[Music] so you want to be sexy you want to have this feminine beautiful attractive desirable energy but you don't know how you have no clue how to have it how to act in front of men without being cringe how to flirt the right way how to flirt naturally effortlessly don't worry my love because today I'm going to tell you all the secrets all the tips that will make you so magnetic and the luring at the same time while keeping you still classy authentic and real I want to start by being clear that for every single
person sexy has a different meaning okay same as Beauty some people get turned on by a physical appearance by the way your body looks but the easiest most available way to attract male gaze to attract M's attention is to dress revealingly to wear tight clothes that features your boobs your ass but that does not make you sexy girl in most cases it makes you available vulgar and tacky is that how you want people perceive you is that how you want men to look at you I personally love to feel desired by men but I hate
to feel objectified when I know that all they want is just to have sex with me so how do you become sexy in a feminine way how do you do it in a classy elegant way at the end of the day it all comes down to confidence the sexiest thing in the world is confidence not Cockiness confidence when you quietly know who you are what you are about when you know your boundaries when you walk into a room and you don't need to prove anything you just make people feel comfortable because you are comfortable anywhere
you go you are at peace with yourself you provide that safety to people and you feel safe with yourself oh of course it's easy for you to say look at yourself in a mirror do you want to hear the most controversial thing in the world some of the most gorgeous women in the world are the most insecure women on the planet because appearance and the way you look has very little to do with your confidence yeah yeah of course yeah for sure I am telling you because you can be dropped dead gorgeous literally perfect face
perfect body but if you have insecurities on the inside that nobody else sees but you do nobody will make you feel confident it doesn't matter if people see you confident and sexy if you don't see yourself as confident and sexy nobody will make you feel this way for so many years I would receive compliments and literally think that people are being sarcastic towards me people would tell me oh my God you're so beautiful and be like yeah thanks what but when I found my own Beauty when I found things that make me confident when I
solved my inner problem inside of me that made me insecure I not only started to Bloom from the inside but my whole life changed my whole way of communicating with this world changed so how do you become truly confident well I have multiple videos on my Channel about confidence and I will link them right here you can go find them and watch them but the fastest and the easiest way to answer that question is you you need to keep promises to yourself things that you promis to yourself you have to follow through if you promis
to yourself that you're going to work today go do it because if you don't do it your self-respect and self-esteem is going to go even lower how do you expect people to trust you and to respect you if you don't respect yourself and please stop being a victim I can't do this no I can't do that I don't have money I don't have well millions of people did and you can't why next thing that will help you to feel so much more feminine and sexy is fixing your goddamn hormon do you understand how many women
are simply disconnected from their feminine nature just because their hormones are messed up millions and millions of girls live like that and don't pay that much attention to that problem because you know they don't want to get pregnant like why would they stress right now including me girl for years and years of my life I was living like my whole life was just one big cycle like I felt nothing my libido was so low comparing to right now I literally looked at men and I was like whatever you know literally whatever I felt constantly hungry
and craving sweets I was so agitated and irritated and mostly I saw that with my family the people that I love the most the closest people I was so agitated I almost had a completely different personality because of my hormones and now when I have a healthy cycle thank God I know how ovulation feels do you understand that week of ovulation you walk around and all you have in your mind is just you know ovulation is a thing it's a real thing and it's nature and then after ovulation your hormones go down and you feel
a little bit depressed a little bit lonely stressed then you have your periods and after you go back up that's the cycle of a healthy woman that's how it's supposed to be every single month I lived years and years not knowing how it feels so now when I feel healthy I have healthy desires I have healthy feminine energy I'm being sexy without trying to be sexy I'm naturally authentically me if you know that you have problems with your hormones please do not ignore that problem go to your doctor do your blood test and based on
your blood test results please please start taking either hormonal therapy or start taking supplementation at least your body needs you in my case vitamin d and vitamin E has changed my life the moment I started taking them not the moment but like after a month of taking vitamin D I felt that my libido is back because vitamin D is not just a vitamin it's actually a prehormone so please from a health perspective remember that being a woman is a gift and take care of that you know what else makes a woman extremely sexy and attractive
is anti- anxiousness we live in the world of anxious people everyone's worried stressed overthinking people are moving so fast the world's moving so fast your brain is working so fast when you find a woman that calms you down that speaks slowly that has no hurricane in her thoughts no hurricane in her heart she's just stable this is insanely sexy a woman that can calms you down a woman that can be your rock that doesn't make you feel like a roller coaster constantly causing you drama and problems and arguing with you but a woman that has
peace I used to be like that too I used to drive myself nuts okay nuts I don't know how I wanted a man to put up with me I couldn't put up with myself okay I wanted to run away from my own body because I was tired for myself and the only thing that helped me is to be become a woman of God I don't want to get too religious here because religion is something that everyone has to find for themselves has to Define for themselves but becoming a woman of God means that you trust
you trust yourself you trust God and you let go of a lot of unnecessary things that don't serve you that don't help you whenever I feel anxious I pray whenever I feel lonely I pray whenever I feel scared I pray I'm not lost anymore I'm not alone anymore even when I'm so alone I'm not alone anymore because I have God and if you think about it you talk to God but you talk to yourself you find God you find it inside of yourself so trusting God is the most feminine thing you can do I don't
know if it's going to help you but it definitely helps me and whenever you find yourself being anxious rushing too much trying to do so many things at the same time just stop and pray or breathe at least close your eyes and just heavily breathe leave yourself alone girl and support yourself and from that comes the next thing that I want to talk about is another thing that makes you extremely sexy is self-sufficiency self-sufficiency is so hot when you do not Chase but you truly attract and everybody the whole internet talks about I don't chase
I attract how do you actually do that because most people still Chase why because you're lacking two things first is God and the second is attention you are St starving for attention and validation from men basically when you're lacking something you are trying to catch any attention that there is any available option that there is but a woman of God she knows that even when she's alone she's not going to lower her standards she has God with her and God will guide her to the best she will wait she will get what she deserves rather
than having so many different options and how do you get that attention and I swear to God I used to get so upset at the end of the day like why do I not have a boyfriend why do I not have guys attention and stuff well literally my whole life was me going to the gym and back home you need to create a pool of men that will show you affection and attention but you will never do that by staying at home and also by being so cold every time you go out you have this
you know Slavic face so literally men are afraid of you no one wants to talk to a person who's not smiling at least so I started going out of the house I started taking care of myself more I started seeing people and you don't need to see every single guy you meet as a potential boyfriend that's [ __ ] they can just be your friends and honestly literally everyone I meet I just put in a friends box until they prove me that they have intention or effort it makes life and communication with people so much
easier everyone you meet put them in a friends box until they prove you that they have intention and do enough effort to become more than just your friends but don't ask why am I so lonely if you don't love people if you are not friendly if you don't want to meet new people you know and Al every time you feel lonely instead of texting your ex or thinking about possible options that you have around that you know for sure are not even your level reach out to God girl and the last thing that I'm going
to share today that makes a woman extremely hot and sexy and desirable is her joy for life when you sit with a woman and you feel the passion that she has for life it's in her eyes it's in her energy she freaking loves this life she wakes up up and she's excited to live it's just a normal regular day she's excited to do simple things such as making coffee waking her kids up cleaning her apartment picking up kids from school she's excited because she loves her life the reason why you probably hate your life is
because you're constantly comparing your life to someone else's life you look at this girl's life and you're like why am I not living like that why I don't have this in my life and you blame yourself you blame God for not having that but in in reality you completely forget you have a different path you have a different journey and instead of building and focusing on your own path you're constantly comparing it to someone else's and that makes you forget absolutely about the things that you have in your life and how many things you actually
have in your life things that are normal for you they're a gift a dream for someone else do you understand that but still if you hate your life if you're not happy where you are move literally I was so miserable in New York and the moment I moved to Florida I freaking love my life because first of all in New York the rhythm of the city is crazy you wake up depressed it's so cold there and in Miami you wake up you have Sun you have Palms every single day I wake up every single day
and I feel physically so much better here so then take your stuff and move if not right now if you cannot do it right now plan it at least you're not a slave to your life you're a ruler of your reality whatever you tell me but you do have control over it okay one more thing that I want to say is when you're trying to flirt with someone also remove your defense mechanisms when you're trying to talk to a guy and you act like you have this protection layer of you where you're like testing him
or playing with him don't do that not every person is a bad person the moment you start opening your heart to people I promise you will see how people are opening up to you but don't expect people to open up if you are not giving them first your friendship your affection your love you need to give that first to the world and when you go on a date with a guy don't be a [ __ ] seriously don't be mean go on every datee and think that you're meeting a person first a friend you're collecting
people in your life it doesn't matter if you're going to end up dating or not it doesn't matter you're meeting a person that can potentially be your friend and almost every single person is valuable do you know how many situations I thought that I will never see that person I have nothing to do with that person and then I literally need that person in my life you never know life is so smart God is so smart so be careful with people's hearts with your own heart and don't be a [ __ ] well that was
it for today guys it's getting darker outside thank you so much for watching this video till the end I appreciate every and each one of you I love you you're my family you're my community and I'll see you guys very soon in my next video but before I say goodbye remember that today is your day than [Music] [Music]
