[Music] what's up guys we're back with another video if you are new here my name is sammy and we're the mermaid gang this is where you can come and suspend your disbelief i am your favorite manifestation coach so if you would like for me to help you dissolve whatever's between you and your manifestation go ahead and uh sign up on my site below i have mentioned i'm gonna say it again i'm gonna say it all week i am cutting back on coaching and i'm going to be putting more energy into my vip group um the
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sp videos this is the one for you let's let's talk about you guys trying to force the 3d with your sp specifically why why are you trying to manifest over here and force over here um i mean force like trying to run into them texting them and then reacting when they don't text you back and then at the same time when they don't respond at all or the way that you wanted them to then you react like that's the end-all be-all that's it what are you doing what are you doing so let me give you
let me give you my absolute best advice that will cover 3d advice and what we were normally conditioned to believe my best 3d dating advice to go along with my best manifestation advice when it comes to relationships i have always been very good at relationships okay always i have never been broken up with in my life and i'm about to tell you why i'm going to give you the key for success in the 3d and in manifestation and how to keep the two working for you together so you're manifesting your sp right you've got your
affirmations let's say obviously use whatever he or she whatever it applies to you your your person um he's so in love with me he loves talking to me he texts me constantly he loves me my boyfriend okay where should i say this those are your affirmations or even just one affirmation he loves being my boyfriend he loves being my boyfriend we talk all day every day we'll use those too because that sounds more like what i would do okay he like of course he likes me like he loves being my boyfriend we talk all day
every day those are your affirmations that you're repeating over and over those are your thoughts that you're having you know those are your uh thinking think as if thoughts that you're repeating in your head as if you're telling someone as if this is true as if of course this is how it is why would it be anything else okay you have your affirmations and then in the 3d you're texting him and then you're like oh my god he left me on red great he doesn't like me you can't do that you can't do that you
can't do that here's what you got to do you got your affirmations you're affirming in the 3d guess what you don't give a fuck you don't give a fuck in the 3d because i'm going to tell you humans are conditioned to believe that people want what they can't have so as long as you are chasing him he's not going to be interested in the 3d he's going to show you that he's not interested in the 3d you're going to react it's going to cause more resistance and it's going to be a harder longer process until
you get through all of your self-concept and you get to a point where you have had to work on yourself and control this shit so much that you don't even like him anymore because you've been causing problems in a 3d and you've had to keep problem solving in the 3d we're going to talk about problem solving in a second too there's no need for that take what you are basically already conditioned to believe and make it work for you okay so while you're doing your affirmations consistently you're thinking as if consistency consistently the idea the
idea in your head is that this person loves talking to you and they love being your boyfriend okay in the 3d you need to act like you don't give two fucks about him you don't give a fuck if he never texts you again to him or to her it needs to look like you are not desperate you do not care you don't even think about them because let's be honest the way we're conditioned playing hard to get or whatever you want to call it in the 3d is what gets people's attention when they know that
you're chasing them they are not going to be bothered to do anything to get you because why you're already chasing them you're already desperate for them they know this what do they need to do there's nothing they need to do they already know they're in control stop giving them that control in the 3d in the 3d you literally need to not give a fuck if you see them walk right past them like you did not even notice them don't text them if you're in a situation where the person is a dick to you if they're
being addicted to you and they're saying hey we'll shit to you in text message or whatever the case may be you do not text them back you ignore them and in your mind you'd be affirming he is so fucking obsessed with me like he loves me he loves me so much like he cannot even stay away from me look how much he's texting me i have literally helped someone manifest their person back while their person was being a complete fucking asshole and all she did was in the 3d she was like i don't give a
fuck i don't care i don't care i don't care i don't care just that careless fucking attitude it works in the 3d every single time but in her mind and in your mind you're going to be affirming your affirmations because that's just how things work i understand that i teach manifestation and i understand literally everything is a manifestation yes i do but let's also be very honest about this um we have to be able to manifest and still manage our 3d while we're manifesting i mean that's just common sense so in this case you're really
usually conditioned to believe that people want what they can't have so if you will keep that i don't care attitude your assumption of that of that being effective will work on that person while you're manifesting them to be who you want them to be and also you will not have any resistance because you're not doing things that would cause resistance now you've got this i don't care attitude it's building confidence in you from the 3d and in your self concept and you're doing your affirmations it is literally a win-win situation for you okay as i
was saying you yes we manifest everything yes we're in total control of everything yes we can change every single thing we want but here's the thing we still have assumptions about the 3d and yes we can change them my god yes we can fucking change them but let's be realistic let's make this as easy as possible rather than trying to rewire our entire fucking brain and everything we were ever conditioned to believe why do that unless it comes up and you feel you want to change it let's make this easy we still need to operate
in the best way possible between our 3d and our manifestation you know our mental world and make things as easy as possible because the more the easier it is in the 3d the easier you go ahead and make it in the 3d the easier it will be to keep a good consistent mental diet or to think be able to think as if the easier your circumstances are in the 3d the easier you can make them such as okay i'm going to just act like i don't give a shit because i know that works i know
that if i act like i don't give a shit they're gonna give a shit because they know i'm not desperate for them and i don't care and it's just something that always works when it comes to dating it works every time it's foolproof so if you can do that have this power you have your power you take your power back in the 3d while also mentally taking your power back and affirming them to be who you want them to be it is just a win-win and it is so much easier and it works every fucking
time but another thing i want to talk about when it comes to you guys manifesting your sps is that you tend to want to problem solve constantly and what i mean by that is you will be affirming and manifesting and then they'll do something that you don't like and you think oh my god i have to revise this i have to revise this i have to fix this i have to fix this have to fix this uh this he didn't react the correct way he said this to me he whatever you're constantly trying to problem
solve and you're losing sight of the actual goal when in fact if you would just keep your eye on the goal and you would just keep affirming the same thing no matter what you see no matter what you see keep affirming the same thing keep thinking as if then those things would go away those things are just little bumps you just keep driving you don't drive down a road and fix every fucking pothole that you come across you don't do that right you just keep driving keep your eye on the goal because when you're trying
to problem solve you're literally losing sight of what you're manifesting you're so busy trying to revise every little thing thinking that these are problems or these are indications that you're not getting what you want when that's not true at all the fact that the person is even acknowledging you in the first place no matter how they're doing it or that they're doing something differently that line up with what you're affirming even if it's in a negative way at the moment means that it is working and that you need to keep affirming and keep thinking as
if you need to keep affirming the same thing you need to keep doing exactly what you are doing no matter what you see okay no more problem solving you don't need to do that you just need to keep affirming and always take any opportunity you can to make things easier in the 3d do whatever you can do to make things easier in the 3d without stressing yourself out about it there's no need to force anything i'm not saying to force anything all i'm saying is that if you're manifesting someone you know we all pretty much
have the assumption that when you don't care that's when they care so act like you don't care it's simple it's a very easy thing it's not forcing anything it is really an easy way for you to not react and keep on track in your mind okay all right thank you so much for watching please be sure to like share comment and subscribe and we out [Music] hey
