God, I'm officially democracy. Oh my god, I'm so pregnant. I'm officially primary custodian of the kids.
What about the child support? That's it, Tony. That's crazy.
Why are you kidding me? Now all of this financial burden with my children is on me. What?
This is not fair. I just thought today for a split second and I'm like, what the hell's wrong with you? Like what the is wrong with you?
I thought I should have just stayed. I should have stayed. It wasn't that bad.
Like you made it 23 years. You made 26 years total. Your kids are like college and one's almost out of high school.
Like you made it. You made it. Like it didn't matter at this point.
They can do their own separate life and all that. You made it to the point where you guys were making so much money and you had big houses and you could do whatever you want and you can relax. And I literally just called my friend.
was like freaking out cuz like I'm my biggest I'm the biggest person that keeps me back. Like I'm terrified. I don't have 401k.
My counsel did not have my back. I was so traumatized when I got out and then terrorized for the next year that I couldn't even think straight to help the people that wanted to help me and the people I entrusted to help me didn't help me. And there's just timelines that you can't stop.
And so it is what it is. And you know, I'm 47 years old and it's not like I'm 25. I'm healthy kind of.
I have an autoimmune disease, which means it's life-threatening for the rest of my life. You know, things can change, but it's not like I'm an invalid and can't do anything for myself. Okay, this video is going to be more of like a rant and just like probably a little bit TMI, but my divorce girlies are going to know what I'm talking about.
So, when I was married, I was married for 13 years, and I like 100% supported my ex-husband in like the startup of his business. like I created his LLC. I did all of these things.
I pushed him to go to his tax dermy school. I made sure that he had a business. I picked the start date.
I made the Facebook page. I did all of the things for him. And in the background, I was building my own business and working full-time.
Fast forward several years later and we decided to get a divorce. Things just didn't work out. The why doesn't matter, but what does matter and what I'm really struggling with right now, and I'm sure that I'm not alone, is that I was the bread winner, right?
He was a small business owner, so tax returns, you know, write offs, all the things. And I worked full-time W2 making over six figures a year. So, when it came down to time for our divorce, even though the reasons of the divorce were not my fault fully.
Um, no, I shouldn't say that. I'm just as much to be held accountable for the divorce as him. Anyways, because I made the majority of the money on paper, um I was required to take all of the debt in my divorce or uh pay him alimony or child support.
And quite frankly, you got me [ __ ] up. She built his LLC, made his Facebook page, picked a star date, pushed him through taxiderermy school, and made six figures, and still had to pay him alimony. Taxiderermy.
She pushed him toward taxiderermy. And this is how it ended. The stuffed animals are doing better than this marriage did.
I created his LLC. She didn't just support his dream. She administratively constructed his entire professional existence and he took it into the divorce as an asset.
My [ __ ] husband decided to cut me off. And by cut off, I mean cut off my allowance. So my husband usually gives me $75 a week, a h 100red on a good day.
I had asked him if he could raise it up a little bit. And he told me that he's just going to cut me off completely. And I'm like, "Excuse me?
Like, why are you going to cut me off for? I deserve my allowance. Like, why?
Why are you not going to give me my allowance? " His excuse was that I don't do nothing around the house. He said, "You don't cook.
You don't clean. I have to wash my own clothes. What do you expect?
Why are you expecting money from me? " And I'm like, I take care of your children. I take care of them.
So, I deserve that little bit of $75 a week that I was getting. Then he has the audacity to tell me, "Oh, I'll give you $25 a week. " Like, what the am I supposed to do with that?
I can't do. So, now I told him, since you're not going to give me my allowance, then go find the kids a babysitter, and you're going to have to pay way more money for a babysitter than just giving me my allowance. I am honestly really sad right now if you can tell.
Um that's like the weirdest thing about grief is like didn't cry for 2 days, was good for 2 days and now I'm by myself and it's just like the hurricane like it just it's here again, you know? It's the tsunami is back. Like it's just so hard and like I'm frustrated because I you know got my whole world got disheveled and I feel like he has moved on and he is healed and moved on and doesn't care about me which I don't want him to come back into my life but it still just sucks you know I can't imagine you know thank you guys for sharing stuff like stories that you've been like you've gotten through this and it's been however many years because I could not imagine that.
I can't imagine being with someone for a really long time and going through this, you know. Sorry if you can hear my cat literally playing in the background. Um, like I was only with him for 4 and 1/2 years, one year married.
I could not imagine though [snorts] being with him for longer and this happening. But it's just look, I'll get on my I'll get on my knees for you and then like like I'll You're so embarrassing. Literally get How am I embarrassing?
Look at this. You see those two legs right there? Yeah.
Use them and walk away. All right. Well, I just want to take you to McDonald's.
You're pretty though. You're pretty though. So, let me take you out.
I don't know. I'm pretty. No, I do know you're pretty.
I think I'm pretty someone like you. I don't know who broke your heart, but I won't break your heart. All right.
Listen, you're going to be doing nothing with my heart, honey. Back up. Look.
Look. it. I I can tell you all right.
Listen, you're going to be doing nothing with my heart, honey. Back up. Look, look, it I I can tell you.
It seems like your heart broken. I can fix it. Okay, I can fix it.
I can be the upgrade because it seems like some Get away from me. Okay. All right.
All right. Look, I don't I don't want to make it like awkward like that, you know? So, like, and I don't want to be looking at you any longer.
Okay. All right. All right.
I get that. I get that. Here, just give me one minute.
Uh, let me get your Instagram. All right. I just want to get I want to get my Instagram because I want to show you off to like all my friends, you know.
So, what's your Instagram? He got on his knees in public, got rejected, called her ugly, immediately said she was pretty, diagnosed her as heartbroken, and offered to fix it all in 2 minutes. The knees.
He opened with full theatrical commitment and it still didn't work. The floor was right there, and so was the rejection. You're ugly, sir.
You literally just got on your knees for her. You cannot downgrade the woman you just woripped. The logic collapsed immediately.
Is you know moving up in his career and I am staying stagnant and that is frustrating. And then finally when my daughter turned two and I came back to the United States after you know living in Mexico for such a long time and offered a a a bigger position in a production company and I took it. It was the first time that I was away from her um and working a full-time job and I loved it.
I really enjoyed that and I realized that I can't be just a stay-at-home mom. Um and it's important for me to work and that gives me joy as well. But when it came to like being able to travel for work, I was never available for that.
Like I because I didn't want to leave my daughter. Um, my daughter is also autistic, so I try to limit these drastic changes in her life as much as possible. And I'm been the one constant factor.
So, I I can't just like up and go for a [snorts] couple weeks or a couple of days even. And I know that's been my choice and whatnot, but yeah, there is resentment there when he can and he does and I don't. And again, I know that that's my choice.
Now, it's very difficult. It's very difficult um to be able to for the kids. That's like one of the number one things I'm saying in my comments.
I'm saying for the children. I'm saying for the children. Part of the reason I left was because of the children.
I get it. I get it. Thinking about having your children only half the time is nauseating, right?
It makes you stomach to think about, but I didn't want to set the example for my children that lukewarm was what marriage looked like. And if you don't have a healthy marriage, your kids will know. And then they'll think that's what marriage is.
And then they'll get into a marriage and think, well, this is like my parents. Would you tell your children to stay in a marriage that didn't fulfill them? What are you?
Always just trying to keep it real and I'm not the lady who cries on TikTok. But sometimes being a single mom is hard [music] because you don't have anybody else to rely on except for yourself. And so my hot water heater went out and um I now have to miss my youngest son's flag football game which I only get to go to every other week because I work on the weeks that I the weekends that I don't have them.
And now I have to miss it because I have to stay home for a hot water heater to be installed. And it's just super frustrating at times because [music] I'm the only adult in the house. And so now I have to leave him and go do that.
And it's just sometimes it's just hard to not have anybody to rely on. And yes, while I have a boyfriend, he doesn't know my kids. They're not involved.
And so he can't be at my house. He can't help. It's just me.
It's just me. [music] And sometimes it's hard. And that's real.
This is her decision to get divorced. So why should I pay for her daughter that's not mine biologically? Yeah.
I took care of her. Okay. Do you think we'll figure this out?
You just throw away seven years of [singing and music] being in your doctor. You're throwing away seven years. This was your idea, not mine.
This was your idea, not mine. Was [music] it not your idea to get divorced? We're not getting anywhere.
Let's just take 15 minutes to cool off. How you don't want to take care of Charlie? Yo, you [music] been a professional?
How you don't want to help me take care of professional? So, what I'm supposed to tell So, what I'm supposed to tell her life completely? Yes, I am.
[ __ ] I'm closing this chapter in my life. [music] You want a divorce? I'm closing a chapter on you and Charlotte.
I'm not taking care of either one of you. Why I wanted the divorce? You never asked me why I wanted the divorce.
Okay, [music] you got a divorce. You think it's something that you did wrong? I ain't doing nothing wrong.
That's why I'm not taking care of you and Charlie. I ain't nothing wrong. You just walking away cuz you probably got a dude.
You probably got a dude or something. I don't know what's going on. If I had a dude, I wouldn't be asking you for no.
Check this out. I'm not about to take care of you. Me somebody else.
You going to do the same thing I was doing. Come in there [music] and play daddy for your daughter. Play daddy.
Like I've been playing daddy for all this all these years and then I'm not about to pay for stuff and [music] then she gets stuff. He announced he's abandoning a child he raised for 7 years in real time and called it closing a chapter. I'm closing this chapter in my life about a little girl named Charlie who did absolutely nothing wrong.
Charlie is not a chapter. Charlie is a child. Meet somebody else.
He'll play daddy. He just outsourced his parental role to a hypothetical future man who doesn't exist yet. That's not logic.
That's abandonment with a transition plan. I've been playing daddy all these years. So, you were just dad for seven years.
That's not playing. That's parenting. Why don't you tell me a little bit about your relationship and why we're here in divorce court today?
We met. He owned a nightclub and he was married at the time. Mhm.
I was in Ohio. He was in Michigan. And I would always go up to his nightclub and just, you know, see him, hang out with him.
6 years we stayed in touch with each other. He was How much in touch were you? No.
Nothing. No. No touching.
No touching. No, just in touch. She didn't break up our marriage or anything.
Okay. Okay. It's okay.
Just checking. Go ahead. He was going through a divorce at the time anyway.
He was on the verge of getting a divorce, right? But he was a great guy. He would always come to Ohio.
He would always take me shopping. He It was always about Tiffany. What's your dreams?
What's your ambition? Everything. I was a priority.
And then things changed. They just slowly changed. It was great.
Slowly change or was it abrupt once the ideas were exchanged? No, it wasn't abrupt. It just I just noticed a change.
You can feel it. It's a woman's intuition. Can you give me an example of some of the things that you felt?
When I left my husband, I was only making like $16 an hour. And so that was not enough. And so I got myself into a lot of credit card debt because I moved into an apartment that I couldn't really afford, but I thought that someone else was going to be living with me in it.
So that's what do you mean the ex? No. Okay.
So right after I got divorced, I got into a situation with somebody I knew from work. And um how quickly after the the divorce? Well, like immediately it was like a rebound, right?
I guess is what they would call it. Okay. Like like the day after maybe maybe sort of.
Yes. Okay. So I knew him, right?
We worked together. That's how we met. How long were you married?
Almost 5 years. Did you guys ever have any kids? Yes.
And you got with this person a day after? Yes. But see what I thought he was like the love of my life a day after a divorce.
Okay. Yes. Sure.
And you thought he'd be living with you? Yes. Well, your honor, I am just really tired of my husband not doing things that he should be doing, such as spending quality time with me and our 17-year-old daughter.
Okay. He's just not coming up to par. And and frankly, I'm tired.
I'm sick and tired of it. All right. So, you all have a 17-year-old daughter.
Yes. And you're tired of him not spending quality time with you and your daughter. That's right.
I can totally understand that. Now, what does that have to do with me? Well, I want I want a divorce.
You want a divorce because of that? You want to put him on child support because of that? Yes.
OB obviously. I mean, he is the provider of our home and absolutely I want child support. He's the provider of your home and you just want to get rid of him like that.
I just feel because you're being petty and in your feelings. Well, I feel like we've just grown apart and I'm just tired of him not making me happy. He doesn't take me out.
We don't do fun things anymore. And frankly, I'm bored. Oh, okay.
Mr Scott, why are you boring this woman to death over here? I'm not real sure why I'm here. [laughter] You know, honestly, I'm not sure why you're here either.
It sounds like she's just in her feelings right now because you're not spending time. She took her husband to court because she's bored and the judge took his side. He's just not coming up to par.
Ma'am, this is a courtroom, not a performance review. The gavl is not a management tool. What does that have to do with me?
The judge said this. The judge, she lost the courtroom before she finished her opening statement. Forensic accountant for 25 years, and angry men always ask me, why should she get half of the money?
Because once they get married, it's not his money, it's their money. The money earned during a marriage is marital money, and they are both entitled to it, no matter whose name is on the paycheck. And most of the time, it's the wife who stays home to raise the children.
So even though it's her husband's name on the paycheck, she has made valuable contributions to that household. So yes, your wife is entitled to half of the money even though her name was not on that paycheck. claims that you stole $60,000 of his money from the shared bank account before turning it over to the court.
He was trying to say that I stole money, but [snorts] no, I didn't. I did take money out of the account, but I was using that money for our divorce and the bills of the house, and then I gave the rest to the registry of the court. Initially, I took all of the money because I didn't know what he was capable of.
And I'm like, I need to take this money out before Pedro runs off to the Dominican Republic somewhere and hides it. I'm divorced and I'm here to ask the court for more spousal support. I think $100 a week extra would be fair with all the headaches he's given me and everything like that.
Why do you believe that's fair? My wages have went down. I'm only working part-time now.
He still gets those two raises every year. I cannot grant you spousal maintenance just because he's made an increase from his wages. Well, I when you all were divorced and you received half of his 401k, how much was that?
About 250,000. Okay. Well, you know what?
I feel like you came here to waste my time because I cannot give you an increase in spousal maintenance just because you're asking for it. No, ma'am. 25 even $5.
The answer is no. I like her thinking. She's talking like a landlord here.
Just Oh, you know what? The tenants making too much money lately. Some of that should be mine.
Let's raise the rent. My understanding is she demands 100% of your paycheck every week. Yes.
Which is around $2,100. Yes. And gives you $25 a week back.
Is that accurate, Miss Tate? Yes, it is. Okay.
Can you explain why it is you're comfortable keeping him on such a short leash? Well, I am comfortable with keeping on the short lease because of the things that he likes to do with his money. We don't have a community pot.
The community pot is right here in my pocket. He goes his check, he come home and he brings it to me. What I feel like he needs, he gets it at that point in time.
He has recreational habits that I don't concur. So therefore, he gets what I give him to spend. And it's it's And you've been doing this for four years.
Yes. Do you care about how he feels at all? I sure does.
I do care about how he feel, but I it was up front, right? He ended up going broke. I have expectations.
When you don't meet my expectations, I move the hell on. You left your husband because he went through a little financial struggle and did. [music] At any point in time did you feel that love should have kept you there?
I feel like he didn't love me because if he did, he wouldn't have went through a financial struggle. She just argued that going broke is proof of not loving her. Financial failure equals emotional betrayal.
The logic has left the building. If he loved me, he wouldn't have gone through a financial struggle. Mom, she has redefined love as economic performance.
Recessions are now romantic failures. Market crashes are personal betrayals. This is really hard.
I thought I could talk about this. I didn't realize how raw it was. And I did not expect having a New York City office that I'm commuting into to stir up all of these feelings.
I thought I was so past this. [clears throat] I thought I was so past this. I moved out 2 years ago [sighs] and I'm not I had a whole wall in our house of like family portraits and not in like a corny horrible way like in a cool way like I had great pictures and you know I only kept the ones of my son right this is one of them and it's wait let me give you a better version my son when he was eight probably and we were decorating for Christmas and I remember how lonely I would feel every Christmas but then I look at this picture I'm like oh that was our mirror and I remember when we bought it I remember when we bought those sofas when we girls were I got a divorce and I was actually chatting with a girlfriend about the experience last night and my regrets of not being able to give my girls that stable, perfect family life that everybody dreams [music] about.
And there were a lot of things I did wrong. But one of the things I did right was I I manned up and I got my together [music] and I worked my tail off and I dedicated my life to those girls and [music] moved them from country to country until we found our stability. We spent a lot of time with my friends, both male and female, people that [music] I trusted, people that I wanted them to look up to, and most of them are still in their lives today.
While I know they probably felt pain and maybe still do feel pain over their parents no longer being together, I hope that those dance parties in the living room, [music] the walks to school, the solo trips together, the opening gifts [music] on their birthday specially picked out for them by mom, them [music] watching me work and be independent and struggle and [music] do all the things that moms need to do in order to survive. I hope all of those experiences far outweigh [music] any pain that they may have felt. Came to the realization that like if you're 40 years old, you're like you're you're never going to find love.
Like, oh my god. Sorry. I woke up like really really emotional because I was married for Oh my god, I need to stop.
Um, [clears throat] I wasn't married for over 20 years and contribute to my birthday dinner. Oh, I invited 10 people. We were all just having a good time, you know, just ordering drinks and food.
And then the bill came. The bill was $4,600. Oh, what?
But he literally pitched in $18. Oh, dang. Well, hell, Victor.
I need to hear this. Tell me your part. Okay.
Well, let me tell you the truth. So, basically, she went to a restaurant that she can't afford and other people there was ordering steaks, lobster tails, all that. And I looked at the menu.
I knew I was going to buy all that. So I bought Calamar and a Sprite for $18. And that's what I gave her.
And she looked at me crazy. And I looked at her crazy right back. Cuz I'm the only one with sense, baby.
Okay. Crazy as hell. Just like you.
Girl, I'm faking it in your hair right now, Coco. [laughter] Victor ordered calamari and a Sprite at a $4,600 birthday dinner and called himself the only one with cents. And he's not wrong.
$4,600 for 10 people. That's $460 per person before Victor's intervention. Victor looked at that menu, did the math immediately, and ordered the one thing he could afford with a soft drink.
That's not cheap. That's financial literacy in real time. I divorced my husband because I was making a certain amount of money.
I divorced my husband because I thought I didn't need him anymore. I divorced my husband because I had this senior position at work and thought I held the same position at home. I divorced my husband because I thought I was better than him because I had my degree now.
I divorced my husband because I thought a successful marriage meant I was here and he was down here. That is not success. That's sickness.
I found myself divorced [music] and out there looking for love in all the wrong places. and this one and that one and that one and that one and this one and that one and my body count going up and my value going down. I'm just going to call it like a TI is.
All the while, my husband found somebody else building a a relationship and building a life with them. I should have stayed married to my husband. I felt like I was on this dark road with no street lights, pitch dark, and I couldn't find my way in.
I wish all women would learn from this. Not all glitter is gold. How about this?
What do you do for a living? I'm a truck driver. Truck driver.
How much money do you make? I make roughly maybe 82 a year. Help me make sense of [music] this.
You give her $1,000 a month for the children. You pay health insurance. You all have a split schedule.
Yes, ma'am. I'm I'm missing something cuz women he's spending money on. She never lets me talk.
So, okay. I'm going to let you talk. Exactly.
Okay. what it is, your honor. She's uh she didn't [music] mention this, but she's engaged.
Wow. And she just found out that I'm recently dating, so now she's mad at me. Oh, I'm mad.
There go mad. I'm not mad. There goes the conflict.
Now, I asked what was the disconnect here? It was something missing. So, you brought him to court because he has a new girlfriend.
No, ma'am. I'm not married. That's exactly why you're And you're engaged.
[music] Yes, ma'am. He's still going to want to marry you after he see what you doing to this man. Hey, how you doing?
What's your name? I'm London. I'm London.
What's your name? I'm sorry. What was that?
I said, "What's your name? " Uh, Anna. Anna.
Nice to meet you. [music] Yeah. You're gorgeous.
Thank you. No problem. I didn't mean to just walk up on, you know, I just like what I see, so I figure I speak.
Hey, that's nice. How your day going? It's going great.
That's amazing. That's amazing. Where you from?
If you don't mind me asking. Wow. What's wrong?
What's up? I'm just asking where you from, that's all. You know, I'm from New York, but I stay in Houston now.
I've been out here for a little minute. Yeah. Everybody comes out here.
It's the place to be. It is. But I live out here.
I live here, though. I ain't just on vacation. Oh, okay.
You managed to actually come and stay. So, you from here? Yeah, I am.
Okay. Okay. You mind getting off somebody right now?
No, I'm not interested. You said what? I'm not interested.
I'm okay. All right. Well, it was nice meeting you then.
Yeah, we're going looking real hard not to want to get to know [music] somebody. What's up? I like your car.
these ex-girlfriends wants half of his I don't know how their relationship was ever to want half of his is absolutely ridiculous unless I mean it's hard to say who knows maybe if they were together for 15 years since the beginning and she didn't work cuz she was constantly making him food massaging at the gym doing all this stuff for him then I say yeah maybe not definitely not half no way hell half but maybe compensate a little bit she argued against half argued for half landed on a little bit and called a take. Absolutely ridiculous. Strong opening, clear position.
We know where this is going. Then immediately unless the unless arrived so fast. She held the conviction for approximately 4 seconds.
If she was making food, massaging him, doing gym stuff, she built an entire domestic services compensation package for a girlfriend. Not a wife, a girlfriend. the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband?
Here we go. Minimum a million. What's ideal?
Multi-million. It's okay. Have you ever dated a guy who makes a million dollars a year?
Mhm. How did it work out? He cheated on me.
I bet [clears throat] he did. I think you're just playing though. You ain't serious.
No, I'm serious. If I meet him and he doesn't have a million dollars yet, but he strives to make a million, right? That's fine.
Why does he need to make a million? Or like she wants a high value man. Y'all crazy.
Yo, good luck, man. Life will teach you. So, you think it's like impossible for a high value man to actually I could jump off this bridge.
I could jump off this building, man, on my feet. It's possible, but is it likely? Probably not.
So, if y'all want to keep banking your life on a dice roll, you shouldn't do that. Do what the you want. Just know what you're asking for.
Know the probability and the likelihood. You have a small window to have children and be this beautiful woman. You want to roll that 15-year window on meeting a millionaire and expecting him to focus strictly on you in the world where all women want his money.
Good luck. But I'm not saying he needs to be a millionaire now. No man needs to be a millionaire to get a woman.
Y'all need to lower your value. Doesn't this tie into the conversation we're in? For money.
Yes. Cuz money is doesn't make a man. Your divorce.
Oh, it's final. It's over. It's final.
Yeah. Yeah. Congratulations.
How long did it take? Two years. Two years.
Yeah. At what point I had read that she wanted 45,000 a month. 44.
44,000. 44,000 a month. Yeah.
Did she get it? She didn't get $44,000. [clears throat] [laughter] She did.
She got broke off. She didn't get $44,000 a month. Well, you had no prenup.
No. No. We didn't have a prenup.
No prenup. Everyone's listening to this right now, get a prenup. No, no, no.
Get a Everyone who's listening to it, Vlad, get a pre pre prenup. No, no, no, no, no. Get a prenup.
If she or he doesn't want to sign it, this is not the right person for you at all. But the argument is the same. Every man, every woman's going to be like, "It's like you're preparing us for a divorce.
It's like you don't love me. " Every man argument is, "Prove to me you love me. prove to me ain't after my money.
Question always, would you who got a regular 9 to5? No. Why?
It's not enough money. It depends on what he like what he do, what he does. Garbage truck driver.
What? I mean, they make good money. What you mean?
So, what type of money got to make you? I ain't doing no like that. What type of money?
Because you got to be a provider. I'm expensive ass. I'm asking you what type of money make baby you got to be making some thousand some thousand at least 20 to 30 30,000 a week to be honest 20 to 30,000 a week exactly but you don't even make that the nit but your but you need to date in your budget though act your budget act your way is supposed to no you need to act your ways though honestly if I'm being honest it seemed to me like you justing gold digger if I'm being honest no I'm not a gold no but you is though because you just sat here and just told me that you would got a 9 to And if your rich or up and when he went down you and all you want to shop you was a gold digger and you didn't even want to me until you seen what type of car I was in anyway.
That's a fact. You did not want until you seen what type of car I was in. Right.
Because I I really didn't for real. So when you seen a car you felt like that of your caliber then? Yeah.
I feel like you Well, you're not a woman of my caliber. That's fine. Nice try.
Nice try. Ain't no nice try. Nothing.
You gold digger. That's fine. I'm not a gold.
Hey, look. Have a nice day, though. You can leave.
She requires $20,000 to $30,000 a week. And got called a gold digger and responded, "No, I'm not. " with zero supporting evidence.
20 to $30,000 a week. That's dollar1-1. 5 million year as the minimum dating requirement.
She didn't set a bar. She set a Forbes list entry requirement. I'm expensive as she didn't even finish the sentence.
The cost is literally unspeakable. Garbage truck drivers make good money. He defended the profession correctly and she dismissed it anyway.
Sanitation workers average $50,000 plus annually and she needs that in two weeks.