why is a bad question unless you have the skills that you're learning here okay all right let's say for example and and and i' I've experienced this many times with clients uh they would come in with this problem right this problem right here and this problem is a 10 and then they'll go back to their past they have this problem and go why do I have this problem and what they'll do is they'll drift back to the past and they'll find this experience that happened to them at 7 years old and when they go back
to this experience they feel the emotion of this also so then they experience this they go back to the why and what are they doing they're building proof on how to have this problem does that make sense and then when they do this are they they're building a belief system and then that's then they think okay I've had this but why did this happen and then they'll go back over here and they'll have another experience and then all of a sudden they have this neuronet highway of a great excuse to have this problem now usually
therapy does this to you too guys because and I'm not against therapist and and I love them because um they're great people they're trying to help help each other they're trying to learn and they learn a model but therapy this is what therapy basically does not an all therapist though guys there are good therapists that do help but most of the time they go back to the root cause of your problem okay the root cause is because this happened the root cause is because this happened so figure out how to live with it do you
hear it figure out how to deal with your stuff tough it up cope it deal with it okay now I don't look for the root cause I want to know how you know you have a problem now the problem is is when you go back and you're looking for why you're building a great excuse and then you'll find a belief system to support it and some will say well I came in with this problem at Birth therefore this is my life lesson and I had this lady and this is the truth she came in and
she had this experience and I said well how many times it happened to you she started counting 17 17 different times this is my life lesson I said are you a slow learner you know 17 times maybe 15 but the problem is is we didn't know how to let go of these does that make sense and so what we do with the skills that we have this is a bad reason asking why and I always suggest well let's ask better ones now notice what happens when I say I have this problem today and I go
why what does why do it takes you to the past and you re-experience it right you go back and you feel all the reasons why so here you are you're supporting the problem now what happens if you ask how can I change it where does it take you it doesn't take you back here does it it looks for options where can I go what can I do differently how now of course when you ask these it doesn't go back into the problem okay now I do ask why but I don't usually look for why this
is what you feel now and you go back to your past and I say hey let's go change this past you go well hold on this is who I am this is my life I mean my father did I love my father even though it was bad I this is my life who will I be if I let go of this okay now that's a belief system and they and they and and you will too guys we're going you're going to go back and you say hey let's Chang this crap uhuh this is who who
will I be if I let go of all this crap who will I be if I let go of this trauma that happened to me when I was 5 years old of course after we go back and we clean it and we release it guys now this is really important to understand this concept right now you can hear the hum above your head you can feel the air in the room you can hear my voice you can feel your shoes everything before now doesn't exist yeah you were five you're not five anymore if you realize
realiz the past doesn't exist and if you go back to any experience no matter what it is and if you begin to feel it it's alive and I want to help you understand if it's alive memories buried alive never never die now I want to help you understand this the concept is right now is real you are not driving over here you're not at work today say you're here with me this moment this is real but if you go back to that experience and I do have people go back to the experience and to experience
it for the last time now listen to me to experience for the last time because when we go to the experience and we release what makes it alive what makes it alive it's the rejections it's the hurts the sadnesses the fears the emotional traumas guys if you have hurt inside you experienced that happened to you at 5 years old it will drive your bus that's why you currently create problems and so what we if you went back and you're trying to make it bother you and you try to put yourself in it and you're looking
for the problem and you can't do it that's great you're free but if you have it inside and you're running from it everywhere you go you take it with you and the crazy thing is it'll show up on a radio the song will show up it'll show up in a look it'll show up in a sound and guess what's driving the bus your past because you didn't let it go and that is the most powerful part about this whole seminar is that you can change the past and how you see it because it's over that's
the best thing about your past so we do go look for the past and I do I ask you to do your homework what's the homework look in your past see what the patterns are and as we go back we're going to go and we're going to use the tote and we're going to release every emotion everything and then what's going to happen when you release this you'll find peace in the memories and you'll find peace today in order to have a problem you got to do it right and the problem has its roots so
we do I do look for it but see the difference in this why in other wise because I've had many clients come in and said hey I've been to a therapist and when I left I was ready to commit suicide when I left I cried for six weeks I didn't want to go back now now I do have clients who who will come to see me and we will clean out the stuff as a matter of fact you'll go to the memories that we cleaned out it's gone and I and I guys if you want
help I'm serious I'm really good at what I'm doing I'm proficient I work hard I give you my my heart I give you my mind and you're my entire Focus right there I want you to be free and you know why I want you to be free is because you have children in your life you have people you can touch and as you touch them the world changes that's my passion it was adults who hurt you and you're adult now so you can make a difference in that child at the grocery store that you don't
even know or your children or wherever you go that's why I'm here because I was hurt too and you know what my dad he loved me at his at his level of love he was hurt too hurt people hurt others that's how it works so we want to heal our hurts so why so we won't hurt anybody else the shortcut is to acknowledge that every Problem whatever it is is an illusion it's not existent it's done illusion whatever it is MH and once we are aware of that then we can work on it we can
work on it change it I mean really it is all an illusion but it seems awful real when we go there that true that's very good and guys the illusion is inside you the creation is inside you sound good all right so so definitely we want to go to the wise and we want to destroy the past now guys when you go to the Past let's say for example um remember I have this memory of Bob and I you know Bob did this to me and then uh last week uh this is a 10 memory
and then I started attracting people who are like Bob when you go to the Past what you want to do is release the emotions in it release the feelings in it and then when you get it down to no emotional anything we want to put love in it that means we want to send love to whoever is involved now why do we do that who are we really loving right because see this is your how to and you've acted those roles you've actively looked for those people not consciously I mean and somebody said uh you
create your problems you attracted this stuff that you have in your life I said bull crap I would have never picked this stuff but on an unconscious level the stuff went in and we did it but we're not guilty we're doing the best we can
