's [ __ ] up and then in addition You have the phone spying on everybody gathering all their data to to create list building so you

could literally like back in the day you'd have to have a brick-and-mortar company like you'd have to either rent out or purchase some brick Factory or some brick [ __ ] storage space and then do everything through the mail have all the have all these Goods uh stocked up and things like that I mean it was way harder to make money back then people also had a Spine and didn't just buy as much [ __ ] as they don't need as they do now now everybody's being spyed on on their phone for their Niche ideas

you could just make some Niche Little Company of any kind spread it out there to people to to people via their phone and create content for it build lists out of it and know the fact that they're so spaced out they don't know what [ __ ] planet they're on and they'll buy whatever you put in front of their face and you still Couldn't get money in that in that but paradoxically while it is easier to be successful than it ever has been it's also harder than it's ever been because of the dynamic that we

just covered because of the social conditioning because that is the autopilot that you're stuck in okay so um look when you guys see let me just point out a couple things about me or what you'll see with other instructors okay and I and I'm by far the most Flawed person you ever see I'm not trying to paint myself in in some favorable light but do you guys notice how I gain energy from working anybody here notice that what does that mean if you're one of my competitors if you get tired from working and I gain

energy from working scary okay now do you guys will see how I'm able to just free associate speeches off the Dome like so if you're my competitor what does that mean about your creativity versus My creativity okay so where is this all coming from why did I not get sick for 13 years well that we we can't give medical advice but the point is think about this for a minute okay what is going on why didn't I get in pain when I got injured what is going on okay what's going on guys come on think

about it relasing I just said no to the dynamic we talked about that's it That's all it is I just said no just say no that's it say no no fight back fight back fight fight fight fight back fight fight fight do you understand fight back against that Dynamic that's what that means okay fight back against that Dynamic so uh learn top to bottom the system and how the system is whacking out your [ __ ] brain and why you can't concentrate because if you're not rich already then you know you can't concentrate cuz I

mean think about it Right if you're not rich yet you know it's cuz you can't concentrate I mean unless you're doing a philanthropy or something and and then unless your philanthropy is [ __ ] huge because you can't concentrate right so all these problems you're having are problems of concentration where is that concentration problem happening because you're in that low winner effect right you're in that low winner effect you're in that low mode that low winner effect Your brain like we talked about with you saying is can men and women get married and that's what

the whole damn speech is about that is what I'm saying here as far as like you're you're in that spaced out mode and and the problem is everything is [ __ ] hard in that space out mode everything is difficult in that space out mode so I often joke I say this to to fuckle people that I don't work ever okay it's not that I don't work ever it's that work is so easy for Me in this kind of mode that it's not really work okay I can come in here the next several days I

can be in front of the crowd I can weave together seminars I can run my business this is not hard okay none of this is hard but it's not hard because if you're walking around with with a weight vest on that's hard okay you know you know that you have more intelligence in in there than you realize right so if you're walking around metaphorically with a weight vest On and your shoes are tied and you have a blindfold on well then yeah it's hard to get rich so then what do you do do you just

keep leaving the blindfold on and the weight vest on and your shoe side is that what you do what's the first thing you do take take only two people ENT take take my pH off come on guys what do you do you take yeah okay look my instinct whenever anything with work the first thing that I do whenever I go To work is I look at the conditions and I say what what what is a constant here that we can change so you know if I'm about to say work with a video editor the first

thing that I do is I look at the speed of the computer right and at the time the damn editor has a slow computer that's clunky and they're sitting there and they're doing they're spending triple the amount of time because the computer's not updated or there's a bunch of [ __ ] crap on the Hard drive that they need to delete off and everything's [ __ ] slow then I look at the environment is the environment clean I'm not even a neat freak but I do know that it's a lot easier to work when you're

not in a cluttered environment so I will immediately remove weird smells from the environment or clutter out of the environment I'll clean it off like I'm not even starting working till the room is clean until the air is fresh until The computer's functioning properly and then I then what I do is I create the base situation to where it's relatively easy to get things done and then I proceed to execute from that point but most people I know are so spaced out they don't even know what they're what instruments they're working with and so on

and so forth it's really [ __ ] weird to me so right off the bat the first thing I'm gonna do is I'm gonna eliminate distraction I'm eliminating I'm eliminating things that are slowing us down and so on and so forth but that doesn't just stop at a computer that continues to your mental right so here' be another example okay all right so let's say look this is a problem somebody that's had in relationships okay so if I'm in a relationship with a girl that I really love I just love her to death right you

know like you you know how it is for a man you love a girl you jump in front of a [ __ ] car for Her right but I'll be in a relationship and then the girls just [ __ ] bitching and moaning all the time right they don't start like that they get like that like a year and a half deep okay they're Bing and moaning right a immediately my brain what is my brain built to do for a woman to protect her to provide resources for her to create a good environment for her

to maybe envirment to have a kid well that means that my goal is to remove the weeds to remove The disruptions to remove the poison to clear the castle walls of enemies to get the inside of the castle wall safe she manages the inside of the castle wall Owen manages the the brutes outside the castle wall and she's never meant to know when you came back from the metaphorical battle of against all these [ __ ] Orcs And you just went and [ __ ] metaphorically killed everything and she's inside that castle wall she's never

meant to know but then she becomes The damn orc right you know right and you're like baby I love you you become the [ __ ] orc right and and what she's not understanding is like I am I'm like an AI robot that is just there to remove distraction and to remove heavy energy and negativity and all that I want is for my brain to be clear so that I can focus so that I can get done what I need to get done so that I can protect my friends so that I can get raises

for my staff so that I could do free events Like this so that I can do lowcost trainings and so that my kids can grow up properly and so everybody can do everything that's how my brain works so immediately I am removing annoying people annoying girls annoying computers annoying mess drugs are out processed foods out it's all out okay it's all out because the world is too harsh and competitive to be playing with all those weird uh ball and chains on you you can't you're not going to win like that You are very very very

very arrogant thinking that you're going to build a multi-million dollar business with a [ __ ] girlfriend you're not or if you're a girl the [ __ ] boyfriend you're not or same size you're not they're not going to let you it's not going to happen okay it's not going to occur you're not going to smoke a bunch of weed and get super rich like Snoop okay yes he did it you're not Snoop it's not going to happen so okay so what I'm Trying to get okay yes there's a few other people that did it

it's not going to be you you'll be lucky if you did it without that let alone with it so you want to be removing all the impediments all of them all the weird bad inner game the bad mental paradigms the weird negative energies all that shit's got to go it's gone okay it's all gone get rid of it so when you look at the uh fact that there's no good guys right there very very few good guys Right now is it that the human species like you know like for you you probably go out you're

like man like these guys [ __ ] suck it's not that Humanity just produces [ __ ] guys that's not what like you know your species it's not all [ __ ] by the way what's happening is that you're in a cesspool of negative social conditioning and [ __ ] up dynamics that are occurring that are shutting down your brain but here's the thing while that may piss you off look collectively Do we need to fix that somehow sure I don't know how I don't have the answer to that but what I can tell you

is that while a collective remedy is very tough I probably you know decades away from that an individual remedy you are 10 days away from that okay so you're a decade away from a collective remedy and you're like H how do we change all this like how do I change it you personally don't need to change it uh we should probably do something collectively about This um things have to change bad real bad but you as an individual can fix this in 10 days you could probably fix this by the end of the event this

weekend if you actually concentrated on it okay so how would you go about fixing this well let's bring it back let's kind of circle back a little bit to what it was that we talked about earlier the mind in effect think of how you get when you got to a bar club and it just is awesome that night think about that okay That's okay look look up Robert spolski and his work on baboons the alpha male baboons get sick way less their immune system is working better and their brain is working better the beta male

baboons get sick all the time and their brains aren't working right so if you have a good if you're winning your brain switches on when you're losing your brain switches on off so that's the first thing that we need to understand in this larger Dynamic that's What we have to see there's a larger Dynamic and that's what we have to see then what we have to do is we have to remember I talked earlier I went a little rant about things like getting better socially or getting better in business remember we talked about that okay

so what you want to do there is you want to pick just [ __ ] pick something godamn it pick something okay pick something pick a quest choose your quest okay choose your [ __ ] Quest business Skills social skills maybe you decide that you want to travel the country in a van and you're broke while you do it and you even did it alone but at least it's a freaking Challenge and would actually be hard to do it it would challenge you and it would engage you maybe build a philanthropy maybe get really good

at a creative craft but just do something that demands something of you and then what's going to happen is as you go through this you are going to take wins And you're going to take losses so I I I need you to pick something that engages you in some capacity pick something where it's in the same way that if you lifted we the the weight provides the resistance pick some kind of a quest that provides resistance this is why I get annoyed at the spiritual guys that are like oh like you know never work on

your dating ever and it's like you're just telling them not to go work on something and to pray All day and to pay you it's a scam it's a scam so um so basically what I'm saying is like because you're not Bieber for Bieber it's not a scam Bieber did better getting married okay unlike his mentor Carl the ultimate spiritual pimp look up Carl Lun you got guys will laugh your ass off it's like this ultimate [ __ ] boy like eight pack abs he's got a dick root like Yeah Joe Rogan joked about that

like like literally full on [ __ ] boy and he's like telling Justin Like oh it's bad that you have sex it's bad and then Justin's like oh okay Carl luns and then meanwhile Carl's just out tagging half the town and then he got in trouble it's super super funny he wears the same glasses as me okay I copied my glasses from Bieber's [ __ ] pasture okay yeah for real okay for real just got to copy the ABS and I'm good so yeah so okay so yeah like you like you know shit's [ __

] up when I'm copying the pasture of [ __ ] Bieber For swag okay so like how come no one saw that like you can't have that much swag and like come on bro like anyway so like the second I saw this guy I'm like yeah like come on but anyway he he's just he's just fully optimized now what you do you pick some kind of a thing that gives you resistance could be social skills could be a business anything I don't care what it is but just [ __ ] pick something okay and then

as you pick something it is going To force you to learn how to manage your state it's going to teach you passive State Control it's going to teach you active State control so look here' be like a very very simple example okay let's say that you go out and you and you get rejected when you try to talk to somebody well you can either sit there and stew on that what'll happen is you get rejected and then the next person that you talk to can feel that you're more SP based out more stuck in your

Head and and more cortisol in your system and more stressed so then what happens that the next person rejects you even more then you feel like crap and you probably just want to go home but God forbid you actually had the balls to go try to talk to someone else and they're going to reject you 20 times as hard then the next one's going to reject you 40 times as hard and the next one is going to reject you 60 times as hard and then by the end of it no people here's What will happen

by the end of the night if you're just if you're just stacking up rejections like that people will run away from you as you walk up you'll be like and you'll just see them right my friend is like yes yes I know that Vibe right and like you'll walk up and they'll go like that they'll run away from you and what'll happen is that will take you actively to Rock Bottom now there's two different places that you go from there either a where you go With that would be um you know this sucks you they

they they always say you have to get bitter or better say bitter or better bit or better okay so you either so you either become like some angry like incel guy or you say okay well why did I let some cuddly little cute creature demolish me like this okay like how come I got demolished you know right like just some cute little cuddly little creature just destroyed my entire self-esteem so if you have that kind of Epiphany of like wait a minute like that's that's kind of like stupid then you could say to yourself well

how can I actively manage my state and that could come from things like reframing so you might say look every single time that I say hi to somebody I rate that th out of 10 and then I say well why is that a th000 out of 10 we say a th000 out of 10 because if we say it's a s out of 10 or eight out of 10 you're rating it logically so instead what you do is you Rate it illogically you say th out of 10 but why is it th 10 because who the

[ __ ] would have the balls to do that so in other words the fact that you even have the courage to do it when most other people wouldn't and you talk to someone now you gave yourself some props you actually give yourself a pat on the back you say yo this is pretty cool that I actually did this like I like this I actually did this okay so that's in effect uh another thing that you could Do that will help you a lot okay so you're reframing it you're shifting your focus you're actively controlling

your focus now the example that I always give if you believe that you can't control your folks like that no you can okay and I'll tell you why because every single one of you guys in here is a total wanker and every single one of you guys here is whacked off in the probably the last 48 hours for sure now if you took Your own male hand you took your hand and you just started doing this and you're and you would and you literally believe that you're having sex to the point that your your hand

of a man made you so believe that you're having sex that you spontaneously ejaculated all over your stomach then if that just happened that you better believe you can control your [ __ ] State okay you are a if you like to whack off you are a state control Master Okay this is actually why women should not use vibrators in a lot of cases by the way you know why it untrain them on how to control their orgasm because it's too easy right it's actually it's actually a skill to be able to use your hand

until you [ __ ] bust a nut that's a real skill like that's real sayfe control I'm sarting to tell you yeah it's a little wanky time right that's real [ __ ] sayfe control you got to be a master of sayfe control To whack off like to actively learn how to just make yourself come just using a man's hand like that's not a vagina at all that's nothing like a vagina maybe some cream right but that's not a vagina at all and you're literally imagining you know that you're having sex with your neighbor and

you're just like doing this okay and then and then literally you you you just [ __ ] explode I mean you got some ser serous [ __ ] say control so how did you mentally do that In order to make yourself bust a nut well you did that by looping something in your mind actively because it felt good so in the same way if you're being shut down when you're out and it sucks if you say thousand out of 10 and you do that with the same fervor that you're wanking it well then you'll believe

it you'll say that was good why because I did it because who the [ __ ] would have the balls through that you find it funny so that is a mental muscle okay you're Dealing with what's called a mental muscle right there that's called State control from that basic element of State Control watch this basic pattern think of it like a loop okay so you have belief systems you know this guy wanks are good I can just feel I feel it yeah just finished good [ __ ] [Laughter] brother right back at you good think

I take a lot of herbs okay so so the point being is this okay so it's uh yeah he Just has a big smile on his face that's like but okay so the thing is like if you can if you can literally control yourself to jerk off you can control your state so it goes like this under say the words beliefs beliefs so your beliefs would be things like say what you believe about the world are you a cool guy like am I cool am I high status and so on so forth then you should

now do we believe what we see or do we see what we believe see what we believe okay So our R finds ways to rationalize it okay so for example like I was talking to Antonio Brown earlier today was at uh Ty Lopez's house and then and ab was there if you guys know that very famous football player and I asked AB I said hey this in Tai's podcast I said I said Hey how do you manage the pain uh that you experience when you're uh you know playing football right he's been like destroyed and

he basically just said like oh you know man like you know I got Like a good shf during the summer and you know he get my body right okay so in other words like this guy is completely disassociated from the fact that he has been through more physical pain than this entire room combined a thousand times over okay like you think my leg injury would be bad this guy is getting pummeled by people that hit him like a Mac Truck several times a night so the amount of pain that he's been through is horrible but

AB Antonio Brown he doesn't Acknowledge it he has no acknowledgment of that pain he just he just he doesn't even accept the premise that he's in pain in the first place that was actually the hidden quality of ab's answer is that he's not even aw he's somewhat aware that he's in pain but not but not not as much as he should be right it's more like oh you know yeah we we take a lot of pain so you know you got to you got to get right in the summer and I'm just like okay like

you You're like being hit by like a Mac Truck and like that's your answer like that's your answer is like you know a gluten-free diets that's that's L everybody thinks helping with pain management but the the the real gem in ab's response which was beautiful was he doesn't even accept the premise so if you think that you're a cool guy it's like anything other than being a cool guy if you believe that you don't even accept the premise that You're not so then what's going to happen is you're going to um your your focus is

going to be on things that show that you're cool because you don't accept the premise that you're not what that is going to do is going to change your behavior so again you have beliefs repeat after me beliefs focus focus Behavior okay you might call that physiology say physiology physiology so it's how that's showing up in your behavior okay so I'm sitting here and I'm running the room and imagine the amount of confidence that it takes to walk up no prep running a room now I've done this when my company's smashing it you know we

just happen to be coming off Black Friday right now so we're doing pretty good but you know but you know my life's going pretty good right now but so so this is a little bit easier right it's easier for me to like for me to come in right now life's going good it's not really that hard but I got to tell You how many times I have come up on stages like this where we're having Financial issues our payment processes are shutting down uh you know some guy is stuck in another country and he just

got devil's breath in [ __ ] Columbia you know I mean these are all things that have happened to me and things way worse than this if you remember 2014 okay so way way way worse St than this so given that I've been through that okay given that I've had those Experiences I still have to go up on stage I've still got to get up there and go crush it I don't have a choice so what do you think happens when I walk into a room like this and I'm walking in and maybe the business

would be going bad maybe maybe a girl that I love dearly just broke up with me or you know maybe there's some kind of weird uh you know social change have to delete all my videos or you know whatever else I I still did a free tour the week I Deleted my videos by the way it's in Charlotte it sucked okay the whole room was mad at me like oh and what' you do you know I can't even explain it to them because that's how bad it's got so you know I still had to go

up and do a free tour and I killed it I killed that free tour I could I could uh show you that free tour it an awesome free tour so you know that's what I'm saying is you have to learn how to control your state not just when things are good but also when Things are bad so if right now we're in this kind of murky soup that I'm talking about here where Society is a mess you still have to actively learn to control your state but where are you going to learn how to do

that by being celibate for God by being not greedy and saying oh I I believe I don't care about money will that do it like is this where you're going to learn to control your state are you going to learn to control your state just staring at a wall where Are you and and by the way I'm a meditator I'm just saying it's not all that I do I believe in things like Vasa and extended meditation Retreats because it provides context but you want to put that growth to the test in real life so if

right now you're sitting here and you feel beat down and spaced out like say you know you come up here and you know ask a little question and the host of the event just won't stop picking on you and so on and so forth okay we're going To have a big transformation video with him okay so what you're going to see is um what happens is you got to say to yourself well how do I actively control my state like what is the methodology that I use to control my state and so here so again

like I don't have a larger social prescription for what to do about this big topic that I raised here this big CAD of worms that I delved into that I'm not even sure if I can even post this video because just basic basic Discussion about a social Trend you get in trouble for but the point being is like I have to have to reflect on that but the point being is um because you know you post it but then that'll be the last video you ever post right so it's was it worth it you know

so it's just it's kind of frustrating right that's how bad the social conditioning is right now so if uh and by the way saying that guys have a hard time is not taking away from women's issues or what women have Been through just different people go through different stuff so in effect what you have is you're in this kind of murky social conditioning that's kind of like a permanent version of being rejected at the bar club that's what's happening you're in this Perman version of that okay like that rejection that you took when you're out

you're in a permanent state of that it's a permanent permanent state of that so then how do you break yourself out the same way that You shake yourself out of a bad night it's the exact same way that's how you shake yourself out of it so you you reflect on your underlying beliefs then you change what you focus on which then changes your behavior and then so you have belief of yourself what you focus on the behavior that that manifests that comes out of you as a self-filling prophecy then what happens you start getting better

responses because you're doing better because you're acting Better because you're focusing better because you believe better then as you're getting better responses that creates conf confirmation of that initial belief and now you have evidence you have legs for the belief set to stand on of the table it's like a table of a belief set there's legs in it now so the problem is that if you have bad beliefs about yourself then what's going on is oh crap I can't you know I believe all these bad things about myself I go Talk to someone they shut

me down I can't get a job I'm too spaced out to build a business people think I'm creepy and then what's that doing that's a negative Loop that you're in so guys have to learn to break out that Loop look women have that have their own issues and somebody or even have overlap with with guys and they have to use those kind of of tools as well but I'm just talking to you guys here so you've got to actively break that which means That you've got to get very very very clear this is who I

am then you've got to say here's what I'm focusing on in myself then you've got to actually begin to manifest better Behavior then what happens you start creating a self-fulfilling prophecy and to actually get some evidence for these hoyy toyy beliefs that you have about yourself while by the way accepting some degree of negative feedback and having mentors so that as you still believe those good Things about yourself part of that ident is getting feedback at having mentors so now you're switching that whole entire Dynamic and if you could just do that you would pass

the collective [ __ ] test okay you guys want to pass the collective [ __ ] test okay good so that that's sort of the gist of what I see happening and by the way even uh movies and which was originally A Book Like Fight Club it's like you see some male model guy with kind of like a weird body Type right it's this like like it's not a normal man's body type and then they just post that all over the place and he's wearing a certain brand and then your brain says wait I can't

have a winner effect unless I wear that brand or unless I have that lifestyle or unless I look like that and the problem is too A lot of the men's content now encourages you to achieve that lifestyle before you even have the confidence which is wrong okay which is wrong okay How do I know because I went out in a wheelchair I had a great dating life in a wheelchair so if I could do that in a wheelchair at age 45 I don't think you have to have the perfect lifestyle to be good at dating

but they'll tell you no you got to have the money and the car and the lifestyle and all this that's not true a good point they might say is that you could be so incredibly successful in dating while not having that stuff that it might distract you From making money that you'll be so successful at dating that it will distract you from making money and dating success is not everything that would be true that would actually be accurate it's not oh you can't get success dating when you're a bit of a scrub no you can

be a very cocky scrub with swag and have so much success that you never stop being a scrub because you're in a Honey Trap of non-stop validation but it's not that you Couldn't have success I'm sarting to tell you okay I know that because everybody had train get success so that's crazy and I see it every weekend I and it's insane that people say that so it's about having the mental strength to break through that [ __ ] test and look the truth is when you have a significant other that testing is going to continue

because they when you have significant other sometimes they're going to complain about [ __ ] that is stupid but Sometimes they're going to complain about [ __ ] that is smart and sometimes they're going to complain about [ __ ] that is a [ __ ] test so sometimes the person is just [ __ ] stupid and they're complaining about [ __ ] that's just dumb sometimes they're complaining about things that are actually real legitimate issues that have to be addressed but sometimes it's just a [ __ ] test they were they are going to

[ __ ] test you for the rest of your life Because they need to see that you're strong enough to mate with because you're putting your Offspring in them whe whether you actually do it literally or metaphorically through the act of hooking up so they are going to test you forever so if you can't pass this little societal [ __ ] test they don't trust you they don't trust you with good reason so as much as guys will talk about how women have gone off the rails guys have also gone off the rails guys have

also Gone off the rails guys have also gone off the rails guys have forgotten even who they are so it it's both sides of it right so what's going to happen is you're going to see population going to go way down and there's going to be a birth crisis and that's what's going to actually happen okay there's going to be a birth crisis cuz the other side of this we also have abortion right so you're going to see a birth crisis and you're going To see population going down and down and down because the girls

are just going to go for like the same one guy from Bumble they're going to use birth control if they get pregnant they're going to get an abortion and then the kids that do come around most are not going to have two parent households and you're basically going to have a bunch of kids that were raised into one parent household at a at a sub uh sub sustaining birth control rate happen and Then they're not going to be able to take care of the older people right and then you're going to have to bring in

people from other countries perhaps to sustain it but that's pretty much what's going to happen Okay so these are the trends that you're seeing now this is what you're a part of but yet I want to be very very clear here anybody who tells me that they're mad at this what I would tell you is are you mad about poverty in Africa like do you wake up every day super pissed about poverty in Africa like really tangibly angry every day why are you not angry angry about that every day CU that's probably worse than this

problem why are you not if you're being honest why are you not tangibly really pissed like why is that not completely and utterly unacceptable to you the amount of poverty that you see in certain poor parts of the world and that that you wake up every day Shrieking and anger about it how come you're not pissed about it it doesn't affect you right you know what else doesn't affect you this whole dynamic because you have me it's true does that affect you no the third world stuff yeah like that people even clap for that but

but it's true it's because you have me it's actually true and people like me who teach this stuff so in I was I was just [ __ ] with you'all but you guys clap for that so I think That's [ __ ] great so the point is that is that's going to be like a a joke but thank you so that's great I'm taking it further confirmation bias in the owen Loop that I'm cool so so in other words um yeah you have guys that that are showing you this stuff so look it's it should

this does not affect you because you have the knowledge okay because you have an understanding like look you shouldn't even want it to be easier because it's not even that hard it's Like the sad truth is most guys rolled over with bare minimum resistance they really did like like this is such a low amount of resistance to actively beat you could beat this in such a a short period of time you have no idea what would it look again like let's just review this okay here's basically how this will play out and you guys will

have this weekend work on this pick some kind of a project that will challenge you that could be a business that could Be maybe getting really good as a Lynch pin within your job that could be a philanthropy that could be that you just decide to say [ __ ] it all and you're going to go van life and just go see the whole country in a van which by the way I'm I'm not opposed that at all I think that's super badass like I would love if a couple people in here were like you

know what I'm going to save up like just you know just enough cash and you did all the math on it with with some buffer Too you got to have some buffer in there and then I'm just going to go live in a van I'm going to go travel the country that's so much better than just being a derper being middle class that'd be a great experience you probably learn a lot from it come back you get rich and you come back so I want you to just pick something okay whether it's a trip of

the country whether it's international trip whether it's a a philanthropy whether it's a a piece of art you want To make whether it's starting a social media profile but just pick freaking something okay pick something that challenges you in business or work or profession or expansion or creativity then pick a goal socially okay I want to get very very very good socially why because building up your skills socially the fact that you go out to a social Gathering and it forces you to actually um control your state that means that for two or three years

you would go to Social Gatherings and you would learn to control your state and if you did that you would have a lot of ups and downs but you'd learn to control your state and here's the cool part on one end of the spectrum if you have super super super creepy there's always another end of any spectrum and on the other end of that Spectrum you have super super super attractive and cool so again if you learn to control your state you might go from being super creepy less creepy Relatively neutral somewhat actually attracting people

to million out of 10 attracted and you'll see that when you go out and you'll start seeing oh well here's where I suck and here's where I'm good just make sure that you're talking to people in a way that is win-win and it's not bugging anybody okay someone doesn't want to talk just hey have a good night you know don't be pursuing people don't want to talk to you so now go do that go to social Gatherings work On your social skills work on your confidence work on your state control and there's two different forms

of State Control you have active State Control say that active State control and Baseline state so you have so you're and here's what you'll find is if you can kind of spike your state using active State Control when you go out your Baseline kind of follows that about 6 months later so whatever you can kind of Spike Yourself up to on like a rager awesome night sober you're and but again alcohol kills this whole process that's why I hate alcohol just you just learn nothing uh then whatever you can Spike yourself up to that'll be

Baseline for you in half a year or two a year and then you know you'll do that for like 10 years it keep spiking up your state it expands your range of how much you're uh it's kind of like how much light you can absorb I guess like it's almost like how Much spiritual light your circuitry can even absorb you'll see that it's super awesome okay so do that have something have something social maybe have something spiritual go to things like Vasa Retreats or do meditation practice and just continue to work on that also active

study getting mentors reading books things like that actively be doing those things actively be building up your body's uh you know the micronutrients in your body and the Nutrition in your body and your immune system and so on and so forth right like actively build be building up your natur Natural Health and your natural reserves of energy that you have be actively building those in your system so that way what's going to H here's what's going to wind up happening okay at the end of this process you're going to be freaking rich as hell you're

going to have more money you can spend you're going to be doing something you think is Cool as a job that you like your dating life and social life will be off the charts your spiritual life will provide a foundation for all that you're not just going to stop at spirituality but it will provide a foundation and larger context for all of that you're going to travel more you're going to see more of the world and you're going to laugh more you're going to be in a better mood you're going to have fun you're going

to have great you're going to you're going To be in the best health that you could possibly be in whatever that is for you you're going to feel great and life will be your oyster and then from there to be honest I'm going to tell you what winds up happening it's like I can't get rid of your problems I can just increase the quality of your problems then you go from being the creepy derper that can't get a girlfriend and you go to the opposite of that where maybe you're dating a bunch of people and

you're Afraid of whose feelings you're going to hurt and you're going to have and that you're going to go the opposite problem you're going to be the person where like literally if you were to get a girlfriend you're going to have to make like a lot of phone calls to other people that you're saying hey like we're not continuing and they're going to be really really really hurt by that you're going to hurt people's feelings and they might even behave a bit creepy in that Process so you end up being the person on the receiving

end of the creepy of the creepy energy and the reason why that is is because when people are kind of just like I guess you might say like disconnected from God or disconnected from their winter effect or disconnected from Source or disconnected from their spirituality and somebody else has so much more light than they do they will chase that light like a moth to a flame they just want to be near it and so if You keep amplifying that in yourself other people will just want to be near it and then funny enough you might

have someone that you're dating who actually is really really cool but your light is so much brighter than theirs even though they're super cool but you've just put so much work on it and they haven't and all that they have is just a bunch of simps validating them and their light is a bunch of simps but your light is actually being buil out so much deeper Then what winds up happening is they start acting creepy on you they start sending you the long detailed text messages and you know getting needy and you know accusing you

of things and like like saying that you're not like loving enough I mean you know things like that right and and all this kind of stuff and you they start to get creepy so you'll watch this person who's in super high demand who all these people like and they flip and you're like damn you're Kind of creepy so that's what I'm saying and that's what I think so for girls who don't get it like why guys are creepy it's like hey we can all be creepy right and it's like you know you're sourcing your spiritual

energy from simps you know from Instagram and so on so forth and and and from you know being in a in a Herm with some guy that won't even commit but you're telling yourself he's your boyfriend and you're sourcing From that that's not healthy for you and so the thing is is like that's just unhealthy Dynamic for all involved but what happens is you get on the other side of that Dynamic to where you become the one that people chase okay but look in Truth by that point you will be so far past it you

will be be so far past dating but but again it's always people that suck at dating that say they're past dating right they're always like I'm so far past I'm like don't know how To say hi to somebody but you know you'll be so far past it that you will effortlessly have a have a crazy social life crazy dating life like all that stuff will be effortless it'll be a joke you'll be so far past money because you'll know how to make it like it's a joke um you know your health will be in in

Peak shape you're in great condition um you'll be having fun you'll be you'll have had all the different like you know you'll every little stimulating thing Like living in a mansion or having the best watches or jewelry or cars or things like that you'll have all that and then you'll be like this is kind of dumb but it's a different kind of dumb because it's more like a Justin Bieber kind of dumb where the renunciation does have meaning unlike someone who's just incapable of getting it because they don't know how and they're scared and they're

lazy and they're in a derp State and what'll happen is then that stuff Will will become deprioritized as you get older but that'll be probably by your 40s or 50s okay after a lifetime of dragons and then what's going to wind up happening is then you're going to care more about contribution and and what will happen is you won't even care about your own life that much you're like you know what all human beings die eventually my life is not that significant and I want to spend my life actually adding value and really Teaching people

how to say no teaching you know I want to spend my life waking people up and helping to break them out of this Dynamic but not breaking them out of the dynamic by telling them to meditate in my Asom and go you know clean my bathroom or something like they do in these places right but in but instead by actually showing people how to be phenomenally phenomenally successful and if you give them Frameworks for that and then you hold Them accountable to that and you can help them to be successful hopefully they can then move

from really because so many of these lower level based thrives are fundamentally copes right there's a line between coping and thriving and all the things you know the money the dating Health all that stuff that's more within the realm of getting coping down right once you have that you cross a line now you're moving into thriving which is like can you create Your your ultimate creative Masterpiece you know can you can you build your legacy um can you go reach really high spiritual Heights that you never thought that you could of self-awareness and understanding of

your role in this brief life and you know things like that right so um there's sort of an old uh it's an old quote I don't remember but it was I think it was John Adams where he was like you know we do War so that our so that our children can do uh you know Carpentry and and our children will do carpentry so our grandchildren could do poetry well I've fudg that quote but you get the idea of it right well go build this now because that will create a framework for you to hit

those higher paradigms later in life so I'm a big big big fan of those higher paradigms higher spiritual paradigms all these higher paradigms but here's what I notice I notice that some of the worst people that should never be looking at this Stuff wind up looking at it right because for every guy that doesn't want to figure out how to build an internet funnel to pay his bills and so that his kids could actually have some organic food that guy wants to go right to the higher level paradigms it's like but your kids can't even

eat food without pesticide yeah but none of that matters it's all some Sor bro and uh I just want to like live in the now or something you know right and it's like you're not That's not for you bro that's not you like you can't even and and what I find is that a lot of the people that are like that I can't leave my wallet on the on the counter at my house when they're there you know what I'm saying you don't want to leave your wallet out when those guys go there you got

to hide your wallet you got to hide the valuables CU they'll go because because what's happened is they actually do want stuff but they have they have suppressed that Desire to have some material things so bad with the spiritual stuff that they've disowned that desire and then you just come in and they sto your wallet I remember I I've joked about this a bunch of times in my seminars I called it a harvest moon in Nepal Coast you guys remember that joke right it's like you know I go to Nepal Coast you see these hippies

they're like you're like hey what's your name bro they're like they're like Harvest Moon you're Like huh right and you're like where you from and they're like we're all in the Universe spinning through space man and you're like okay you know then you're like well good to meet you and your mind you're like what's your name Steve like who who the [ __ ] are you right then you go to bed you wake up your food's gone you're like where's my [ __ ] where my my [ __ ] food you know right and then

you go over to harvest moons he's like right and you're like why'd you steal my Granola bar Harvest Moon we're all in the universe right you don't need this right you're above the you're above the whole thing right it's like guys that say like oh I don't care about dating you know you can't leave your girlfriend around that guy you that guy that says he doesn't care about dating or sex you can never leave your girlfriend around that guy oh I mean on the low end he's going to say oh he's a player and I

love you for real And he doesn't really love you and you should be with me that's on the low end of what that guy's going to do on the high end he might get a little handsy a little handsy to say the least by the way to say the least so it's always the person who says oh I don't care about sex I don't care about money I don't care about anything that's the person that you should trust the least okay so when I tell you like I don't care about money what I mean is

I have money And what I mean is I know how to make money and it's not something top of mind I'm not saying like if I have no money at all my children can't eat food I don't care about money that's just called a liar so you know it's like uh that's a disowned need okay that's a need so it's okay to own your needs but you have to own your needs in a healthy way right so the creeper who gets a little handsy with the girl at the club he has the same need that

a cool guy has But the creeper is demoralized and in like a satanic derp state so that's how it manifests versus the cool guy is like wait a minute I need to I need to like defuse that and I I need to uh to own that desire and then work on my sense of humor and work on my confidence and work on my social skills and have like a cool party to invite people to and maybe work on my social media and work on how to how to control my own energy and find my own

light so I have light to give to Somebody else right they're they're they both have a need one handles it in a toxic way the other handles it in a healthy way right but just getting rid of a need that's not good okay so what I'd say to you is have strategies to handle those needs like like have a very very very good understanding of money okay spend your 20s and 30s studying marketing studying product development studying discipline studying focus and so on and so forth okay Learning about uh social media marketing I'd recommend that

you learn to become a public speaker uh because there's a lot of easy money right now in just being uh uh person having a personal brand okay learn learn about uh sales copyrighting things like that then from there i' recommend that you study spirituality and don't study it as a way to hide from work study as a way to enhance work but study spirituality so you know a basic level book would be the power now by a Carle my favorite book is the Bible but I actually think that for a lot of people it's too

advanced like I I actually believe that this is hyper hyper hyper very esoteric very Advanced text that is so far past most people's heads they don't have a context even understand they go they jump right into it and I want people to read the Bible but it's just it's it's a lot to take in okay it's a lot to take in without a without some base knowledge um but I Still recommend reading it and then from there again like extensive knowledge of nutrition make sure you have very very extensive knowledge of nutrition so your mind

can focus so you're not getting sick all the time so on and so forth make sure that you understand that well make sure you understand sleep hygiene and sleep so and so forth okay um you you want to even like I mean this sounds a bit crazy but like I made sure that I just understood the whole country like I Took half a decade to just drive the country I mean that's just called an understanding like you should know where everything is and where the fun stuff is and how to go have fun and so

on and so forth like explore your city properly explore where the venues are continue to build your knowledge out and it's like I said you know now imagine a guy doing that and if you're a woman right imagine that you're a woman and you met you've met a guy who um creates his own Spiritual light isn't trying to suck off of yours okay so you you feel that you're gaining energy when you're around him the guy has also figured out how to get money down not because you're a gold digger but because you just don't

want to feel like yeah this man that I'm trusting to lead me you know can't even pay the rent so right and and again like you don't need to be able to do that in order in order to have uh some wild nights but in general I just think it's For your own self-respect so think about that for a minute and then from there um someone who even understands the city or like the city or the country or things like that right you know if you're taking a girl out like do you know the city

like do you know your city do you know places to go or if you don't know it can you go find stuff like quickly right do you have cool friends can you introduce her to other cool people so she feels like she's joining a tribe and There's actually like something there for her like there's an added value there's a point right there's some kind of benefit to it um you know things like frame control and underlying frames that are happening you got to understand that stuff very very well as well okay so if you begin

to get these kind of basic level things down and let's say that we shifted that like you can learn this stuff within a weekend if you focus bigger question is can you focus But in theory if you can focus you can learn it quick and then from there what I would say is um if you as a living example and embodiment of that can do that now you can train that to your sons okay so now your sons get that and they get it via you teaching them but they also get it by observation okay

so by the way I never taught my kids anything at all do you guys remember seeing videos of my son at age 11 running the whole seminar yeah I Didn't teach him that I didn't say here's the public speaking skills okay I gave him about a half an hour of tutorial and then he was able to do it after that so he saw that by observation not okay they replicate what you do they attune to your vibration and so on so forth they attune to your energy field he was able to come and do that

because he's attuned to an energy field where things are easy and not scary so he lives in that that's also Why you want to be near your children and so on and so forth okay so you can individually begin to shift that Dynamic via some effort and here's the best part this is easier than your life now I promise you my life is the easiest of anybody in here I have a very easy life very easy the thing is this life is actually easier if you could just focus so in other words if you can't

can't focus and you ever heard the expression uh if you don't have a plan for your Life somebody else does you ever heard that yeah okay so if you can't focus the plan for your life is to basically be this like bukocki empty shell for the Chinese Communist party to pump Tik toks down your throat and for giant corporations like Black Rock to just pump their garbage down you and drug dealers to pump their garbage down you pesticides and all this other stuff like you are just this giant bukkaki receptacle That's what you actually are

if you want what I really believe I believe that you're a receptical for demons but I'll spare you that rant okay so basically a demon-possessed a demon-possessed [ __ ] receiver who basically just is pumped from every [ __ ] angle of from every demonic [ __ ] source that has something to shove in you you just take it so now you basically just walk like you want to know the real reason why Women think guys are creepy so now so now you just take it you're just like spaced out and you're like oh 2020

okay see in 2 years I go my basement oh oh Owen called me to the front and said to yell oh oh could men and women get married even old talk oh oh I make less than 25,000 a year oh oh I'm scared to talk to a girl at a club oh oh I read the power now and I'm still stuck in my head oh I get a [ __ ] cold four times A year and I get sick oh I've been seen it in the country and I live through my [ __ ] phone

oh oh but at least I have one thing I can [ __ ] masturbate and at least I can I can control my state there and have a big win with a big pile of nut on my [ __ ] stomach thousand out of 10 okay so so that's what I'm getting at is is you can break that cycle okay so that's the conclusion of this spee is my spe each here getting here is you can escape just nutting all Over your stomach and being a receptacle for all this satanic [ __ ] and then

from there what you could do is you can actually totally reverse that course okay totally totally totally totally reverse that course but this is the question I have for you can you guys actually [ __ ] commit to doing this yeah okay no but actually are you just saying yes cuz I'm pumping you are you actually thinking for yourself okay are you actually [ __ ] thinking for yourself do you swear on God do you swear on God do you swear on [ __ ] God okay will you actually do it do you swear on

[ __ ] God on God okay all right well well then give yourself a hand let do the for a segment okay okay good for you