your mindset is made up of all of the established beliefs and attitudes that you default to internally and a change in mindset is one of the hardest things to achieve mostly because you spent your entire life drilling into your brain the most often false beliefs your parents your community or your friends have told you are true now this doesn't mean that if you just repeat this Mantra three times in the morning you'll suddenly get rich get the partner of your dreams and your life will be abundant you're not going to attract things into your life
just by sending your desires out into the universe okay A change in mindset only works if it's backed up by a change in actions if not you're just a person who lies to themselves and knows it welcome to alux the place where future billionaires come to get inspired number one from I have to do this to I get to do this going about it from a perspective of gratitude and empathy is a big attitude shift you get to do what you do for a living that is a privilege you get to work on this project
the more honest you are with yourself the more you realize just how easy you actually have it and you still find reasons to complain about it if you feel like your life is hard zoom out that thing you're supposed to do that you've been putting off because you're lazy you get to do that and life will change for the better if you do once you start doing it from this perspective you'll find it really wasn't actually as hard as you made it out to be number two from life is hard to life can be easy
and exciting your parents instilled in you this idea that life is hard and you need to work hard if you want to make something of yourself for them all they had to do was take the punches long enough put up with the hard work and they got their reward but that's only half right take the discipline from your parents but focus it on exponential growth if hard work is all it took to be successful the richest people in the world would be oil rig workers whatever it is you do for a living there's a smarter
and easier way for you to do it somebody figured it out already and you need to find them and see how they did it here's what people get wrong the most it's supposed to be hard in the beginning but if it's still hard after a while you're doing it wrong this applies to everything in your life okay the moment you begin changing the way you do things life gets easier and more exciting than ever before number three from I will never to how can I now this is one of those declaration beliefs people guide their
lives on I will never be rich I could never afford that I will never get that part well you won't and that's the truth you want to know what the biggest asymmetric upside in life is the biggest asymmetric upside in life is taking action when the rest don't just send the email okay just put the first foot in front of the other it will get you closer to your goal the problem with thinking in definite ways is that it doesn't leave room for movement if you've already established that something is not going to happen well
then there's no interest to even try the moment you switch to the how can I make this happen attitude things suddenly open up to identifying a plan that could really make it a reality average people have wishes successful people have plans so start planning number four from I need to know everything to I just need to start this is why most people never do anything they say it isn't the right time I never got around to doing it or if only the opportunity would present itself the truth is they're waiting for some external Force to
align all of the planets for them turn on that green Traffic Light and if possible drive them to their destination only 3% of the population takes action on their goals everyone else just chooses to settle for mediocrity the biggest difference between those who win and everyone else is the first ones well they choose to play the game in the first place number five from wanting something to Fig figuring out why you want something you know Simon syx Ted Talk on why right we're not going to get into that it might be a good time to
rewatch it after this video though so we call this the rule of three wise minimum here's how it goes so at the core of everything you do there is a deep reason here's how the process works so let's say you want a Ferrari but you ask yourself why do I want a Ferrari the first answer is because I want to feel successful the second why asks why do I want to feel successful the second answer is because I want people to see how well I'm doing the third why is why do I want people to
know how well I'm doing that final answer because deep down I'm looking for the approval of others in order to make myself feel good o hit you with some truth there you see from the third y forward shit's getting real okay you can of course go deeper than that as most therapist s will gladly help you uncover more but the more you spend time questioning the reasons why you want things the more you get to know yourself and what actually makes you tick knowing why you want something is a GameChanger in terms of Life strategy
it completely changes the way you go about your goals and it Alters your decision-making process in the best possible way it works wonders on an individual level so do this exercise yourself and see where you end up by the fifth why if you're smart you can flip this and use it for your business too number six from everything is fixed to everything is negotiable or flexible if there's anything you learn after a few Decades of being alive it's this life is as you make it to be the problem with people thinking Destiny is pre-written is
that it takes away all of the fun in being alive it also shifts the responsibility from the individual into the UN ierse think about it you can send an email today and quit your job and your entire life will take a complete turn at any moment your life could radically change if you decide to do it it's scary isn't it to know just how powerful you are and how you can alter reality at your whim reality is negotiable okay you really do have free agency to do whatever the hell you want negotiate money negotiate life
negotiate love negotiate everything fight for the things you want and don't settle for the first thing that the world puts in front of you when people close the door on you you can still get them to open it up and let you in that's what doors are for okay give them a reason to open that door for you it's up to you to negotiate it number seven from another obstacle to another challenge to see if I really want it everything worth having is hard to get that ranges from a fully operational Farm to mental peace
so naturally you will face challenges no matter what you choose some things you simply don't know others you know but don't understand and there are other things you are just not capable of fixing yet this is a challenge to see if you really want it or if you're just a pretender obstacles are life's way of figuring out who deserves the reward at the end and who doesn't you're out there building and have hit a roadblock so you have to make a decision do you really want it or are you ready to call it quits because
if you really want it you will find a way to solve this if not you'll use this obstacle as an excuse on why things didn't work out being challenged in life is inevitable okay but being defeated that part's optional you determine how this story ends because it's your story Choose Wisely number eight from things happen to me to I make things happen stop for a second and take a quick look around you everything that you see everything you have from the actual things to the people around you and the things that you do you alone
made all of this happen this is the result of thousands of decisions and indecisions big and small willingly and unwillingly a big mindset shift is when you switch from a victim mentality to a Master of the Universe mentality as long as you take ownership of what happens in your life you'll be golden you are responsible for everything happening in your life if you want different outcomes you have to take different actions be accountable take risks under your own name so everyone knows what's happening to you is by choice if you play your cards right it
doesn't matter what hand you're dealing with that's why you see all the same people at poker tournaments by the way number nine instead of default to know ask and wait for the answer maybe it's because of the way you were brought up your parents didn't have much so you didn't ask for much deep down you knew the answer was already no fast forward in life in this behavior is plaguing an entire generation of now adults whose Minds still default to know as an answer to things they want don't be the person who says no to
yourself ask and let them say it you'll find that at least half the time the answer will surprisingly be a yes so roll that dice in your favor ask for aise ask her on a date apply to that awesome job in Italy do the thing your brain is telling you won't work out and stop defaulting to know it's free and quite literally life-changing number 10 from I wish things were different to what's one small thing I can do today you are what you do every day it'll hit you like a bag of bricks when you
realize that everything you have in your life right now is the result of your daily actions there have been hundreds of books released in the past 5 years about daily habits and the impact they have on your life because well people just now realize how mechanical we are in our own behavior find that one small thing that gets you the slightest percentage closer to your ideal scenario you want that back pain to go away well maybe get up 5 minutes earlier and do 5 minutes of stretching and quick exercise that's it do it right now
as you're watching this video then do it again tomorrow it's freaking 5 minutes okay there's no way not to do it add it to your daily behavior and it won't be long until you notice improvements we've read all the habits books out there and they're basically reiterating the same ideas over and over again focus on one thing only start small do it consistently and see what happens and that consist really is the secret sauce you know Black Friday is coming up right well at alux we're cooking up our biggest sale offering that we've ever had
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over now this is a big one for most people I'm overly invested in this thing it is too late for me now Look okay do you have any idea how many people are in their second year at med school or law school and realize they hate it and don't actually want to do this for the rest of their lives the numbers are staggering okay did they quit though nope they sure didn't they push miserably forward in a profession they despise just because someone in their Inner Circle pointed them that way when they really wanted to
pursue art Aubrey degraph put it perfectly don't cling to a mistake just because you spent a lot of time making it this idea of a sunken cost is present throughout society and the outcome is unfulfilled individuals and situations they were too chicken to change and are now Angry and miserable and bitter do you think the person yelling at you from behind the counter at the DMV is living their best life no okay of course not this wasn't their dream they wanted to be a veterinarian and work with horses but some somebody offered them the stability
of this job and now they hate it and are taking that hate out on you so do it now okay check yourself what are you doing right now just because you've sunk too much time money and energy into it already number 12 from this needs to be perfect to this needs to be done just get it done okay there comes a point where a 1% Improvement in the quality will require substantial resources your goal in life is to find that sweet spot where something is good enough to get the job done for the phase you
find yourself in while you wait for the stars to align the sun to be shining and the birds to sing there is a different version of you who just gets it done clunky maybe incomplete but done being awkward at the gym will always beat staying at home and watching 20 videos on how to do the perfect bench press version one will almost always suck okay but now version two has clear things to improve on contrary to popular belief Improvement and progress don't come from huge jumps look okay you don't go from rotary phone to smartphone
in a single simple step number 13 from it's already been done to I can do it too most people fail to follow up on their ideas because they feel like it's not original enough they won't open up a coffee shop because there already too many coffee shops out there they won't start creating content because there are already so many influencers you see the thing is the world is big enough for everyone but very few take their own place in it you don't know the numbers you haven't read the data you're just telling yourself you have
to be a one in a generation miracle in order to push through the noise you don't need to be Starbucks to be a successful coffee shop owner you don't need to be friends with Kylie Jenner to sell lipstick on Instagram there's enough space for you to even better there's too much space that's just not being properly utilized number 14 from its either yes or no to there's always a creative option why does life have to be so binary it sure is hell ain't black and white so what's with all this duplicity all right most people
just don't realize that their basic programming is the equivalent of an IF function the problem is when this isn't a perfect match so they disregard the entire thing you'll see this every time you have to work with the government their system allows for only one way to get things done as inefficient as it may be we've seen this over and over again in business as well you'll see it in folks who go take it or leave it thinking it's a strong negotiation tactic well if I leave it none of us get what we want so
there has to be a creative way to structure this and there always is okay it's just going to take a bit more effort ask yourself what the actual important thing you want to achieve is and what would be the easiest way for the other side to accommodate it the creative way might work better cost less and be way easier to implement for the both of you and number 15 from it's impossible to there might be a way how can you say something is impossible when other people have done it okay how can the sky be
the limit when there are footprints on the moon you hide behind the idea of impossibility you only look at the outcome and ignore the process life is predictable in the best possible way okay you're living in the most abundant period in history the next 5 years are going to be filled with Incredible opportunities in all sectors of life and you're smart enough to be a part of this change equip yourself with these changes and mindset and you'll get yourself into a position to run when that door opens up now out of these 15 which of
these mindset shifts has had the biggest impact in your life be part of the community and answer in the comments and as for those of you who stick with us until the end we've got a bonus for you don't allow disturbances in your airspace for 6 months this is about you okay your future and the future of your family you need to be focused you need to know precisely where you're going you need to build your own trajectory to follow there's a lot of noise in your orbit but a lot of shining objects a lot
of people sending you their energy and radio waves for a brief period of time put all of them on hold put everything on hold turn the blinds on laser-like Focus what can you achieve if you really and we mean really put all of your effort into it what if you locked yourself in a room for 6 months and only pursued that one goal that could change all of the remaining years of your life what if you came out after those 6 months with a body of work that would stand the test of time 6 months
that's all it takes six months of dedication of hard work and focus you can't allow anyone in your airspace because even the slightest impact could deviate you from your course and here's why you can't allow deviations experts in air navigation have a rule of thumb known as the one in 60 rule it states that for every one degree a Plane veers off its course it misses its Target destination by 1 mile for every 60 Mi you fly this means the further you travel the further you are from your destination a mindset shift well alexir mindset
shifts act like a correction that keeps you on track we hope you learn something valuable here today my friend we'll see you back here next time take care
