like everyone else i think you feel like you try to do everything and you just do everything badly all the time i think things go in fits and spurts when i first was at facebook i was definitely feeling way unbalanced and you know more worried about not seeing my kids and then i kind of got my feet wet got the teams in place and learned you know what we were doing and now now it feels more in balance and then you know at different points there's a sprint to you know we have a big developer
conference next week there's that sprint so you're working really hard for that and i think getting through those ebbs and flows and knowing that there's something around the corner is really helpful the other thing and it sounds really obvious is you just have to say no you know i had a this woman who i didn't know call me and and she called out of the blue and she kind of said can you have coffee with me once a month to support my career i would love to have coffee with her once a month to support
her career but i can't do that for everyone and so you have to do it more occasionally even the things you'd really love to do you can't do as much as you'd want
