If you want to learn how to get your ex back when he or she says they don’t have feelings for you, then you’ve come to the right place. In this video, I’m going to reveal sneaky, psychological tactics that will help you convince your ex that you’re the only one for them… and you’ll be able to ignite these powerful emotions inside your ex whenever you want. How’s it going, everyone?
My name’s Brad Browning as you probably know. And before I jump into the goods, I just have to thank all of you guys for pushing me to almost 200,000 subscribers! I just want to thank you all from the bottom of my heart!
It gives me great satisfaction knowing that I’m helping thousands of people through their breakup. Okay, but enough of that… let me jump right into some tips on how you can get your ex to share that “spark” and feeling with you again. Tip 1 – Force your ex to go back to what I call “Emotional Neutral” Just a quick disclaimer: making your ex have feelings for you overnight is going to be next to impossible.
There is very little that you can do or say right now that’s going to make them change their minds and take you back tomorrow. But there are things you can do right now to begin that process today. Now, I’m not going to talk about the No Contact technique in this video since I’ve explained it in plenty of other videos, but one of the best ways to start mending the wounds is to simply not contact your ex for a period of at least 30 days.
And during this time of No Contact, there are several things you do right now to expedite the process of making your ex return to “emotional neutral”… for eg. , if you’ve done a ton of begging and pleading right after your breakup, you can send something that I call the Clean Slate Email Template… this is a covert and sneaky email that you can send to make your ex forget about all the bad memories they had of you so that you can eventually replace them with better ones. But to learn more about that email, you’re going to have to go to BreakupBrad.
com. On that website, you can watch a free video presentation that will explain what the Clean Slate Email is, along with all of my other psychological strategies to get your ex back. Just keep in mind, again, that getting your ex to go back to “emotional neutral” can take anywhere from 30-90 days.
. in some rare cases, it can take longer. In this stage, it’s important to do whatever you can to recover from the breakup and put your best foot forward so that you can be mentally ready to contact your ex again in the future.
Tip 2 - Become the most attractive version of yourself. In order for you to get that spark back with your ex, you’re going to have to become a much more attractive version of yourself. And I don’t mean just physically, although that does help.
What I mean is that you need to become a more confident, vibrant, happy, and powerful version of yourself. Remember: human beings are attracted to people with equal to or HIGHER social status than them… this is true for both sexes but especially for women. So in order to regain that “feeling” and attraction back, you’re going to have to focus on yourself.
You ultimately want to make your ex look at you and say, “Why the hell did I ever let THAT go? ! ” This is a lot easier said than done, however.
Right now, you’re probably feeling pretty shitty and becoming the best version of yourself is probably the LAST thing you want to do… and understandably so. But it’s moment like this that define our life. Some people tend to drop everything and give up when they face even the smallest bit of resistance… and these people are destined to live mediocrity.
People who pull themselves up by the bootstraps when faced with adversity are 10 times more likely to succeed in life… so let me ask you this… do you want to succeed in life or not? Do you want to live powerfully or roll over and give up? The choice is up to you.
So HOW do you become the best version of yourself? Take a pen and paper and write down all the traits that you think you wish you could have. For example, if you wish you were more confident, write that down… then write down how you want to become more confident.
Do you want to be able to talk to be people easier? Make friends easier? Come up with a plan of action to help yourself gain this confidence and stick to it.
Do you want to learn a new talent? Write that down… then again, come up with a solid plan of action to pursue learning this new talent. Now is the time to spread your wings and make sure that when you DO contact your ex, he or she will be helplessly and uncontrollably attracted to you and only you.
Tip 3 – Contact them in a non intrusive manner. . .
. And make sure you contact them for a very good reason too. So once you finally DO reach out to your ex, you need to craft the perfect message to make sure you hook them in properly.
If you’re too forward, you’ll come across as needy and desperate. But if the message isn’t powerful enough, your ex isn’t even going to bother texting you back. So you need to strike a perfect balance.
To help expalin, here’s an example of a really good message you can send your ex after the No Contact period… you could text your ex something like… “Do you remember that incredible band that we listened to during Woodstock last year? What was there name again? I’m trying to make a new playlist!
Hope things are well. ” This is a great message for a number of reasons… but first and foremost, it forces your ex to reminisce about a happy time together. This will start to bring back some of the feelings he or she had for you when you first started dating… and if you do this at the right time, it can be extremely powerful and it’ll only be a matter of days before he or she misses you again.
If you want more examples that you can use after the No Contact period, or you're wondering WHEN to send these messages, then you should look into registering for my personal coaching program. For more information on how you can hire me as your personal breakup coach, just head on over to BreakupBrad. com/coaching.
That’s BreakupBrad. com/coaching and I’ll also have that link in the description below. On that page, you’ll learn about how I can customize a plan for you to get your ex back… and who better to help you than the “ex-back geek” himself?
So head on over there after this video to see if I can be available for you. Tip 4 – Implant the seed of desire deep within his or her mind. Getting your ex to start feeling that strong emotion for you again is going to have to start with a lot of the tips that I outline in my best-selling Ex Factor Guide program.
I go over hundreds of little, psychological tips and tricks that will slowly make your ex begin yearning for you again…miss you again, and eventually, take you back. And one of the most powerful tactics that you can use to make your ex regain these emotions is to engage in some playful flirting. For this, you’re going to have to set up a quick coffee meetup with your ex.
I’ve outlined how to do this in a number of other videos, but if you’ve somehow missed them, what you need to do is come up with a very good reason as to WHY you want to meet up with your ex. You simply can’t ask them out for coffee or lunch just because you miss them – you’ll come across as needy, desperate, and unattractive. What you need to do is text them something like this… “Hey, I’ve decided to get into water painting again… and I always knew you were super good at this stuff.
Can I buy you a coffee so I can pick your brain a little bit? ” Or something like this… “Hi, hope all is well. I’m planning a trip to New Zealand and I was wondering if you had any tips for me since you were there just a few years ago!
Think I could buy you lunch sometime? ” And that’s all it takes. If you’ve done everything correctly up until this point, your ex should be eager to meet up and hang out with you.
And at this point, you need to start building attraction with some light-hearted flirting. That means smiling at them, making strong eye contact, making some slightly fun and playful jokes at them, and touching them at the right times. Again, in my Ex Factor Guide, I go through a ton of these little flirting tactics… so if you’re interested in picking up a copy, just head on over to BreakupBrad.
com/Buy. That’s BreakupBrad. com/buy… and on that page, you’ll be prompted to select which version of the Ex Factor Guide you want…after that, the checkout process is pretty self-explanatory and access to the program is immediate.
Keep in mind that if you do decide to pick up my Ex Factor Guide… you’ll be given an iron-clad 60-day money back guarantee. That means if you don’t like it for any reason within 60 days, you can just email my team and we will refund you every single penny within a day, no questions asked… so you’ve got absolutely nothing to lose! Tip 5 – Use a bit of sneaky psychology.
. . My final tip for you to make your ex feel that powerful emotion for you again is to use some subtle reverse psychology.
By using this tactic, you’ll begin to turn the tides and make your ex start chasing YOU… so listen up closely… Throughout your meetup, you’re going to want to very subtly drop some hints about where you’re at with your life. Talk about how you felt like the breakup was a positive thing for you… and how it’s forced you to try and pursue new hobbies and passions. By hinting at this, you’ll make your ex begin to question themselves… and you’ll make them wonder if they lost out on a huge catch.
You’re also going to want to use another powerful psychological tool called “pre-selection”…to do this, subtly drop the hint that ever since you and your ex broke up, there have been a lineup of people DYING to date you. Human beings are hardwired to want the guy or girl that everyone wants… and this sort of evolutionary phenomenon is ubiquitous throughout the animal kingdom. Using this psychological strategy can skyrocket your sex appeal and make your ex desire you again.
Now, I could go on and on about all these little known tactics… so if you’re eager to learn more, you HAVE to go to my website and watch the free video presentation… again, the URL for that video is BreakupBrad. com… so head on over there if you want to find out more. That’s all for today, folks.
. . talk to you soon!
