It Is Not Good for Man or Woman to Be Alone

for nearly 5 years I have had the blessing of serving with Relief Society sisters and priesthood leaders from Africa to the Amazon these experiences with you have reinforced for me the importance of a fundamental gospel principle I wish to direct my remarks about this principle especially to the young adult men and women of the church who are embarking upon a most demanding phase of their lives this summer I injured a shoulder and lost the use of an arm for weeks I hadn't realized how much one arm depends upon the other for balance or how much

less I could lift with one arm than two or that there were some things I couldn't do at all this disability not only renewed my respect for those who deal so well with a physical limitation but helped me realize how much more two arms working together can do two are usually better than one as our father confirmed when he declared that it was not good that the man should be alone and made a help meet for Adam someone with distinct gifts who would give him balance help him shoulder the burdens of mortality and enable him

to do things he couldn't do alone for neither is The Man Without The Woman neither the woman without the man in the Lord Satan understands the power of men and women United in righteousness he is still stinging from his banishment into Eternal exile after Michael led the hosts of Heaven comprised of valiant men and women United in the cause of Christ against him in the chilling words of Peter the devil as a roaring lion walketh about seeking whom he may devour Lucifer is determined to devour marriages and families because their demise threatens the salvation of

all involved and the Vitality of the Lord's Kingdom itself thus Satan seeks to confuse us about our stewardships and distinctive Natures as men and women he bombards us with bizarre messages about gender marriage family and all male female relationships he would have us believe men and women are so alike that our unique gifts are not necessary or so different that we can never hope to understand each other neither is true Our Father knew exactly what he was doing when he created us he made us enough alike to love each other but enough different that we

would need to unite our strengths and stewardships to create a whole neither man nor woman is perfect or complete without the other thus no marriage or family no Ward or stake is likely to reach its full potential until husbands and wives mothers and fathers men and women work together in unity of purpose respecting and relying upon each other's strengths these truths news about the divinely appointed stewardships of men and women are largely lost on the world today you will not find them on a TV sitcom or even sadly in some homes and Wards but they

are not lost to the Lord who has given us a pattern in all things that we may not be deceived the Lord's pattern for couples and in large measure men and women serving together in his kingdom was established by our first parents together Adam and Eve labored mourned were obedient had children taught their posterity The Gospel called upon the name of the Lord heard the voice of the Lord blessed the name of God and dedicated themselves to God repeatedly the scriptures about Adam and Eve refer to the pronoun they neither Adam with his priesthood nor

Eve with her motherhood could bring about the fall alone their unique roles were interconnected they counseled with one another lifted burdens neither could have lifted alone and then face the Wilderness with all of its uncertainty together this is the Lord's pattern for righteous men and women now some of us encounter life circumstances that are less than ideal I understand this I personally deal with this and yet my dear young friends in whose hands rest the future of the church and its families I must tell you that your understanding of this Divine p PN will affect

your marriage your family your ability to help build the kingdom and your eternal life my young sisters some will try to persuade you that because you are not ordained to the priesthood you have been short changed they are simply wrong and they do not understand the Gospel of Jesus Christ the blessings of the priesthood are available to every righteous man and woman we may all receive the Holy Ghost obtain personal revelation and be endowed in the temple from which we emerge armed with power the power of the priesthood heals protects and inoculates all of the

righteous against the powers of Darkness most significantly the fullness of the priesthood contained in the highest ordinances of the house of the Lord can only be received by a man and woman together said president Harold B Lee quote pure Womanhood plus priesthood means exaltation but Womanhood without priesthood or priesthood without pure Womanhood doesn't spell exaltation unquote sisters we as women are not diminished by priesthood power we are magnified by it I know this is true for I have experienced it again and again your future husbands and the men with whom you serve will need the

support only you can give you have an inner spiritual strength that President Jamesy fa said equals quote quote and even surpasses that of men unquote do not abdicate your spiritual responsibility your faith will preach compelling sermons no amount of time in front of the mirror will make you as attractive as having the Holy Ghost with you bless your family and the church as only a woman of God can with virtue Faith integrity and constant compassion young men your ordination to the priesthood is a grand privilege and responsibility and not a license to dominate be unfailingly

worthy to exercise this godly power which is given you to be of service a man is never more magnificent than when he is Guided by the spirit to honor the priesthood he holds if you will marry a virtuous woman who can hear the voice of the Lord she will bless your life every day of your life consider Eve she was the first to see that the fruit of the tree was good and after partaking she gave un her husband and he did eat were it not for Eve our progression would have ceased Elder d h

o stated that her act was quote a glorious necessity that opened the doorway toward eternal life and Adam showed his wisdom by doing the same unquote young men you will preside at home and in the church but be humble enough to listen to and learn from the women in your life they will provide Insight balance and unique wisdom and when challenges come you will see how resilient a woman committed to God the Father and Jesus Christ is the Divine pattern for men and women that strengthens marriages and families also fortifies the church for the church

cannot achieve the full measure of its creation unless both Faithful Men Who bear the priesthood and righteous women who rejoice in serving under the direction of the priesthood work together time and again I have experienced this Joy I think of a meeting in Brazil where I had a translator who was unsure of her ability to convert my English into Portuguese but as it turned out she and I communicated with ease after the meeting I found out why I learned that not only had the general Authority who presided been literally on the edge of his seat

behind us the entire meeting prompting the translator when necessary but he had also assigned another priesthood leader to pray for both of us throughout the meeting that General Authority created a safety net of support so that I could fulfill the assignment he had given me such a circle of support has no end because there is no end to the good works of righteous men and women who respect each other and who thrust in their sickles and reap side by side in the Lord's Vineyard if we are going to to build the kingdom of God we

as men and women of God must build each other there is no challenge with activation retention families or anything that we can't solve when we s counsel together in counsels and help each other lift the load my dear young friends learn the Lord's pattern for men and women now Ponder the scriptural accounts of Adam and Eve and see what the Lord will teach you that will start strengthen your marriage your family and your church service recent devastating events in the United States seem to indicate difficult days ahead but they are days that will be filled

with confidence and courage if the men and women of your generation unite in righteousness as never before there is no limit to what you can accomplish if you will work together under the guidance of the priesthood our father's patterns help us avoid deception look to the Lord and not to the world for your ideas and ideals about men and women for my young friends you are the mothers fathers and leaders who were reserved for this unprecedented time because our father knows you and he knows you have what it takes to face the world and to

be Fearless in building the kingdom do it together for it is not good for man or woman to be alone lift each other and together you will be able to lift the beautiful burdens of mortality and have Glory added upon your heads forever the Lord must have righteous men and righteous women to build his kingdom I know that this is so God is our father his only begotten son is the Christ this is their work and their glory in the name of Jesus Christ amen amen